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It's wild to me how many men in my life were SAed as children and didn't even realize what happened to them. They would tell me about it as a "weird story" and how they "felt weird, but they were boys and boys are supposed to like women's attention."
/r/MensRights15/03/24 07:50 AM
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I can 100% agree with that. When they're single and close friends, it's the best basis for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:09 PM
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I agree, I don't blame them, I myself was friends with my partner before starting the relationship. It became a little problematic when I experienced it even while being in a relationship. That's when I just chose not to make friendships with men anymore unless they're connected to my partner. But maybe it's just me choosing the wrong kind of guys to be friends with, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:01 PM
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My mother was a hippie who left my father to "have fun and live life." She was very inconsistent as a parent and as a person. My father, on the other hand, was very consistent, firm but kind, and generally a good parent. He was your typical manly man, and I think he was a good father figure to me. Unfortunately, he died when I was a teen, and my grandparents took care of me. Grandparents were a traditional couple. As I grew up, I had two different types of relationships to look at, my parents an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:06 AM
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I used to have a lot of guy friends. At one point, every single one of them made advances on me. So I just gave up having male friends, unless it's my partner's taken friends and it's in a group setting. I don't make friends with other men anymore and I won't spend time with them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:54 AM
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In my native language, there are different words for "in love" and "loving someone." In love, it would probably be even better translated to "in lust," the honeymoon part of the relationship, the butterflies, fireworks, and all the intense feelings. While loving someone is that familial kind of love that you described, more calm and secure without all the intensity and ups and downs. I feel like lately, many marriages and relationships are ending when people exit the honeymoon stage. We're so ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:44 AM
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I am not. I just stay in safe areas and don't walk alone at dark. If someone's going to murder me in broad daylight, so be it. Constantly worrying about it doesn't seem like living a very full life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:38 PM
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My experience was that I started hanging out with his friends much more. He has a lot of already coupled friends, so it's just more convenient for us. My girlfriends are mostly single, so lifestyles are a little bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:42 AM
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I'm a homemaker, and my fiance is the breadwinner. I'm definitely not expecting he does the housework when he gets home from work. If I'm sick or something, of course, he'll take over. Or if we had some unexpected events that prevented me from getting everything done, he'll help. But on a day to day basis, I can't imagine what I'd even do all day if I didn't do the housework. I'd be bored out of my mind. It would be disrespectful to him to expect him to do double work while I do nothing. When th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:09 AM
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I don't think your hypothetical is comparable to partner value because a partner you can choose and family you can not. But regardless of that, I don't think anyone should tolerate a bum who's emotionally and financially draining the rest of the family. From my experience, it comes more to personality than gender. Someone who's more codependent or agreeable will tolerate it for longer, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:49 AM
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"feelings is the ONLY thing I care about" is a dangerous mindset. It can lead you to ruining your life for the spark. You can't create the spark on purpose, but from my experience, you can end it if it's with an unhealthy person. Why not be with someone whom you have a spark with AND is a good person for you from a rational perspective? Why does it have to be one or the other? Emotions do make life better, but they can make life a living hell if you don't mix them with reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:52 PM
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I just recently heard about the value thing, but it makes sense. If I feel the spark (lust) towards someone who doesn't have much value to add to my life, or could even take away value from my life, I wouldn't make a choice to keep the relationship going (to put effort into loving him). For example, if a guy was a jobless bum without any aspirations for the future, but I, for some reason, felt the spark towards him, I wouldn't choose to love him. Lust/spark isn't a choice, but love is, and why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:37 PM
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This is exactly how I feel aside from carrying because that's illegal here (but if it was legal, I'd consider it a plus). And I'm also very non confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:55 AM
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I never seeked that in a man, but my fiance can definitely fight if the situation called for it. He was in a military, so he's very physically competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:52 AM
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That's true, I somehow forgot that people lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:46 AM
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yeah, but I think they don't form long-term relationships really easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:45 AM
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Lol, you're not wrong. Tho I don't really remember how my game looked when I was single. This was just the basics. But honestly, I can't imagine it was much more than the basics, I guess everyone has as much game as they need
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:58 AM
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Taking care of myself / my looks, being polite and feminine, listening when he talks, not taking life too seriously / throwing some jokes. Not being trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:59 PM
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Haha no, I just try to see things objectively and unbiased as much as I can 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:10 PM
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A all the way, that's actually pretty close to my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:48 AM
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I never understood Western stages of dating because what does it mean when you date but are not exclusive? Isn't that just friends with benefits? Where I am dating = relationship. You have something that could be described as "courting" in English, but it's more like being platonic/friends, and when you kiss, now you're in a relationship. And idk about women being encouraged to do that. Is it only crazy people on 2X or also irl? I guess if it exists on 2X, it also exists irl. There are also RP m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:40 AM
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By age better you mean look more youthful?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:40 PM
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Idk, I've honestly seen very few black and Asian men irl because I'm in a predominantly white country. I'm one of those people who think there's an objective level of attractiveness on which most people could agree on, but when it comes to older/younger men conversation, I think there's a little bit of taste factor. If you consider older men who are younger looking more attractive, that's where we disagree. I enjoy in age showing on men, like wrinkles, grey hair, etc. but still in shape. My fian…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:33 PM
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I'm Eastern European, and I met a bunch of beautiful 30-40 men (I say 30-40 because that was my personal preference when I was single). But I get what you're saying. That bunch is probably genetically blessed. But also genetics mean jack shit if you don't take care of yourself, so I think it's a sprinkle of both things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:22 PM
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Talking about sex with your partner shouldn't be uncomfortable, and sex conversations generally should be something that all couples do, even if they have regular sex life. My fiance and I talk about sex all the time, just to make sure we're still on the same page, that both of our needs are still met, etc. But I get that for many people, it is uncomfortable, especially when there's an issue. But communication about it is really, really important. You don't have to confront him, per se, but try …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 10:11 AM
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Straight girls have it easiest. I was friends with a bunch of leabians as a teen and what I know is that they enter relationships pretty easily but there's a lot of drama due to the small dating pool and everyone dating each other at some point. I'm not sure about gay guys. Straight guys have it the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:52 AM
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If you're ugly, you can't become much prettier with makeup. Just enhance some features, but it's really not a drastic difference unless you do sfx makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:21 AM
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some of you are definitely overthinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:22 PM
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Simps = desperate guys who'll do anything for a woman's attention, right? It seems like a perpetual cycle. Simp gives a girl praise -> she gets big headed but enjoys the praise, so she gives some fake hope to simp -> simp also thinks he's better than he is because of that, and keeps simping. Feeding each other's delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:33 PM
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I don't go to bars and clubs, so you're probably right that it's easier in shops or activities. The specific girl I mentioned was mostly approached at cafés. Other examples I saw were usually friend groups/mutual friends, so idk if there's some kind of pattern or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:06 PM
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I've seen many average/below average men hitting on hot girls in real life. I've had a friend who truly looked ig model-esque, and I've witnessed many unfortunate looking men shooting their shot with her. They were usually the most persistent and direct ones as well. I don't know psychology behind it, but maybe they're just so used to rejection, so dread is eliminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:40 AM
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love is something that you do every day, very different from what's portrayed in media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:55 PM
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I know I'm an outlier, but I prefer older men much more. And no, it's not a money thing. I think they look better, think better, and are more mature. But it can also be a cultural thing or something like that. I could be wrong, but it seems like European men take better care of themselves as they age than American men. From what I've seen, American men neglect the gym and get fat at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:05 PM
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I respectfully disagree. I think some people are objectively more attractive than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:55 PM
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I think people either perceive themselves as more attractive or less attractive than they actually are. They rarely see themselves accurately. Maybe only after some experience with relationships/dating can you see where you stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:59 PM
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I think they think they can change him. Maybe in some cases, it makes them lower their league, but only after they've been hurt by the prince charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:56 PM
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Oh, trust me, I know. There are so many average/below average dudes hitting up girls who look like IG models. But I think rejection humbles them sooner or later, while girls get advances, which can strengthen the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:16 AM
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I don't think they should lower their standards in terms of compatibility and values, but I do agree that some of the girls are a little bit delusional and try to date out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:02 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:10 AM
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I always found older men attractive, more so than younger. Older guys just have that distinguished look, a couple of wrinkles, and some grays are just a bonus. Younger dudes usually have a baby face, but behavior is even more unattractive. I always went for 10+ yrs my senior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:41 PM
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I follow my routine and don't deviate much from it. I don't go out, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, my version of fun is going to the gym or on a hike or a picnic. I'm not a social butterfly and like spending time either with my partner or a small friend group. Well, I never knew it's more acceptable for us to be boring, but I guess I'm lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:45 AM
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Ah, I get it. Thank you for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:01 PM
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Can I ask how you would define a gym bro or a jock in this context? English is my second language, and I was under the impression that gym bro is just a guy who likes working out very much. I called my fiance a gym bro a couple of times when talking to people on the internet and I might have fucked up, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:27 AM
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I had it the opposite way. I was a feminist in my teens, and around turning 20, I became anti-feminist. Now I don't identify with either. As you said, I think both sides have some good points, but both sides also have some insanely radicalized people who are unfortunately always the loudest. Now I'm in the middle, I guess. I'm just trying to live my life how it suits me the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:39 AM
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This is a funny question because I consider myself to be a highly boring person, and I had a luck to have a long-term relationship, and I'm getting married soon. For me, being boring would mean having no sense of humor and no interests/hobbies, not being willing to learn new things, and not wanting to have discussions/debates with me. I don't mind a boring lifestyle, I love my organization, routine, and schedule. I just wouldn't want a person who's boring in conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:08 AM
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I agree with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:33 AM
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Tbh, I like to know what my man masturbates to because we can maybe actually do it. If it's something I'm not into, sure continue helping yourself, but most times, it turns out we have similar interests. I see it as a healthy way of communicating about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:52 PM
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I think most healthy people have some level of reciprocal liking. While "you want what you can't have" applies more for immature people or people with some kind of unhealthy attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:29 AM
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Yes, but I understand that I have a niche taste. I get that most women find men in their age group the most attractive, but for some reason, that's not the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:16 AM
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-Becoming fat -Failure Sometimes other men How does he protect me from that? We work out together, and he's keeping his diet balanced too, so he doesn't bring junk into the house. He always motivates me to do better He's a 6'2" 200lbs muscular guy. Just him standing beside me is enough. But in the situation in the past, when he needed to physically protect me, he did it without any hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:12 AM
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Lol, I recently joined, so I didn't know that. Idk, I guess it depends on the taste but also on the actual age. Like my personal opinion is that sweet spot for most men is between 30 and 40, as you said if they take care of themselves. Like, a 30-something year old who goes to the gym and eats healthy, but has a few wrinkles will look much hotter to me than a 20 year old who eats chips, drinks coke and plays video games. I'm 24 for the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:02 AM
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Wow, you do look older! Well then, you have absolutely no need to worry, imo, because men age like fine wine, the older they are, they look better. You're going to look like a distinguished gentleman as you age, judging by your base now. Just keep taking care of yourself. Good luck with everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:42 AM
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This is definitely a better face picture! You look good, my dude. Skin is good, hair is groomed, you look clean. As someone said, your face is going to lean out even more with time. I'm not sure what's your age is, but you look like you're in your early 20s. You definitely do look masculine with the beard, I just feel like you should keep it shorter (like 3-5 days beard). But take this with a grain of salt since I'm not a beard expert, especially being a woman, lol. You can always look up some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:28 AM
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You look good, not devastatingly handsome, but not ugly. If you have a decent job and are not completely socially awkward, I see no issues with you finding a romantic partner. Maybe try playing with a beard style, or try clean shaven if it doesn't make you look like a child. You seem to have an ok face structure, but I'm not sure. It could just be a beard making a shadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:12 AM
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I personally like that my man outshines me in some ways. But I also think I outshine him in other aspects. Everyone has their strengths. But I don't feel threatened if he does something better than me. He does a lot of things better, and I personally think he's smarter than me. I like a man who's smarter than me so I can learn from him. I don't want to compete with other women for him, but I think that's more based on trust than "shine." When other women find him attractive, it flatters me most …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:27 AM
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I had two relationships before my fiance. The first one was your typical immature high school relationship, I don't think anything particularly turned me off. We just grew out of each other. But I tolerated some things I wouldn't now, like playing video games 5+ hours a day, but it's kind of expected from a high school boy. The second one I left because the guy had no intentions of moving away from his parents. He wanted to marry me, but I was supposed to live with them all. God no. He also had …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:37 PM
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Look up mindfulness. You probably heard about it already. In therapy, I learned that it could and should be done as much as you possibly can. In everything you do on a daily basis, eating, exercising, talking to people... It's about being fully present in the current moment. Of course, no one is mindful 100% of the time, but I'm trying to practice it as much as I can. That really helped me in my conversations because I have a tendency to wander away in my mind and not listen as much, but wait fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:57 AM
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I never thought of it as a business partnership, but I definitely agree with everything you said. It makes sense, but for some reason, I don't like the analogy, tho we agree on all of the points. I tell it to him personally and to my close friends and a family member. We always should make it a point to tell them directly. Compliments and appreciation should never be assumed. Of course we're human so we get relaxed in a relationship and forget to show our appreciation sometimes. But yeah, OP mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:51 AM
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I feel you, I can't handle clingy/controlling people either. I was more avoidant in my attachment, just shutting down and avoiding any conflict/confrontation. Just like you, I have no issue with neediness when it comes to children, I also care for an elderly family member and enjoy doing it. But when it comes to relationships, I need my personal space/time. I didn't read anything self-help wise. Therapy is what helped me learn how to communicate. I saw that avoiding conflicts can lead to buildin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:45 AM
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I think we want sex just as much, but we need emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:59 PM
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Sure. Firstly (and I think most important), I started therapy to pick apart some childhood stuff and form a healthier attachment style, communication skills, etc. I worked on my household and organization skills to make our home the most comfortable for both of us (which by extension helped me deal with the household stuff in a more efficient way). I started learning German with him because we want to move there, but it's always good knowing a 3rd language even if I was single. I started really …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:54 PM
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I say that about my partner. Regarding everything I do to improve myself, I do as much for him as I do it for myself because we are a team. By improving myself, I improve our relationship and future marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:05 PM
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It's a classic pendulum swing. Going from nuclear family as a gold standard to hyperindependence. I get why, from a point of women, there's a fear of being left with nothing, but I don't think hyperindependence is the answer. I don't see what's the point of a relationship if independence is the gold standard. I personally don't enjoy full independence, I much more prefer to work together with someone towards our goals, and I still see a traditional family unit as the healthiest, as something to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:17 AM
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Sure, but I think a base for a relationship is having trust in another person, knowing you could be betrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:55 AM
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I don't think he's not capable in the physical/attractiveness sense, but I trust that my partner loves me enough that he couldn't hurt me in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:03 PM
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I'm fine with no fault divorce. Both men and women can be in dangerous situations that are not easy to prove in court and no fault divorce is needed in such cases. Regarding men asking for a paternity test. If it was my partner asking me, yes I would probably be offended at first because that means he sees me as capable of, not only cheating on him, but also having a child with another man and trying to trick my partner into raising a child. But then I'd have to evaluate what did I do to make hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:29 AM
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I definitely agree that irl is much different. I think the internet gives people more freedom to say some radical things while irl they would never say something like that. I understand the frustration, I don't think men and women are purely responsible for unsatisfying dating experiences. There are a lot of societal factors that have an impact on everything, but I think people are not helping in overcoming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:15 AM
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Sorry, then I must've misunderstood the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:12 AM
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I thought more in the line of "ruining it for the rest of us," as the OP said, not restrictions regarding the law. Of course, there aren't any restrictions, thankfully, and we're still allowed to come out, but the stigma makes it harder for true victims, which makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:11 AM
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I think it's a neutral rather than a gendered trait. But I also think it could be circumstantial. From my personal experience, when I'm alone with my fiancé I can be very talkative, while in public I'm very quiet and he's much more talkative than me. But that could be personal to me due to a little of social anxiety. Regarding the expectations for women to be quiet, you can have any standard/preference you want for your relationship. Expecting your partner to be quiet and listen to you if you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:42 AM
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I recently started visiting the sub, just for pure entertainment, when I have nothing better to do. I like hearing different perspectives, but I also want to give a different perspective from time to time since the majority is blue pilled. I'm also intrigued by the "gender war" that is happening right now and concerned that it travels so fast from the US to my country. Regarding how much I learned, honestly, not much. Mostly that neither gender is willing to compromise in this day and age for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:29 AM
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Women who lie about SA and make it harder for other victims to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:30 AM
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It's problematic unless it's a gay best friend. I'm of the opinion that I shouldn't even spend time alone with my partner's male friends, much less have a male best friend. Of course, there's a possibility that there's nothing behind it, that it's absolutely platonic, etc. But I don't see a reason to take any risks when it comes to that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:52 AM
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Combination. Personality wise, I liked his sense of humor, intelligence, discipline, and dedication. He's masculine and a provider. He's not the richest dude in the world. He actually comes from a poor family, but he built himself up from hard work. He's a blue-collar guy, but I actually quite like that because I think it's a neglected trade lately. I liked that he was in the military. We share a lot of similar interests, both are into sports and highly active. We have endless conversation topic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:03 PM
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It is definitely still much more conservative overall, especially regarding the law, but a lot of the social issues like gender war and such found their way through the internet. The mentality of gen Z is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:50 PM
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I'm not an American, so a similar type of dating still hasn't died down when I met my partner 5 years ago. But now I see the same thing as in the US happening in my country, and it's honestly so sad. The same gender division, the same issues, the same questions posted on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:28 PM
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Honestly, this is the first time I've heard about this as movements. I knew people choosing this lifestyle existed, but I didn't know there's a whole "community." Whatever floats their boat. Many people judge my choice to be a homemaker, so I am in no place to judge people who choose to do the opposite. But I don't know how sustainable it is, I think humans are social animals after all, and desire for partnership is in our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:11 AM
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I would say this is an accurate way to describe my fiancé. We have a relationship where he is a dominant one, a provider, but nowhere near sexist or misogynistic. He respects me and my opinions, has pretty liberal views as well as I do, but we chose to have a traditional style relationship because we feel the most comfortable in those roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:00 AM
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Absolutely a housewife. But this is an easy choice for me since I am already a housewife. But either way sex work is something I would never do, regardless of the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:36 AM
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Sorry, English is not my first language . Maybe I'm not conveying what I mean in the right way (or I'm misunderstanding something) I see a lot of people talking about toxic masculinity and men not processing/showing their emotions, and I see a request for them to be vulnerable (in order not to be toxicly masculine). The request is made without examining what that means, what that'll look like, and how they'll support the men in the best way when he actually shows vulnerability. Then that happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:17 AM
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Sorry, I must've misunderstood it. Maybe it's the whole talk about toxic masculinity that's been going on? It's like a contagion. Women hear it from someone that men should be vulnerable, repeat it without examining if they actually want that, and when they actually experience it, they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:51 AM
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Exactly. I like my internet anonymity and don't even use social media other than reddit. I really don't want a bunch of random people having my picture. I guess the best I can do is follow the charts and compare them to my face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:12 PM
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I really want to know what my rating is according to other people because I can't be unbiased, obviously, but I'm too scared to post on one of those subs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:05 PM
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There are different levels of uncleanness. I would definitely mind if I go to the man's apartment and there's a pile of dirty dishes. But for example, before I lived with my partner, I definitely didn't expect him to do weekly deep cleanings as a blue-collar man who works 6 days a week and lives alone. It's just unrealistic. Of course the guy would use that one free day to relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:29 AM
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Why wouldn't I go from 5 to 7 if I can?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:59 PM
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Yes, they did. All of them. That's why I don't have male friends now, besides being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:55 PM
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Honestly, I only saw people on the internet talk about this, but from what I've observed, men tell other men not to be vulnerable because they had experiences when they were vulnerable and it was used against them. As for women, it makes us feel special when our partner opens up to us because men are tougher in that regard. A man being vulnerable means he feels really safe in that relationship, and he trusts his partner very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:10 PM
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I don't think men necessarily should be asshols, but there is something in having a little bit of a naughty humor while being kind. The problem is that most people don't know where the line is and go overboard in the asshole territory. In my native language, there's a word "mangup" with a generally positive connotation, meaning a guy who's not afraid to be a little bit bad. Synonyms I found for it are "devilish, naughty, do as he pleases." I think being a little bit of a "mangup" appeals to a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:52 AM
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I myself just wanted a traditional marriage since I was a kid. I'm very well capable of working, I am educated, but traditional marriage dynamics are what appeals to me. I feel the most comfortable in that role. I am brought up with knowledge that I can be whatever I want, and I concluded that I want to be in a traditional marriage. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:29 AM
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I don't know about others, but I genuinely don't compare my partner to my exes. I don't even remember how my exes were in bed because I'm just focused on my partner and our sex life. I would say that we are 90% compatible, but that compatibility didn't come overnight. We took it slow and learned things about each other. Every sexual experience, we became more and more compatible. You're right that personality and value compatibility is what comes first when vetting for a relationship. You really…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:35 AM
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This is amazing advice. I had to learn to not involve myself in his work, because if I start criticizing it, he'll feel incompetent which 1) can have an impact on his concentration while doing the said work, and 2) can have an impact on our relationship overall. If I always recommend doing something my way, I'm taking over the masculine energy, and he'll lose the will to do something in the future because he knows he'll end up feeling emasculated.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 10:40 AM
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