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Sounds like you’re minimizing it. “Get over it babe, so what if your lizard brain is hurt, grow up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:19 AM
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The implication of a woman cheating on her partner, is that she found someone “better”. What’s not to be insecure about if you’re a man who’s been cheated on by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:16 AM
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Ayo, wtf? Clearly you don’t understand or you wouldn’t have said that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:14 AM
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Impossible to gain “social intelligence” when nobody wants to interact with you, as is the case with many average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:24 PM
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Not really, and the ones I do, they have a significantly harder time dating that well below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:22 PM
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You already have people saying that if you haven’t put in “the work” to become a 20% man, then you shouldn’t expect and don’t deserve attention from women, even though the amount of work required to become a 20% man just keeps going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:14 PM
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In todays globalized world, the same effects are being felt anywhere. Relationship dynamics (and really, everything) is in steep decline in the US, Europe, much of Asia, Australia, etc, and most of Africa, South and Central America, Southeast Asia, and the like are too ineffective to “take over” the declining first world. It won’t be like Rome being overtaken by barbarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:31 PM
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They come together. No one issue ever does a civilization in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:28 PM
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Yes. I’m sure it didn’t help that I was extreeeeemmeely isolated growing up so my social skills are probably bottom 10th percentile (without being literally autistic, but I probably do come off that way to most people), but I’ll be 19 in 2 months and still haven’t been in a real relationship (save for a 2 month “learning experience” with a girl I wasn’t attracted to at all during my senior year of highschool), I considered myself Incel for awhile and I still believe/know the Blackpill is true, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:48 AM
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From a very young age, girls are told that they deserve and are worthy of everything they want, while boys are told they should be lucky to get anything at all.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:37 AM
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Insanely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:24 AM
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Confidence comes from past successes. You can fake confidence, but to do so passingly requires at least some genuine confidence in your abilities to appear confident. So no, I don’t think it’s realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:42 AM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:59 PM
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I’m 5’9-5’10, in good shape, generally rated 7-8/10, yet have still never been in a real relationship, got less than 20 matches in 4 months on Tinder, never notice girls/women looking at me or trying to talk to me. I don’t think just being a healthy weight, or even decently good looking is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:52 AM
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Evolutionarily/biologically speaking, females have to be choosier, because they can only give birth like 2 dozen times max throughout their entire lifespan, and they put themselves in considerable risk being pregnant and vulnerable, and when giving birth (lots of women used to die in childbirth), so subconsciously, they’re trying to choose men with best genes to make their risk worthwhile. However, there’s no denying that social media, online dating, and movies/TV have put this process on steroi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:29 PM
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That sounds like a similar situation to myself, but I’m 18. My mother had me at 19, and I was unplanned. My dad worked 2, sometimes 3 jobs, and was in a band, and was hardly ever home. My sister was born 2 years after me, but I was very much raised as the “man of the house”, which was amplified when my parents split up when I was 7. I was basically raised entirely by women, at home and at school. As consequence, I had trouble connecting with other guys in school and was afraid to talk to girls d…
/r/MensRights06/06/22 02:41 PM
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I don’t know, give advice, not fucking ignore them? Ignoring/neglect/exclusion does far, far more damage than any criticism or even bullying ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:46 AM
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General treatment of insignificance, indifference and/or disgust, as if I’m an insect. Efforts not being appreciated or reciprocated, like, I actually have to try really hard, work out, jump through hoops, and turn myself into a jester if I want attention from the opposite sex (and it still usually isn’t noticed, reciprocated or appreciated), meanwhile your average girl can just default back on one of their 650 other options if they get bored of the guy they’re talking to, or he does one little …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:12 AM
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The only girl I ever dated and had sex with was 4’10, not my type phenotypically and was skinnyfat. I literally felt disgusted after I lost my virginity, but we still did it 2 more times afterward and I could barely bring myself to feel anything physically or emotionally. I didn’t want to date her tbh, but she asked me out, I felt bad saying no because we were friends at the time, and I thought I might not get the chance ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:49 AM
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