softheartedcynic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	‘Tis the season🎄 If that’s true....... im really sorry. It really sucks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 02:43 PM
14	‘Tis the season🎄 I think this is also the case with my ex— he loves the attention, he loves the newness, he loves the idea of being wanted and being needed and “landing” a woman. At least I have to imagine so, because he kept a list of women he fooled around with. I left him for being a serial cheater. It’s like a drug to him. He’s already a horny person, and then you add in the obsession with being relevant to people and you’ve got ... Someone you definitely shouldn’t trust with your more delicate feelings. It …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 09:18 AM
40	‘Tis the season🎄 I laughed at trauma bonding lite, and I don’t know why. To anyone going through this, please admit to yourself that you look forward to texts. Don’t deny that part of yourself; accept it entirely. Just don’t act on it. Don’t ever respond.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 07:24 AM
4	The characteristics of a High Value Man Thank you, that’s very sweet. I’m sure it will be helpful for me to read some of the comments here	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 11:41 AM
14	The characteristics of a High Value Man Thank you, I appreciate the reply. I will do this, and try to keep my values in mind when I’m looking for someone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 07:44 PM
23	The characteristics of a High Value Man Ok I admit when I read about the communication skills I got a little wet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 07:19 PM
106	The characteristics of a High Value Man I didn’t have an incredibly healthy childhood and I grew up very insecure, moody, and angry. I get very easily attached to people if there’s a spark, and I think it’s because (though I’ve improved a lot) I do not really completely love myself, and I worry I never will. I’m afraid I won’t ever become a “high value” woman myself because I didn’t have a picture perfect upbringing and... Honestly, I keep thinking wanting a man like what’s described here might be too much for me to ask. I have and al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 07:17 PM
22	Anyone else just fed up with men and their excuses? Man why is it I always felt like I had to train my ex like a fucking dog? Don’t say that to her, that’s inappropriate. Don’t point that out in front of people, that’s awkward. Don’t make a joke like that, it’s personal. Don’t try to pick fight in front of our friends, we’re having fun. “Sorry, sorry, I didn’t realize it was insensitive. I won’t do it again.” Fast forward we’re in a group setting again and all he does is talk to me like I’m a walking punchline for entertainment purposes. “Sorry, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 11:20 PM
20	Anyone else just fed up with men and their excuses? Yeah, all of this. All of this is what I’ve been thinking forever. I can think of maybe 3 men I’ve known my whole life who aren’t excuse-making little bitches when it comes to their relationships. Everything they do to fuck up is “a joke, don’t take it seriously”, “not that big of a deal, get over it” or “part of my depression/mental illness and I’m really trying not to be that way, I swear”. Unfortunately, beside every man making a million excuses is a woman making a million excuses for him. I’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 11:15 PM
4	How do you deal with relationships with people? I’m just a lurker, but thank you so much for this.. it was very healing for me to read. Thank you so much.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/18 08:13 AM