sojourner_truth

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Utterly Delusional Male Coworker Calls Woman a “Bitch” for Not Sitting Next to Weird Creep On The Bus At 2 in the Morning Yes, the victim blaming crowd would have done all their usual song and dance that she put herself in a dangerous place, what was she wearing, why did she dare leave the house alone at that hour....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 10:58 AM
15	When men say "let's see where this goes"... Oh yes, how could I forget!!! We need to put together a Bible for this sub, and all these need to be indexed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 10:27 AM
1	Utterly Delusional Male Coworker Calls Woman a “Bitch” for Not Sitting Next to Weird Creep On The Bus At 2 in the Morning Right! Instead of being mad that women can easily clock him as a creeper, he should be mad at the man in the mirror for being so visibly gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 10:01 AM
44	When men say "let's see where this goes"... Men are quick to put us in a box and slap a label on it. Women have to be savvy and translate their words to their true meanings. "Let's see where things go" means you have been identified as easy meat for this guy and he already plans to dump you after sex. Then he can feel blameless by saying "Hey, I told you I just wanted to see where things go!" See also: I'm not looking for anything serious right now. I just got out of a relationship. I don't like labels. You look like a fun girl, or he's l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 09:18 AM
14	Utterly Delusional Male Coworker Calls Woman a “Bitch” for Not Sitting Next to Weird Creep On The Bus At 2 in the Morning Garden variety misogyny right there. The only men who are angered by women protecting themselves from men are the men who feel entitled to creep on and hurt women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 08:56 AM
11	What the actual fuck. Beware of insecure and fragile men. They are dangerous. That edit though- crocodile tears and acting like he is the poor victim here. It's not genuine. He doesn't really believe he's in the wrong and he won't stop. This is performance. "Oh I'm a piece of shit, boo hoo" just trying to lure some soft hearted (and soft headed) woman into feeling sorry for him. NOPE.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 08:46 AM
17	Low value men: They only love you when you’re gone I think this ties in with the habit some women have of sending 4 paragraph long emotional messages to men, trying to get "closure". Trying to get him to understand how he caused hurt and pain. That's something that a lot of women want, and will go to get lengths to get. So, here the guy is dangling that bait out there, appearing to offer a woman that understanding of how he hurt her. But men being men, they probably copied and pasted those texts out of somewhere or just periodically send them …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 08:17 AM
4	I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done. Once a guy sees you as damaged or sexually unpure, he will always see you that way. No matter what he SAYS, his thoughts deep down will not be changed. Even innocuous things that don't mean anything can and will be twisted into something dirty, bad and your fault in a man's eyes. For example, I used to do language exchanges and tutoring ESL students. We'd meet at Starbucks and then walk to the library. A male library worker I had never fucking met before told me "Yeah, I've seen you with lots of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 05:52 AM
6	Can we start taking our own advice and start to DELETE BLOCK & IGNORE no value incel posts on this thread of queens. I was thinking the same. Let's focus on ourselves, not on low value men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 04:17 AM
48	I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done. Yeah, you can't really rehabilitate a guy's image of you. That's one reason why it's very important to be discreet about your social media and to never engage in discussions about your sexual history. Also avoid telling men about the painful traumas of your past. That is what therapy and good girl friends are for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 03:18 PM
18	Why are men like this? 😅 I'm glad this sub is here. What seems like common sense when you are more accustomed to the pink pill can really be a struggle at the start. I hope you keep participating here. Maybe in a year you'll look back and be amazed that you gave this clown one second of your time after he showed his ass. He's a scrub. He's not listening to you and being creepy and gross. He doesn't care about your boundaries in conversation- what do expect he'll do in person? Oh, and stop caring about men's feelings unl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 03:11 PM
12	Always have your own money regardless That really sucks. No matter what protections women get, there's always someone ready to tear those protections down.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 02:13 PM
35	Always have your own money regardless This is the reason why women used to get dowries. If it got down to it, she had something of value that she could rely on. That is also the idea behind engagement rings- to give a woman something she can exchange for cash money if the need arose.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 01:42 PM
10	Woman Brutally Murdered by “Incel” Boyfriend she Met Online. Murderer Then tracks down Her Mother to Send pictures of himself Masturbating To Photos of Her Decapitated Body This poor girl. My goodness, there is no end to entitled misogynist scum out there. She was killed for showing friendship and an ounce of kindness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 01:33 PM
4	How can I get over a bum-ass guy? > You give ugly men one chance and they think YOURE the ugly one. This is the realest analysis ever. I have the habit of writing a damned thesis to make my point, but sis broke this down in a sentence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 12:41 PM
17	I met a HVM, but he has completely opposite political beliefs than me. Is this do-able? No, "than" is the correct word. Then is for time sequence (ex: I brushed my hair, then I put on my hat). I would not get into a relationship with someone whose core values are polar opposite to mine. I consider that to be too great of an incompatibility.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 12:26 PM
59	I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done. Amen! As Maya Angelou said: When people show you who they are, believe them- the first time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 12:22 PM
12	OH EM GEE We’re Being EXPOSED!! Lol! I laughed pretty heartily at this clown. If women were trying to hear his bullshit he'd already have a girlfriend and not spend his time and energy "explaining" to us.... and note the last line where he says he doesn't care what we have to say. Well, writing a 3 volume edition of why we're bad for not giving him some pussy will surely show us!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 11:34 AM
253	I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done. Once a man has an inkling that you are available to be a chump for him, he rarely changes that opinion on a long term basis. I may be a cynic, but I have seen plenty of the "baby I'm so sorry, I was a fool, it'll never happen again, I can't believe I almost lost you" song and dance... it always ends with the guy continuing to be a low value man who does not respect the woman in question.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 11:26 AM
8	At what point do you drop a friendship because of your dating standards? She's already criticized you, which wasn't nice of her. I think seeing you holding standards for yourself might be unsettling for her. This could cause more friction down the line. Personally, I'd wish her well and let her go.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 11:20 AM
5	How to date as a virgin who wants to wait til commitment is made ? You have every right in the world to decide to wait and have sex on your terms. Good for you, for resisting the massive cultural pressure to have sex before you are ready. It's an important step in your life, and it's awesome that you are taking agency over it! I think you've gotten great advice from the other ladies here. I just want to point out that men are going to try and probe around for your weaknesses. For example, if you are proud of being independent then they will say you are failing …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 11:14 AM
15	Woman Brutally Murdered by “Incel” Boyfriend she Met Online. Murderer Then tracks down Her Mother to Send pictures of himself Masturbating To Photos of Her Decapitated Body How awful for the victim and her mother. This is so sad. I say the following NOT to shame the poor girl who was killed- but just to give advice. When men show any antisocial tendencies, such as entitlement, mental problems, addictions etc women need to fight the urge to "love them into wholeness" or some such. Our love can't heal them. That myth worked its way into our media because it benefits low value men. If a guy shows he has damaged tendencies, he is best given a wide berth. If you reall…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 11:02 AM
32	Don’t ever accept threesomes. Ever. oh yes. There are so many guys online crying a river about why they have no choice but to cheat on their wives because she won't turn herself into a full service sex robot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 09:58 AM
17	So what's wrong with hypergamy? Yup!!! Listening the words out of men's mouths is useful when you apply a critical lens to it. They lie like rugs but you can put the pieces together to make sense of it. They love to talk shit about successful women who don't need them. It's precisely because they cannot provide a leg up for a woman who has her needs met. So he gets sour grapes and talks trash about those women, and elevates these hypergamous women as "goals". They need to feel superior to a woman in one way or another. That's …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 09:53 AM
44	Don’t ever accept threesomes. Ever. This is good advice. It's a well known phenomenon that men will ask a woman for all kinds of bizarre kinky sex, but he is much less inclined to ask her for her hand in marriage after she degrades herself for him. I'd be especially concerned with guys who ask you to indulge him in shame based kinks, or men who get off on humiliation. Those guys need to be looked into, because it's not so rare for him to have a "vanilla" woman as his public partner and then go behind her back to do all kinds of de…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 08:48 AM
42	So what's wrong with hypergamy? Men do NOT object to hypergamy. This needs to be filed under "lies men tell." Think about how men react to women from poor countries who will settle for ANY man with the right passport? These women are willing to take low value men: old men, ugly men, autistic men, abusive men- just so she can get out of the circumstances she is in. That is hypergamy. Have you ever seen men object to this? I haven't. In fact, they defend it! They say that those women are "smart" or "old fashioned" or "have their…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/19 08:13 AM
7	Incel Tears are saying we're transphobic and support false rape claims. they also think this is a FEMCEL sub. I just had a realization. The reason liberals go around saying that prostitution is empowering to women it's because they think that we should give men sex immediately with no investment on his part whatsoever. Without him earning our trust, making us feel safe, proving the hell care about her sexual pleasure, proving that cares about our well-being or cares about us beyond sex. That's why they try to convince women they getting paid to prostitute themselves as some sort of great advancement in …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/19 09:36 AM
8	Always choose a female gynecologist/psychiatrist/doctor Yeah, I've had horrible female doctors too :( It sucks that there's no easy way to find a good doctor.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/19 02:07 PM

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