soflymcfly Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	On love and becoming a better self...	Inner Game	soflymcfly	/r/seduction	23/10/12 02:14 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Where can we get an objective rating on our appearances? Subreddits: /r/seduction People here will generally be honest with you. Everyone has a similar goal. There are other places on reddit as well. Sure there will be some assholes but this and other subreddits are a solid place to get it. Here are some: /r/malefashionadvice /r/Fitness /r/Rateme /r/amiugly /r/AmISexy Real life people: You you could ask friends or other people in your life. There are also style consultants in stores and other private companies that you can pay for objective, usually h…	/r/seduction	25/11/13 02:52 AM
1	Entering college this fall - should I wait a little before hitting on girls? Yes, yes you are! It's probably more conducive in a place like your going than a lot of other places. Seriously.	/r/seduction	17/08/13 04:04 AM
1	What's the line of cute/spontaneous and creepy? This. This is the answer. Furthermore, you need to be the one who can constantly audit and adjust your own calibration to match the current state of the social interaction. Plus you need to know when and how to adjust other people's calibration through your own. Example: Say you open a girl way too energetically and she's taken aback by it you need to recognize you came in too hard and adjust (calibrate) your state to hers. Maybe step back and calm down. If you don't, she'll think you're creepy.…	/r/seduction	06/05/13 04:02 AM
17	I have no openers... Need daygame group openers. I'm sorry but the serious answer for this is to just be like "what up guuuurlll???" And not give a fuck! Okay that was a bad answer. Stick to situational shit. "Yo what's up, look at that [situational shit]!!!"	/r/seduction	14/04/13 07:57 PM
1	On love and becoming a better self... Here's a gentle reminder to all of you fine folks of seddit: I know you all want to find love and get good with the ladies but don't forget about you. Remember to have fun and wildly chase your passions. There's nothing wrong with checking the women out along the way, but be sure you are having fun. Have a good day and do something you love today. You just may meet the girl of your dreams doing it.	/r/seduction	23/10/12 02:18 AM
1	Any advice increasing interactions when you work the typical 8-5? Hey, thanks man, I'm glad I could be of assistance. By the way, it's late and I'm tired but there is more I want to say on this topic, because you have lots of hope here. So check back here at some point I'm either going to add comments to this post to give you some more information or I'm just going to make my own post and I'll link you to it here. I just need to do this when I am more awake and clear headed. But before I sign off this post I want to hit on something(s?) you said: There are jus…	/r/seduction	01/05/12 06:15 AM
1	Any advice increasing interactions when you work the typical 8-5? There are ways around this, it just requires a lot of work. Work that may pay off because girls you may be interested in also work and live a similar lifestyle as you, the traditional long day. So, just think about when you have free time and think about your personality. What do you like to do: party on the weekends or do some thing a bit more quiet, perhaps a mix of both? Let's just say its a mix of both. Here are somethings you could do to meet available women: Go Out and get Breakfast in the…	/r/seduction	01/05/12 04:26 AM
2	How do I react to gestures that the girl is gonna keep moving? First, she just may not have been interested in you or she could have just had somewhere to be. (That's just the simple basic stuff) But, if none of that was true, I think you may have been better off opening with something different, perhaps a little more loose, like asking for the time or directions or something like that. Then once you've interacted for a bit you could have been like "hey, I think I recognize you from somewhere... (here she'll likely respond with something like "Oh really, wh…	/r/seduction	01/05/12 04:01 AM