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/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 01:19 AM
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It’s more about honesty than judging. My husband and I promised to divulge our full sexual histories, so if I found out later, I would be pissed. You can tell someone upfront and then you can decide whether you can handle it or not. Also, I agree about the idea of grace, but you should trust but verify. If someone did this at 20 and after years of therapy or self-reflection they regretted it? I think a lot of men would understand. But it sounds as if this affair is recent and that means the OP h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 01:30 AM
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I would very upset if my husband didn’t divulge something like this before we married. Be prepared to answer a lot of questions and provide context. If you knew he was married, it doesn’t reflect well on your character or judgment. If you had no idea he was married, he’ll understand and be sympathetic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 12:59 AM
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I try different things. I’ll often tell my hubby that I’m “feeling” his look for the day or I like seeing him in the shower; tell him how sexy he looks. It primes him up and gets his attention. He really responds to comments like that and even if we don’t have sex right then and there, we usually have sex later that day. My hubby really enjoys watching me work out or working out together so we would have sex a lot after workouts. We don’t do it as much now that we have a baby but It’s a good way…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 12:29 AM
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Lol true but all my friends thought I was a unicorn of epic proportions
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:58 PM
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This was my thinking. Intimacy issues are a lot more difficult than body count.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:51 PM
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Tell him the truth and then discuss it. Honestly, body count isn’t as important as the quality IMO. Unless your number is wayyyy up there, it’s vital to know if your partner’s encounters were in serious relationships or drunken hookups or one-night-stands.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:49 PM
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I was a virgin till 23 and when I met my husband I’d only ever been with 1 man. And my husband was a virgin till 26. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:46 PM
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Agreed. I’m married to one as well and he’s very monogamous.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 07:53 PM
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Okay, I don’t agree with that lifestyle but it’s your life. If you want to live that way, you need to establish boundaries. If he’s worth it, then you need to negotiate terms. Such as: hook-ups only when he’s traveling, never bringing anyone to your home, never ditching an anniversary or holiday or birthday for casual sex, weekly testing and stringent usage of condoms. Would you prefer he pay for it? Sex workers are much more adept at just looking at it as a form of release. If you have children…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 07:52 PM
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🙄🙄🙄 blue-pilled haters gonna hate
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 02:06 AM
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Good for you. Don’t fall for this weak stuff. So many women accept this type of behavior and sleep with said guy and then wonder why they can’t get commitment or a call back. It’s because they’ve set a low bar. Minimal effort equals sex. People need incentives. If a man really wants you, he needs to work for it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 03:17 PM
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I would disengage. He told you his intentions - he’s either looking for attention/validation or an easy lay. Give neither. If he wanted to date you, he’d ask you out. Don’t waste your time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 03:13 PM
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The hope is that you’ll be married with children by then.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 02:54 AM
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Match.com. No joke. I’d been dumped via ghosting by my bf who left to go to grad school in FL. He wanted to spend the summer with his family back in MI and said we’d reevaluate when he came back through GA to move down to FL State. Never called. Never texted. I waited almost all August. When September rolled around, I said screw it and got on Match. Dated a few guys very casually. Matched with my husband and I sent a “wink,” after which he messaged me and asked if he could call me. I thought tha…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 02:40 PM
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Good question. To me, it’s a woman who acknowledges the differences between men and women and knows that men are physically bigger and stronger and that women’s predominant power is in their youth, fertility, personality, and beauty. Instead of fighting that and trying to become like a man, RPW accept it and strive to work within that framework instead of against it. I think RPW embrace the idea too that in general, women are going to be happier married, at home, with children as opposed to sing…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 12:42 AM
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People filling a vacuum. Kevin had lots of good advice and material, and his absence has left a gap creators want to fill and capitalize on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 03:46 PM
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Congrats on your engagement! I know it’s hard, but now is the time to start implementing boundaries. Moving forward, I would encourage you to not agree to something unless you want to or it’s absolutely necessary. Since you’ve already agreed, graciously accept the shower but with boundaries. Kindly but firmly tell them, “I really appreciate you guys doing this for me and I’ve invited my female friends and family, but my fiancé does not want to join. It would make him very uncomfortable and I wan…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 03:43 PM
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Get good at conversation. Ask people questions about themselves. Show interest in them and their thoughts or hobbies. Be hospitable. Offer to get someone a drink or snack. Smile. Read or study areas that you like so you can feel more confident and talk about those things with expertise. Dress to impress. When you feel your best, you usually act more confident.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 04:06 PM
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Okay, first off, stop faking it. This does no one any favors. It’s the equivalent to if you were making him dinners every night and he said they were great when in reality, they were awful and he threw most of it out behind your back. He will not learn to get better if you keep giving him positive feedback on a bad performance. If you don’t like how he’s fingering you, why are you faking pleasure? Secondly, do you guys have sexual chemistry? What’s the genesis of your relationship? Did you two m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 06:35 PM
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I think the problem is how we’ve structured the high school-college-profession pipeline. We push both men and women, especially women, into that and they end up wasting their reproductive years and getting far along in a career where they feel they can’t take a break to raise little kids. Most women I know who have kids would like to quit while their children are young, and then eventually return to some sort of job. But women often now feel like they’ll lose their careers or they can’t afford i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 12:07 AM
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No, he became a Christian and tried to get healing but I think it’s still been a struggle for them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 10:49 PM
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I’m married to a HVM and I would not tolerate that. Not only for religious and ethical reasons, but also for safety. I also would not trust other women with this privilege unless they were prostitutes and then you’d have to get tested nonstop. So logistically, that’s also a mess. I grew up with a family friend who was a HVM. Mega millionaire, charming, very good-looking. He was cheating all the time so his wife attempted to curb it by participating in threesomes with him and random women they’d …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 01:14 AM
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This is why we need a healthy dose of masculinity and femininity in society. Women are much more agreeable and sensitive, especially in social groups, so they help us know when it may not be appropriate to say certain things at certain times. But men know criticism and even teasing helps push them to be better. If someone asks for real advice like this girl did, I think it’s safe to say that she needs a hefty dose of masculine realism and not feminine sensitivity. But we can’t allow that today i…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 03:53 PM
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I’d encourage you to talk to a therapist. You sound conflicted and you shouldn’t be making any big decisions if you’re so unsure. This could be commitment phobia or this could be something else. It doesn’t sound like your fiancé is the problem though. I’d also encourage you to figure this out quickly because your fiancé deserves to know whether he’s wasting his time or not. If you’re not gonna marry him, he needs to be free to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 06:55 PM
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I became a SAHM after working in corporate America and getting my Masters. It is a joy but man is it hard work. If you’re making healthy meals, doing laundry, exercising, and raising children intentionally, it’s a ton of work. I cook 3-5 hours a day, clean 4-5 hours a day, and run errands around my daughter’s nap schedule. It’s not soap operas and snacks all day. I think part of the problem too is that we all outsource so much of our lives and household to others that we find it odd now when a w…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 03:37 AM
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Low is better in general, but I also find the type of sexual relationships to matter most. My ex had been with two people prior, including a long-term serious relationship. But my husband has a slightly higher body count and it was mostly one-night stands. Sex has been a real issue for him and he didn’t grow up with healthy attitudes toward it. I think that matters most.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 11:55 PM
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Lol don’t feel guilty. I quit my job in December after my daughter was born and my husband’s parental leave was up. Best decision I ever made. Running a household is a lot of work and I think part of our modern stress is because we’re all working and there’s no one to handle the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the shopping, the cleaning, etc. I had dreams of getting my PhD and becoming a professor, but when I saw how toxic academia was getting and I met my husband, I decided to teach and th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 01:55 AM
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I was always attracted to older men. Thought about dating someone my father’s age and often dated ten plus years older but ended up marrying my husband who is 8 years older. It’s a trade-off. The benefits are usually that older men are more mature and settled, they can provide more resources and take care of you financially in case you want to become a SAHM. But health issues can creep up real quick and cause a lot of tension and lifestyle changes. My SIL married a man twenty years older and aft…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 06:11 PM
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I’m really sorry. Personally, I would not marry him. That kind of cheating sounds like a pattern, not a one-time mistake. The best piece of advice my mom ever gave me was this: when you’re thinking of marrying someone, think of your future children. He may be handsome and successful, but he sounds like he has a real lack of character and you don’t want to create a life and family with someone like that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 08:53 PM
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First step in sex is to not overthink. What makes someone good in bed has more to do with their enthusiasm and attention rather than their technique or skill level. Also, men don’t grade women they love and marry on bedroom skill, they usually do that for hookups. When it’s just about sex, it’s just about sex and how good a chick is at giving head. But when a man loves you and wants you to be his wife, he’s not thinking that way. Don’t worry so much about how to do a BJ or HJ. Focus more on find…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:11 PM
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