~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | What is the female equivalent of the plate-spinning, untouchable alpha male?Beyoncé and even she’s not “enough” to keep em straight n narrow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 04:11 PM |
| 3 | I feel some type of wayDefinitely work things as sometimes dads step in for the fun (play time, bed time stories) and mum ends up doing all the work - which then mean your job, the housework, and the baby chores! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 10:56 AM |
| -2 | Why aren't men interested in me.Not white but (top tier) white men are attracted to me more frequently than any other race group. East Asian nationals are probably the only group men who aren’t interested in me; East Asian Americans, Brits, etc. aren’t included here. And yes, it’s not just from a hook up perspective but from a meet my mum perspective. That being said, I think it’s because I have a manic pixie personality. Looks only get the guys in the door: it’s everything else that makes them stay. (FYI not a traditional red… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Is my hobby a problem?The original question is exclusively about the music itself not about the concert going. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Is my hobby a problem?No. I just think it’s possible to enjoy things without quantifying why. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Is my hobby a problem?Does it make a difference what someone enjoys about it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Potential prospect seems too comfortable letting me pay. Bad sign?None of my exes split the bill or costs of first dates. In fact, only guy I briefly dated spilt the bill on the first date and that went on. That’s not something I wanted. It made it harder to get to know him and to get around the other small things he did. I ended things after a few months. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.So Rey Mysterio against the Big Show is an abuse of power? No. It’s consensual. If Rey steps into the ring with Show then that’s on him. Same if a man willingly gets into a bed with a woman who isn’t using sex as a tool. I don’t know where you get the idea that women hate “sluts” more than men. Men are the ones that complaining here, not women. It’s a common thread on this sub and calling it pathetic isn’t an insult, it’s me sharing my views. I can’t help that that’s how I feel about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Nah. Men who are boxers, wrestlers, etc. are not not judged harshly for using force. Using force is only problematic if you’re in a physical altercation with someone less powerful than you. Women who use sex as a weapon might be accused of abusing their power (at a stretch). Women just like having sex and it upsets the weaker, more pathetic men because women are generally able to get sex without having to lower their standards - unlike them. Like I said, it would be funny if it wasn’t sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 11:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Oh. You probably don’t understand what it’s like to be a high value man that women are really into. It might sound unreal, but it’s not. There’s a reason men have such high n-counts. It’s coz women actually do want them :) Slut shame away though, you can’t become any less desirable than you already are it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 11:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Nah. I wouldn’t. And I’ve had women flirt with my ex in front of me. You’re just projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 11:28 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.I’m currently not very busy at work so I just practice rhetoric here. It’s a really nice way to sharpen your skills! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 08:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.You’re not annoying. You’re flawless. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.They’re so insecure. It’d be funny if it wasn’t so sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:59 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.There is no point. This sub is full of men who are weaker and less desirable than the average male and they always find a way to justify their misogyny. Logic will not work. I like it here for now coz I’m bored. And it’s a whole new world for me. I’m surrounded by really secure and intellectually capable men. Seeing how the other half lives is fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.It’s easy to tell if someone is tall or rich. And being tall (physically attractive) or rich (attractive to men and women) has an ascertainable benefit. An n count makes zero difference because it’s plausible that you won’t know the number unless you’re told. Assuming the person has no STDs, the only issue with a high n count is that she’s probably more aware of what she wants sexually. This scares insecure men. It’ll scare insecure women too I think but that’s not under discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:53 AM |
| 8 | Why are record numbers of young women interested in becoming nuns?Women are tired of men. Millennials are tired of the rat race of capitalism in an economy that is so depressed that we will work forever and a day to live relatively comfortable lives. Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | have you ever had a FWBs in which you caught strong feelings but it didn't work out?It happened once but we ended up dating for two years. Usually, with me, the guy catches feelings because I have commitment issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker?I don’t care at all as long as he doesn’t come bearing STDs/STIs, which can be transmitted even if you’ve only had one partner. I don’t even need the number, but I’d like to know if he’s slept with someone I know, even if it happened before he met me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?You stuck this link under a comment I made about Zara’s clothes being cheap and I’m trying to understand how the contents of your article relate to the comment under reply. Your comment still doesn’t really clarify the link between the two. Are you simply agreeing that the clothes are cheap? If so, why link the article? It’s easier to link to their online shop. But if that’s your point (that the clothes are cheap), I get it. It just seems a bit weird to link the article just to agree lol. Edit: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Cute loungewear – UK/international?Cotton On, Australian brand. They deliver. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I didn’t get it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?Are you capable of articulating your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?Nice and noted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?Zara is cheap no matter how rich the owner is 🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I get that. It’s potentially rarer but I find displays of wealth off putting as it makes me feel like I’m trying to be bought. Edit: which is also why I’m curious as to how a wealthy man feels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I don’t find value in this interaction. We’re at cross purposes it seems so I’m going to extricate myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?This is me. I can’t concentrate on anything and just distract myself with Reddit when I should be working! But I hate my job :) hence the meeting with the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I asked men about how men feel when they’re used for money. I gave examples for context and to avoid people asking me about my approach to monied people. I specifically said that the context wasn’t relevant for purposes of answering the question. If you can’t answer the question, don’t. But I’m not here to engage on anything but the question. Edit: I reread your original comment and realized that you didn’t answer the question at all. Why are you so obsessed with how much the man is worth? Why a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"?I think men are more visually stimulated than women because overall women are “prettier” than men. Sort of like male peacocks are prettier than females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?Oh okay. I get that. Mostly people in my circle are UMC (mix of old and new money) so I don’t register that look as wealthy. Edit: I can imagine it’s tough because you’re right. It’s hard to look totally broke when you’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?That makes sense. I’m just interested in the thought processes. Edit: Portion about my own appearance / issues removed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I have no real idea as to how wealthy he is and I think it’s absolutely gauche to talk in those terms. Officially Wealthy is a dollar multimillionaire in my terms but I prefer not to delineate with my question because I’m aware that it’s subjective. Someone with a different background might find less to be wealthy (a waitress), whereas someone else would think it’s hardly anything (an heiress). This question is directed at anyone who uses their wealth to attract any kind of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?What’s crazy is that there are guys out there who actually do it. The whole thing is very confusing for me but that’s perhaps because my background is UMC so I’ve not really had unfulfilled needs. Sure, I’d like a van Cleef tennis bracelet but I’m hardly prepared to lie in bed with someone gross just for some diamonds. I haven’t gotten used to the idea of doing it to satisfy my needs so doing it for my wants becomes harder. That’s my theory at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?Money doesn’t always show. My ex boyfriend was loaded (euro aristocracy), he just looked regular upper middle class. Not sure how a guy can look loaded tbh. You can only wear one Rolex at a time and no one is going to know you got your suit from Saville Row unless you tell them. My silk shirts could easily pass as Zara. Anyway, it’s not about looking rich, it’s about how you feel if someone is with you exclusively for money or you have to drop cash on a girl to be able hang with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?I’m not making fun of him. I just think that, often times, wealthy men buy affection. Your life exemplifies it and there’s nothing wrong with that, in my view. But I don’t really understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Wealthy men who actively use your wealth to secure the time of a woman: do you know/accept that sometimes SMV women will spend time with you only for your money? How does it feel? Do you use your wealth for this purpose even when you’re not sure that that’s what the woman cares about?LOL I feel you. The consolation is that you know people want you for you? 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 10:21 AM |
| 0 | For those women who do wish to be approached a lot more in public and are frustrated that men don't take more initiative, do these women realize the reason men don't approach?Eh. Three of my four exes (the fourth is married) all have great times with online dating. The third is a banker so super busy and used to literally use tinder as a buffet. The second was adorable. He’d match girls and they’d actually just invite themselves over. (I’m friends with all my exes FYI.) I also dated a guy for a few months (he found out he had to move away so we couldn’t get serious). He was a colleague of my friend. And my friend told me the guy had 500+ matches on tinder and just wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:11 AM |
| 1 | For those women who do wish to be approached a lot more in public and are frustrated that men don't take more initiative, do these women realize the reason men don't approach?What a man 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | For those women who do wish to be approached a lot more in public and are frustrated that men don't take more initiative, do these women realize the reason men don't approach?Is it? I mean, now women will literally report rapey men so a lot of guys’ shitty tactics are out the window. You think it’s bs because you’re a normal not -creepy guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | For those women who do wish to be approached a lot more in public and are frustrated that men don't take more initiative, do these women realize the reason men don't approach?I know it’s tough to put yourself out there and approach women. I appreciate that it’s gutsy. I empathize and don’t want you to stop approaching women at all. I admire anyone who puts themself out there, for any reason. So, even when you’re not for me, I’m nice and polite. Like most women who’ve commented here, I’m approached by men regularly. I have zero problem with it. What I have a problem with is men not taking the hint and making me uncomfortable, forcing me to either suffer with a smile (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexNo one said women’s standards weren’t too high.... it’s just a totally bizarre thing to complain about. It’s like saying Harvard’s standards are too high. Girl you’re not entitled to get into Harvard. Harvard can have whatever standards it likes. And if you think the institution isn’t good enough to demand what it demands, that’s still on you. You don’t get to go to a school just for applying and if you don’t meet the standards, raise your game. Comparing women to water as if you’ll die if you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexYea in fairness I think that men and women are both annoying in different ways. I am totally bugged out by women who get upset that men aren’t into (say) fat women. You can’t force it up so if men don’t want you coz you’re fat, either lose weight or get over it: but don’t get mad just coz a man wants what he wants and what he wants isn’t you. That kind of victimhood From women has cropped up on this sub but at a much, much lower rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexAh man nothing irritates me like women who complain about a man when they haven’t met his standards. I have a friend who does this. Sometimes I ignore her and sometimes I call her out gently but other times I just snap and remind her that men are happy to hook up with her and not wife coz she does xyz. Funnily enough, I’ve noticed men and women encouraging her and insulting the men who have legitimate reason to not want to be her. So I get what you’re saying for sure. It just so happens that men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexYup well. The point is that the complaint is always that women’s standards are too high lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexWomen have higher standards than men and therefore men work harder is what I meant. I wasn’t paying attention when I typed it up. Basically, men could raise their standards but choose not to. I mean, maybe if they did that, women would lower their standards, but they don’t. Choices choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexI’m not reading all the comments here but I’m betting it’s a bunch of men saying that their lives are hard because they have lower standards than women and therefore have to work harder for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Like you’ve said, it’s been pointed out previously. And I’ve outlined why the premise is dumb. I’m not going to do it because to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic?No, I mean there’s nothing wrong with being picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic?Yea it’s probably that you’re picky because it doesn’t sound like you’re surrounded by obese / fat people. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic?Wow. That’s two years older than me and it’s so different to my experience. Bar my best friend, pretty much every woman I know is a US2-4 - even the ones a few years older than me. Men are also pretty physically fit. Most people have gym memberships. More people go than not. And fast foods are sort of frowned upon. So I think it’s a cultural thing. It might also be a socio-economic thing. Anyway, I know you didn’t ask. I just think it’s interesting how people roughly the same age can experience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic?How old are you? If you don’t mind me asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Fair. Sometimes I wish I was lesbian. I even tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Info on Gender Inequality, from the UN: http://hdr.undp.org/en/content/gender-inequality-index-gii. I think that speaks for itself. If you want something more US-centric, here’s a Harvard Business Review Podcast which speaks to the pay gap. https://hbr.org/podcast/2018/02/mind-the-wage-gap. See the sources cited at the bottom of the page which speak to the stats referenced in the podcast. And hit me up with the source of your stats if you ever manage to find them. While they won’t negate the poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Lol go post that on another thread. It has nothing to do with my question. I deliberately added parameters to prevent people from going off on tangents but people just don’t read with comprehension anymore. Oh, well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Lol women don’t want praise for getting laid, they usually just want to get laid, plain and simple, without men being caught up in their feelings that women now enjoy NSA sex. And yup, I have read all the responses here: men have no standards, they’ll hop into bed with any woman, they’re super easy, desperate, lacking many options, they have no self-control, etc. But women are sluts and whores ❥ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Yea but you can’t get mad at women for having it easy when you make it easy for them. It’s just a bit strange. Idk it seems like a recipe for perpetual victimhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Post your source, firstly. I am actually interested in seeing this information assuming it’s verifiable. I have done a quickie google and nothing came Secondly, assuming we are talking college graduates, we are talking women around the ages 23-29. What about the remainder of the workforce (ie the overwhelming majority aged between 30-65, assuming 65 is retirement age)? This is a the Thirdly, there are likely other fora where you can complain about how hard it is being a man. I always recommend t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I answered the question already. But yea I’m happy to be a feminist if it means that I’m not repeating myself on demand to people who either don’t read properly or who aren’t actually saying anything useful. Just in case you missed it while playing victim, your friend accused me of shifting goal posts. After repeatedly replying and simplifying things to the most granular level, he dropped that point and asked a question that had been answered. It’s not worth the effort if the person you’re speak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.It’s not shaming if you’re being honest though. Using derogatory words is shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I’ve answered that previously. Much like the other guy, I don’t have time to repeat the same thing in different ways for someone who can’t understand it. You aren’t contributing to answering my question and you also haven’t contributed anything valuable in an ancillary capacity. Thank u, block, next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.The question: are men mad because women are acting more like men? Now that you’ve managed to contextualize it correctly, that’s how your answer reads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Thanks :) I’m not really concerned about blame. I think that men who shame women for certain behavior should shame men for that behavior, too. On that note, I don’t think people should start shaming each other, I just think it’s important to note the double standard (and thereafter hopefully be conscious of perpetuating it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Did you type all that out just to say “Yes”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Well, firstly, the point is that people still frequently use terms like slut and whore to degrade women. It happens regularly even though it might be rude. These terms are not used when describing men. I find the double standard problematic. On to your question, I think that if it’s something that’s important to you, then it’s a legitimate basis for discrimination in re your LTR. I say the same for someone who wants someone thin, beautiful, successful, intelligent, funny, a good cook, a good dri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Suuure. But just like CH is not a slut when women jump at him, women aren’t sluts when men jump at them. Men can’t be mad because they make themselves readily available to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.JHC. Post 1: Basic rights Post 2: ALL metrics Post 3: look at the most important metrics We went from talking about basic rights to someone saying women outperform men in almost every metric. Did you miss THAT part? We moved from x to y. We started dealing with y. I’m so baffled as to how you can’t grasp that and can’t actually simply it any further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I spoke about basic rights. The response spoke about women outperforming men in all metrics. I responded drawing attention to the most obvious standards for performance: presidents and CEOs. If you can’t see how that links up, you can reply til you’re blue in the fingers but I can’t help you any further. So, in fairness, I hope you try again and, if you don’t get it, my heartfelt apologies that I was not clear enough xo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I don’t think there’s a problem with wanting to marry a woman who has had many sexual partners. I think there’s a problem with calling her slut. If there were two guys that were 100% equal in every way except sexual partner numbers I have no clue what I’d do. I can’t imagine 2 humans being entirely the same. I’d probably look at which of the two had the best family. If the families were miraculously identical too, then I’d have too see which of the two was better in bed and I’d pick that one. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I don’t care about gorillas man. I just want to know why men are so upset women are behaving, sexually, in a way that they have historically behaved. If you desperately need a period for that, let’s say the past century or so. Because - and correct me if I’m wrong because you seem like the expert - gorillas and cave men didn’t walk around calling women sluts. Just to be clear: I don’t care which kind of woman is more valuable as a mate for chimps. A woman doesn’t meet your requirements? Cool, do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Yea the right to equal pay for doing the same job is fucking basic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Sex is (heteronormatively) the insertion of a penis into a vagina. Anything before and after is not sex. Every single woman I know and I know many enjoys that feeling of penetration. They enjoy sex. Women enjoy sex. Average women enjoy sex. Women’s sexuality has been bottled up to enormous degrees and that is not who we are. We are finally unbottling. Hence the increase in sluts :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Men can be mad that women are behaving more like men (whether initiating and plain ass getting laid by as many people as she likes)... they can channel that anger into calling them names like slut or white... but it seems that the tables are turning and women are gonna do it anyway. Edit: it’s not about fairness it’s about laughing at men who are mad when they get treated the way they’ve been treating women. Hopefully women don’t start raping and physically abusing women en masse* though. It’s o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I don’t actually care how many partners a man had before me and I’m not sure where I said that. If you think men should be called sluts for the exhibition same behavior as women, then you’re not involved in double standards and I’ll happily debate you but I don’t really have anything to disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Most countries and Fortune 500 companies have male heads. I’m not going to reply beyond this just because you don’t like researching facts but good forking luck to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Nope. Sex is enjoyable. And, even with someone who doesn’t desire you, can still be enjoyable. Women (or people) do not need to have sex to enjoy being desired. You can go all the way to someone begging to have sex with you and quit - if you didn’t enjoy the feeling of sex. Women (or people) sleep with other people they don’t even like coz the sex good. Women enjoy sex - the pure and simple act of getting a hard penis stuffed into a wet vagina* - just as much as men and to suggest otherwise is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Well. For a long time, women who weren’t married were ostracized or had less legal rights than married women. Also, women weren’t allowed to go to university or into boardrooms. They needed husbands to be able to exist basically. As much as this has changed legally, the tradition and culture around getting married hasn’t yet. It’s catching up though. I don’t think this relates to my question as to why it’s okay to call women sluts for doing the same thing that men do (ie hooking up with multiple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I don’t know a single woman (and I know many and we talk about sex) who would rather have a sex toy than a man they’re attracted to. Sex is, for many women, about the journey not the destination. I know this because I know women are better at giving women orgasms. I’ve experimented in that field and I straight call hooking up with women foreplay - orgasms or not. “Straight” woman stuff. And women have sex with other women why? Coz they enjoy sex. Full stop. Sex between two consenting adults, who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Oh I understand. This sounds like the Madeleine / Ed scenario unfolding in Big Little Lies and it’s totally unfair for Ed. And I agree. Screwing up someone’s life is never cool. Marrying someone under false pretenses isn’t cool. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I mean. Being cheated on is bad but (at least in the US) men cheat more: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america. The gap is closing because women are behaving more like men have always behaved. But directing that anger at women, not society, is strange to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Lol okay. I’m blocking you. You don’t have sex You don’t think women enjoy sex And you haven’t made a single comment that is intelligent or even dignified Before I go, I’m not sure why you’re so obsessed with this post as you’ve commented everywhere but congrats on being the first person I’ve blocked on Reddit :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Maybe. But I don’t see why the notion that women have it easier should be an excuse to slut shame simply coz men make it easy. That’s the confusion for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Yea but that’s coz men make it easy, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Yea sure but whose fault is it that men have lower standards than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I feel you. But I also think it’s impactful. Businessmen (or the rich) are in positions of power. Women are still fighting for the basic rights. And someone has literally commented on this post that: 1. Women don’t like sex 2. Women have sex to get money etc. This kind of misogyny is ongoing and impacts other women, even if not me directly, so I think it’s important to dismantle these notions and, before that, actually understand it. The idea that’s out there that some men think women don’t enjo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Holy cow. You think women don’t like sexual? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok I can’t reply anymore. We are just operating on two completely different spectrums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.You don’t even understand sex so I’m not sure why you’re so deeply involved in commenting on this post? Again. Is a hot rapper “easy” and “slutty” if he hooks up with women who are dying to get with him? Nah. He’s just a guy enjoying the privileges of being a hot rapper. Same with women. If men want women to work harder to get laid (as if some basic fun thing needs to be ruined), THEY need to stop being so easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.This gave me quite a giggle. I think my favorite thing on Reddit is when someone is like I don’t care about your agenda one way or another but your facts are faulty BOOM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.You think it’s stupid to take issue with hypocrisy? Or what is it that’s stupid? Let me not assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I get that and I feel like that comes from a space of bitterness and anger. I just truly don’t get the argument that it’s easier for women therefore they must be shamed. It’s more like... shame men for men making it so easy if “easy” is the problem. On that note, I don’t think anyone engaging in any kind of honest and consensual behavior needs to be shamed. Men are “easy” likely because they enjoy sex. Women sleep with a bunch of guys likely because they also enjoy the sex. Why is one worse than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.But women don’t want status from having sex. They just don’t want to be called sluts for doing the same thing a man does. Again, I get that a man has to work harder but only because women have higher standards. Why should the woman be called names because men are the ones who are easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Yea but that’s like supporting Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez coz she earned her way into politics versus Don Jr or Ivanka Trump. You can commend the game of a man who has to work to have a rotation of women on speed dial but why hate on women who don’t have to do that? Also, that logic only works if you hate equally on male celebs etc who are hot and rich and can snap their fingers and have a whole bunch of hot af models at their disposal. Do you feel the same way about these guys as you do the avera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I mean. Men who are handsome, fit, successful, and charismatic have no problem getting any woman. Women literally throw themselves at these so what’s the difference between a guy like that who can get any woman (say, Chris Hemsworth) and a women that can get any guy. Sure, an average guy has to work harder than an average woman but no one is stopping a man from raising his standards. Why get angry at women? Just raise your standards and stop being so easy to get into bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.But basically: If a man hooked up with three girls on rotation, what would your view on him be? If a woman did the same, what would your view on her be? If your views are different, why are they different? This question need not be answered if you views are the same. In fact, none of the questions need to be answered, but getting views is why I’m here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Ok so you feel better about yourself when you hook up with three girls but think women should feel worse about themselves if they hook up with three guys? Is that why men insult these women? To feel superior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Noted, thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.What responsibilities come with hooking up with three girls that a woman hooking up with three guys isn’t prepared to accept? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.That’s okay. We all have different levels of comprehension and I respect that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:15 AM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Firstly, I never expressed any concerns; I asked an anthropological question within a specific context. If you can’t point out something in the question which implies that I’m “concerned”, please identify it so that I can correct. Further, if you don’t have anything to contribute vis á vis the question posed, why respond at all? This is a rhetorical question - just to be clear. But, if you do have some view on the actual question posed, please share. I’m not debating, I’m just interested in view… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Well, for a long time women weren’t allowed to work at all and studies have shown how having children reduces a woman’s earning capacity. Still, I take your point. I’m not discussing these things though and I don’t have a particular view. I’m just curious as to what people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:09 AM |
| 0 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I included the extracts from the song to indicate the context. I’m sorry if you can’t understand the question and associated context based on that, but I’m not really looking to discuss ancillary behaviors. Feel free to go ahead with that discussion without me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I’m talking about things within a very specific context (for manageability purposes) but I’m sure nothing would prevent you from posting a free-for-all, non-delineated version of the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I don’t actually understand this comment and how it’s related to the context within which I asked the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.What perks have women historically enjoyed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.I feel this so much. Women are starting to act like men but with the benefits that come with being women. So, a man has to try hard to get three girls and a girl just swipes right three times. The behavior is the same but women are better equipped to enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 10:53 AM |
| 8 | Do women have to feel sexy/attractive/desired in order to feel powerful?I don’t need to feel desired to feel powerful but I’ll admit that I do feel sexier when I feel powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Do women have to feel sexy/attractive/desired in order to feel powerful?Interest. I feel super sexy when I’m shooting a gun. I’ve got pictures/videos of me at the range and the whole thing just looks sexy I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 09:37 AM |
| 5 | do you think RPW gives good advice?Firstly... It’s the only sub that I’ve found that tells women to lose weight if they want to be attractive and I, for one, appreciate that they don’t mince their advice. Even advice that isn’t sweet and comforting. Most of the women are pretty respectful, helpful and practical (as opposed to the bulk of the bitter/angry populous on other subs with take me as I am even I’m a total tosser attitudes). Some of the advice moves from discouraging a woman from being domineering (good) to encouraging he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 07:13 AM |
| 8 | do you think RPW gives good advice?Marilyn Monroe 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 06:59 AM |
| 3 | How to handle a toxic workplace with lots of talking behind each others back?Thanks ❥ your kindness is appreciated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"I’ve messaged you the info ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"She’s a fuckboy. So. Random story. There was once this Brit I hooked up with after breaking up with my European ex. We hooked up max 6 times but he’d take me out to dinner and stuff and I liked him enough. He knew I wasn’t serious. I told him that I didn’t do “casual exclusivity”. He told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship. I told him that I didn’t want one but emphasized that casual exclusivity was off the table. Although I didn’t say was I had no intention of hooking up with other guys (eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"I’m truly not disputing it’s real and I truly, truly am sorry for my sarcasm earlier on. I just haven’t experienced it and the men I know haven’t experienced it too. The same way not every Muslim has experienced Islamophobia. I have, however, experienced marginalization based on my gender and I agree that these issues are constantly being addressed, including because I and other women have raised them. But the system where I am is overwhelmingly “male”. The people in power are majority male, whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"I identified with her ha ha but I’m a weird girl who will tell you I have commitment issues, hold your hand and cuddle and give you doe eyes, then wake up and run away. I have done this to men and women but I’m super upfront about my commitment issues and even say things like “I will do xyz don’t read into it”. Everyone - men and women - want to feel like they can change a person who feels this way but the truth is they probably won’t change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 08:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"Not everywhere :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"It’s the same with women who go on dates with guys who court them and then realize they don’t want to hook up with them. Ultimately, it’s about misrepresentation, which is about intention, which is impossible to objectively judge and depends on the perception of the judge. I personally have not knowingly hooked up with a fuckboy in my escapades. My best friend on the other hand is a magnet for them. I’ve put this down to the fact that I don’t like relationships so that I can’t be tricked into be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"Did you stretch before reaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"Lol no it doesn’t in the slightest. It deals with what a fuckboy is and when it’s okay and not okay to call a guy one. There is literally nothing else to that comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"TL;DR this is how I feel about men who think women want sex with them. I’m not arguing with you so much as agreeing but in relation to men who think women want to hook up with them when they don’t. Recent, personal example. I’m going to go into some detail here, bear with me. I have an acquaintance who is wealthy but I’m not romantically/sexually into him. Still, he’s plenty of fun and clever. I enjoy his company. A friend of mine asked me to invite him to a party I had at my place so I did. Aft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"I must have missed the part where I say that it’s not okay for a man to call out a woman for leading him on. Can you point that out? Direct quote is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"How? Please, indulge me. Edit: I’ve reread my comment just to make sure I wasn’t being daft and I seriously can’t tell which part are you whining about. Men who act like they want to date women if they just want to hook up are fuckboys. Men who are straight up about no strings are not. I hope you can give me an English lesson on which part of that or the original comment mostly sounds like “female entitlement”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"No, seriously, I’m not trying to be snotty and please don’t apologize. I really understand that you have gone through things in life that have made you feel like your rights have been violated. No one should be attacked for sharing their personal experiences and my initially response was indeed very snarky. For that lack of sensitivity, I am sorry. I don’t know what you’ve been through but you describe it in a way that sounds grave. My parents lived under a racist, oppressive regime (serious mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"I appreciate that your experiences are real and must be extremely painful. I hope this is something you can discuss with the women you know and, if not that, perhaps a therapist who can help with the trauma. I’m sorry my previous comment was snarky, I didn’t realize how deep the issue ran. Good luck and shalom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 05:27 PM |
| -1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"Like I said. Sorry about your mother, people you chose to date, your friends, the cashier at the till etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"The question is about entitlement to sex. You go around calling girls sluts coz they don’t sleep with you? That’s sad. Also. Your life sounds awful. Sorry that those are the kinds of women you’re surrounded with. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 03:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"A fuckboy is someone who leads you on with promises of a relationship but actually only wants sex. It’s misrepresentation to get something you want from a girl. She has a right to call you a fuckboy if you do this. If you’re straight up and just say “I want to smash, no strings” (and act like it), then you’re not a fuckboy and only then is it an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Feminine Nail ColorsI like blush tones all year round and nudes (being close to your own skin color) for the colder months. I also like deep wine shades in winter. I would steer clear of any color which is not in the pink-red and nude spectrums, as well as sparkles and nail art. And I’m not a fan of French manicures. They’re super 90s and I find them to be more girly than sophisticated. But feminine can be either :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/19 09:15 AM |
| 49 | How to handle a toxic workplace with lots of talking behind each others back?So, I would think your strategy would be to survive, primarily, and, then, to ensure you aren’t dragged down by the bitterness. Survival is not too tough. Make sure you don’t stick out. Not being dragged down without actually “fitting in” is much tougher, but can be done. My tips: Share as much as you can with them that isn’t important (your favorite food, where you went for dinner, how much you love dogs). Never share anything you want repeated. Identify their moral code and don’t share anythin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?Children The earth is overpopulated and no one’s genes are that precious. Some people have evolved beyond having the desire to duplicate their genes (which is animal instinct) and have realized that reproduction won’t make them happy. A decreased birth rate is likely to decrease the drain on the earth’s resources. In any event, single mums aren’t anomaly. Divorced parents are fairly common. If we’re going down the route of ideal family structures, only people who are upper middle class and over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 05:54 AM |
| 2 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?Whoa thanks for your honesty tho. I first read your comment and my eyes nearly popped out of my head but MEN DO THIS ALL THE TIME. And this is why they do it. And it feels like such a relief to just hear someone say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment: Emotional CheatingMaybe r/AskWomen is a better place if you want to generate more discussion? Just a suggestion :) seems like an interesting topic to expand on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?Women are beginning to enjoy sex more than they enjoy men. As women move away from the home and toward the boardroom, they’re just less inclined to date and marry. Don’t get me wrong: I know a lot of women who have casual sex but would love to settle down with the right guy... but the right is harder to come by because they’re less inclined to settle. Basically, the women who feel as though they could never be happy and fulfilled without marriage are women who will likely settle down with someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodI know this is somewhat of a deflection but, often, men go on dates acting like they want relationships when they just want sex. It’s why fuckboy is a commonly used term. It’s up to each party to be discerning and to assess whether the risk that they are each being misled is worth it. Still, an acquaintance of mine is an actress. She’s pretty but she can’t afford stuff. She’s the kind of girl who’ll do what needs to be done for free things. I think it’s kind of pathetic. Not fraud: just sad that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Thought Experiment: Emotional CheatingAll the people who are attacking the OP for posting this are insane. It’s a thought experiment. Answer the question actually asked instead of try to impute attributes to the OP. Seriously. Women (and men) do often have theories and thoughts that are worth musing over for intellectual reasons only. Anyway OP. I don’t think anything that detracts from your relationship with your SO is a good idea. It might not be cheating but the litmus test is always whether you’d be okay if he was drinking smoot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/19 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?I don’t want an attached man because I feel he will never been 100% trustworthy if he leaves his SO me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill.🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill.Sorry but we can agree to disagree if you want your “self-improvement” to be directed by a group of men who think women hate men. And if it’s directed at getting laid lol. That’s really what it comes down to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill.Sorry. He didn’t hate women in general and didn’t think they hated men. And he wasn’t trying to white knight for women. He was just genuinely ashamed of men out there who were so pathetic that they thought women hated men and needed help getting laid. And that’s the thing. Women don’t want men who need that kind of help. It’s pathetic. Great guys don’t sit around on the internet complaining about women and trying to figure out how to get laid. It’s kind of gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:09 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill.I love TRP-approved men except these men have no idea what TRP is or just think it’s not for them. I don’t like men who actively subscribe to TRP theory. They usually just hate on women and are whiny and weak. My only real relationship was with a high quality man who was attractive, generationally rich, smart, ambitious with a good job, funny, etc. He had his issues and ultimately we both decided that we weren’t a good fit because of the issues and are still friends. He never bashed women for ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Cockblock?If your friends don’t have a vested interested in making sure you don’t fuck up your life, you need better friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Cockblock?OP. I’ve read most of the comments. It seems that men think women do this out of jealousy (fat friend) and women say they do this for a number of reasons, mostly safety, concern, and the friend not being interested. Here’s the deal: despite all these women commenting with these experience, hateful men still insist it’s because friends are fat, ugly and jealous. Do you see the problem? Do you see how even when a message from women is loud and clear, men still don’t hear it? Like many people have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Cockblock?I used to watch a Disney toon and the song went “I’m the Mack daddy dragon of the NYC”. Awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Cockblock?I started typing up examples and all I realized is that I am is concerned for my friends who have literally gone through a shit ton of emotional abuse. I have no idea what men go through but women are constantly abused by men and we’re wary and care about our sisters. We’ve been taught to look out for signs of abuse. We’ve experienced it. And it’s not just a punch in the face. A woman knows who her friends are. If your cock is being blocked by a concerned friend, that’s because the woman has all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:07 AM |
| 4 | (Advice) How do you get out of nun mode?I’m here. Voluntarily celibate and just... bored. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/19 08:12 AM |
| 4 | (Advice) How do you get out of nun mode?Nun mode is different for everyone :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.SAME! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.Don’t be hostile. You’re not incorrect. I like it better than small penis porn for reasons I’ve previously stated. I’m just qualifying that by saying that what I like in re dicks doesn’t really matter coz I prefer dick-free porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.Ah. Do you enjoy it? I feel like because I have this loose jaw thing going I can really get into it and enjoy it because there’s no discomfort. But I enjoy the whole process. Choking. The works. It’s the only thing I can really offer coz I’m a bit of a pillow princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:37 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.No. Just easier to see on tape. Not that I should comment, I prefer girl on girl stuff anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.Unlike my vajayjay, I have a jaw that basically unhinges. But I get this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.Hard not impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.To confirm: I will get on my knees mean I will get on my knees in a sexual capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.I like BD porn but yeh I have a narrow set vagina and don’t need one in me thannnnnks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being emotionally attractive won't make you sexually attractive.I honestly. I will get on my knees for any guy who’s charming enough. I’m not even kidding. They have to work harder than Mr Tall Dark Handsome but it’s not impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: are men “emotional gold diggers?”Yup and I got a downvote for knowing it. Lovely 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: are men “emotional gold diggers?”Idk why you’re wasting your time with someone who couldn’t comprehend your very clearly worded OP. Saint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: are men “emotional gold diggers?”Yea but those women are with men because they don’t have a choice then. How sad for a man to know that if the woman had a choice, she might not choose him? I’m personally in the out-earn men category and I’d rather be alone than settle for some guy that doesn’t add to my life demonstrably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: are men “emotional gold diggers?”How do you give emotional support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is negative, misogynistic and likely harmful to some people. Tone does matterDoesn’t TRP also demonize certain male behavior too ie they scorn them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Where can I really find a dominant man?I agree with this 100%, especially in re working class men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Where can I really find a dominant man?As a lawyer who has dated investment bankers, not quite accurate. Corporate is where men start seeing women as equals in all respects: ie the ideas that men provide and women nurture are often tossed out the window. These men who have female colleagues (of all ages and all levels of attractiveness) who are killing the corporate game and so they often expect their SOs to be competent (in this context) too. On the other hand, some tend to date “submissive” women but, those who do, tend to date wom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 01:52 PM |
| 11 | Where can I really find a dominant man?Depends on the church. It’s a search for sure. I know churches where women never ever wear pants, always have long hair, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Where can I really find a dominant man?If you’re Christian, find the right church. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Should I insist? Is chasing unattractive?It’s like champagne for a hungry girl: goes straight to their heads 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.I think you’ve posted this in a fantastic way. Your advice is insightful and it helps that you speak from a position of understanding. There’s a lot of (useful) info to take in and even though I think my problem is resolved, for now, I’m going to think on your advice. Honestly, it’s one of the best responses I’ve ever received on Reddit so kudos. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do you worry about all of the TRP stuff? If you follow the basic rules of getting lean, getting a career, and getting your shit together, you will be fine --- almost regardless of your personality.Yea I got that from the from the first comment. Different strokes I guess. I’d rather date women with a strap-on than date a man like that. She and I could just find men on the street who wanted no strings sex anytime we needed real man flesh and then send him on his way. Everyone would be happy. Thankfully, I’ve not come across RPM so I need only speculate and thrive in my egalitarian bubble. But yea I totally see why some women outside of the egalitarian bubble would desire / settle for the al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do you worry about all of the TRP stuff? If you follow the basic rules of getting lean, getting a career, and getting your shit together, you will be fine --- almost regardless of your personality.So TRP men want sex toys basically. And the men most women want want love and commitment, which probs explains why TRP needs so many rules. Women need to bamboozled into being with them because they can’t satisfy women, just themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Should I insist? Is chasing unattractive?I get that 100%. I’ve expressed an interest first only twice. I was punching below my weight in both cases. They both then acted like they were out of my league. They weren’t. It just got to their heads. I’m betting that’s what happened in your case. He now thinks he’s better than he is. So I see why you’re over it. If you’re interested, here are the two stories: High School When I was in high school, I was pretty popular and I was a bit of a prude (in secret), so I just turned out all the guys … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is it fair to divide chores 50/50 between partners that work full time, even when there’s an income disparity?Lol do you have hired help too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 02:43 PM |
| 13 | Should I insist? Is chasing unattractive?I like this response. The only thing I’d add is that you put the ball in his court. Give him your number, tell him to text you if he feels like grabbing a drink, and then don’t message him again (until/unless he messages you first). | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why women dont appreciate honesty and the lack of games?I’m actually surprised it’s allowed. I called someone an idiot on here (because they accused me of refusing to answer a question (I answered it) and being “triggered” and downvoting them (I didn’t)). But mods were posting that I needed to be “civil”. Not saying that they were wrong but genuinely surprised that words like “retarded” can be bandied about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Why women dont appreciate honesty and the lack of games?Good luck. You seem like you know who you are and what you want: there are plenty women I know, including me, who wish more men were like you. I think you’re going to be sorted pretty soon :D PS ignore the people who call you “socially retarded” because you don’t subscribe to a norm that isn’t particularly beneficial to the human population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Why women dont appreciate honesty and the lack of games?I see. Well. In relation to that particular game, it just depends on the woman. I know why it works: it keeps you on the woman’s mind and you make her feel like she needs to earn your attention. I know why it doesn’t work: the woman dismisses you for wasting her time and being uncertain because if a guy likes her, he must show it. Generally, but not always, find that my more romantic friends fall into the first category; they’ve watched too many romcoms so the whole “game” is cute. And my more i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Why women dont appreciate honesty and the lack of games?What would you consider “games”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.Actually, the advice given by other people on this thread has worked quite well. The one particularly about making the female in charge feel sorry for you and want to help you has been exceptionally useful. It obviously will make me look incompetent if i try it with anyone else (all of whom I work perfectly well with) but it’s worked with the female in question. PS I’m not going to explain the nuances again but suffice it to say, this has been a great place to post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.😁🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Honestly. I know it’s dumb and you don’t know me at all but I’m so proud of you. Your journey isn’t even over but you sound so strong and idk how to put it without sounding cheesy but this exchange has been inspiring. I’m sending warm energy your way and yes I’ll stop now. But keep telling the odds to go to hell ❥ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I’m in corporate too and it’s hell. That’s so intense and that’s your normal. I don’t know you but I already think you must be amazing to achieve all that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Agreed: and not everyone can’t. I think it bothered me that only one side of the coin was being reflected and, that too, negatively. But I’m less annoyed now. Also, do you mind if I ask how you’re managing it? I know stress and food play a role. Asking coz I got a diagnosis that’s contingent on stress levels and I’m trying to figure it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Yea that’s why I put the supposedly in. Because I’m not sure where the men prefer small ones notions come in. I remember when I was younger and even skinnier (My extended family thought I had an eating disorder), a guy I liked told me that my hips could never bear a child. I’ve grown since but I feel you. And I’ve seen it irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Oh there’s a way for sure. My legs are long (for a short person, it’s relative), as arms. Like an orangutan. Or a less curvaceous Kim Kardashian. So I do cropped tops and high waists. Sounds counterintuitive but if you get the ratio right, it’s dreamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.For sure. My actual cup size is a 30D but it’s really hard to find so the lady just sold me a 32C and says it’s about the same. Also, it might be a geographical thing coz I’m surrounded by women like me. Many of whom are older and/or have had babies. Perhaps that’s why my reality is tinted differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Oh my diet isn’t that bad. Like I’ll have 2 healthy days, 2 okay days, 2 junk days. Funnily enough, when I was stressed, I hardly ate at all and tried to eat healthier because I thought it was a diet issue. I went to the doctor precisely because I was gaining weight despite being “healthier”. I get you in re diabetes though. Prior to the weight gain, I would have a can of Coca Cola for breakfast. And post-diagnosis, I rarely do that. Total work in progress but it’s not for the aesthetic at all b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Oh I feel this. My biggest issue with sizing was boobs. And now, even tho I’m bigger, I’m a size 0 on the waist but a 2 on the boobs. All my cute, stiff jackets don’t look good but I silver line that with crop tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Ah well. I’m not sure then. It just doesn’t seem like that on paper (including based on watching my brother eat and desperately try to gain weight). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I feel you. I think I’m just flabbergasted because the subtext suggests “if you’re small, you must be miserable: men: is that REALLY what you want?” I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I live to serve, my Lord. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Working on it. Not as easy as chest hair, sadly. Shall I keep you posted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:46 PM |
| 3 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I do have chest hair. I had implanted coz I’m not like other girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:40 PM |
| 3 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I think the point I was making is that (1) while some women gave do to extremes to be a certain way, (2) others do not. And it seems that there’s a weird kind of irritation at the idea that you don’t have to hungry to be a size 2. I don’t get that and it’s being perpetuated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Well, if your point is that “those people are just the exception not the rule” then you’ve made it, I hear you. Everything is relative, of course, but I’m not here to change your view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.That’s not fair. I have friends who are my age who eat just as much, if not less (usually) than me, and are bigger. Genes matter. Also. Basal metabolic rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.For sure. I know a size 2 bottom with 34DD boobs so a 6-8 on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.No I feel you. That’s actually my point. That you don’t need to be counting calories and killing yourself to be small. And that you can still have an ass and boobs and be size 2. One of my best friends has a similar body to yours and it’s banging tho she had to curate her ass by doing squats :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:25 PM |
| 2 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I’m well aware. But the other posts specifically listed size 0-2 as an ideal for men and said that women who are this size are starving and sad (paraphrase). I’m not sure how that’s difficult to understand but I can try typing it out differently if the point isn’t clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.You missed the other posts if you don’t why I’m referencing size 2 or men’s preferences. Either way: you sound like the girls the other post referenced... just to clarify: this post isn’t directed at girls who have to try hard to be petite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.As soon as I get belly fat, I just might do it. Everything else I can live with but not belly fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:12 PM |
| 0 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Well I’m sorry that you have to be intentional about your intakes. My point is that just because it’s you, doesn’t mean it’s true for everyone. One of my best friends gave birth to a beautiful big boy and went back to being a 0-2 immediately. She was in her mid 20s. But the same thing happened to my friend in her mid 30s, but her kid is smaller. I have a friend reaching 40. Yes, she eats healthily by choice but it’s healthy not low calorie. She’s a size 2. If she ate 2 meals instead of 3 plus sn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I’ve already addressed this but my hormonal issues are not the point. The point is: even in my fattest, most unhealthiest form, I was a size 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 01:05 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.You’re not wrong, in general, but I trust my doctor to know me (for obvious reasons). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I laughed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:30 PM |
| 5 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.They seem to care. Go through the sub and you’ll see a whole bunch of shtuff about men lacking empathy by thinking it’s effortless to be small. And then going on to suggest that small women make effort which involves what sounds like an eating disorder to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:30 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I mean. I don’t think this is true. I’m like this because genes. Some people are genetically heavy. My point is ONLY that it’s kind of silly to suggest that smaller girls are sad stalks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.He doesn’t actually care as long as my stress levels are in order. I’m not sure you know what an endocrinologist does but nutrition is only (strictly) relevant for them to the extent that it messes with your hormones. Stress messed with mine. Why are you being so hostile tho? Is something wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.What question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Yes. I’m sure my qualified endocrinologist knows less than you 🤣 Regardless, the point is that it’s entirely possible to be a 2 and live like this and sorry not sorry if it’s not possible for you or anyone else (including me if it ever comes to it). PS this might make you unhappy but I’m losing weight while eating pizza and drinking wine now that I’m not stressed anymore 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I got tubs in the past year when work stress led to insulin resistance. I never got beyond a 2 but I came close and I’m slimming down again slowly (new job). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat".Well. If it makes you feel better, I’m not going to date a tubby guy. I’m pretty small. Not the skinniest anymore but just slightly underweight in terms of BMI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat".Don’t run on the treadmill if you’re trying to lose fat. You’ll end up losing muscle along with it! Keep your heart rate elevated to a max of 20bpm higher then your resting heart rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 11:34 AM |
| 12 | Who should pay on dates?The man, in general. But if he’s not wealthy, then a compromise would be fitting. Although, I dated a guy for a few months and felt like I paid too often. Yes, I had more money but he was a few years older and I felt like he brought nothing much to the table. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Discord for healthy diet / exercise habit building (and hopefully glowing up a level)I’ve messaged you the server link :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/19 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Older women, do you think you can afford to be as picky as you could be when you were younger?I get you, completely. It sounds a bit odd when you think you could pass up on your one true love because they wear sneakers instead of stilettos. I just am realistic about it. My mum and dad were the loves of each other’s lives for almost 30 years. When they met, my dad was healthy and charming and my mum was petite and bubbly. As the years went on, my dad got ill and my mum got fat. he was still charming and she was still bubbly. They were still crazy about each but I don’t think they would’ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/19 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Older women, do you think you can afford to be as picky as you could be when you were younger?Does TRP also tell you to put words in women’s But you’re half right. As women get older, they’re more likely to date a douche in a suit than a nice guy who looks homeless (and not in the shopped at Yeezy way). I also think tho that they’re more likely to date a knight in a suit than a douche in a suit. I don’t think most women who don’t have some form of insecurity or other issues actively want to date a guy who isn’t nice. And by nice I just mean respectful and operating with integrity and wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Older women, do you think you can afford to be as picky as you could be when you were younger?Isn’t it just the red pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/19 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Older women, do you think you can afford to be as picky as you could be when you were younger?I am 28. I’m attractive still. I am more picky in a sense that I won’t date younger guys so that thins out the numbers but I also have a better idea of what I want so I’m more discriminate my interactions. I feel as though as I attract less men than I did at 22 but someone suggested it’s because I’ve stopped going to places where guys in their early 20s congregate and guys in their early 20s are more single and trying to get in your pants than their older counterparts. Regardless, there are less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Can someone give me podcast recommendations?I really like Art of Charm. It’s practical and most of the advice is unisex and what isn’t can be adapted for women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL, Does verbally asking consent really dry pussies?“I’m really into this and we can take it slow but you’ve got to tell me you want me to stop because I don’t want to.” Then stop when she says stop. There’s no question. There’s no response necessary. It’s just a statement saying what you and a statement saying that, regardless of that, you’ll respect what she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL, Does verbally asking consent really dry pussies?I love this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL, Does verbally asking consent really dry pussies?Legit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youInteresting. I’m usually the shortest person in the room. Also, I didn’t say noticeably taller. Taller is enough. At my max heel height, I’m around 172cm tall. That means a guy needs to be over 173cm tall (not over 178cm). Stats show that men in North America, the UK, most of Europe, Australia, NZ, and a decent portion of South America, the Middle East, and Africa are generally above this height. It’s mainly in Asia where the average is lower but there are still countries like Thailand and SKore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youLol I don’t know why you got a down vote for this but yea. Not a bad summary. Mostly, I think, as long as I’m not physically turned off by you (see another comment I made on this thread for a description), I could easily be won over by your sexy ass personality and then boom. I think you’re hot. But there are basic requirements and if they aren’t met, it’s no dice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youNot even. But someone who is taller than me in heels (I’m a small one, coming in at 162cm, but I wear high heels), a dad bod is fine (so I’m okay with some wobble, but not skeletal or fat), decent skin (not full of acne), straightish teeth, a full head of hair or someone who looks good bald (no bald spots tho), and a face that has relatively well-formed features. I think pound for pound, in terms of my physical appearance (which I’m happy to describe via PM if you think it’ll add context), the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Guy says he wants to travel with girl before dating (ie making things official). I call BS. Thoughts?So weird but she actually texted me to say that she spent the first few months trying to make sure he wasn’t a “serial killer”!! Weird weird coincidence. Creepy even. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Guy says he wants to travel with girl before dating (ie making things official). I call BS. Thoughts?Will do, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Sexually liberated women will make bad wivesI’m 100% sexually liberated. I am not ready for a relationship, but I do indulge in casual sex. I currently am a voluntary celibate, because even that gets tired no matter how hot the guys are. I am pretty much a general egalitarian so I fall within the definition of feminist. I’m not going to respond to all the points raised because, as has been pointed out, none of them relate directly to sexual liberation. Bar the fact that I have a serious level of income, I’m pretty traditionally female in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 06:37 AM |
| 4 | How to get grounded in my feminine self? I think I'm pretty stereotypically female but not living it :(I understand what it’s like to be miserable at work so if you can somehow find something else, pls get on that. Beyond that, the smallest piece of easy to do advice I can give is to listen to music to evoke your sensuality. From what you’ve said about yourself, I’d recommend Gymnopédie by Satie. It’s a beautiful classic and light and ethereal. To me, it’s the kind of song that would play as a princess or a perfect Grace Kelly type of woman in an old movie twirled in dappled light, unaware of any… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/19 08:14 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is a married mother by age 29. What do you think?Lol. Wow. But funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4M- How often have you faced hostility or aggression in turning someone down?Constantly. I was at a gay bar living my best life and one of the myriad of straight guys who hit on me was talking to me. I stepped out to chat to my mate coz our friend was drunk and I was worried. Mid-convo, coz i wasn’t paying straight guy any attention, he hit the water he had bought me out of my hand and stormed off. Edit: oops I didn’t read this properly and now see it was directed at men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/19 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Is there a pretty girl privilege?Accurate. I posted about this once and got a lot of flack. But I’m actually now a bit of a cow to guys when I first meet them to see how they react. If they just totally roll over, I know that all they care about is how I look. So. Self-preservation technique for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/19 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Is there a pretty girl privilege?There is, but, if it makes you feel better, there are downsides too ♡ And I’m sure you’ve got your own things going for you which gives you some kind of privilege / advantage too. Like, I’m pretty and petite with boobs. It’s a sweet deal. But I’m not as athletic or well-travelled as one of my best friends, which gets her a ton of points in convo. She’s older and gives of this air of being accomplished. It’s fantastic :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | "Give me half your paychecks or I'll have sex with other dudes."My mum, who was beautiful, married my middle class dad who was 30 years her senior, out of love. She stayed with him til the very end and at some point, fairly early on, out-earned him. We never had serious financial issues and their resources were 100% pooled. She’s still in love with him. SO (I’ll use my ex as a counterpoint, we broke up because he’s not the one but we’re still close friends): You don’t want your resources drained? Get a girl who doesn’t need your money. *My ex, who’s rich af,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/19 09:44 AM |
| 26 | How to deal when guys just want you for sex?Men don’t have a biological clock. They’re not, of necessity, in a hurry to settle down. So, generally, they’ll pass up a hundred amazing opportunities if they’re not ready. Then, when they are ready, they may end up with someone who’s objectively lower quality than his previous options because it’s the right time. So, yes, I do avoid players because I don’t want to waste my time with them. A guy needs to convince me he’s ready for me take him seriously as LTR potential. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Do attractive men, who could easily get hookups, not need the validation from hookups?Sure. But if I’m hungry, I’ll eat wherever is open. It’s not about the restaurant, it’s just about getting full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Do attractive men, who could easily get hookups, not need the validation from hookups?Urgh it’s analogous. But fine. Compare it to exercise or yoga then 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 05:17 PM |
| 27 | How to deal when guys just want you for sex?I have a theory: women look for the right guy and men look for the right time. Find the kind of man who’s time is right and you won’t have this issue. Even if you don’t marry him, it would not be a just for sex thing. Side: I have a persona for which men abandon their commitment to bachelorhood and start to get settled feelings - I don’t date these men. Once the charm wears off, they’ll be off. So I only date guys who are in the space for an LTR. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/19 10:03 AM |
| 11 | What do women who took the redpill think about feminist opinion (in comments) about conformity?If conformity gets you want and you are happy as a result, nothing else matters. I get my eyebrows shaped every second week. I spend a ton of money on blow outs. My nails are always filed and manicured. I will never wear unflattering clothes. A guy I dated recently was always in awe at how even my clothes for lounging at home were so on point. This attitude extends to my home, which is well-decorated, the food I cook, the drinks I serve my guests. Basically, my face and everything about me that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/19 09:58 AM |
| 13 | Do attractive men, who could easily get hookups, not need the validation from hookups?I think it depends on why you hook up with someone. If it’s to feel better about yourself, it’s super beta. If it’s because you just feel like you need to have sex, then it’s not. Sex is like food. Some people need more, some less. If I’m starving, I will eat McDonalds at 3am. But doing that is different than just eating McDonalds when I’m not hungry because food makes me feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.You seem like you are, it you don’t mind me saying, very gracious. Mature. Level-headed. And also powerful. I wish I could work with someone like you. And you were right: you will likely have some valuable insight but I think the context from my end was necessary too as the problem I have is so weird. There isn’t actually a conflict 🤦🏽♀️ I get along extremely well, socially and professionally, with the colleague in question. She just doesn’t like anyone getting too close to our boss. And it’s n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youThat’s fair. I’ll be totally honest, I don’t think a fetish is bad unless someone is being disrespected or something is happening against their will. I don’t know you but you strike me as a respectful man. I am interested tho: what’s your ethnicity and where are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/19 12:44 AM |
| 2 | [Advice] What's your hair routine like? Any secrets, tips, etc?What kinda hair do you have? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youIt sounds like you appreciate her, specifically, not all women that look like her. Also. You sound like you found the one and I don’t know you but I’m still happy for you. I love love love Love :) Anyway. Most common fetishization I’ve seen is in relation to men with Thai women. Less common but very interesting: British and American men fetishize Muslim women. I think it’s the thrill of getting her to go against or something like that turns them on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Lol okay 🤣 it’s only my opinion based on your comments and the things I think are beta. Your comments aren’t the kind I’ve ever experienced irl and you have to make them anonymously. It’s not personal. It’s just that you happen to fall within my definition of beta. Maybe other people have different definitions tho, take heart. And of course you wouldn’t sleep with me. I’m a person you’ll never, ever meet and that you don’t even know. You’ve just created an entire fantasy about how you imagine my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youGirl you sound fascinating and I’d just love to pick your brain coz mine works so differently to yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youI’m not white either but I’m probably easy to fetishize (if we’re assuming the worst). So I’ve grown extremely accustomed to wanton physical validation and I don’t quite know what I’d do with myself in its absence BUT that’s LTR. When I hook up with guys, I pick the hottest ones I can find, talk to them as little as possible (because I’m scared they’ll turn me off with their personalities), then I donkydonk them, thank them, and sashay very far away. — the anger this story elicits out of the mis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 11:13 AM |
| 14 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youI’d date the average guy provided he was actually average and not ugly and that there was initial sexual attraction. For LTRs, I find that no matter how hot someone is, you get accustomed to their hotness and you’re sexually attracted to the person for more than that. If there was no sexual attraction from my side and just the immense validation: I couldn’t do it. I definitely couldn’t date the hot guy as described in this scenario either. So I may well pick being alone. F. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather date someone average looking who thinks you are the most attractive person they've ever seen, or the hottest person you've ever seen who finds your looks just average? Neither will cheat on youHeaven forbid women want to be with a physically attractive men 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 10:24 AM |
| 2 | How to be girly/youthful?Do you know your MBTI type? If you could do the quiz and tell me your type, I’ll give you more tailored advice. The people posting sage wisdom about just enjoying your teens forget that people who are terminally ill look at them and would give the same advice: just enjoy life. It’s not bad advice. It’s just hard to implement. So. If you want something a little different, tell me your type and I’ll give it a go. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I used to cry everyday but now that I have your attention and know that I occupy your mind, I feel much better about myself. I’ll be honest tho, I don’t get why you do it 😅 or why anyone on Reddit behaves like this. I’m new and I’ll probably get bored soon but it’s totally fascinating how many beta men and bitter women are part of these communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.Thank you. Finding support is actually tough because people are so disinclined toward believing that professionals can behave that way and that good-looking can actually be a problem. So being heard is actually something that reduces my anxiety and, really, thank you. The comment made when I was in a meeting with my boss and HR was at the first firm I worked at. I was there 3 years and got this talk in my second year. Just to flesh it out a little further... where I’m from, we have legislation a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I think this is funny because you have no idea what my league is but you just want to take a jab at me because you got the feels. Did someone not want to date you because you’re not hot? I’ll bet on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.I’m a litigator at a large corporate. The only people who don’t have any kinds of interpersonal conflict in my field are secretaries. So I’m not trying to avoid it so much as deal with it. That’s the first part. The second is that I mapped out my experiences and the advice I received from impartial and reliable third parties. Just for avoidance of doubt: I’m not doing anything “wrong” and I’ve worked with a lot of people where only 5 have been imperfect relationships. I’m also not the first pers… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/19 07:09 AM |
| 0 | I feel bullied by women.I’ve already dealt with this under another comment. While I appreciate the advice on a general level, in my context, it’s not useful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Guys who say "I dont want to be a stepdad" just dont like kids to begin with.Maybe responsibilities wasn’t the right word. But yea they’re a burden and they’re also a joy. Good for all the people who are wealthy enough to never feel the burden of supporting kids, but I don’t know many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Guys who say "I dont want to be a stepdad" just dont like kids to begin with.This is like saying people who insist on having biological children don’t really like children because if they did, they would adopt kids. Also, liking kids is very different from accepting the total responsibility, which includes the joy but also the burdens, of raising them. Personally, I would have no problem being a step mum but I also see no value in having biological children and will likely not have any, except if my partner is very attached to the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.Love this. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I make myself look more feminine?Try Lancôme for pale shades of foundation. Also, consider the lightest YSL Touche Éclat stick. You definitely have Angelina vibes so check out her various looks for inspiration. More than that, try to get Kiehl’s Dark Spot Solution and their Micro-Peel Concentrate. The former is amazing for scarring: quickest results I’ve seen from an OTC product and the latter is great for minimizing blackheads. Steam your face once a week for a maximum of 5 minutes and apply the micro-peel nightly. Should sort… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.In the OP, I offered to provide more info for anyone who wanted more context. And in one of the initial responses to a comment, I provided details. I’m assuming you didn’t read that (correct me if I’m wrong and you did), so your knee-jerk response was to “bet” that I was petty and distrustful. it’s kind of ironic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 10:24 AM |
| 3 | I feel bullied by women.Well, I’m sure the reject version of your mum is above average so 🤷🏽♀️ Thanks for taking the time :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 09:10 AM |
| 2 | I feel bullied by women.I love that you can relate. It makes me feel so much less ridiculous (that’s how I’ve been feeling). Also, as a kid, I would’ve thought being as beautiful as someone like your mum (I don’t think I am) would be great but now I’m just grateful that I’m not. It’s more hassle than it’s worth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.This used to be my attitude by corporate is a snake pit ya know? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I feel bullied by women.I’m 28 but this started when I was 22. I look a bit younger than 28 because I’m short and small. But yea I get you. I think charming is the problem in my system. Have you watched New Girl? I’m a little clumsy and I did a clumsy thing and said “oh I’m Jessica day”. So someone said who and I said “this character in new girl who’s really quirky and perky and a bit clumsy”. And one of my (really nice) female bosses chimed in “yea and they’re both really beautiful too”. So. I think. The majority of w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to man. And if not me, c’est la vie. Not sure where you got the idea that I’d think anything to the contrary but I trust you’re satisfied that there’s one less hypocrite on the internet today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 06:33 AM |
| 4 | I feel bullied by women.If I did that, I wouldn’t be taken seriously by the majority of the people who currently do take me seriously :( it’s just one thorn in my side but I read somewhere that if people like you, they don’t get out their way to make your life better; but if they don’t like you, they’ll go out their way to make your life worse. Still. I’ll give this a go when I’m one on one with the thorn in my side. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/19 06:31 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.My most recent LT ex and his whole family would be sick if he came home with someone who wasn’t in corporate, a doctor, a successful businessperson, or a PhD type doing pro bono work. My social circle is large, multinational and comprised entirely of men and women who meet those requirements. In their own shallow way, some guys just lives where they can’t afford to introduce a nail technician to a bunch of bankers and prospective clients. It might not be most men, but I think I’ve made it clear … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 06:26 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Seriously? Most guys I know are over this height. Maybe it’s just the region I’m from. If I found that I was surrounded by shorter men though I might revise this to being taller than me in heels. Which isn’t so hard to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Definitely doesn’t need to be nice. I’m not nice. I date corporate guys because they’re tough and swift. With nice guys, I feel like I have to put kid gloves on to make sure I don’t hurt them. I’m blunt, my sense of humor is wicked, my honest is brutal, and I will leave you in a heartbeat if you’re not what need post initial agreement to date you. If all you listen to is Viennese Philharmonic, you’ll be bored at a Post Malone show and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Why was there so much backlash for women over how she wants to treat her husband?I don’t do this stuff but I despise women (and men) who police what other men do. Mona Lisa Smile with Julia Roberts touches on these things beautifully. A woman who has the ability to be a Fortune 500 CEO derived pleasure from being a stay at home, domestic goddess wife? Good for her. A mama that’s out there, putting herself first (without neglecting her husband and kid) and being the ultimate girl boss? Get it. One isn’t better than the other unless your values say they are and if those are yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | I feel bullied by women.This is sound advice. Thank you. And really easy to implement. Touch wood, I have good relationships with most people I work with, including women. It’s just my tough luck I think that of the 1000s of women who are amazing and of the few of them that impact my life, I’ve had 3 powerful women behave badly. Also. Just for context. I’m making an assumption with regard to the third one coz her behavior mirrors the first two. So being cautious is definitely smart as I don’t have concrete evidence in … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Seth Rogen fixed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I make myself look more feminine?I don’t think you need more makeup than that. Do you have dry skin, oily skin, combo skin? Also, what is your ethnicity and undertone? I might be able to recommend a different brand of makeup. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 09:52 PM |
| 6 | I feel bullied by women.I’ve already given detailed info on this thread and you’re welcome to look at it but your comment isn’t helpful in and of itself so I’m not going to delve any further here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Hmmm. On that note, if we substituted ugly for dumb or boring, would it still be problematic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.🤣🤣🤣 honestly, it’s because it’s the minimum threshold. Put differently, if I was running a science program (in an English-speaking country), you’d need good grades in math, physics, chemistry and English. No matter how great your math, physics and chemistry grades are: English is the minimum threshold. So I set that at 60% and then, once you’ve got that in the bag, I look at the rest of your grades to see if you have a chance of passing. But you can’t get in without English because you’ll never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:55 PM |
| 0 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Does that make you an asshole for not sugarcoating what you just said? I mean, I don’t think you are but just by extension of the logic 🤷🏽♀️ Anyway. I draw a line at comparing physical and mental disabilities to the fact that someone is not attractive. The two aren’t comparable. You can do it if you like but I won’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I mean. Even if I had no options, would I be less entitled to feel this way? Also, there’s no way of assessing the truth in my statement so if a person doesn’t believe it, why engage with the point instead of just saying “I think you’re a big fat liar” or not engaging at all? You don’t have to answer of these, I’m just musing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Oh I think I clarified that I was speaking from a liberal western standpoint? My ex (it didn’t work out because he’s not the One but we’re close friends now) ticked all the boxes. He would never date a girl that didn’t have a college degree. Once, when I qualified top of my class in one of these additional post grad things I took, he told me that one of the reasons he loved me was because I was smart. It took coming top of that class tho for him to make that specific comment. So obviously, the k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:41 PM |
| 6 | I feel bullied by women.My clothes are not revealing. I have one dress that I might wear once every 2 or 3 months (so maybe 10 times in a year, MAX) that displays cleavage. I haven’t worn it at the new place though. If I wear a skirt that is above knee length, I wear it with opaque black tights. Clothes worn by other women in the work place are more revealing than the clothes I wear but my wardrobe is pretty “professional chic”. At the first place of employ, one of the girls wore skirts so short that she was unable to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 08:33 PM |
| 18 | I feel bullied by women.The problem is that, in my field, you work with a host of seniors and (luckily, I guess?) those include women. I get what you mean in re the men not always being great but, tbh, many women seem to make the lives of anyone woman they see as a potential threat hard. And we live in a world where beauty is a seen as a strength / something prized in women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Sort of accurate. I think my definition of good looking is a fairly low threshold though. But I’m sure everyone thinks that 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I love this analogy! (I’m a sucker for similes, metaphors and, in general, analogies.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:19 PM |
| 4 | I feel bullied by women.I get that. I’m sorry for your experiences. Mine haven’t been so bad. The worst I have to deal with socially is women competing with me when I’m not even playing the game. But it doesn’t affect me. PS I think your English is great. I’m barely bilingual so I think it’s really impressive :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Lol I mean. Again. I’m not saying you are but you just sound so so so bitter. You’ll see other people have not agreed with my stance and I’ve taken their points so, no, I’m not looking for an echo chamber. I use Reddit to bounce ideas around and evolve a thought based on feedback because there’s space to do it here. But in relation to you, specifically, I’m replying because I honestly find you utterly fascinating. You seem so deeply moved by this post and I have no idea why because I don’t find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 08:15 PM |
| 18 | I feel bullied by women.I didn’t expect this kind of hostility, taken aback to be honest :) Before I describe my experiences, please consider reading Lean In regarding the difference in treatment of men and women. Also, and I’m not sure if this came across, my mentor was truly just a great mentor to me: but I couldn’t tell people what he told me about the HOD because people would have suggested his motives were sexual. Anyway, here’s the breakdown I promised to give if called upon to do so: Anyway, I worked with a tota… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 0 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.That seems like it (assuming I understand your understanding of my OP lol). The reason physical attractiveness is nb to me is because sexual attractiveness is crucial for me when I date someone and - long story short - if you are, for example, overweight, I just can’t make the sexual chemistry happen. On that note, I remember thinking Chris Jericho was the hottest man alive at some stage and my friends were repulsed. That’s why I defined my version of “ugly” later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 07:40 PM |
| 4 | How do you get out of the friendzone when a guy showed he was attracted to you before?I think the key here is that they said it didn’t matter because you didn’t - ie it could matter if you did. People have certain biases, even if it feels illogical (I used an example just today: if Channing Tatum is hot does he stop being hot if i find out he’s got no penis?). | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 07:35 PM |
| 4 | I feel bullied by women.Thank you for that. I’ll look into that blog. And thanks for clarifying what the the focus of the group is. I could definitely benefit from advice on that score (all women could imo). | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I never said I was high value at all. Just that I will only date a certain kind of man. Objectively, I think anyone that is good looking, smart, funny, successful, self-sufficient, well-liked by peers, well-travelled, physically fit, well-educated, multilingual, well-read, and kind (in no particular order) are special. I think this list is quite wide and can be narrowed down but I don’t have the will to go through theses written on these topics because it’ll take a while to gather the data but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Okay I understand what you’re saying. I might even agree. I see value engaging with you. So please explore this with me, if you don’t mind? I come stuck with the argument because I can’t control who I find sexually attractive. I once was sexually attracted to an unattractive man. I just felt so much chemistry. But as soon as we kissed and my body pressed against his belly, it melted away. The belly wasn’t a surprise. I knew he had a belly. But it wasn’t the idea of it that turned me off, but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Oh I see what you mean. I don’t think all women think like me though. Some women date men who are objectively not that special. And are happy with them too. I have a few pretty friends who do this. And they’re not just pretty. We’ve all got post grad qualifications, nice corporate jobs, a fair amount of money, social capital, I could go on but you get the picture. I can tell you more detailed examples if you like but I don’t want to bore you. So let me know if you want to hear about those and I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Ah. I had a disabled cousin, so I don’t take such comparisons lightly. Let’s agree to disagree on the connotations of the comparison :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I’d get if you were OP but you literally just took energy to comment here and I can’t quite fathom why. Why tell a stranger on the webs that you don’t like people like them? How does it benefit you (forget about anyone else)? Maybe it’s because of my distorted sense of reality (or however you phrased it) that I don’t see the value but - caveated with my having no idea who you are - to me you sound bitter. That’s nothing to be ashamed of obviously so I’m not trying to shame you. It’s just an obse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | How can I make myself look more feminine?Angelina Jolie sounds like she has similar features to you btw. Ideas: Long, soft wavy hair - or as close to that as possible. I would suggest softening the color of your hair with both highlights and lowlights. Make sure your skin looks great. Then wear BB cream and concealer. Save heavy make up for only the most necessary occasions. I would skip contouring. I think it can make women look even more chiseled and you don’t need that. Then I’d wear peach / pink (depending on your undertone) blush … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Ugly isn’t “worthless” but I’m not sexually attracted to physically unattractive men. If you think a person’s ability to attract sex determines their worth, that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 06:00 PM |
| -1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Do you think being ugly (as I described in my OP) is similar to having a disability? I’m not disagreeing but I’m interested in your POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I don’t need to. If you think someone who insists that someone is physically attractive (defined) and smart/funny/successful is shallow, so be it. I can’t metaphorically get my dick up for someone who isn’t attractive no matter who amazing that person might be, just like I couldn’t get it up for an empty head no matter how pretty the person was. If you can, good for you. You have way more options to mate with than I do. And if you think that gives you depth, I’m happy for you. Also, lol, “a fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Of course they are, and I’m entitled to think that they shouldn’t respond that way. Your point is circular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I mean, if you’re not prepared to read past the first sentence, you’re missing key context. But who am I to judge your comprehension abilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 04:50 PM |
| -2 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I can’t actually respond until you share your definition of shallow 🙂 So, if you would be so kind as to clarify, what is your definition of shallow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.You’re right. It’s mean. I take your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.So, my interpretation of shallow is that it denotes a lack of depth. But I get what you’re saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Yea if the penis isn’t equal then, no, I don’t want it but I don’t how what a trans man’s penis is like. And I think it’s because I don’t see the logic behind finding someone attractive then finding them unattractive because they’re not cis. And it’s my own absence of logic that bugs me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I understand why that can be hurtful if you’re trans but I’m not sure I would want to date a trans man either. I know that’s illogical because if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck and I like ducks so it’s not a physical attraction issue, it’s my own mental barrier and something I personally think I should work on. But Jonah Hill versus Channing Tatum is a completely different prospect to Channing Tatum versus Channing Tatum that didn’t always have a penis (I think). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.It’s not that I don’t want backlash: it’s that I don’t think there should be backlash. And because I think x and clearly other people think y, I figured this particular sub would be a good space for a discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.It’s, I think, a fascinating development in our cultural evolution. Much more controversial I think are those people that say “I don’t find black women attractive”. I tried setting up a French guy I hooked up with with a pretty, black friend and this was his response. I know that people will argue that his feelings are “wrong” but I mean. You can’t control who gets you going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.I feel you. It seems to be an online thing I’ve noticed. People get real, real upset. And I find it anthropologically fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | I won’t date an ugly guy. But I won’t date a guy who’s a pretty face with an empty brain. I’m not shallow.Yea maybe I just lack the interest in sugar coating things. You don’t want to date a gay girl, fair play to you. I have no idea why it upsets people so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | 20s to 30s: Dressing young, feminine and conservative during the summerCoz I can’t spell. Sorry. https://instagram.com/melisekrem?igshid=vw3vxsdq03k4 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/19 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Doubting my beliefs and feeling stuck.You will find your tribe. I am the queen of parties and people and glitter and lights. My best friend finds that lifestyle exhausting. We don’t do those things together. We do other things together. And my best friend has her own tribe of many other people like her. Her tribe is smaller than mine because quality is nb because investment happens (whereas with me, it’s just about having fun so it doesn’t matter if you care about me or not we can still hang - low investment). So. Good luck. You’ll … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | 20s to 30s: Dressing young, feminine and conservative during the summerMelise Eikrem on Instagram has great style. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/19 09:13 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter