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Don’t ask don’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:03 AM
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Probably because we have been conditioned to see high N count people as damaged or used goods. Which is typically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:12 AM
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It’s used in a way to dismiss negative perceptions towards them. “He doesn’t like ____ therefore he must be insecure!” We don’t have to be accepting of certain things women say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:35 PM
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“And there are frankly zero flags in her life” Tf sort of delusion is this?? People don’t change! If she’s cheated before she will do it again. Trust is gone, relationship is done. The kid is not glue for their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:37 AM
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If a woman’s response to getting hurt is to fuck any dude as a form of validation she is damaged goods. Pick a better gf man, this one ain’t it. People don’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:59 PM
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You’ll attract women when you’re chasing money but you won’t attract money when you’re chasing women. Somehow you’ve reversed this. I’d focus on the money, not the women. But you can find the balance of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:20 AM
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Travel and make money with some hoes along the way. What will be more memorable? 50 countries or 50 hoes? I choose the meaningful experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:36 PM
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If it’s just casual sex then a womans N count doesn’t matter, at least to me. But for a LTR most men wouldn’t want to commit to a woman who’s been passed around. It’s not shallow, it’s being selective. High N count men and women are often damaged in some ways and use sex to fill a void. Depending on the underlying reasons it can affect their ability to pair bond amongst other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:35 PM
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It does when they allow it to define them, which is a choice. People shouldn’t be openly discussing their past regardless, unless they are looking to relive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:13 PM
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I hate to be negative but from my own experience these people don’t change. Very similar situation for me, she had no one and made me her world. I don’t feel bad for leaving her since she was dragging me down and her poor choices got her to where she is in life. You’re not there to fix her, know your worth king.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:05 PM
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Having to consistently reassure someone is draining. The damage is done. I would never again be with an insecure and fragile person with low self esteem and no self worth. What happens when she doesn’t feel validated by you? She seeks it elsewhere, history can repeat itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:53 PM
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Fuck that. I had that and it’s not sustainable. Damaged goods, not LTR material. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:35 PM
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This is facts. My most recent experience was that she was so emotionally damaged she just isn’t functional for anything aside from casual sex. Hoes are good for sex and fun, that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:36 AM
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Facts. They are ultimately undesirable since they haven’t acquired any sustainable value in their prime years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:09 AM
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The arbitrary number is not important as it does not define men or women. Underlying reasons that attribute to the number are what you would want to understand. The most damaged women I have met have had high counts as a result of trauma and poor mental health. They have also been incredibly toxic. Men should care about this, it’s not shallow to pass up a woman on this basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:45 AM
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No, because it often leads to more problems such as low self esteem, low confidence, laziness, and insecurity. Different story if they’re putting in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:47 PM
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Depends on your love language. Words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Personally, I do not emotionally validate women. I am not highly emotional so I give reassurance in other ways I.e quality time and physical touch. Women do not want to be smothered but they also do not want to be treated like an option. Balance is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:48 AM
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Women fuck who they want and marry who they can. Men fuck who they can and marry who they want. Men and women with similar sexual experience are not the same. It really comes down to their values and reasons for having casual sex. You can commit to anyone regardless of when you have sex but it’s important to understand how they value and perceive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:05 AM
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