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Ah yes and tv show is real life. The character and personas are all fantasy Edit: I’m sorry didn’t mean to be snarky, it’s just a known thing in the lgbt like lesbians having crush on Hannibal or Sherlock. It’s wild to think because those are real life men that that attraction transfers to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:33 PM
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In my eyes, need to act on it is what makes someone sexual. No want or need to act on it makes you asexual. Of course though it’s whatever you feel comfy with. It’s like, if a lesbian gets crushes on fictional men or tv show actors, not on every day men, that still makes them a lesbian. The fantasy is just that, fantasy. No real life initiative to peruse real people or in this hypothetical, pursue real life men, change the fact that they’re still a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:48 PM
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Asexual can be a spectrum bro, it’s described as “little to no” and having no desire to be with a physical person or have intercourse sounds like you fit the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:02 AM
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This analogy is nice in theory, but it doesn’t give room for the perceived party to grow and change in some ways as we inevitably do. The mansion could easily have an event happen in their life that changes them to a weed infested lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:27 PM
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The female gaze is real and no one in this subreddit ever acknowledges it. Let’s take Tarzan for example, he’s a shredded god but he’s a caring thing and he portrays that through the movie. It’s harder to portray that loving side with just shredded abs and a “thoughtful description”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:03 PM
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I think certain people are just not built for relationships due to their formative experiences. Plus I don’t think it’s fair to say that women in general are disrespectful to those that don’t need or want them in their life, that’s just your own personal experience. I’ve personally never heard or experienced anyone to get angry over something like that. So again, I don’t think you’re built for a relationship because of those experiences, but that doesn’t matter since you’re life is running smoot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:29 PM
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I got 119 masculinity and 115 femininity. Not surprised that I’m almost evenly androgynous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:16 AM
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I think this is something that women don’t want to let go of in the double standard bc it’s something that directly effects their taste. It’s all “Yes! Men can wear makeup and nail polish” till they do something like wear heals in a masculine way now suddenly they feel lied to. For me personally, I’d be lying if I said I’d be a bit disappointed if after a couple dates with a guy I noticed he’s shrunk. But thats probably just like how some people already pointed out, how guys have to deal with pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:42 PM
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Bro what even is your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:43 AM
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Wow it’s almost like lack of experience makes people dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:42 AM
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As a 21 yr old I agree. I had 0 relationship experience turning 18 and got taken advantage of by older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:27 PM
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You’re right, nothings stopping them and shitty people are shitty, won’t change the fact that this sorta beliefs are engrained in us. It’s all based in internalized misogyny, almost like preforming more “traditional” in the courting sense with someone you like will ensure longevity of a relationship because traditional is what we’re taught is the effective stable way. It’s also to keep from getting attached too quickly I think. Like falling head over heels and having a good connection sexually? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:35 AM
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I’m shocked that this is even a concern or not obvious, I really didn’t think that this would be confusing it’s an eye opener to see someone express concern about this. Sleeping with someone on the first date, especially with someone you like, is basically cursed because they might leave cause “they got what they wanted”. Growing up with a mom that told me 24/7 thats all that men want out of women and also in some cases experiencing guys leaving after sex has really drilled in my mind at least t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:34 AM
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Cheekbones. Idk why but it just does it for me, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:06 PM
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I think it’s nice to have someone passionate just as I am for a career, idk if that has anything to do with gender. Plus, financially it’s nice to have both parties racking in the dough I think also the current market is evening out when it comes to one or the other gender making money to the point where both needs to in order to live comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:12 AM
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The way I look at is is that men work on their arms, so they wear tanks to show them off and to look at their pump. Women work on their butts, shows their pump and their progress. I don’t think showing off your progress is inherently sexual, those things are just inherently attractive. Like a guy with nice arm muscle pump or a girl with a nice booty pump strutting their stuff. But because women are more sexualized it’s a bigger problem for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:37 AM
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Short answer, no. Women’s life don’t revolve around relationships. Long answer, I can understand where your coming from mainly because posts relating to relationship venting are the most reposted by others whether it’s because it’s relatable or cringe. But truly, no man, those posts are just the ones to get the most traction, especially if you’re perusing subs like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:39 PM
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I see the argument that “oh well if he loves me for more than that I don’t need to do anything” but as a woman w a high libido, I’d find it somewhat annoying to be dating someone I can’t be intimate with in that way. I say somewhat, not to the point of breaking up because I feel like I could be contempt with toys and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:58 PM
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Why would date other women be your argument lmfao what, the orgasm rate for lesbian couples is like 95% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:55 PM
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Started around 3rd grade (I think 8yrs old?) when I began to be sexualized. Mind you, I wouldn’t consider myself to have had a traumatizing childhood or an abuser, I don’t know I guess it’s just “reality” I was at an inflatable play park and I was sneaking around with this kid my age in hide and seek, I was in front and dude for some reason started groping my butt. I didn’t think it was a bad thing, more just “omg he thinks I’m attractive” maybe because of movies? I don’t know. For some reason m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:19 PM
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In context to society and the ol patriarchy yeah, female infidelity is worst then male, but emotionally and within the closed relationship between the partners they should be looked at the same and treated the same because thats “what really counts”. It’s shitty that men aren’t given the emotional response that women are given for having been cheated on, but thats because of the patriarchy blah blah whatever and men supposed to be “tougher” and whatnot. In fact, a lot of the issue you bring up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:39 AM
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Not to be too much of a sap but the only thing that would bother me is him not writing poetry anymore, all the other things are material but poetry is emotional expression :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:56 AM
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I feel like an ass comparing myself to my friend with our looks but here I go. Only recently have I had sex for the first time, this past semester she had it for the first time too. I’m conventionally more attractive than her but with her guys seem to hit her up more for sexual things more outright, and she goes and does it. She got laid more times than I ever could this past semester but that might just be me and my own prudishness. But it still stands, she hooks up w what I consider to be aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:51 AM
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Can’t say thats true as a female, I talk about being horny w my friends and we’re horned up 24/7. Only thing is is we all share religious and social trauma in that department so we don’t just go out and get it when we want. Socially it’s still engrained in women not to have high body counts for the most part, or at least down here in the south
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:12 AM
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