solojaye Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult		solojaye	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 04:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I've read your response, thank you again	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 03:29 PM
0	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult You're talking about something i've been interested intently in for two years. And you're using phrase not used in that world. Look if you're truly trying to help a stranger, that's admirable, and this sub did clear up some things for me and open my eyes to some history of the term RP. Cultish mindset is gibberish to me. I was in a cult for 32 years, what is a cultish mindset? I asked this, and you didn't answer, that's as much time and energy as i'm giving to a stranger. Thanks, to everyone in …	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 03:04 PM
-2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I'm sorry, you're using phrases unfamiliar to me, what is a cultish mindset? Who are Red pill folks? Like am I a RP person because I've read Rational Male? What are examples of RP teachings and who is teaching them? I know this is text and might sound like i'm being sarcastic or like a troll, but i'm genuinely confused how a person can be a red pill person? or have cultish mindests? Do you mean a person who does things similar to a particular cult? We might start this by asking what you think RP…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 02:42 PM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Incorrect, I wanted to know if it's a cult or not. Do you think it's a cult? The idea, not the subreddit called TRP, because frankly I've already discussed that error, see comments above.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 02:27 PM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult lol ok I can leave it up, I just hid it (whatever that means) I was just tired of getting alerts, my phone only normally goes off when somethings important its driving me nuts lol.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 05:15 AM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult At this point, i just want to delete this thread lol. But someone was having a side conversation and I figured I'd let them finish talking.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 05:01 AM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Doesn't seem like the place to discuss my thoughts on sexual differences. See my comments above	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 03:48 AM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I had to re-read that a few times lol. That's interesting and to any and all I don't mean to offend, especially victims of any sort. I've been down a rabbit hole for about three weeks starting with rational male, and have browsed articles and videos about a subject I find difficult to label. A lot of it had red pill as a common denominator, which led me to Married Red pill, which led me to this which is exredpill. I haven't yet come across the dynamic of people you're describing, (well i have in…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 12:47 AM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I can't easily scroll right now so sorry if I said that, I meant that we see sexual things differently. I.e. what motivates a man vs what motivates a woman sexually. Or differing views on sex after marriage etc. But all that said I'm letting it go, I think you guys have been referring to the sub TRP and more specifically the commenters there, and I was just referring to the concept and paradigm shifts.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 11:44 PM
3	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult So, I have a book called the Rational Male on Audible, the author describes red pill like the scene in the Matrix, where Neo has his world view changed to realize things weren't as they seem. I'm an Ex-jw, we say Red pill when we woke and realized we were in a cult. That's the end of it though. And the book led me to think the same. Now in the book he goes on to talk about his views of a difference between how men and women see (mainly sexual) relationships. When i'm saying TRP I'm using it as h…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 11:14 PM
2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Thanks, i'll check it out.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 10:17 PM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I totally get that, and i wasn't trying to come into a place of healing and stir things up, or debate how bad or great TRP is, I just wanted an honest view from the other side, which by this time I can say I think I get the main complaints. I would strongly disagree they are a cult, though i'm sure some people are starting to get cult like followings. Thanks again for the replies	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 09:26 PM
3	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I don't want to seem like I'm unappreciative of your time for replying, but i honestly don't know what you're saying. Apologies for honing in on that one statement, I really just wanted to know why people are saying TRP is a cult.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 08:11 PM
3	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Thank you, I've never been to the sub for TRP, and it sounds like from this article it's a pretty crappy place. Especially this: Essentially the premise is that women have what we want (sex), and they can make us bend over backwards to get it. They have us wrapped around their little fingers. Those who "take the Red Pill" awaken to their true male potential and learn to get what they want without having to submit and forfeit their masculinity. That's not the conclusion TRP has led me to, nor is …	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 08:09 PM
2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Thank you so much for the detailed response. I was just trying to sum up my confusion to an earlier response, but it was getting long and unnecessarily deep :/ I think what you're saying is TRP has caused tons of pain, can you explain though, what program, or content, or standards are you referring to when talking about TRP, are you mainly referring to the subreddit and youtube content? Or a book or something?	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 07:18 PM
2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Isn't that in line with RP though? Doesn't the consensus agree to work on yourself, and do what you're supposed to do as a man? For instance as opposed to the old notion "happy wife happy life" which is not meeting in the middle but rather focusing on the wife and her happiness.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/21 05:29 PM