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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Club etiquette and how to approach and talk to women there? | Escalation & Calibration | soccer-boy01 | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Behaviour when approaching a girl or hanging out near them | Outer Game | soccer-boy01 | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 01:51 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yeah, the date was the date. Let it be an island of learning ✨️ I had the exact same reaction, its just another file to put under "girls vs accountability" moment | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:13 PM |
| 31 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Drop her bro. Same situation happened to me. She was just with another guy and it didnt work out. She's basically saying to your face that you were 2nd choice and didnt have the respect to tell you why. Being ghosted in today's age is disrespectful and theres no way people cant reply nowadays. Move on and know your value. Take it as a silver lining that she might think she screwed up. Regardless that doesn't mean you should take her back or entertain her. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for.Idk, I tend to ask because you can tell based on their answer if they know what they actually want and if their goals are even aligned with yours. Some girls might want to be taken on dates only, not necessarily a relationship. Others might want a husband and have strict criteria. Asking that question helps you more than not | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 06:58 AM |
| 2 | 25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need helpmake sure you bring a hardcopy of your mixtape, she will like the effort | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach from inside your carNot worth it, if you're in a car and she's on foot: almost similar to cat calling if anything.... | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Forget & move onI get this man, time alone to just work on yourself and slowly get back into it. Ive been away from my ex for about 8 months and there are times where I still get mental blocks and it makes me sad because it puts me in a depressive mood and the whole "what if" starts coming in. There are times where girls will be all over me and im just like "well this is fun and all, but im not feeling it" and as much as I want to will it away, time will ease it | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get a cute girl in 2022 (quick and easy)welp | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | HELP NEEDEDJust turned 21. I can strongly relate to your post. I think if you feel like you want to go out and you miss the socializing aspect or even just want to smoothen out any pick up lines or conversational skills, then go out. HOWEVER, if you feel the opposite or when you're given plans and you have that "pit in your stomach" feeling that the night isn't going to go the way you plan, then stay home. More times than not, mentality has a big affect on what you do. If you feel strongly towards staying … | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Im laughing. Made my night haha thanks | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Any sort of physical contact. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Congrats! Can't wait to hear about the constant problems and debt that come with one | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 13 | Struggling with girls in collegeThat's the thing. Don't try to join a crowd that isn't your crowd. Be who you want to be and like minded people will come. Go to places that similar people like you, who are true to themselves, would go. Goign through the same issue as you and unfortunately personality can't be scored like physicality and looks go | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | I think I have a problem, can't put a name to it.Natural heartbreaker lol I think it's the natural insecurity from when you were 5'8. You're seeking validation, but aren't looking for anything. Id say stop doing that. People will like you for who you are, don't go out of your way to kiss ass to people just to have them be in your roster. You'll constantly be switching them in and out anyways. Just be yourself and be communicative to a degree. Make intentions clear and if she likes you more than platonically, just handle it properly. But don't … | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 5 | I think I have a problem, can't put a name to it.Mate, 5'8 to 6'5 is a dream come true. That being said, I actually have a friend who is 6'5 as well and he's very similar to you. He doesn't shut them down though, he just makes it very clear that he isn't looking to date and that he's just looking to mess around. You'll get attention anywhere you go because of your height, but having that big change over the summer will take getting used to. You're also under 20. You have a lot of time to truely understand yourself. For now, just enjoy your tim… | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome shyness of talking to girls ?It's all a mental thing, maybe it's in your approach. Think "this person seems interesting, I want to get to know them" more so than "she's hot, i hope i can get her number" manage your expectations with encounters and honestly just say fuck it. She's in the same shoes as you, both don't know each other and neither really think they're hot shit or the best person out there. Just try it and worst case is you get a no. Which is good because it means you still went up to her. Overcoming shyness is … | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Club etiquette and how to approach and talk to women there?This is a mental change. It takes a lot to do that considering I just got out of a long term relationship and want to focus purely on myself. Not in a selfish way, but more of a self preservation way | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Club etiquette and how to approach and talk to women there?I appreciate the kind words! The thing I don't like or that doesn't connect fully with me is that in the club it's all about first encounters and the like. So even if they recognize im awesome on a deeper level, there's only like a 5 second window for them to make that realization if at all | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Club etiquette and how to approach and talk to women there?Thanks! Im naturally a social guy in general, but when it comes to trying to flirt.....I lose edge and I get nervous. Im able to get rejected gracefully which helps. I just have that first mental step where approaching them is tough. I just can't bring myself to do it and first impressions matter to me lol so I try to be too good if you know what I mean, but thanks for the kind words! Means a lot! Don't take rejection to hard because it's a numbers game and you might strike gold and other times … | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | I want a BADDIEHeart break does that to you I guess. I feel like i'll have a midlife crisis by like 30 lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I want a BADDIEYou have to work on yourself. It has to be a mental shift. Im in the same boat, im only 20 myself, but what ive realized is to STOP CHASING. Working out, eating good or doing hobbies you like is way more attractive and fulfilling than constantly chatting up the next hot girl. If you haven't been good with them, you will soon. Keep grinding and improving yourself. It's a slow journey, but the rewards are immeasurable. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 01:57 PM |
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