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Well it goes from both sides the same things may I ask , will you like a not so popular guy , not so handsome though decent guy, not so badass guy ? Or be honest even you when you were young then did you had things for the guys who are not so popular/flashy either .....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:16 PM
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In that experience what I have gone through is that women are ignorant and hell when they arent even woo'd so better to woo then , I should have done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:42 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:40 PM
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How to know if someone is high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:11 AM
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The libido part could be partly in line with me still concluding what you said , and noticing my social behaviour till now that is 21 I am definitely going to be single forever lol, well not too much to laugh ,it doesn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:40 PM
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Cause it's not supposed to be answered by Me ? If that's the reason I'll delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:16 AM
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I see my dad playing a single game so famous , saga something, you guys guess... It irritates a lot when he plays it even while eating or food is served or we are just sitting and he plays. Point is one shouldn't be addicted ! ( I am not woman still answering it haha )
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:56 PM
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I have the same thinking, I even tried to post the same question few days back but wasn't approved , glad yours is approved. I don't think about status quo part, but I think that men who can't and struggle to make the first move be it whatsoever , it's really tough for them when none of the woman comes ahead and just say that I like you....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:36 PM
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Are you telling my story haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:03 PM
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How does not having satisfactory orgasm is a comparison to a man who is not even having any orgasm (intercourse) at all due to dating apps being favourable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:59 PM
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Sex sex sex,what the hell is wrong lol, one can develop even without it , I don't agree with this part of yours that it's a key milestone at all, and to many even without sex men can already see them not as object, and as people only !! If one sees them as object till sex then probably there's something wrong in his upbringing. (Even if here I consider your made up definition of object, which is also clearly wrong and tells you are backing off)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:39 AM
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Though still I would say that emotional/companionship tells more and gives more satisfaction that theres someone for you , if just sex is being considered then isn't it available even after paying. Don't get me wrong but you can't buy emotions/companionship. Hence just a mere intimacy even if it's not physical it is sufficient. (I might be wrong since I myself have never had any such experience either emotionally or physically, although I have known that at the end it's not lust it's love that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:47 PM
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Still dear why sex , at the time when they just start trusting you and being with you in a companionship gives more than just confirmation and satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:26 PM
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So you mean those guys who are virgin like me don’t view women as person ? I am sorry to tell you , you are only partially right , I agree with the part that after having sex it gets off their mind but that ain’t mean that before that all guys view women as objects .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:41 PM
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Right I hope so , maybe i was overthinking like i used to. And self doubt myself ....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:41 PM
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Okayy but whatever you said in end as you said above not all are like that . I am surprised you cared about me , well thanks for it ! And i am sorry for the rage if i have shown to anyone by chance in my comments, cause i do get angry,hence accepted 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:23 PM
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In a sarcastic way she has said what not and i still kept my cool not be abusive and hatred . It's like allegations on me who has never done such things but i have to realise it's just another comment and shouldn't stress much about it ! Oops i didn't mean bitch , i thought it's similar to slut, think of being called a slut when you aren't.... If these are not directed to me still i felt they are , and if you are being genuine i am very thankful to you and not abusive 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:13 PM
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How will a women feel if she is called a "bitch" when she isn't actually , please tell me dear ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:59 AM
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I respect a person who respects me , she at the 1st place didn't respect me , so I have to stand my own to defend myself . And if i agree with something, i didn't say that all are like that, and mentioned before too that a part of human(including men,women both) will always be don't. Why don't you see that some comments were disrespectful too as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:55 AM
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She did say in a sarcastic way "congrats you are one of the nice guys" , come in my place , won't it hurt you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:52 AM
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Fine , and trust me there's no attacking on women from my side !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:49 AM
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Did you not see how rudely and attacking in a way she herself commented , why you are ignoring the first thing itself....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:46 AM
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And dear I agree it , all i said above that it's playing with my mental health means that i already social anxiety issues so tackling criticism is a big deal for me hence mental health. Besides that those people who do it just for sex well and do it intentionally without the natural instinct of it all the time, then I agree ... All i had a confusion was that some people even in comments you can check the most recent one even think that all people who are naturally decent are like that too....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:44 AM
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Why are you so pissed off 😂 Tbh i didn't see any guy meant that , and pls try to have a little different perspective. I never randomly texted a girl / called her bitch etc , i respect women and i dint care what you say cause it isn't your fault too, seems like you are just brainwashed by the minority of that guys who do it and consider all of them to be the same . Just the same way like all women cant be good likeways all men can't be(i.e. there's a part of human that will be bad) but it doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:20 AM
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Yes indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:09 PM
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Well I am single and have never been in any relationship be it emotionally or physically ! (Reason - idk , perhaps social anxiety, overthinking,self doubt issues, although I might be more than an average good looking atleast i think so , but girls never commented so i might be wrong or ugly too hence sometimes i judge myself on this part as well) I don't know much about RP although will search upon it , i might definitely not be it , cause be it anything I don't have that mentality of being extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:43 PM
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Well in reality actual nice guys are those who behave with respect to all and show decency in their behaviour and struggle with confidence to express their feelings , thoughts etc due to social anxiety or overthinking or whatever .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:12 PM
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First of all Happy Cake Day ❤️ And yes I could completely relate with that , and that you say that drive is less that is wrong too , it's just we have that sexual urge , we have that desire , but we don't seem cocky or misbehave publicly, which even though girls like it internally but show to others that they don't that's why such things occur ... And we are not even given chance off , seeing our simplistic not so cocky behaviour, in reality we just have social issues . And people especially gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:47 PM
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Wow .... Anyways what do you mean by justifying AF/BB mentality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:47 PM
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Agreed, me is first always !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:43 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 AM
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Perhaps possible, need to try that . Thanks though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:43 AM
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Of course ,still there are people who think that all are like that. But anyways i shouldn't care about them . Thanks 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:29 AM
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What if that's a natural instict !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:27 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:24 AM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:22 AM
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I have seen very less response to that matter ! Mostly assume all to me like "nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:20 AM
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Yes i did and if your question is that whether i thought that they are actual guys here is the answer 😅 - Nope i questioned the real definition of "nice" which is being showed that entire plethora of that set belongs to fake nice guys , that subreddit name should be changed to "fake" instead but anyways now i don't care .... Cause i have received the answers from many one . And yes this question is asked by many too lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:19 AM
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Yeah great that your said "this type of nice guy" , atleast someone is seeing that there could be 2 possibilities and not generalizing to entire nice guys. Well thanks for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:18 AM
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Then why to demoralise them , well not fake ones but actual ones who might be boring cause of something else be it trauma, social issues etc. Well anyways thanks for your reply !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:16 AM
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Exactly but these 2 categories are being mashed up and the issue is that even it is being generalized that even actual ones are like that !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:15 AM
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Well you yourself accept that they might have trauma or turned out to be with low self esteem or social anxiety issues and still you think at the same time that they want to get into women pants. Both can't happen at the same time , if one is actually having social issues he is more concerned than just making a long friendly conversations than being getting sex .(And all don't fall under the same subset of fake nice guys, which are minor) Anyways thanks for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:13 AM
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Well seems like there are 2 types - one who gets raging and say things to girls and another after getting no attention etc gets into overthinking and fuck up their own head . (Anyways thanks for your reply!)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:09 AM
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Is sexualizing takes place then i agree but not all actual nice/good guys sexualize it ! Anyways thanks for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:08 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:06 AM
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Right and that's what was my thinking too !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:06 AM
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I am extremely sorry for what you experienced !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:02 AM
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Explain ... (Although not all fal under that category)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:01 AM
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Not all "nice guys" but anyways !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 AM
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Nope i questioned the real definition of "nice" which is being showed that entire plethora of that set belongs to fake nice guys , that subreddit name should be changed to "fake" instead but anyways now i don't care .... Cause i have received the answers from many one . And yes this question is asked by many too lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:59 AM
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Nope i questioned the real definition of "nice" which is being showed that entire plethora of that set belongs to fake nice guys , that subreddit name should be changed to "fake" instead but anyways now i don't care .... Cause i have received the answers from many one . And yes this question is asked by many too lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:59 AM
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Indeed ! Possible .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:56 AM
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That's a good insight, thanks 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:54 AM
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But why everything needs to be sexualized, it is creating a wrong definition of nice although those people who have that mentality i agree they deserve it !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:52 AM
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Right , I should start caring less and moving on instead 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:45 PM
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Yes but what do they get by doing this, it's like they will do anything and say and question anything to prove whatever they said /agreed earlier is right .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:42 PM
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Well i think someone with social anxiety and overthinking issues does get in problem of people pleasing as you said.... And ends up unnecessarily judging himself or his self esteem .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:32 PM
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I do completely agree they are being taken advantage of and being used on their social anxiety and lack of enough confidence for whatever reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:28 PM
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Ohh in whatever case i haven't received appreciation although that's a different point that sometimes i end up in overthinking that whether i did or treated them bad when not got enough response. Anyways thanks for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:26 PM
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Lol right , it's like playing with my already disturbed mental health 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 PM
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Well that I do accept it indeed ! If i am not making any sense for you so be it 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 PM
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Right but what if the person isn't forcing him to be nice and it comes naturally ? It ain't easy for him to change his real nature according to the society who obviously I agree use them mostly .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:01 PM
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It is putting a bad impression on people that all guys of that category are like that, and hence they don't give them a chance either by that mere screenshots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:55 PM
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It's like suppose not even saying "thanks " properly (No one is expecting to date/have sex ofcourse , like it has been frowned upon that subreddit) And why one shouldn't expect appreciation for whatever work he /she did, it gives motivation nothing else. (, Everything needs not be sexualized dear)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:53 PM
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In general he mean , that despite being having 5 partners those 5 women chose to date /marry him again even after so many divorces ! They still agreed to , and here the another guy who is perhaps single never dated was being judged of he being like that !
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:49 PM
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Thanks just read it ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:47 PM
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But one expect a simple sence of appreciation which is even not initiated to guys !
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:46 PM
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I understand, seems like i should read that book too , have heard a lot about it . And not cause i feel bad about my ethics but cause of this generalizing in society that nice guys arent liked is what hurts and yes definitely the recovery would be very time taking indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:43 PM
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Nope but it is representing the real actual ones who aren't mean and is putting bad impression of them in reality and that is what hurts my sentiments !
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:40 PM
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Right advice 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:20 PM
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Understood but even the other subreddit represents the same which puts the "actual" ones under wrong impression . Anyways thanks for your explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:10 PM
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Interesting yet in both cases the real ones getting under wrong impression cause of others using this medium for their selfish reasons.(Blame game)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah understood , although that's why I didn't like shaming real ones and generalising that all are like them - a misconception being laid it seems .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
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And what's that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:03 PM
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That's what I feel a little .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:03 PM
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I researched on game theory , it says they finishes first indeed .....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:02 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:01 PM
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Ohhh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:00 PM
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