sombrerocabbage Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	When Policy Overrides the Law, My Experience with Northamptonshire Police	Legal Rights	sombrerocabbage	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 12:16 AM

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4	There’s is little to no statistics about women’s violences against men and it pisses me off I watched a Guys girlfriend, walk into a pub, tell him to get home, take his cap off dunk it in his pint, put it back on his head, grab his pint and smash it on the floor at his feet.... I've never seen guy in that pub ever do anything like that to their girlfriend.	/r/MensRights	18/06/26 10:18 AM
19	Britain's 'world standing' at risk from boys 'chronic' lower results at GCSE - report warns. I don't think it's the overworked and underpaid aspect. When Policing is majority Male and arguably more overworked and underpaid. It's a choice based on how a person wants to be valued in their community. Men and women that pursue a career in civil service spaces are generally more likely to feel purpose serving their community through either protection and justice or nurture and care respectively. It's certainly linked to the personality traits just as much as the salary. If there are schemes …	/r/MensRights	16/08/25 02:40 PM
147	Britain's 'world standing' at risk from boys 'chronic' lower results at GCSE - report warns. Why do these articles make it sound like boys are not performing, when it's the education system that is actually underperforming. An industry whose workforce is 76% female. So actually. Women are underperforming when it comes to teaching boys.maybe we need to prioritise hiring men in education so boys have role models and people that understand them as their educators.	/r/MensRights	16/08/25 12:30 PM
5	The Guardian coins "mankeeping" term, where women face the horror of having to listen to and emotionally support their partners I complained here. https://www.theguardian.com/info/2014/sep/12/-sp-how-to-make-a-complaint-about-guardian-or-observer-content#290c79fe-af1d-488a-b692-c8498722dec6	/r/MensRights	17/06/25 05:26 PM
5	Man drinks 3 glasses of wine on plane. Minds his own business. Woman feels “unsafe”. how DARE he laugh at something from his podcast near me! that must mean he's dangerous.	/r/MensRights	27/05/25 02:18 PM
2	Homophobia in this group Ohh man. I wanted to reassure OP that he is not the problem... And he is welcome... But explain why some idiots elieve that nonsense.	/r/MensRights	23/05/25 12:29 PM
3	Homophobia in this group You clearly will face discrimination as a man, regardless of your sexuality. Being gay doesn't shield you from the broader issues men face in society. I can understand why some people might assume you face less discrimination, but that perception often comes from the way certain left-wing activist circles have targeted 'straight white men' as a kind of shorthand for systemic privilege. What’s often overlooked is that phrase includes three protected characteristics, sex, race, and sexual orientat…	/r/MensRights	23/05/25 09:17 AM
16	"Will you treat me. I'm suicidal!" Study finds mental health professionals are less likely to treat suicidal men, and more likely to treat women. Not from the Health services...	/r/MensRights	15/05/25 06:17 AM
55	"Will you treat me. I'm suicidal!" Study finds mental health professionals are less likely to treat suicidal men, and more likely to treat women. Anecdotally, this was so true when I asked for help. I got told to go talk to a charity, that wasn't available for another 6 hours....	/r/MensRights	15/05/25 05:32 AM
3	Feminists are always complaining about women's mental load, but what are some examples of mens mental load? Men are often expected to be the provider, protector, problem-solver, and emotional rock, all while suppressing their own emotions. We carry the pressure of financial stability, home maintenance, being emotionally available yet stoic, and rarely have strong emotional support systems. The mental load for men is real, it’s just less visible because society doesn’t accept it when men want to talk about it. Men's emotional load in relationships also involves, solving arguments, keeping the peace, an…	/r/MensRights	15/05/25 05:30 AM
1	When Policy Overrides the Law, My Experience with Northamptonshire Police She didn't force me to. I hold myself responsible and accountable for the way I reacted, I have never once said that it was her fault I did that. It doesn't make what she did to upset me that much any less hurtful though, and when I look back on the things she said and the fact she was secretly recording, whilst continuing to do the thing I had told her had upset me... Makes me think she was intentionally trying to bait me into doing something stupid. She was successful, I did do something stupi…	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 09:29 PM
1	When Policy Overrides the Law, My Experience with Northamptonshire Police I had already reached snapping point. I'd packed my stuff ready to leave. Had thrown my hand luggage across the room and was not being quiet... Literally begging her to move so I could sleep and being told to fuck off and go away by her... I managed to move her at one point to make room for myself, and she sat back up, looked me dead in the eyes and moved herself back across the bed to a position that left me no space to get in... I think most people would be upset at that point. And I was. Mana…	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 12:57 PM
6	The Labour Party promised to reduce violence against women, but male victims are far less important! I don't think they are brought up just to downplay women's problems. But as victim myself, trying to find support actually highlighted how little support there is for men... Read my Post from earlier to understand more. 😜	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 12:06 PM
4	When Policy Overrides the Law, My Experience with Northamptonshire Police You are right. She is not, she could have gone to the police 3 months prior, ended the relationship and told whoever she wanted. But she didn't. She used the video to ensure I did what she wanted, when she wanted and any time I didn't tow the line, I'd be threatened with being exposed. She was secretly recording me, whilst laughing at me, and asking over and over what I had been doing for the past 3 hours... Though it can't be proved, it seemed like a deliberate attempt to get a reaction from me…	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 11:07 AM
8	The Labour Party promised to reduce violence against women, but male victims are far less important! I appreciate what you're saying. Violence against women is a serious issue and absolutely deserves attention. But the "over 80 percent of victims are women" figure usually only covers reported physical violence. It often leaves out emotional abuse, coercive control, and the fact that male victims are much less likely to report abuse. According to the Office for National Statistics, around one in three domestic abuse victims are men. Studies have also shown that men are more likely to downplay or…	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 12:24 AM