softwaredev Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Anyone ever take dance classes? Nah, nobody expects that you talk, it really is a place to just have fun and you shouldnt go to try to get a date somebody. I do meet women at dance lesson places but I let them signal to me first they want something, for example they'll leave their group of friends and stand next to me and give me a side eye, or their friends will be like "Do you know Alissa over there?"	/r/seduction	30/06/22 02:18 AM
2	I have a pretty nice physique but I am lean, so I look just normal in clothes. Is there anything I can do about this to improve my chances with women? Look for man dress styles on instagram to get a sense of what you like	/r/seduction	30/06/22 02:05 AM
6	Discussion about beautiful girls and not looking good guys in the club They could like their dress style more, maybe they got dance moves, money, etc. Maybe you think they're not good looking but they are. Forget about your failures, are you getting as much sex or whatever you are looking for as you want?	/r/seduction	30/06/22 02:00 AM
7	A little rant Dude, you asked your crush out and she accepted, you had the balls and were able to get the woman of your dreams but you fed it up because of your inexperience, this is something that can be worked on, cheer up man you are on the right track 👍👍👍👍	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:52 AM
5	How to be more intriguing? If you are a man: Have a lot of different skills, be a wordly person, know your city/town like the back of your hand etc. Basically dont just be all about your job. You dont even need to bring up that you have these, they'll come up naturally: Example 1: "What's that cut in your hand?" "I was building a wood table for my sister she saw on pinterest. If you need something made let me know :)" "That's cool, what got you into wood working?" Example 2: "I gotta get an oil change for my car soon, the…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:34 AM
3	Movies/series that subtly up the spicy mood?! The movie doesnt matter, I've fucked while playing Disney movies. Cook some dinner together, get some alcohol, watch the movie while eating, continue drinking, something is bound to happen, you'll feel it when it's time	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:16 AM
1	4th date with gal - ended third with some passionate making out, physical touch but was told another time when suggested going up to her place after walking home Exactly OP, these two dudes get it. It's her turn and she should know it. It'll probably take one more date or two, would have been on the next if you hadnt asked lol Sometimes they like playing a little hard to get, just keep your cool and keep making her feel good	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:13 AM
1	Very unhealthy mindest about dating I hear you man, I'd say just keep being yourself until you find a woman that matches your energy and accept rejections and move on when they dont	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:04 AM
1	Can you help my friend with his dating problem? He should have those concerns and work on improving them though. Say you have two guys, same apperance, once has more money than the other, if you had to, which one would you bet your life savings on gets more kitty?	/r/seduction	30/06/22 12:59 AM
6	Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzoned In the first date, this one thing takes care of all three, if you dont do it there will be men like myself that will: After the date I walk the girl to her car and offer my arm, this can sometimes create sexual tension for the first kiss but if not at least there is some form of romantic touch. Edit: drinks also help losen everybody up, just continue to ask her stuff about things she's already telling you about and every now and then something flirty/sexual to say/laugh about will come up. So ju…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 07:52 PM
2	First message Not bad, but I would say "Wanna go work out and smoothies afters?" or something like that, I think you should make your intentions clearer, and just asking to go workout could be like friends only, that way if she accepts you know she likes you and she knows you like her and you dont waste your time.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 07:45 PM
2	First message "Hi <her name>, it's <your name> from <gym name>. Do you like <some type of good food she probably hasnt tried but you have>? I was thking we could go get some this weekend. If you are down let me know ✌️" I'd go straight to what I'm looking for because she either likes me or not and make it clear that I'm waiting for a respond not just "Hi <her name> it's <your name>." With this only you are giving her work to do, she'll have to think about how to reply erc. Edit: I'd send it on Thursday, no te…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 07:32 PM
1	Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive men Ah ok, I always use the same messages, just copy and paste lol Hearing them out and ask follow up questions, drink some alcohol and you are in lol	/r/seduction	24/05/22 02:53 PM
2	Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive men lol what work? Just a coffee date or house meet up with some beers	/r/seduction	24/05/22 02:41 PM
-1	[deleted by user] I think OP is saying women who cant find a healthy relationship should look at less attractive men if they really want love asap LOL	/r/seduction	29/12/21 04:27 PM
7	[deleted by user] 1) Men should be dating multiple partners just for sex and wait until one asks them to be in a relationship, this way you are the one doing the choosing 2) Men who complain they have good jobs and are not fat but cant find a relationship or get matches need to understand that having a job and not being fat is not that uncommon LOL	/r/seduction	29/12/21 04:26 PM
-6	So... 90% of the FDS subreddit? What you do, joined Only Fans? lol	/r/AntiFeminists	25/09/21 03:21 PM
21	This is the personification of modern feminism... she starts shit and blames men for not defending her She took those cum shots at the end like a champ though	/r/AntiFeminists	25/09/21 03:13 PM
2	Im gonna make my move Damn son, hell yeah, tap that ass 🤘🤘🤘🤘Wish you the best brother hahaha	/r/seduction	23/05/21 01:18 PM
1	How to improve texting game? Son, you want to be the guys who texts her or the guy who takes her out on dates and bangs her? i.e. you need to talk to women more in person than over text, so stop the texting and set up dates. Now in my experience my texting game, for the approx six texts I send out on a weekly basis, greatly improved after I built experiences for myself. In other words, the more things you outside of work or school the more texting ideas you'll have. So start off with knowing your city, for example go to eve…	/r/seduction	23/05/21 01:13 PM
1	How do I translate successful texting to success at the actual date? Is it a turnoff if you ask if she wants to cuddle or is it better to let this develop naturally? No, don't ask. Just put your arm around her. Can you give me general body language tips? If she is not looking around but only at you it means you are doing good. How do I make sure this doesn’t turn into a meeting between friends? Open the door for her, pay the full check, offer your arm as you walk her to her car. And what are some good date ideas during the pandemic? I think a bike tour is a bad i…	/r/seduction	23/05/21 01:04 PM