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6

One night stands don’t fulfil you, and it seems you’re seeking fulfilment. It happens yo. Very few people stay a player forever.
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:12 AM
21

This is the second time you asked this, even after people told you to move on. So let me say it again - move on.
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:03 PM
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You get angry and blurt out rude words. You ignore him and scroll your phone. You complain he doesn’t make enough money. You crush on men at work. “I’m looking for a traditional relationship” I’m sorry hon, you’ve got a lot of work to do on yourself. It’s good that you can admit you’re wrong and made mistakes, dear gosh that can be hard. But you’re not actually changing them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/26 09:18 AM
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In Europe, the organiser of the hike is always responsible for everyone involved. If it was a woman mountain guide with a male companion, the same thing would likely happen. There’s a lot of cases where men don’t have the rights they should have, but as someone who is training to be a mountain guide, it is very clearer mentioned to you that YOU are responsible for your party members.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 09:38 AM
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I felt the same way as you when my relationship broke down at 24. There’s “no one like her”, and then I found someone even better at 30. You’ve got time bro.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:08 PM
12

I lost my job when I was dating a girl, she started working and said she’d pay for everything (I had savings, didn’t need her help), but it showed me what type of a girl she is. I married her.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 11:51 AM
1

Churches aren’t just for religion, they’re unironically good community centres. But maybe I’m biased. I’m not sure about your local area or your age, but board game groups tend to be 20-30 year olds, my board game groups average age is around 25/26. IMO all dating apps are designed to just have fun, not actually meet for romance. But YMMV.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 11:39 PM
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Church. Hobby clubs (hiking, board games). Volunteering. Dating apps are a no go unless you’re looking for sex only.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 11:23 PM
4

“I’ve never had sex, but I’ve done sexual things with X amount of people. I decided I wouldn’t have sex until Y happens, that’s why it’s a bit like that.” Saying something like this would cover your basis with just about anyone in my opinion :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/25 05:58 PM
1

In my part of Europe it’s pretty common to learn the language of your spouses parents, 30 mins a day after a year can make you conversational. Especially in male dominated parts of Europe, this can be expected (learning your husbands language). Plus, your kid having another language is a big plus.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/24 11:12 AM
5

Ask her if she’d get baptised just to be with you, even if you aren’t Christian. This will also test if she is truly a “secular Muslim” or just saying that. Muslims, by religious law, are allowed (and somewhat encouraged) to lie to non-Muslims to get them to convert.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/24 06:45 AM
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“A compromise I’m making youth wise” Bruh. You’re about to get married and you see it as a compromise to not go out and party?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 03:39 PM
4

Changing your life. Exercising. Eating less and healthier. Getting in touch with your emotional state and being overall positive. Learning to cook. Do these 4 things and even at 29 you can pull a solid man. Dont do this? Then your life truly is gonna “run out of time.”
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 03:45 PM
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I’m in a similar relationship (30m, 23f) and often help my partner to do things. Taxes, applying for jobs, etc. Sometimes I just don’t have the energy and wish she would be able to do these (what I see as basic life stuff) herself. I don’t have infinite hours in a day, and I can only help with so many things. The ability to take things off your man’s plate is also an important part of a successful relationship IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 08:15 AM
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A woman who sleeps around while in a committed “relationship”, accepts money from a guy, lies to him, and has a child. I don’t mean to be cruel, but this guy deserves better, not her. OP, let this guy go. You’re not attracted to him. You’re stringing him along, and it’s not good for you or for him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 05:42 PM
5

Just cutting out washing the hair in the morning should cut out 30 minutes, exactly what I was thinking!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 01:25 PM
0

Yes! Thank you! Develop yourself is code for: learn to be more inflexible in marriage because you “know who you are” (and then change anyway).
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 06:50 AM
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0 is the best number. 1 is the second best and so forth. But most guys red-pilled or leaning tend to think any number is not ok. But, if you look for an older guy with his own extensive history, he might be more likely to overlook it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:21 PM
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For most men yes, but also, why do you have that many? Some men can accept it if the reasoning is decent. Most won’t. Some will accept it without caring. Are you religious / looking for a religious guy? Cause that influences things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 08:24 PM
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Don’t see it as not doing anything, it made you who you are today. But growing always means changing. Definitely talk to him about the delivery, he should work on that! Anyways, this is a place for women, so I’ll get off. Hope you don’t mind the little intrusion. Best of luck!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:46 PM
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My girlfriend sounds very similar to you. She’s very attractive, had photoshoots etc. My job requires a very… modest presentation of me and my family. She deleted every inappropriate photo on Insta, including ones others posted of her to make things easier for me. She changed directions in her life to suit my direction (including what she was studying). Why do you need to do modelling? What’s in it for you? My girlfriend realised she liked the attention of looking good, getting compliments and t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:41 PM
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This. Men tend to have a caretaker respond to women who, are well, women. The more feminine you look, the more men will instinctively protect you. The more feminist you look, the less they’ll care. Defend yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 03:44 AM
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I’m glad I can help, I understand the situation and the difficulty. Yeah. Try to walk back that comment somehow, like “of course sex is enjoyable in general, that doesn’t mean it was better with him than others” or idk, find a way to walk it back, and avoid making an compliments in the future. With the second point, counteract him with statistics. Find some research showing it doesn’t affect pair bonding, and divorce is usually linked to other things. There’s bound to be statistics that prove it…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 12:08 AM
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Comparison is the killer of joy, for both of you it seems. I’m not sure why he keeps making that reference to your last partner, have you in any way, shape or form complimented your previous partner? You should sit him down and say that we shouldn’t talk about it anymore. I’ll answer absolutely anything you want to ask, but then let’s bury it. Make it intentional. Say- we’ll talk about it in a week, ask all you wanna ask, but be sure you wanna ask it. Then let’s bury it. That doesn’t mean never …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 11:34 PM
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Man’s perspective here, as I think this post is kinda asking how he can accept it. I’ve been in this exact situation before (I was the guy, little to no past- girl was in like ~10 dudes). She said she had changed and was better, but she also pretty much allowed me to do what I wanted. This to me was a no-no. If she’s open and available to me, she’s available to others. She hasn’t really changed. You said you’re intimate - idk to what degree and how fast, but consider that you may be showing him …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 10:42 PM
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Usually guys opinions aren’t welcome, but I feel I have to comment… this is a quality! Your virginity is a big plus for a HVM, he will not see it as a negative but as a positive! Women’s with sexual histories (not trying to shame) are a dime a dozen. Women who have waited (especially the older you get) are rare gems. Don’t give up your virginity just because you feel pressured to. Please don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 01:20 AM
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I don’t think we need to chastise you about how a slut phase is bad, you already see to know that. Some men just can’t tolerate women who have had a slut phase, that’s why it’s best to be upfront about it. If you see a man hesitate over your past and say he’s uncertain he can accept it, just know he’s not the right guy for you. Yeah, your past may limit some of your options, but it doesn’t ever get rid of them. Saying that, the right man for you will be able to accept you’ve changed, and he will…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 09:49 AM
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People don’t just “accidentally” sleep with people, it’s either in your character or not. A high value man won’t tolerate cheating, because he knows there’s someone out there who won’t do that for him. Honestly, I doubt he’ll be okay with it, I’d consider the relationship mostly done, and this is the final throws of it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 11:04 AM
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Money can’t replace values, you can’t “buy” back your feelings if it makes you feel uncomfortable later. If you’re sure you don’t want to move in, don’t move in even temporarily. I feel as if that would actually be who “you” are (based on what you wrote). Saying “no” off-hand might have come across as rude, but those are two different things. Tell him you’re sorry if it came across as bad, but it’s just your conviction, that he already knows about.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 02:57 PM
4

Don’t assume guys can read between the lines, most can’t. Also, I agree with others, feel free to initiate conversation and then let him lead it :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 04:11 PM
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I know this feeling all too well, I’m also from a south-eastern European family (yay balkans?) and I found it almost impossible to find someone who was: 1) conservative and traditional 2) who understood our cultural mindset So I said screw it, and flew into the balkans, and my dating life here has been extremely successful. So many traditional, conservative and culturally understanding people. On every corner! Mind you, I was born and raised in the west, and barely spoke much of the language. It…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 11:11 AM
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Usually this is because of unresolved, long term issues. People generally don’t change their feelings overnight. If you have a fight and want “space to yourself”, that doesn’t work for most men. Especially if it drags on for weeks. At that point they’ve cut their losses. Sorry, but it’s pretty much over :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 07:13 AM
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Yes. The thinner a girl is, the more “fragile” she looks, it’s instinctual.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 07:20 PM
5

Not at all, thank you for the well thought out answer- this is exactly what I was hoping for. There are a few ideas about how and why you’re attracted to these things, but they’re definitely not abnormal! I just haven’t heard many woman say they’re turned off men who work with kids (usually they find it attractive and it symbolises a good father figure). I think the more educated a woman is, the more they want a man who can not only hold his own, but show he can hold other things too. Thanks for…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 09:41 AM
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I worked with kids, I loved it. Love kids a lot. Worked my way up the chain and became the owner. Sold it and now work in psychology. Still love kids and treasure my time with them. Would this still be a turn off? Genuinely interested in this opinion, haven’t heard of it before.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 09:27 AM
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I never understood this. If he wants to leave his dirty socks there, what’s the problem? Either you have an agreement that you’re the person cleaning the house, or eventually he has no clean socks? But if the agreement is that you clean for instance, and now you’re insisting he does things your way, I can’t see the logic in that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 09:27 AM
1

Would you rather he slept around then masturbated or watched porn?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 11:02 AM
1

I wouldn’t say it’s a unicorn, perhaps it’s only a unicorn if they’re non-religious and that’s what you’re seeking. In my religion (specific branch of Protestantism), most people don’t have sex before marriage, no matter how high value they are. Actually, it’s assumed that you haven’t and most people don’t even need to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 11:00 AM
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Appreciate it, thank you! I did entertain the option while I was younger, but now I wouldn’t. Part of it is because it means the other person isn’t a spiritual as I am, and that in itself would be an issue. Part of it is a me thing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 10:56 AM
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Somewhat me: I’ve had several opportunities, but take my religion seriously and will only sleep with my future wife to be. No compromising. Edit: If they’re non-religious, I don’t know what it means. But, it’s easy to imagine a situation where a guy has values and holds onto them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 01:22 AM
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I had it as a job for 7 years, and I didn’t feel it was a job. 6 hours a day, and I felt as energetic as ever. However, there is a difference between looking after kids, and being a SAHM. When you’re expected to do chores, cooking and everything else for household management, it is exhausting. Kids themselves are the best thing ever.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 03:07 PM
9

Usually a lurker, but there’s some stuff I need to get out there that I think might help you OP. I wouldn’t classify myself as a Alpha or HVM, but I have some good traits: 6’3”, 165lbs, soon on 6 figures, arguably attractive etc. I’m mid 20’s, and still a virgin by choice (religion). All I want in a woman is submissiveness, humility, a listener, who keeps the house in good stead and is innocent. I believe having sex lowers someone’s value (especially so for women). IMO you can either be a keeper…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 07:51 AM
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Having a quick read of your profile: •You call yourself pretty, then doubt it. •You’re Croatian, but don’t live there. •You’re catholic but aren’t sure what to do (belly dancing / Egyptian tombs) •You’ve been approached by men, but reject them. You’re confused, and need to work out who you are and what you’re worth. Then you’ll be good.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/21 12:23 AM
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Yeah, I do think OP meant SMV, and I do think it’s okay judging someone’s SMV by age. Note OP said “men if you find youth attractive”. OP was linking SMV to attractiveness, which makes total sense. No one here has argued that women’s total value = their SMV. You’re the only one I’ve seen linking SMV to total value, or judging SMV as unacceptable.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 05:10 PM
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I think there’s nothing wrong in saying someone’s peak physical value is at a certain age. It’s a reason most militaries only hire younger people. It doesn’t reduce them to eye candy unless you say that their SMV IS their value.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 04:59 PM
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He also didn’t say absolute value. You’re assuming that the value he was referring to was absolute and not SMV. It’s common knowledge when saying someone’s peak value is (insert years here; there’s argument of exactly when, but most agree it’s between 16-25) is referring to physical. There’s just no other statistic that makes sense. So I feel as if you are cherry picking a little here, arguing a point OP isn’t arguing.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 04:49 PM
3

No big deal.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 12:03 PM
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My ex poured boiling water over me when we were dating, while I was sleeping in my bed, just because I texted another girl. Then everyone told me it was normal for women to sometimes overreact and that it was NBD.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 07:17 AM
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Yep. Why do you think the up and coming generation of girls act the way they do? They are taught to hate all men in school.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:31 AM
2

Apple, and the official Reddit app. Lemme know what you’re running so I know to avoid it 🤣
/r/MensRights12/08/20 09:07 PM
2

Hmmm, I’m on mobile and don’t have any issues. Sorry! 😅
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:31 PM
0

Ok, I didn’t ask about your ass. I asked how. I’ve lived in both Europe and Australia, so I wanna know how is it worse in your opinion.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:19 PM
2

It’s like Instagram pictures, swipe left on the image.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:13 PM
1

Umm. How? I mean it’s not great, but it’s still better than most of Western Europe.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:13 PM
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