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i mean… i own a vibrator, but i don’t watch porn. the industry is still deeply harmful to women and girls, and to watch it is to support it. anyone can just get off with their imagination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:20 PM
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omg thanks!!💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:30 PM
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thank you a ton! super helpful 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:50 PM
15

it’s SO BEYOND DISGUSTING when people filter babies and children, i literally wish facetune etc didn’t exist at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:46 PM
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Do you have a link to that by any chance? I’d be really interested to read about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:44 PM
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wtf is the point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:40 AM
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holy fuck lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:02 AM
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my first relationship at 15 was just like this... not only did he use guilt and words but got me drunk or high so i was easier to coerce. it escalated fast and when i tried leaving and telling people he told them i was lying. he was a few years older and afaik still tells people about it. i still wonder how someone can just do “sex” at someone who’s laying there dissociating. very few people i know have acknowledged it as rape or stopped associating with him because of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:35 PM
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I haven’t heard any new stuff from her! I agree she does give that vibe in ctrl. I believe from what you’ve written you’re pretty young, so it’s great to be able to realize those sorts of things in media in order to not internalize it (as much). :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:44 PM
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I really like the album but yeah some of the lyrics are ridiculous... I just try to look at it as art and know that it slaps (lol) and maybe adds another layer of sadness from my perspective knowing she’s reducing herself to “side chick” when she doesn’t need to be. If that makes sense. Kind of gives me sadness/nostalgia for when I was younger? But I can recognize I don’t want to live that way anymore. Also completely fair to not want to hear those sorts of lyrics though, of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:41 PM
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imagine a woman yelling into the camera that she’d fuck her boyfriends friends, that him turning the heat in the house down made her wanna physically abuse him. that she hated when he so much as spoke to her?? that would be MiSaNdRy, wahhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:18 PM
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it still shocks me for some reason how aggressive his tone is, his body language, his words—the amount of hate in the mockery for this girlfriend who may or may not exist is sickening. there’s so much hate on his face because what? his partner wants to talk to him and ask him questions? because he feels so much rage at not getting to also penetrate and fuck her face? because she’s.... cold? and he acknowledged it wasn’t her fault, but he still wants to “kick her into traffic”? this guy despises …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:15 PM
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that’s refreshing to hear about BPD potentially being re-evaluated! when i thought i had it, it came with a lot of self blame. i just thought, therapists won’t even deal with it... people say it’s just as bad as NPD and i blamed myself for the reactions and emotional turmoil. turns out it’s just uhhh... normal to react after being abused and traumatized? wild. and lol. now you know how fast to run if you break out after being with a man again 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:33 AM
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wow... he sounds really similar to my ex, but you know what? there are SO many of them that it’s not surprising. i’d be more surprised if it were the same man. i had a really similar experience with the trashy friends telling me it was him, even though he was constantly trying to convince them it was me as well. and then dating another dude who was only better because he was marginally interested in me and at least affectionate. but yup to him making you think there’s something wrong with you...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:30 AM
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i’m sorry for laughing at allergic reaction to sex but DAMN your body was onto something. i also often wondered if BPD is diagnosed solely based on misogyny... if you were abused then somehow exhibiting symptoms puts you in personality disorder cluster with narcissists??? hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:13 AM
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are you me?! i’m sorry that happened to you :( but thinking i had bpd happened to me too.... now i think bpd is a lot more than what i was experiencing. your ex sounds the same. it’s truly disgusting. i hope you managed to build the life you wanted, or at least that you’ve come closer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:01 AM
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i got anxiety and panic problems from dating a narcissist (among other things but it really skyrocketed then) and it kinda... hasn’t gone away :( just stuck and manifested in other ways. but i’m confident that’s when it started because the panic feeling is still very much the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:59 AM
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lmao classic, was that post here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:53 PM
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“hate groups” ffs 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:52 PM
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hahahah is that the one where the guy will only sleep in a nest of his laundry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:50 PM
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i was so glad my bf said he agreed with this sub after it’s had some attention lately ☺️ i hadn’t brought it up yet, but it was nice to talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:46 PM
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it’s such a narrow world view, like you said. it’s really a shame so many western/liberal feminists don’t understand the world doesn’t revolve around america. thanks for sharing 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:44 PM
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thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:01 PM
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i’m not sure how 4chan works, never been, but is this posted somewhere like what a subreddit would be? i’m curious if it’s a specific community known for posting this kind of stuff, or if everything posted on 4chan is kind of all in the same community? i am worried to go look because i don’t want to see anything awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:21 PM
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this post in particular is really stressing me out :( it’s created a weird situation and also seeing all the comments on it make me feel crazy because i just wanna talk about the horrible relationships i was in when i was in my teens and listen to other women older than me warning of what to look for... and it’s extremely rare i’ve ever seen anything toxic on this sub. i don’t understand what everyone else hate so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:20 PM
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you should wait a month or two and rewrite it to see what happens lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:51 AM
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hahahaha 🤣 it’s really true. oh well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:04 AM
9

YUP truly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:03 AM
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and you should be! i just went once. it’s too frustrating to keep going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:03 AM
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i recently discovered/visited some of the mgtow/incel subs and it’s weird how much they’re obsessed with us with no valid criticisms. just that we’re ugly/undesirable “misandrists” like where??? i do not see it. show me where
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:30 AM
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the “ugly and can’t keep a man” thing gets me because lbr, men in online dating etc are desperate! it’s not hard to get just A Boyfriend, it’s a choice not to bother with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:28 AM
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disgusting. he’s so blatantly talking about her like she’s an object. the implication she should’ve just CHOSEN not to have...stomach fat...on a video about her violent murder. but we’re the violent ones for saying men are trash? lol ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:25 AM
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god, i wish i had found something like this five years ago when i was 18 and wondering why every girl around me i was trying to be friends with did this. and just thinking it was me or that it was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:38 PM
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this shit angers me like nothing else... when i was young and naive i lived with a boyfriend who was nearly like this. even when i told him that acting incompetent was (at least) a subconscious way of not doing any work, he denied it. i “had” to show him how to do everything or just take over myself even after working all day. and he was 4 years older than me! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:31 PM
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nice! let me know what you think, if you want! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:30 AM
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have you listened to noname? she’s very good and writes amazing lyrics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:48 PM
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i love being rude like this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:13 PM
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so much better! getting older and caring less always feels like a relief. i hope you’re doing well too 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:37 AM
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i’m so sorry :( i feel this so much cause i developed “curves” in puberty when being stick thin was the “trend” and developed a horrible eating disorder. now that’s how everyone wants to look and i feel ripped off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:32 AM
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this makes me wanna rip my hair out lol!! how is he just gonna sit there and mansplain her OWN SITUATION back to her?? ffs it’s so ridiculous, do they just love wasting women’s time and energy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:48 PM
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lmao i agree with everything saying it got progressively worse, but why is he so smug about having a full set of sheets like...???!!! don’t most people have a few sets? just as standard?? hahahahahaha wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:49 AM
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you and i are the same age and nooo! don’t do that. i’m imagining myself now compared to where i’d like to be at 35, and even though i’m nice and all, who i hope 35 y/o me will be would probably not hang out with current me. just because of life experience differences and how much i’d like to grow in the next 13 years. and if i think about a man that much older, he’s probably in a position of financial power over me in a relationship, and brings up the question of why he can’t find someone his o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:17 PM
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welcome! i’m happy for you and hope you start to feel better ☺️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:23 PM
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yeah, the ordinary is the best one i have found! i just try to avoid any with dyes or scents because my skin is sensitive. the ordinary is cheap, works well and doesn’t have a ton of other ingredients. as well, there’s something about molecular size and its ability to sit on top of your skin or actually get absorbed—afaik the ordinary has different molecular weights to make that work better. hope i make sense cause tbh i do be kinda dumb loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:46 PM
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oh, yeah! i should have added that i make sure to use it in my bathroom after a shower or steaming my face, while the air is more humid & my skin is still warm/damp. i also live in a very cold/dry winter climate (atlantic canada) so that has worked for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:41 PM
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my favourite thing to use for moisturizing is hyaluronic acid! it’s a serum and not a cream, but it’s extremely hydrating. i think there’s a difference between hydrating & moisturizing, but it has worked for me personally. the ordinary sells it and i recommend looking into it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:12 PM
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thanks i hate it so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:26 AM
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this makes me sad for her :( :( and thankful to think my own partner who stepped in to financially support me so i didn’t have to keep working in a grocery store during the plague while also trying to graduate college. i hope this girl finds someone who deserves her and that she can find success with her business. orrr i hope it’s fake like a lot of those posts seem to be...that is one selfish man if not 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:17 AM
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LMAO🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:43 AM
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i’m sorry to hear that happened to you but glad you’ve now left! it’s a lot to realize how bad that sort of thing is right after leaving, but it is so worth it in the end. you deserve to be happier than that 🙂 i had the same situation with a NVX and the worst part now is seeing young women still getting involved with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:54 PM
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i just tried to spend a lot of time doing things that i really liked, alone. even silly things. that and making friends who treated me better than the person i was trying to get over. it takes time, and it took me personally a long time (while i stayed in the relationship longer than i should have). one concrete thing i did was every time i thought of him, or started to feel anxious and bad, i’d do something to improve myself (making art or reading or something) or i’d do something mindless that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:49 PM
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sorry if this has already been talked about somewhere else, but if someone wants to talk about it, why do other subs on reddit refer to us as incels? today in another sub i saw someone ask what an incel was and multiple people said “just go look at fds” but... there’s no involuntary celibacy going on here. most women in general have no shortage of undesirable men in their dms. i’m actually curious & not trying to be rhetorical... is it jealousy? stupidity? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:38 PM
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this gives me such an unhealthy amount of anger 🤣🤣my first boyfriend out of high school was EXACTLY like this, and just thinking about anyone wasting time with that before realizing how much better it is to be alone omggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:31 PM
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i was really hoping someone would say this, because i agree it seems either fake or like a really bad sign of love bombing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:50 PM
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who does that?? is it just one user? :s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:16 PM
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i was so shocked since i started browsing here how efficient the moderation is. i’ve never seen less bickering in reddit comments and it’s so peaceful compared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:39 AM
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i’m dying at the bathroom part omg how is it so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:25 PM
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i did see that while reading around in here! i noticed people were mentioning when they were under 18 online before, it wasn’t hard to just fake an age... i definitely had no problem doing that in my teen years lol. hopefully they find a way to avoid that with tiktok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:19 PM
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i really like this idea and think you wrote about it super well... the only thing that worries me is how much tiktok enables sexualization of young girls with the dancing videos and everything. it could be so much better without that 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:18 PM
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