Move. EDIT: Let me elaborate then since the simplicity of this answer is pissing people off. This guy has stated pretty explicitly he's living in a social environment that is tiny. From that we can assume two things. There are well established social circles. New ones aren't popping up. Now I don't know about you, but even in the situation that this guy manages to completely come out of his shell and reinvent himself, there are going to be limited opportunities, if any, to take advantage of that…