soappenguin Archive

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3	CMV: adhering to the redpill sidebar leads to an improved response from women sexually and people socially in general. Yes, that's what makes it a bromide. An outdated stereotype isn't evidence, nor does it contradict my lived experience -- the people who I know personally who I consider alphas are fucking nice. My experience doesn't require consensus or majority approval.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 12:31 AM
5	CMV: adhering to the redpill sidebar leads to an improved response from women sexually and people socially in general. Look, if people are going to "fake it till you make it," which can be a valid approach, at least fake the right stuff. What I mean by this is confidence comes from an internal belief of your own self worth, and a lot of people who have not had success with the opposite sex are struggling with viewing themselves as worthy. The right fake it till you make it approach here would be "I value myself regardless of whether or not this particular woman is attracted to me." The right approach would be "I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 12:22 AM
5	CMV: adhering to the redpill sidebar leads to an improved response from women sexually and people socially in general. This is my anecdotal experience -- I might be self-selecting for building connections with people with good personalities. The bromide of "women like assholes" is an unoriginal and unproven remark that comes from men who are unsuccessful with women vilifying those who are. My person experience is the archetypal "red pill" behavior will very quickly make someone persona non grata, because it confuses "confidence" with "assholishness." And to clarify, when I say "actually alpha," I mean a man who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 12:05 AM
1	Do women feel unsafe walking alone at night even in nice neighborhoods? I typically do not feel unsafe, in nice or "bad" neighborhoods. I do start to feel guarded if someone is following me or making unwanted conversation. I will walk through San Francisco's Tenderloin or West Oakland, and most people are just minding their own business. I say this even as someone who was sexually assaulted on the street in San Francisco a year ago. The person who attacked me wasn't a stranger -- it was my "friend" walking me to my car. I'm much more afraid of pillers/misogynists wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/18 11:51 PM
11	Do women feel unsafe walking alone at night even in nice neighborhoods? This, exactly. It's hilarious seeing internet tough guys on this. I've been doing kickboxing (and bjj, and krav maga) for over 5 years now. People on our team all walk out together to our cars because we're not so stupid as to think we're immune to bullets or stab wounds. Training in martial arts -- even consistently and for a long time -- is nothing like being in a street fight. It's been part of the training everywhere I've been to know the difference, to know de-escalating and situational awa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/18 11:36 PM
9	CMV: adhering to the redpill sidebar leads to an improved response from women sexually and people socially in general. It depends on where you start as a person and what you're taking away from the redpill sidebar. Someone who is completely clueless and unable to interact with women at all may see improvement. If someone is a gross shitlord who doesn't exercise, doesn't take care of themselves, and someone told them -- "you need to work out, dress like an adult, and stop acting so desperate," yeah, that will likely help. But nothing about that is owned by redpill -- it's just common sense. But people who are nat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/18 11:20 PM
1	How I became RP BP is shame and conformity, RP is results. Yes, and the reason other countries sometimes oppose America is because they hate our freedom. That's not a debate point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/14 05:40 PM
1	How I became RP No reason to leave. This community isn't for this. Hit the report button for circlejerking and carry on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/14 05:34 PM
16	Treating women like children I'll agree with you that BDSM is very common -- except its practiced by both men and women in every role and position. As for: Some anthropologist found evidence that women are kept as pets in primitive hunter-gatherer societies and someone speculated that explains why women enjoy BDSM and humiliation so much. Citation is sorely needed here. Even if it was true that in primitive hunter gatherer societies women were kept as pets (big grain of salt here), it in no way presents itself as an explana…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/14 01:10 AM
30	Treating women like children As an active member of the BDSM community -- as if the flair didn't give it away -- I'm a little speechless here. Spanking children as punishment should be nothing like spanking women for sexual satisfaction. Go to any BDSM event, dungeon, or the Folsom Street Fair, and you'll see that people of every gender, stripe, and color enjoy various forms of BDSM. The fact that some women enjoy spanking in explicitly consensual BDSM culture in absolutely no way equates to the conclusion that women enjoy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/14 01:02 AM
14	Treating women like children I am not calling any person shitty -- I am calling a behavior shitty. Decent people can do bad things. If you're sensitive about language, then I can rephrase it as a bad or immoral. No one made me an arbiter. We all get to decide what is ethically right and what is wrong. Patterns emerge when a certain percentage of people think a thing is right or wrong, and we call those morals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/14 12:52 AM
25	Treating women like children what is inherently wrong or deficient about this method Lets not get into a discussion about morals... we do not claim to be saints I think you already know the answer to your own question. It's a shitty thing to do, and some people care if they're good people. when trying to build attraction ... if it works for you of course Why would treating a woman like a child work? How does one treat adults differently than children, and why do you think that would be sexy? And also, do you want to play wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/14 10:18 PM
1	Do blue pillers think sex is magic? Yes, absolutely. Sex is definitely magic. We all think that success and failure is totally random and magic. Your post breaks Rule 3. In short, it's not that no generalizations can be made about the opposite sex or society in general, it's that TRP makes really bad generalizations. "Women tend to prefer males who are confident and in shape" is likely a generalization many people will agree with. "Women are incapable of love or abstract reasoning or logical thinking so you have to treat them like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/14 09:25 PM
1	Why is there a NEED for a strategy? A flock of male slaves crawl at the heels of a sex goddess; she dispenses just enough hope to keep their bribes and favors coming in. It's getting hot in here. I'm going to have to renew my subscription to Divine Bitches (NSFW).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/14 07:17 PM
21	Proper blue pill dating advice Dating advice: 1) Hit the gym (aka "be attractive, don't be unattractive") 2) Educate yourself 3) Take responsibility for your actions 4) Be confident If you're thinking, "But wait, I asked for Blue Pill dating advice," this is true blue dating advice. TRP didn't invent looking good and being confident. To answer your question about what people find objectionable about TRP, the short answer is idolizing "Dark Triad" traits and justifying manipulating other people. Then there's stuff that just do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/14 09:56 PM
2	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory I love it. Steam room it is. This will also need some playful towel flicking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/14 06:56 AM
2	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory I agree. But it would have to be a double-blind study. So bring the blindfolds. My pre-sex theory is that a lot of women would go for high value males, as red pill says. I do think the second thing the study would find is that a lot of things TRP finds "high value" is really not. If you look like a god who can fight off wild animals and bring me meat, we'll fuck. If you don't, we won't. This is the one thing TRP gets right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/14 02:13 AM
3	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory Именно так российские парни говорят.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/14 01:55 AM
6	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory I think we are in quite a bit of agreement. If I am reading you correctly, you're saying that very attractive people can get away with whatever behavior they want (the example you give about your black girlfriend, for example). That seems perfectly correct to me. Most of the advice on TRP, on the contrary, seems to be "treat women as inferior, and you'll be successful." Yes, you might be successful if you're already a perfect 10 Adonis. However, the average guy who stumbled in to TRP tries to pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/14 01:44 AM
9	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory and the bromance grows with my workout buddies Man, I am going to write some steamy fan-fic about you and GayLubeOil at the gym. "I spotted him across the gym, bulging with his Russian bear trainer muscles. He walked over confidently and said, "Do you need a spotter, bro? You look like you lift." Tl;dr, women will never understand our Spartan love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/14 01:36 AM
9	GayLubeOil's Conspiracy Theory I have a different take on GLO's conspiracy theory. I think TRP does have a very small percentage of high value alphas like GLO. Because sex is Darwinian competition, a self-interested, Machiavellian alpha has absolutely no incentive to teach other males how to be alpha. Red Pill is composed of 95% of guys who are struggling with women, and they are intentionally being given laughably bad advice by real alphas like GLO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/14 01:29 AM