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The guy you're describing sounds a lot like me a few years ago. Assuming the aforementioned is true, psyocal's advice is spot on. Your guy is being responsive and nice, meaning he's extremely into you and is waiting for you to give an unambiguous signal. That said, I have a few things to add. I suspect that you want your guy to eventually become a confident man that will take charge and lead you. This can take a while. Be patient and be willing to teach him and encourage him to go down that path…
/r/seduction08/04/12 10:25 PM
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I used to be like you. I was deadly afraid of rejection, and I took rejection seriously. Approaching felt like climbing a high mountain, and rejection felt like falling from the mountain and hitting the ground. I was afraid and tired of the pain from the fall. It was easier to stay on the ground. But I knew the ground is not where I must be. I eventually realized two things: Falling is actually not as dramatic as I thought. I thought rejection would be much worse but each time they turned out ni…
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:13 AM
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Glad you chose this path. I'm 26 now and I started doing this stuff a year ago. I keep thinking "gosh I wish I started 10 years ago".
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:06 AM
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I used to heavily screen women. Problem is, most women I met do not pass the screening and at the end of the day I end up with nothing. I like women who have something going on in their live but I find that most women simply do not have any hobbies and don't do anything besides shopping with their girlfriends.
/r/seduction07/04/12 05:48 PM
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I'm on the other side of the ocean so no. :) I have no idea how pickup is like in the US.
/r/seduction06/04/12 10:29 PM
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Been doing direct day game for a little less than a year now. My experiences so far: It's going to be hard in the beginning, very hard. Push yourself. The first time I directly approached a girl I exited myself within 2 minutes because I was too nervous, and it made me feel like I just ran a mile. It took me 7 months to become confident enough to do a direct approach without becoming too nervous. Calmness is everything. Don't look like you're trying too hard to impress her or trying too hard to …
/r/seduction06/04/12 08:59 PM
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Actually after visiting koreancupid, I see that it's also one of those sites targeting English-speaking males who are looking for Korean girls. So Korean girls go there specifically to find foreign men? This makes me really wonder how you managed to distinguish yourself from the creeps. Does the language thing have such a big impact?
/r/seduction04/04/12 07:29 AM
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That doesn't make any sense to me. What is considered a 10 is relative. Everybody likes different kind of girls. Does being a "10" only cover looks? What about personality? How do you know whether a personality is necessarily "better" than another personality.
/r/seduction03/04/12 10:58 PM
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Very very interesting and inspirational! I'm Chinese currently living in a western country and I'm planning on visiting China later this year. I was planning on cold approaching on university campuses, but now I'm wondering whether I can pull off a similar thing like you w.r.t. dating sites. Seeing that I'm not white, I may not considered as exotic, but my English is excellent although my Chinese is terrible. At first, I thought your message was brilliant. Your message not only shows that you're…
/r/seduction03/04/12 10:16 PM
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