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I feel the exact same way! My mom was one of those people who never should've had children and would've been happier and (honestly) more successful and fulfilled without us. She made sure we knew that, too. I'm the oldest of 8. I think my mom was the victim of her own religion too, thinking that reproducing her God's earth as much as she could was the most honorable thing she could do. It's really influenced the way I view motherhood, and topics like this. One reason I am interested in hearing h…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 07:05 PM
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I may also be biased and the aggressive child free thing could just be the company I've found myself in. A lot of my past coworkers/accquantences/friends I've known since grade school are younger (early 20s), liberal, "feminist" women
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 06:11 PM
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I actually agree with you, I think I just worded it weird. When I said aggressively childfree I was trying to make a comparison between the two extremes so the people who are plain hateful about kids and think they're nothing but a taint on the enviroment (Which maybe that's not a modern thing either lmao) not really people who are simply childfree vs those who are all "no birth control, no protected sex, all the babies". Also, more power to you! Athiest RPW here too
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 06:04 PM
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I can totally see what you mean by that. Sometimes it's harder to embrace those feminine qualities (like grace) when you're in those early newborn days with two older toddlers (ask me how I know. Lmao) I feel women are fueled by self love, and pour that love outwards. If I'm not taking care of myself (getting enough sleep, getting dressed everyday to feel good about myself, eating right etc) I find my self love meter runs low and reflects in my behaviors as a woman, a wife, a mother. So it makes…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 05:57 PM
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This realization of the unfairness in feminism is what drove me away from feminism. I used to see it all the time. In my friend circles, on internet comments, in moms groups... ....so he should be helping at least 50 percent at home...waking up at night with a baby...staying up for the bedtime routine...cleaning, cooking...but also working and providing everything...gentle and able to converse like a woman.....sensitive...but also must be a manly man man who is tough and can "take your shit" (ak…
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 03:53 PM
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Tldr: I see cross between values of very religious people and people who follow RP. Do you believe similarly to eachother in terms of child rearing, too? Let's discuss
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 02:54 PM
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I meant I see some cross in terms of values like honoring your husband, allowing him to lead, traditional gender role stuff. A lot of red pill women tend to be Christians, and a lot of the "Godly" women I know follow the, "never blessed with more kids than you can handle", but I'm a non religious RPW so just wanted to start discussion on where other RPW stand. Maybe I didn't word it as efficiently as I meant
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 02:52 PM
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Femininity to me is your presence being able to compliment everything around you, your spouse, your children, your friends, any room you walk in, any environment. Femininity is comforting, welcoming, understanding, it IS the persona of grace.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 12:41 PM
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Better hygeine...better sex...hitting the gym to better himself....he's punctual....these are all good things. Don't ruin a good thing because you're being insecure. Unless you genuinely have a GOOD reason to think he's being unfaithful, which I'm sure you would've listed here. Be grateful
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 12:21 PM
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If you're ANY good with dough, homeade pizza dough is super easy to make, so much better than store bought, and I think men like that tend to admire a woman being able to make something delicious from scratch. I've been making our own bread products for years and every single loaf my husband still acts like I'm a magical Goddess for lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 12:15 PM
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Thank you so much to everyone for your responses! I can't reply to everything, but I did want to come back to the last part of your comment. We were both raised heavily religious and no longer associate ourselves with Christianity like that, but we still both agree with a "biblical type" marriage being the most beneficial for a family and relationship. He grew up in an all woman household raised by his grandmother and mom and never had a male influence to actually guide him, so from what I under…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 05:31 PM
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I have a lot of hormonal issues so I take the hormonal combination birth control pill and it has been awesome for me. Really balances me out, but I know this isn't the case for everyone. I like it because it's non invasive and if I wanna decide to stop taking it then I don't have to book a Dr's appt and get something taken out, I can just discontinue it
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 07:08 AM
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This is me as well. I wouldn't really consider myself conservative, but I'm no liberal by any means either. Most of the people I've been friends with since grade school are STRONG liberal raging feminazis
/r/RedPillWives30/09/22 02:28 AM
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I love tattoos, my husband and I are both covered. I find his so attractive, and I love that when he's all dressed up in a suit and cleaned up, you can still see them peaking onto his hands lol. It's all up to preference! Up to you to decide if that's a deal breaker for you. I know some people consider them unattractive, trashy, etc
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 03:47 PM
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My husband is very spiritual and I am an atheist. I'll admit there was a period of time early in our relationship where it did bother me, it felt "silly" and I knew it was something that meant so much to him so I never would've voiced that opinion, but I'm sure he could tell it made me uncomfortable to talk about. I've learned to look at it in a different light now, and I often listen to him talk about it and respond appropriately. He says it doesn't bother him, because I'm his biggest supporter…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 08:58 PM
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My husband is very spiritual and I am an atheist. I'll admit there was a period of time early in our relationship where it did bother me, it felt "silly" and I knew it was something that meant so much to him so I never would've voiced that opinion, but I'm sure he could tell it made me uncomfortable to talk about. I've learned to look at it in a different light now, and I often listen to him talk about it and respond appropriately. He says it doesn't bother him, because I'm his biggest supporter…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 08:58 PM
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Resentment is a dangerous place in a marriage. I'm sorry to hear about your mom's cancer. I know it can be hard not to, but try to remind yourself every day that your husband wouldn't willingly choose for everything to have to be harder on you (at least I hope not) and that this is temporary. Me and my husband shared one car the first 4 years or our marriage and I was the only one that could drive because he had a suspended license. I had to wake our two babies up at 5 am and drive him to work e…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 01:01 PM
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My oldest turns 4 next week and I'm pretty stressed about his coming party this weekend, to be honest. I haven't hosted a party due to covid since 2019. I decided to handmake all the food, cake, and decorations. We still have to clean up the yard (pool party), I haven't even BOUGHT the stuff for the party yet. I'm worried about nobody showing up and disappointing my son. My mom keeps telling me I'm putting too much stress on myself and to just do pizza and hit up the dollar store for decorations…
/r/RedPillWives20/09/22 12:34 PM
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I actually read this at the perfect time. Thank you for the post. I've been really struggling with having faith in my husband to make the best choices for us and releasing my control over to him. (Its not a him issue at all. Its a me being hesitant to let go of mt control issue) Tonight we discussed something that would've put my defense up a year ago, but instead I sat back, listened, and admired his confidence in handling the decision making pertaining this situation. And there was a treat in …
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 05:15 AM
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Definitely have to just find the right guy. They're not all like that. I was so sure I was a lesbian for the longest time for the same reasons...until I met my husband. Of course it's different with women. They know their own body and what they like, so it gives them a step ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 03:59 PM
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