softlylightens Archive

TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A New Way of Looking at Relationship Dynamics (Part 1) I'm in a LLL relationship! My husband is very strong and masculine, of course, but he expresses it mostly through being calm, patient, easygoing, and kind. He's like a rock: no matter what storms happen, I know he's going to be there, steady and still. Frankly, a lot of the more alpha guys kind of scare me: I like my peaceful guy. :) But it also means I have to make a real effort not to be controlling, because he'll go along with it instead of biting back the way a higher-dominance man would.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/16 04:23 PM
5	Alpha vs Asshole No, I wouldn't! I made vows! I take my vows very seriously!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/16 02:52 AM
3	Alpha vs Asshole I don't think that's true in my marriage. The way I like to think of it is that my husband and I are on Team Us, working together to build a life. There's no point in keeping track of who benefits more, because the whole reason we're married is that we think we'll both be better off together. I mean, if nothing else, I'm going to be living with the guy. Investing in his happiness is investing in my own: who wants to live with a grumpy unhappy person?	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/16 02:33 AM
2	How many is too many? It really does depend on the man. I have a very high N, because I was promiscuous in college; I was always open and honest with my husband, and he said he didn't care, because I chose him. But it's still a good idea not to rack up the sexual partners, I think. It's like the fat girl talking about how she married a quality man who's a chubby chaser: sure, they exist, but why not try to maximize your odds?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/16 07:40 PM
1	Engagement timeframe My husband and I got engaged after a year, which was kind of too fast for me! But even then I wanted him to be my Captain and trusted his judgment, and it worked out really well. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/16 07:33 PM
2	Small steps to a Red Pill Relationship I feel like I have all the unmarketable attributes - dyed hair, ear piercing, I love tattoos and I'm very "ecological". I rarely apply makeup and am getting dreadlocks. I'm a new RPW too and I really empathize with that. :( My husband married me when I was still a feminist-- on my wedding day I had pit hair that was longer than my head hair! My husband insists that he loves the way I look and doesn't want me to grow my hair out or shave or wear makeup or anything. But I don't know whether to tak…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/16 06:43 PM

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter