TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

solitasoul Archive

View 0 posts and 123 comments by solitasoul on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
–

So if I'm understanding correctly, you are upset that women tighten their boundaries to be able to find a man that won't abuse them. It sounds like you are exactly the type of man these women are ditching in order to choose better. You just want to do whatever you want to her and are mad she learned her lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:50 PM
2

I think it's more of a symptom of a dying relationship than a cause though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:17 AM
–

I just got into a FWB thing (through Reddit no less!) and he's average in all the physical ways. But my god the chemistry is unreal. The sex is crazy good. And I love making him feel desirable - because he is!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:29 PM
3

Then ask women who are single and childless by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:05 PM
10

I'd say women who want children and don't have them are devastated. But I'd say most childless women are child free by choice, and the overwhelming majority do not experience regret over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:04 PM
–

I'm so glad someone brought this up. Humans aren't that much different from animals in that mating success doesn't always happen. We have consciousness so we see it as unfair. But, like, yeah. It is. That's kind of just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:40 PM
15

"doesn't matter, had sex" as they say. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:13 AM
5

Men are fun. With women, it's easy to get caught up in heavier conversations, at least it is for me. But with my guy friends I can bro down and have more of a laugh. I grew up with 3 brothers, and love them to bits. They're amazing men. And I'm lucky I get to know so many other amazing men!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:45 PM
4

But it's what happens a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:26 PM
6

But didn't you say not all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:49 PM
1

And that makes those people the wrong guys in the situation. What's your point? How does someone else's attention equate to ME cheating? Newsflash, as a woman horny men are always staring. That can't be my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:54 PM
16

Why do you think party-tit-flashing is the same as a nude beach? Nude beaches are nonsexual by nature. Nudism is nonsexual by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:02 PM
3

The spiders don't bother me so I usually leave them if I'm alone. If he sees one he freaks out until it's out of the house or dead. Yes, he actually did want that, and if course he didn't have to pay, it was a gift... We love trying new places and he's had that one in his list for a while. Point doesn't remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:32 PM
2

I take care of the spiders because my husband has a phobia. Does that count? I took him to a Michelin star restaurant he'd been dying to try for his birthday. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:36 AM
8

Women file the papers because they've always done that type of labour in the home. I know when my divorce happens, he'd rather sit on his arse than figure out paperwork. Because he has never figured out the paperwork in our relationship. Women get that shit done because he won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:11 PM
7

You're assuming every home is stable UNTIL there is divorce. It's not a divorce that destabilises a marriage. It's usually unstable well before that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:09 PM
10

Because they've been doing it for all of time. They're just pissed that they're being forced to accept women are people and not just an achievement or possession they can feel good about themselves over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:55 PM
30

That got me too. Rubbing our support networks in their faces? That's just their own insecurity showing through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:12 PM
–

No, you just change everything about him so you can tolerate him! Change his looks (get rid of those pesky glasses), his wardrobe, his hobbies, his friends - bam! Acceptable man! Seriously, I really doubt this is what men want. And if they are willing to change everything to get a woman to want them, that's not on the woman to facilitate or manage. Smoothie sounds good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:52 PM
–

The original women couldn't get the permit to burn the bras in the street, so they just threw them in a trash can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:48 PM
–

Same! My last trip was a circumnavigation of the globe without flying (mostly). Budget hostels and buses mostly. Cheap local travel, cheap local food. Free walking tours. I learned so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:38 PM
–

The assumptions here are blowing my mind. I'm a well travelled woman. I like to ride motorcycles and snorkel and hike. I've gone skydiving and camel riding. I've been to all communist countries except for one, just to see what it's like. I like learning and people watching. And yeah, I love eating and sightseeing. I'm also married and have an office job and no debt. I cook roast chicken and do watercolour in the evenings before bed. I bake. Like...women are whole people. We can have different in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:35 PM
1

Sometimes it just takes time. People experience attraction differently. I thought my spouse was a bit of an egotistical know it all when I first met him. It took a while to warm up to him, but one day it all just clicked and it was unbridled passion. It took seeing a different side of him, seeing him in a group and one one, doing activities, doing nothing, seeing how he interacted with others. We weren't even dating at the time, and then we were, hard and fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:26 PM
4

If you put heart and passion into everything you do, it's probably more that than the good sex. Passion in general is attractive, and I bet that's palpable from you. Noice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:17 PM
1

I've seen plenty of men justify all sorts of things based on their emotion. Feeling disrespected. Feeling angry. Feeling depressed. Feeling horny. The way men feel and express emotions may differ from women but we literally all feel the same things, and we all act on them based on instinct and past experience. And really, that's normal. Human emotion is advanced evolution and it's normal to pay attention and heed them. So if all you want to do is hook up because that's what you want based on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:15 PM
–

You can't possibly believe that what you're saying is an accurate representation of reality. The vast majority of women are not in situationships with chads. If it was so common there wouldn't be a movie about it. But it's a thought provoking and emotionally interesting story that makes viewers think about what they feel about the concept. I would get that few women would identify with the female characters you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:10 PM
5

Women often have more to lose than men. Think of all the stay at home moms that don't have any economic recourse to leave. I don't think you're right about forgiveness. I think women have had to increase what they can tolerate before the disadvantages of staying outweigh the disadvantages of leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:28 PM
10

No one asked them to do these things. They get together and have a wholesome male community. I'm not sure what else they do because I'm not a man nor from this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:42 PM
18

Exactly. If this is about men, we should focus on the men. Find ways to help them take care of their mental and physical health. Teach them coping mechanisms and ways to control impulses. Give them an open space to actually talk. Deep stuff. Whatever they need to talk about. And boys need male mentors, whether it's a father or not. Where I live, they have a thing called the town Men's Shed. AFAIK, it was designed to combat the loneliness experienced by typically older men in rural areas. They ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:49 PM
14

"all women" I'm a woman, and I don't care if a guy has a sex robot. It's just a fancy sex toy, and I have plenty of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:20 PM
–

I've seen estimates that rates of similar abuse are even higher within the Mormon church, where celibacy from leaders is not required. What are your thoughts on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:44 AM
3

These are only the men who get violent. Don't you think there are more men who get angry and don't murder the women? He only claimed anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:05 PM
3

You said a small minority of men get angry after being rejected. The sub is dedicated to exposing violence after refusal. I imagine many many more men get angry after rejection without getting violent. So no, I don't believe the majority of men do stuff on that sub. But I never made that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:04 PM
1

r/whenewomenrefuse would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:39 PM
–

Whose perception? If they're happy they're happy. My partner outranks me by far in the looks department. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:13 PM
8

I mean, no is the worst when your approach is reasonable. Begging someone to leave their life for a literal stranger in exchange for money deserves a shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:40 PM
2

Yeah, it's not a big deal when everyone takes care of their own shit. But why do men just stop doing it all when they get married? It's double the work to do it for someone else!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 PM
16

Seriously, I keep hearing that cooking and clea omg aren't big tasks, but never see a man willing to do them equally. Also, no mention of overall house management, which women are generally doing more of. Grocery shopping(which includes taking inventory, planning meals,and doing the legwork of shopping and putting away), doctor's appointments, family events, all of the stuff that makes life easy for a man are because women are doing it. A mowed lawn does not ease my burden at all. It does take m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:59 PM
2

Idk, men have issues too. I wouldnt say 90%of single men are perfect. Everyone has issues. You just have to find someone with issues you can deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:56 PM
2

But there are special protections that men need. Everyone should get the accomodations made necessary by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:09 PM
8

But those issues aren't happening in train carriages. That's the topic at hand. I am an avid supporter of men's mental health and men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:07 PM
1

We are the same! Best of luck with employment!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:59 PM
0

I'm not talking about entertainment. I'm talking about fulfillment. I'm a homebody. I like to chill at home. I love to be alone. But when it's ALL you have, it's tiresome. I need a variety to be happy. But everyone needs different stuff to feel fulfilled and happy (and even entertained). It's take a lot of work to figure out what I need and why, but I know that being home and unable to go anywhere is not it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:56 PM
1

I agree. I do have clinical depression, which makes everything harder. But I did do as much as I could. I forage a lot. Learned to make risotto and ravioli and the perfect roast chicken. We're renovating a house. I got a master's degree. But none of that is really what I needed to feel fulfilled (except for the degree course, which was over way too quickly). I need to feel part of something. I need to be learning. I need to be challenged. I need to be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:18 PM
3

Not a bad question. I'm living in my husband's country, kind of rurally. When COVID happened it threw out plans out (I had a contract signed for a job in a country we had loved in before, but the plague happened immediately, so we got stuck here more or less). We've done the best we could. He found a job, I didn't. I decided to get a master's, and that helped get me out. It's not super easy to get around, and our finances were screwed, so I relied on the bus and a lot of walking and getting ride…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:08 PM
34

I've been unemployed for two years while my husband supported us. I now see why housewives of olde stuck their heads in the oven. I've never been so depressed. My self esteem has never been lower. I finally found a job and can see the light at the end of the tunnel. It's not just the financial independence. I'm going to firm new relationships,be part of a team, GET OUT OF THE HOUSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:11 AM
–

Passport bros have existed for a long long time. Maybe not under that name, but there have always been dudes that can't get what they want at home so they go elsewhere where women want what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:54 AM
1

It really depends. Long story short, I'm kind of stuck in a place I don't enjoy, but mostly due to geography. But it's so nice to not have those kinds of worries I had in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:17 PM
2

Moving to the EU was right for me because of all of this. As a teacher in the US, I was regularly working 12 hours days and still couldn't afford needed medical procedures with the terrible insurance. And that time was unpaid as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:10 PM
1

This is literally my spouse and me. We just work to save to travel. We're not on any ladders and have no desire to be. We work and we chill. We do not hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:07 PM
1

Micropenis fine, minimum wage fine, height fine, I've never seen SpongeBob so I don't know the voice or arms really. You could transform him into a talking lamp and I'd still be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:13 PM
1

But I just don't know any women who think about it enough to come up with a requirement. I've not met a dick that was too small. Maybe you just have to keep going smaller and smaller until you decide "yep, this is my limit." Idk. I'm happy with my spouse. I don't really think about penises enough to create a minimum requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:04 PM
1

I guess I'm just confused why this guy thinks there is a starting size. A minimum measurement. Especially one that pertains to all or most women! Like we've all gotten together and agreed on it in our annual Woman's Meeting. Each person is an individual with different tastes. I've heard lots of men say that all boobs are good boobs, they're just happy to see them. Well all dicks are good dicks. But they're also easy to use against terrible.men because men are so insecure about their size,thanks …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:01 PM
1

😂😂 you sound like a person who has never had a relationship. I don't even know any women personally who is with someone for money in exchange for "slinging pussy" (cringe). If my spouse woke up tomorrow with a magically reduced now-2-inch penis, it would literally change nothing about how I feel about him. He could wake up with no penis and I'd be fine. Turns out, people in a relationship realize there's an actual person attached to those genitals. But hey,whatever you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:57 PM
6

Why do you think women think so hard about this. I've never once had a conversation with girl friends about our dick size boundaries. We might talk about experiences with different dicks, but I've never heard of anyone with a starting size...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:52 AM
8

I guarantee you most women have not even seen an 8inch penis in person. Its less of a preference and more of an aspiration. It's like when my virgin fiance told me (also a virgin at the time) that he prefers a woman fully shaved. Like, boy,you've only seen that in porn and like the way it looks. You don't get to have a preference until youve experienced it in real life. So, this is a false statement. Most women just want a dude who's not going to become a massive burden that we have to mother lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:49 AM
3

This is....really dumb. You don't need skills to fuck a woman? What in the world? Women are pretty complicated, sexually speaking. It takes time and effort to get us going (generally speaking, especially if we're starting from zero). Everything else being equal, yeah, a bigger dick may be preferable to some women. But you're kidding yourself if you think you can walk in with a big dick and do nothing else but stick it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:42 AM
2

That was succinctly put. I'm a woman, and yes, arms and shoulders are sexy. Forearms too. The hulky Hemsworth look is not for me, all it really takes are arms that look...functional in a crisis? Or capable of handling tasks that I struggle with? He doesn't have to be the strongest man in the world, just a bit stronger than me. I've never thought about my love for good arms this hard before!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:32 AM
3

I'm midthirties F, and I just love men. I have three little brothers that I have always loved being around, and I've just always felt comfortable around dudes. There are some excellent older men I know who love talking politics (I'm an American in the EU, so they love asking about trump) and tiling and foraging and lots of things. They're so kind and jolly and interesting. My friend groups tend to be male-heavy, which removes some of the pressure I feel around other women to perform femininity t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:42 PM
3

But aren't all of those things you listed just aspects of a good human? Women should also do their duty, whatever it is, live with honor, be respectful and mature, etc. What about these things makes them masculine? They're not exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:52 PM
1

But they do look very different, no? Just pointing out the Chad jaw is not for everyone. But all the real-life men I've dated? Chubby. Shortish. Nerdly. I can appreciate that the Mona Lisa is a masterpiece, but I don't want it in my house. It is nice, but not very ME. So yeah, I have a preference between these two different looking pieces of art, but I don't actually want to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:14 AM
3

So true. I had zero luck dating within my religious community, even though we had this big thing in common and supposedly wanted the same thing (godly marriage, kids, eternal life or whatever). In reality, the religion wasn't really for me and when I was able to leave it I found success in the expat community in a foreign country. It was the niche that I actually jived with and made some if the best male and female friends I've ever had, plus got a husband. Because our true values, in a lot of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:22 PM
4

Hiddleston or Holland? I'm a Loki girl. Not tom the actor. Just Loki. Tall, skinny, long black hair, broody - totally my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:13 PM
2

No I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:13 PM
2

Do men see stay at home wives as deadbeats? If not, doesn't that mean the work they do is valued?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:21 AM
2

That we didn't ask for and often really don't want. No one owes you anything for evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:39 PM
14

And this is the attitude that overrides literally anything else a man can offer - we know a lot of men only interact with us because they might get sex. That sucks. I'm not talking about Tinder or bars where that is what the majority of people are looking for, but in day to day interactions. To know that a passerby wouldn't help a woman in peril because women had the gall to not feel obligated to fuck him...that sucks. And it's a pessimistic outlook on humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:33 PM
2

Genetics do be like that sometimes. I'm just trying to stay healthy and get over what I don't like and can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:04 PM
2

I'm not sure that's accurate. I was a very fit teen, lots of working out, dancer, healthy eater. Still had dimply upper thighs. I'm not as lithe as I was, and if course I have more cellulite because I have more flesh, but it's basically the same texture as it's always been. But if you have some peer reviewed exercise recommendations, send em over because I don't LOVE the cellulite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:38 PM
1

Not every man is looking at kids that way. Just the pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:39 AM
3

Because people think it means you're fat. I was a tiny little thing in high school and still had cellulite. It's just the way your skin covers the fat underneath, not really how much fat you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:36 AM
8

Me too. It's not a sexual attraction thing, but more of just observations. And not that I constantly compare myself, but I also look to see fashion and body type ("I like her dress. Would it look the same on me?) . Sometimes admiration or aspiration- some women are just incredible specimens! How can I be more like that? I'm always delighted to see cellulite, because I have a lot and am self conscious. Seeing women who are not (or at least dressed like they are not self conscious) gives me confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:34 AM
–

And I'm a woman whose only had sex with one man and am a nightmare of effort and machinery to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:05 PM
0

Your attitude is a turnoff. The words you choose show you hate women. You're gross and if any woman heard you say that out loud in any place, they would get as far away from you as possible because they would know what you are: a misogynist. And if any woman you've ever been with heard you say this, shed wish she could go back in time and unfuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:03 AM
3

38 f,married,straight. This sub lacks nuance and empathy. The conversations do not represent the majority of most people I have met in my life. And I'm really glad my husband isn't as shallow as the men seem to be here. And I'm glad my female friends are intelligent,deep people. It makes me sad that sex seems to be the only link between men and women here. I cherish my male friendships. I cherish the particular emotional or mental connections we have. They add value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:55 AM
6

This feels true. I am not pretty,but I have a nice bod. I did not do well dating in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:23 AM
1

Then she's just already decided you're not a compatible romantic partner. What's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:29 AM
1

That's...not what I said. Or meant. But when a woman is murdered,it's usually a man who did it. And more, it's usually a known or related man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:05 AM
1

Exactly. Frickin manipulative hoarders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:03 AM
4

Exactly. Were told it's providing and generous,but most women would rather be able to just live for themselves and make their own money. Because we are whole people who have dreams and desires that don't have to rely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:50 AM
4

Men murder women at an astounding rate. I'd say that's treating people like trash, at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:48 AM
4

So are we talking about single.mothers or single mother celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:47 AM
1

Well, me finding my husband had more to do with leaving a cult than anything. He just happened to be there haha. Physical attraction was never the most important quality, or even one I cared about that much. That said,as I'm getting older and discovering myself more, I've realized I might be asexual or at least not experience sexual attraction in the typical kind if way. So like, I can recognize when a person is objectively attractive, but it doesn't make me feel anything about them. For other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:32 AM
1

Well, he's nice to look at. But I found all my previous boyfriend's nice to look at, even though they weren't all objectively attractive. My husband's previous long-term gf was also prettier than me. But I'm also smart and interesting, which his gf was not. And he married me. And he's open-minded and adventurous and ambitious, which my previous bfs were not. So I married him. We all put value in different things in a partner. Earning potential was never a factor for me. We worked the same low pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:15 PM
-1

You're assuming that she got with him because he is a gym bro. I'm pretty sure most gym bros have lives and interests outside of the gym, so maybe it was something like that? My husband is objectively way hotter than me (I'm a butterface) but that isn't why I liked him in the first place, and me having a pretty meh face didn't take away from the fact that everything else I had to offer lined up pretty well with what he was looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:38 AM
1

Did you know many men find that their personal value does not depend on whether they have sex or not? Generally, these same men acknowledge that a woman's personal value also does not depend on whether she has sex or not. I feel sorry for people who define their (and others') value on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:51 PM
0

Oh definitely. Values should definitely align, especially regarding sex. I just wanted to clarify that casual sex doesn't mean inability or lack of desire to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:18 PM
1

Just because they haven't committed to everyone they've slept with doesn't mean they can't commit. More likely, they're filling a need that isn't a relationship. Whether that need and the method of meeting it is healthy is another question entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:36 PM
5

Seriously. No one has to go by anyone else's timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:32 PM
-1

the more men a women sleeps with the less valuable each partner will feel Each of us are responsible for our own feelings. If a man feels less valuable because of his partner's sexual history, it is his own responsibility to deal with that. Why does he feel less valuable? What experiences has he had that lead him to have this particular emotional response to a situation? Does he feel less valuable to himself, the partner, all women? Or does he think the woman sees him as less valuable? Why does …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:25 PM
1

Or we'll settle fir just caring or just helpful or just whatever. It all depends on the woman's values. Early on in life, before we've figured out what we actually value, everyone tends to go for attractive more or less. It's easy to judge and you don't have to think too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:51 PM
5

Indeed. In a world where women can earn their own way and choose their path, a man is a bonus, not a need. I'm not very pretty, but my husband genuinely enjoys my presence. He doesn't make a lot of money, but I genuinely enjoy his presence. Look for someone you like and you'll be surprised at how many unimportant things you worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:48 PM
16

666 is my lucky number : 6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack. (Jk, my husband has one of the three, and if he didn't have that, it still wouldn't be a deal breaker )
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/22 01:47 PM
18

Here let me get that for ya. /s
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 08:40 AM
1

I was one! Lost it at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:48 PM
1

When women say "male attention" it doesn't mean a casual turning if heads. It refers to catcalling, groping, and other entitled behavior on the man's part. Know what feels awesome? When you catch a guy checking you out and linger for juuuuuust a second on your butt because it means you got the right jeans (which is very hard to do). It's confirmation that you are looking good, also very hard to do sometimes. It's an ego boost. It's nice. We notice the brief glances, and it makes the stares that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:20 PM
0

But that's the thing. Bryleigh is not special. Most women are like bryleigh. It's not the generalization, it's the incorrect generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:35 PM
10

Yeah. Maybe "more prolific" communication is more precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:46 PM
2

Extenuating circumstances: you met and married as expats in a third country and want to relocate to a home country.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 10:19 PM
2

Thank you for bring vulnerable and sharing this. I wish you the best in your battle.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 10:06 PM
8

This is my first time visiting the sub, and I feel like I learned a lot from your reasonable answers. Would you say that you are a good representative of the typical member of this group? Or do you find that most members differ from you in attitude, reasoning, etc.?
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 09:54 PM
10

Except for your integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:00 AM
4

This is actually scientifically untrue. Studies have shown that men have a narrower view of attractiveness, while women are more diverse in what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:23 PM
2

That is not the case, unfortunately. Men do not approach me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:03 AM
6

I'm a butter-face in decent shape - I cannot remember the last time I was hit on or flirted with. Beauty matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:54 AM
2

But you think you know what women want lol. Bruh...you're off the mark. You don't know women as well as you think you do. The fact that you claim to know women's motivations, as if Women are all the same anyway, is extremely telling. You're clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:01 PM
7

You're assuming the reasons women wear makeup, and generalizing them to all women. I guarantee you that most women doing their morning makeup routine are not thinking "ah yes, surely this mascara will raise my status" (whatever that means).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:51 AM
–

A dildo is an object. Porn (or the persistent viewing of porn) can turn women into objects (for the viewer's pleasure). It is very different. I don't have anything against the voluntarily self-objectification (I was a burlesque dancer) or porn. But it becomes a hindrance to developing relationships when it begins to color your view of women in general. When my SO told me that watching porn was affecting how he views me - after I confronted him about some out-of-character moments during sex - we …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:49 PM
1

Let me clarify my question: how do you know these women are seeking validation or are insecure? Have they told you this, or are you making assumptions? If so, what particular behaviors have led you to assume that these women are seeking validation specifically? Second question: do you find that men who sleep around a ton are also seeking validation of some sort as well? Thank you for your thoughtful reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:19 AM
1

Can you explain more about your observations? How many assumptions are involved in getting your theory from your observations?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:02 PM
-1

She got shitty because you made your relationship only about sex lol. Obviously she puked and resected you enough until YOU got shitty and whiney about wanting butt stuff or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 12:50 PM
3

Women now have the ability to be more selective of their mates. Men who would need to put in more effort to be desirable (financially, emotionally, physically, personality, etc) find it easier to find actual satisfaction through porn instead of going through the work to make themselves desirable. If sex is all they seek, why bother with the human element at all? However, if they see sex as part of a meaningful and fulfilling relationship, they might try harder to become a person with whom women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:00 PM
2

It's not because you call them fat. It's because you call them hogs. Parkour is cool, I don't have the guts haha. It's not an impossibility that we will adopt but it is unlikely. More so for having a biological child. Just not a lifestyle we want. I'm ok for life advice, but thank you for offering that sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/20 10:31 PM
2

But like...I don't even own a couch lol. But ok, I'm weak, and I just can't stand when people have the wrong idea of me. I'm 35. I wear size small and medium. I do intermittent fasting. My snack of preference is parma ham and a nice brie. I exercise and stretch every day. I have a great ass, great tits, and have a kickass sex life. I have hobbies, a well-paying job, and a college education. I've circumnavigated the globe and I speak a couple languages. My favorite mode of transporation is cyclin…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 06:46 PM
2

you're as good at reading bullshit as you are at spelling it. But I'll let you keep guessing my life situation lol. Empathy is neither of those things. It has nothing to do with feeling or being better. It's about understanding people where they are now and trying to identify with the complex emotions they're feeling. Compassion instead of ill-founded "good will." You seem to perceive a person's worth based on their size. THAT is dehumanizing. They are no longer peopkle to you; they are pigs, bl…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 11:42 AM
2

You lost me, bro. I don't eat that shit lol. I don't have to explain my diet and exercise to some loser on the internet hahaha. I also have no idea where you even got that assumption. Because I think it's wrong to dehumanize fat people? It's called empathy, but you're too busy name calling and watching porn to have a clue haha. Want truth? Dms are open and I welcome some hearty conversation lol. See ya.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 08:36 AM
-1

If your mother is as hateful, arrogant, and dehumanizing as yourself, then yeah, she probably is proud. And I'm going to leave now. You're a human being I can do without. I don't care who you fuck - it doesn't mean anything to me, and everyone's allowed to have preferences. But the way you talk about other humans is pretty disgusting, and I hope I never meet you in person. I can tell exactly who you are, and it is revolting.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/20 10:56 AM
0

And I'm ts not even the most obese nation! Iirc, it's like kuwait or somewhere in the middle east that has the highest rated of obesity. But I'm sure America started it, tbh. Fast and processed foods and all that.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/20 08:54 AM
-7

"fat chick" "prize hog" Ah yes, I can tell you know how to sweet talk a woman. Must be having lots of sex. Enjoy the one night stands because anyone who spends enough time with you will quickly realize that you value others so little. Your mother should be ashamed of you.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/20 08:51 AM
1

I will certainly agree that as a rule it is best for each person in the relationship to be financially stable and wise, absolutely. And able to recover losses via employment (mlms don't count...or work!) Separate is probably best for the majority of relationships. Though honestly, I've found it very comfortable to be in a position if financial "power" in my relationship. I make most of the money, I'm not an ass, and he trusts me to not be an ass, so I feel very secure. I firmly believe that ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:11 AM
1

You're totally right. I guess I'm just fortunate in my situation. I'm the breadwinner and in charge of finances at the moment and he sucks with keeping track of stuff. I could probably move all of our money to a different account and he would never know until he can't use his debit card. While it's important to have your own money, the least effective way to do that is to hide money anywhere if it comes from his paycheck. Women should be educated and/or qualified to do something that you could b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:34 PM
1

I think that's a pretty good rule, but things work differently for different people. My husband and I have had a shared account since we've been married, and just a year after dating he put all his money in MY account for a while!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:38 AM
2

I feel really bad for women in these situations, honestly. It's terrible how some men can be so controlling financially. I am blessed to have a partner that is on the same page financially. We trust each other. I wish every woman could have that kind of financial relationship with her partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:36 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter