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The problem isn’t that “male [child] victims aren’t taken seriously”.. it’s that abuse by women isn’t taken seriously. boys being abused by men is taken seriously as the disgusting & violent thing it is. boys being abused by women is not taken seriously because women are seen as sexually non-threatening, that no one could possibly refuse or feel violated by the sexual advances of a woman.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:04 PM
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“Women are pushing for fat acceptance for women but not for men” Nah they push it for men too. They’re not entirely hypocritical dumbasses, I’ve seen conversations happening about “unlearning fatphobia” toward fat men, criticizing people who don’t find chubby men attractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:51 PM
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I know you don’t see them, you said as much. My point is that just because you personally don’t notice them that often doesn’t mean they don’t happen. EDIT: Like, you seem to be basing your “women don’t date fat men; men will date fat women” theory off of two things: 1) that women have significantly larger dating pools & more range in mate choice, and 2) that men will a lot of the time fuck anything on two legs in a skirt, and will cast aside aspersions about her weight if it means getting some …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:59 PM
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my cousin & his girlfriend are an example of a fat man/thin woman couple tbh. The discrepancy could have something to do with the fact that women are more likely to be fat/overweight than men are (because women retain body fat much more), which could be why people see more fat girl/thin guy couples more often than the inverse. But merely because there are more fat women than men doesn’t mean women are less likely than a man to be willing to date a fat person. Personally the majority of straight …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:32 PM
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Fucking hell, you refer to them as landwhales? Just because you noticed many fat women going out with thin men isn’t like, evidence that the inverse doesn’t happen at comparable rates though lmao. I’ve personally seen plenty fat man/thin woman couples (in fact, most of the couples I’ve seen I’ve noticed the woman is almost always far better looking than the man), but apparently many women either favor or do not mind dating a fat man (source) and women tend to be far less judgemental or negative …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:23 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:26 AM
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I mean, when women are complaining about “how terrible men are” it’s not exclusively about such things like domestic abuse, sexual assault, etc. It’s also about stuff like how men/society culturally degrade or denigrate women and our bodies.. there’s literally an example of that in this very thread. Like, right above you. Sorry_Restaurant_804: “Hope you are a female coz that was such a feminine/weakling shaming tactic, is it that time of the month?” It’s not really difficult to find gross/petty …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:25 AM
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This reminds me of that 4chan post or something where a fat guy was complaining about how no chicks would date him because he was fat, and was arguing women who didn’t overlook his appearance were shallow or bitches or smthg, but then when someone asked if he would date a fat woman he said “no”. So I think the inverse (fat men refusing to date fat women) happens about as often if not more so. And aren’t single fathers eroticized?? I’m always hearing about how women want to fuck one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:20 AM
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I guess it definitely isn’t a matter of morals for you, then. Unless you exclusively hold women to moral standards that you never hold men to. But then complain when women do the same on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:46 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:43 PM
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“I don’t really partake in slut shaming but I can realize that a girl who sleeps around a lot may not be mentally or emotionally stable. You can’t really say the same [that promiscuity signifies ‘mentally instability’] for guys because a lot of guys just like sex for sex and not for any other reasons attached to it.” Yeah, it totally doesn’t sound like you have any kind of bias or anything against female sluts. There’s a lot of problems with your logic here. Mostly, you ground your argument with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:33 PM
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Sure, but how does it make women bad? “Women fuck men they’re not attracted to in order to get benefits = women bad” Don’t all you intellectuals here believe in the idea that women prioritize things like financial security and ability to provide/protect in a man? Then why blame a woman for following (what you believe) are her “natural mating inclinations”, which is to go after financially well-off men regardless of how attracted to him she is based on his looks, personality.. anything other than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:35 AM
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Women retain more fat than men. They’re kinda supposed to be more chubbier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:17 AM
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No comment on Chad’s morals for engaging in premarital sex as well? Hm..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:16 AM
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You made the point that at 40 he could work on himself and attract a 37yo woman. He could possibly have more kids for longer if he married a 22 yo over a 28 yo, but it honestly doesn’t make a big difference. People don’t typically like more than 3 or 4 kids anyway, and both a 22 or a 28 yo could give him that. They just need to work a little smarter about it if she’s 28. Makes no difference at the end of the day if you like the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:49 AM
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• According to the CDC, 80% of women with multiple children have birth-to-birth intervals less than 5 years. It is not very common to wait 5-6 years for another child, it’s usually 2 or 3 years on average. And in their situation, as she is already 30, they would probably do 2 or 3 years if they want to have as many kids as possible. • You’re right, by the time the guy is 40 his first children (assuming he had them with his first wife when he was 30) will be 10 or <10 years old. Which makes it ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:51 PM
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Some people like a pause between children, sure, but 20 years? Having a new infant when your previous batch of children are in college already? It’s incredibly rare that a person would want to do that. It’s also an immense drain on your resources that not many could afford, and there’s no good reason to make more kids after your first kids have already grown up and everything. When people are planning on multiple children they don’t usually wait 6 years before their first and second.. age gaps b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:03 PM
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… yes I know that. But if a 40yo already had kids when he was younger & has raised them and everything, why the fck would he want to make more? Most people start having children in their mid-20’s to early-30’s. That’s the prime age range for “starting a family”. Most men who are 40 are not interested in making children at that point in their lives, doesn’t matter if the woman he’s with is 40 or 30 or 20. The average age of retirement in the US is early-60’s— if you have kids at 40 then your next…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:42 PM
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40 & 43 isn’t a significant age difference regardless of whether the man is attractive or unattractive, or if he has a high or low libido. Three year difference in your 40’s practically accounts for nothing. There isn’t much difference between a 25yo male marring a 22yo woman, and a 25yo male marrying a 28yo woman. It’s just silly to act like they’re completely different things when all collapse into the same thing more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:58 PM
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This is so odd, do you think men drop their long-term girlfriend or wife whenever she reaches or passes 40 years to switch out for a woman ten years younger? In a monogamous relationship, yes, you’re doing to hit your forties and even more together. That’s an inevitable part of aging. Don’t have a long-term relationship with someone if you’re going to drop them as soon as they get old. 40 & 43 isn’t a significant age difference. By that age if they got busy in their early thirties / late twentie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:32 PM
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Ohh, man you’re way off base about the “femininity is more sexualized among gay men than hyper masculinity”. Like.. so off base lol. In gay men of any culture I’ve noticed that hyper masculinity is unequivocally the most fetishized thing. Japanese “bara porn” (gay male pornography genre focused on hypermasculine men) is like, one of the most popular porn genres for gay men of any nationality or culture. You go on the part of Twitter where all the gay porn artists congregate and it’s 100% bara + …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:09 AM
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That’s.. not what she said, though. You guys are under the impression that this person is trying to make it seem like this wasn’t ultimately Grande’s choice or Grande plays no role in sexualizing herself, but that’s not what they said. You’re misunderstanding her comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:57 AM
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Dude chill. She has a point— it’s important to understand the context in which women do this. Ariana Grande (like all celebrities) works to farm and maintain her popularity and relevancy; as the old saying goes, “sex sells”, so obviously we see so many female pop stars & celebs engaging in hypersexuality culture or using sexual dance moves or dress to seem more appealing and stay “relevant”. It’s still ultimately Ariana Grande’s decision to do this, but it’s important to look at the reasons that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:56 AM
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The answer wasn’t “would you date a broke adult man?”, it was “would you date a man that earned less than you?” A man could still technically earn less than you and still have a great career, be able to take care of himself, etc. I think if I was in a place in my life where I had a good career and doing well for myself, I wouldn’t really want to date a “broke” man obviously, but I wouldn’t mind dating a guy that earned less than me as long as he was taking care of himself on his own just as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:46 AM
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Re-read what she said, dumbass. “I would prefer a man who easily gives me attention every time I throw my charms” She’s saying that she likes it when a man eagerly or positively responds to her approaches. She would not be approaching a man she wasn’t interested in to begin with, so your stupid spiel whining about how a “if a man were to approach her uninvited she would shame him into oblivion” doesn’t make any sense. Yeah, of course she wouldn’t want excess attention from a guy she never approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:40 AM
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You say “28yo town bicycle” like the fact of her being three years older than him contributes to her undesirability in some way. Do you seriously think a woman so little as 3 years older than the guy is “undesirable” to him? 28 is still quite young, and if you think at -that age- a woman is “too old”.. you’re a weirdo. The survey examines trends in men generally. It doesn’t take “value” into account because “value” is an ambiguous thing that can be measured countless ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:27 AM
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You okay, man? Really not sure what you’re trying to get at here about her relationship but.. “maybe he thinks your emotionally stunted 😡”? Is this the best you could do to try and make her feel bad about herself? “GuYs lEaRn To dEaL wItH suCh nUisAnCes, yOu kNoW” You just sound pissed off that she recognizes how shitty “red pill men” are & is content in her relationship with a decent guy. between the two, you’re the one that sounds more like a basket case, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:20 AM
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You understand that there are literally real people who exist that don’t have any interest in dating, or feel any sexual / romantic attraction to others right? You say “if men and women don’t want each other” like it’s some weird hypothetical world but in this world we literally do have examples of men and women who have no interest in sex or dating. Asexuals, aromantics, voluntary celibates, etc. Men with no interest in women or men still do productive things and still take care of themselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:14 AM
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“men are second class citizens on this planet remember that” you’re not a “second class citizen” on the basis of your gender. and the group that is considered “second class citizens” generally isn’t the one that controls virtually the entirety of the government, the executive echelons of the healthcare system, the military industrial complex, controls the levers of society’s business & corporate world. you’re welcome to explain to me how those “second class citizens” are also the ones consistent…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:08 AM
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“one gender can easily get someone to ask her out no matter how attractive she is” …eh, not really? it’s definitely very easy to have people proposition you for sex when you’re a woman, but for a person to respectably & genuinely ask you out for a committed relationship? If you think it’s “easy” for a woman to find a person (regardless of her attractiveness) that wants to be in a long-term committed relationship with her, then… all I can say is that you’re obviously not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:01 AM
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mannn that’s pretty hot tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:47 AM
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I mean, I would pay for a guy’s sexual photos/videos/content but like.. not for dumb shit like a photo of his legs or toes or whatever. If I could vividly imagine it and enjoy it just the same in my imagination then I’m not really going to pay you for it. The only time I WOULD pay a guy for sexual content is if I am REALLY down bad for him and/or the content I’m looking for is a specific-ish fetish that i can’t find good content for anywhere. Like I’m into pegging and watching a guy anally mastu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:41 AM
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The opening scene where Bateman is 90% naked and doing his morning stretches and shit.. I always found that weirdly erotic & hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:24 AM
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I understand “0 kids”, but 0 body count? Wtf? All these “standards” are dumb af bro, for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:02 AM
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And so among birds females tend to have more outliers in terms of sexually selective traits and males fall around the mean? But male birds are the ones that compete for females; and females ultimately decide whom to mate with. If it’s true that male variability is what ‘causes’ female selectiveness with mates (as you said is the case with humans), then how do we reconcile this phenomenon also occurring with birds whose females have heteromorphic chromosomes? Male variability is a theory. And eve…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:36 AM
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