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Discussionsoftkittypinkkitty/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:27 AM
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I didnt know bumble had a height filter!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:20 AM
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You can look good while being very unhealthy, it doesn’t always show on the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:06 AM
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like real life or online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:04 AM
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Ew that’s actually infuriating, I can imagine myself losing my shit going “Why the fuck would I lie about this” Assuming you’re lying is offensive in itself but assuming you’re lying about something so insignificant then demanding proof is controlling. Also weight shit can be uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:56 AM
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that is unreadable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah I agree with that, but I don’t get working out being considered unnatural
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:41 AM
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Men shit on other men who are jacked like they’re on laxatives. The jealousy is impossible to miss. It sometimes manifests itself differently than in women but it’s still very much there. I take care of my body and being conscious about what I eat, working out regularly contribute to health as well but I don’t claim to be healthy. It’s more of a looks thing for me. As for the body positivity movement, maybe I’m not who you’re talking about there but I’m not bothered by it at all let alone infuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:28 AM
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Huh that is also true now that I think about it haha. And I see a lot of “fuck it I’m going on tren” when they see a big dude. I think the body issues gym guys have are very similar and very different at the same time with womens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:09 AM
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so true!! best environment to meet organically, in my experience everyone that was single had an app tinder or something. Even if they didnt use it, it would just stay on their home screen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:59 AM
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I get being anti gun lol i meant the paranoid part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:42 AM
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If I’m friends with someone it’s because I enjoy being friends with them lol it’s not really about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:38 AM
0

So you just assume everything is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:35 AM
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They also love saying “Women aren’t into that” to jacked guys thinking they did something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:31 AM
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Oh they make sure you know it’s not a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:20 AM
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and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:17 AM
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Ok thank god this is the first comment lol. It’s one thing when people think I’m torturing myself but it’s more annoying being told it’s just not possible when I look literally normal. I work out but it’s always mostly diet and genetics. And SAME! I have friends that are 1000x better looking than me, they just look that way. Natural beauty. There was this digital drawing of a woman’s body that got shared (I forget the context) and it looked exactly like my body. People were calling it medically …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:11 AM
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don’t have a beat chick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:44 AM
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different incomes ig
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:41 AM
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why would that be hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:30 AM
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obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:29 AM
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a totally straight guy would need to suck dick to figure out he’s totally straight caught me off guard omg😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:55 AM
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It’s a Q4W omfg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:29 AM
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Def not 90%+
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:19 AM
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They avoid them even
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:14 AM
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You get called paranoid for wanting a gun? We can’t win damn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:13 AM
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is target a crowded party to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:07 AM
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LMFAOOOO never related to something more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:06 AM
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I understand it’s different when you have an actual experience to look back at. But a straight man can also give casual sex another shot. Like he’s tried hook ups/one night stands/fwbs whatever and decided he’s absolutely not into that and got into a committed relationship. He knows he didn’t like it but maybe he wants to open that box again. Yeah I’m not trying to change your mind or debate at all lol I’m genuinely wondering, in case it sounded like I was trying a “gotcha”. I’m absolutely not😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:59 AM
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Surely all crimes aren’t the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:02 AM
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she didn’t say it was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:27 AM
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no i truly couldn’t care less, I don’t even know where (or what) atlanta is. I know it’s shortened as ATL tho. I’m the last person to talk to about your beef with evangelicals, I don’t know them and they don’t know me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:25 AM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:14 AM
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where
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:38 AM
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No one said it was disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:26 AM
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“accordingly” it’s just being respectful dude oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
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Addiction is defined as not having control over doing, taking or using something to the point where it could be harmful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:15 AM
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she literally never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:57 PM
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talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:47 PM
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also shopping!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:43 PM
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this is so true omg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:38 PM
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It’s that you don’t know of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:26 PM
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I wish! it was my first therapy experience too, i was so discouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:15 PM
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I had a therapist tell me that shit😭 It’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:05 PM
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I know so many lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:49 PM
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haha none taken I just found the sentence funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:38 PM
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“Porn is to sex as McDonald's is to food. These two capitalist enterprises take our natural appetites, pluck out the most compulsive and addictive elements, strip away anything truly nutritious, and then encourage us to consume more and more.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:33 PM
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Oh right, it wouldn’t work for me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:28 PM
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i don’t get what you meant sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:17 PM
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it’s just where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:07 PM
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dude saying porn addiction isn’t real is simply ridiculous is the point I have no clue about the atlanta shooting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:06 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:57 PM
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bro😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:55 PM
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I don’t know where these assumptions are coming from but feels like the defensiveness that comes from being in denial about your addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:51 PM
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Whatt how did you even come up with that😭 And yeah I love a default man, bring back simple men!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:46 PM
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Straight men cheat because they feel like they’re missing out too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:41 PM
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Ohh, is “cookie cutter normal” a phrase? Never heard it before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:39 PM
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what’s cookie cutter normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:27 PM
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All the baseless generalizations aside, “Men cheat for emotional or mental boosts, not increases in physical pleasure” Physical pleasure is literally an “emotional boost”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:17 PM
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What if he only watched ones that looked like you😂 tough crowd:(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:08 PM
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you unlocked so many memories omg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:54 PM
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What bunch of evangelicals? I’ve literally never been around them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:53 PM
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People can figure out their sexuality without having sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:46 PM
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I’m talking about the comment you replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:41 PM
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What do you mean by showing jealousy? Like what kind of actions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:40 PM
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Jealousy happens sometimes, you just communicate it with your partner. I’ve never tested if a guy gets jealous no that’s so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:39 PM
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my poor typing skills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:34 PM
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I understand what you’re saying it’s just not the point. The point is they can. They didn’t say anything about how it’s perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:32 PM
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I feel like it also shows discipline and determination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:30 PM
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Yesss!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:28 PM
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fr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:26 PM
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they said men can and do use sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:26 PM
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me when im in denial:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:25 PM
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I’m a woman and for me it’s a dont ask don’t tell thing. If I’m not around and he wants to jerk off to porn he’ll just do that. (Again, for me) I have no reason to be upset or angry about that. I would have an issue if he for example did it when I was in bed with him or something, if he talked about the actors all the time (lmao), if watching porn is affecting our sex live etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:21 PM
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For 1, isn’t that just cheating? Or are you talking about his thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:09 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:05 PM
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Just realized the question was directed only to women who refuse to date bi men so answering here; the topic and conversation about sexuality comes up in relationships naturally so I just can’t see this as something that I need to be “informed about”. The only way I would be upset is if I find out that he hid his past or sexuality from me thinking he would get rejected if he didn’t. If I’m with someone it’s because I love them, and I want the person I love to feel safe with me and know that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:04 PM
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10% agree with 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:47 PM
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omfg😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:45 PM
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omg😭😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:42 PM
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I’m not debating or trying to change your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:23 PM
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no hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:55 PM
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18.5 is the limit yeah, I checked too and I saw where it said 19, the rest says 18.5 but they’re all based on what BMI is considered “normal weight”. Yes it depends on the person how much fat they need to produce hormones, like some women are naturally skinny some are naturally fat so the certain percentage needed won’t be the same for everyone. Yes I agree with your point I just wanted to specify that. And it’s no news what men like but what irritates me is when they try to bring up fertility. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:38 PM
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then you’re talking about how a woman views sex rather than her n count. You don’t know your gf’s n count but you don’t feel like you have to because you know how she views sex and it aligns with your view. N count isn’t a direct indicator of how someone views sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:31 PM
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Also those men don’t even ask about n count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:27 PM
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Not in my experience no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:25 PM
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BMI below 19 doesn’t stop ovulation, 18.5 to 24.9 is considered normal weight for women. In terms of ovulation and conception though it’s about the fat percentage, not BMI. Fat intake is necessary for hormone production and for women depending on the age a certain fat percentage is needed for her hormones to work. Going below that stops ovulation just like going above causes risks. So its the fat percentage not BMI. BMI can be an indicator of course but it’s not like how you said it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:21 PM
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BMI of 18 is underweight yes. 18.5 is like the limit for being considered normal weight, below that is underweight. Beauty standards in general are harmful and degrading there’s nothing about them that’s defendable, I’m just correcting you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:04 PM
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women usually get catcalled more as a child than they do as adult women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:57 PM
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BMI of 18.5-18.9 isn’t medically underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:56 PM
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It literally isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:53 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:07 PM
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northern europe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:55 AM
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Based on BMI that is normal weight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:50 AM
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No one said zero body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:49 AM
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Okay you’re literally still wrong? 18.5 - 18.9 BMI isn’t underweight. 18.5 and above is considered normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:49 AM
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Like find it unattractive fine but calling a regular skinny fit body unnatural and near medically underweight is actually insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:25 AM
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Thank you, it was a breath of fresh air reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:22 AM
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They didn’t do anything to be considered attractive because they were denied from the workplace? Banned from working so they stopped trying to be attractive? They were banned from working, and as a result they stopped trying to look good? What? This is not a cause and effect, what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:18 AM
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you don’t need a right to have expectations dude you can just think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:56 AM
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what is this “more” women are allegedly getting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:47 AM
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and I’m saying those qualities aren’t even things I need to expect because they usually come as default anyway. “by women who don’t possess the same qualities” Height? I need to be taller if I’m going to be with a tall man? ??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:42 AM
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bro married women were literally banned from working lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:37 AM
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I thought you meant people use Pete Davidson as a basis for the men they shame not the opposite my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:20 AM
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Except for the house and car for where I live the things you listed aren’t even rare qualities? Like these aren’t things I specifically seek cause they’re usually default idk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:17 AM
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how are people using Pete Davidson as basis to shame men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:06 AM
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That’s not one or two pounds away from being medically underweight and the tits and ass are proportionate to the body lol come on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:01 AM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:53 AM
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Why pretend to be friends to begin with then..💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:43 AM
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You can enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:24 AM
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I’m a woman and exactly this, people realize if it’s out of entitlement. I’ve never had issues with who pays what on dates because it’s clear that it’s being seen and appreciated as a gesture instead of a piss fight. A boyfriend insisted on paying every date so I planned and paid for a vacation. Or “you always take me to nice places, now it’s my turn and it’s on me”. Like it’s so easy and it makes both parties feel so appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:06 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:38 AM
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damn im sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:35 AM
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gigachad😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:33 AM
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lol it depends on the context imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:20 AM
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furniture is too expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:19 AM
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I haven’t heard anyone else say this but for me boyfriend sounds juvenile in some contexts, like calling an adult man boy-friend feels weird sometimes and in those times I use partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:58 AM
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Hugs!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:45 AM
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Yes, the answer is the original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:22 AM
0

Weren’t you supposed to be monogamous? Cause “they” sound like they’re very much included in your relationship right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:20 AM
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And where has that brain of yours gotten you in the realms of dating of romance cause I don’t see it being of much help here either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:09 AM
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This sounds like something between you guys tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:27 AM
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for him and you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:21 AM
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It’s just “defensive”. The “self” there is redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:18 AM
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me when i lie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:00 AM
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therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:48 AM
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Dude she just doesn’t want one night stands…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:35 AM
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I’ll pay for his damn risotto if it’s this big of a deal lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:22 AM
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As women are celebrated when they are strong independent women, which is really about a woman adulting. But men are expected to be adults by default and when they aren't they are labeled as man child and shamed. The root issue is literally the same for both situations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:13 AM
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I don’t understand how it’s possible to see this situation this one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:43 AM
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The comparison makes absolutely no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:13 AM
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OP is confusing enjoying and partaking in it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:10 AM
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Oh wow I had no idea I’m sorry:(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:51 AM
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Astrology and the people who are interested in it are overhated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:50 AM
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whats that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:44 AM
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depends on the place and person still
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:41 AM
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This very much depends on the place though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:37 AM
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not what i’m asking at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:33 AM
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They could be getting paid to be up there! When its open ground I’ve seen many guys as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:20 AM
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That’s why I said solicited
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:14 AM
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daily runs or daily long walks, lifting and increasing protein in your diet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:58 AM
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Most people disagree with this? It’s 100% the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:46 AM
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Is it insensitive to suggest working out to people as (solicited) advice? REGARDLESS OF THEIR BODY. I’ve seen both men and women get upset when they’re advised to work out to better themselves after they ask for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:36 AM
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“what do you mean by feminine” isn’t the same as “what does feminine mean” so it doesn’t show a lack of understanding it’s showing interest in your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:16 AM
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if anything that would make it get less boring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:05 AM
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No worries!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:37 AM
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Is there a mistake in the first paragraph because it contradicts the entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:27 AM
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You’re getting wrong vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:27 PM
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punch a wall about it or something then cause it’s really not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:54 AM
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my comment was sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:47 AM
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1- quotation marks 2- what’s the issue with you finding me arrogant. like why would that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:45 AM
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yeah women are the ones overestimating men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:39 AM
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That’s very clear don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:35 AM
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they’ll look a deadbeat dad in the eyes and tell him he is a victim who did nothing wrong if it means villainizing the woman lol so out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:26 AM
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and the dad is a victim. somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:17 AM
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Really cause saying Asian women are inherently “caring, loyal, fit” reeks of judgement and ignorance yet you’re still alive typing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:52 AM
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Statistics would be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:43 AM
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not to me but i don’t know the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:36 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:07 AM
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Still no statistics!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:00 AM
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they have good workout discipline and can get huge arms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:54 AM
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if not below
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:52 AM
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I don’t get this. If a man isn’t an option then he isn’t. A man being into me doesn’t make him an option unless I’m into him as well. One sided feelings or attraction don’t overwhelm me because they aren’t options. I don’t have overwhelming amount of choices because I choose my choices. Sometimes I have many choices, it doesn’t bother me because I chose that and I wouldn’t if I didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:43 AM
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Thanks for saying this omg they do. What I see the most is they use “men” instead of “I”. Like no, men do get hit on by attractive women and men do have options. You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:26 AM
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The fat women that he matched with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:02 AM
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you’re the type of dude she’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:56 AM
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Thinking fit men only date fit women is absolutely wild. I live in Europe and “fat” here isn’t the same as the fat in america but he probably calls any plus sized woman fat so. Fit men w bigger women is a common thing like why wouldn’t it be. Big women are gorgeous and there are many men who notice that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:21 AM
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Cause not being the type of a man like you is the last thing a woman would be ashamed of
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:15 AM
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