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3	I’m just sick and frustrated with dating now, but feel so alone. The last girl seemed so perfect, don’t really think it’s working out tho. I think you should def ask her how the surgery went! Then dunno, maybe text her once in a while. Seems she's going through a lot, and being in a relationship and/or constant communication IS a lot and can be very tiring. Be a friend if she needs one but don't expect much? (I'm a woman)	/r/seduction	01/11/22 06:21 PM
6	I feel like every description I put on dating apps is really cringey There's a saying: "cringe people are happier"	/r/seduction	30/10/22 08:58 PM
8	Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery? Similar thing recently happened to me, no blocking, but after I didnt answer fast enough (there wasn't even anything that serious to reply to..) a guy sent me a message that "ok, you could have just said that you don't want to keep communicating anymore". This is not the first time a guy gets like that. I always say that I don't like chatting upfront, I prefer making connection in real, I have difficult time with screens, but they don't seem to really understand. What can we do, lol? My therapis…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 06:50 PM
7	Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery? A woman, and of course, absolutely! Thanks adhd and depression.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 05:48 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I would advise again't asking "what's up", (but also I can't really explain why). Do you really know she will suddenly articulate and communicate her feelings clearly to you? It would be better to talk about her intentions towards you in real not over texts/voice messages. If she doesn't care about doing that in real, then.. she doesn't care?..	/r/seduction	30/10/22 02:16 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I'm a girl who is also very slow with replying and texting. It sounds that yes, it might drift apart, she's still thinking about it. There probably aren't very strong feelings at this moment, but it doesn't yet mean they won't develop with time. Situation unsure. Doesn't she offer rescheduling when an excuse come up? I imagine best case scenario could be if the guy doesnt text for a while, like 2-4 weeks (makes sense if both have busy schedules, also gives time to think it over). Then invite her…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 02:12 PM

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