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I agree with u/tdabc123. Waiting for her acknowledgement is giving her too much power. Instead, be grateful and thank those who actually care and wish you a happy birthday. You gave her your best for 11 years (same as me, btw). That was what you were living for at the time! The time has come to live for yourself. It will take some time to get used to. Start doing what you enjoy doing (whether it's going to sporting events, outdoor activities, playing pool, whatever...) and try not to think about…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 05:30 AM
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Going through a divorce now. We get along fine but the marriage is over. She wants to keep the house and wanted me to move out a long time ago. I did nothing wrong. She f'ed up. So I'm staying put until I get my portion of the equity whether it's through a sale or she buys me out. I sleep in the master bedroom. She sleeps on trundle. I want my own place. But I'm moving when I'm ready and not when she says so.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 04:57 AM
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Glad I could help! Good luck, buddy!
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 04:39 AM
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Therapy has worked for me. I was in that boat for a while. Been separated for a year and my divorce will be settled soon. I don't miss her but I miss the feeling i had when she cared about me. That may be the OP's issue, or it could be something different altogether. One won't know until you talk it out. I saw a few therapists until I found one that worked for me. I say if you don't see results after the first, try another.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 03:33 AM
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