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Deleting dating apps cause they mess with your brain. Also, work on your hobbies and self-love. Follow your dreams. Besides that - find some people who are willing to go out cold approach with you. There are tons of groups where you can find such people. I found 10+ through a facebook group. Take it seriously and go through your fears. Cold approaching will catapult you out of the comfort zone and will help you heavily to be a man. Besides that - stay consistent. Dont give up. If you make the be…
/r/seduction09/09/20 06:04 PM
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Lol return it.
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:56 PM
3

Yeah somehow. If a girl cannot rely on her man, she wont need him
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:06 PM
5

Very important post!
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:20 PM
2

You just have to cold approach. To anyone who wants women: Learn self love, cold approach and confidence. Thats it. No need for money or status symbols
/r/seduction04/09/20 04:43 PM
3

How often do you want to ask this retarded question with different accounts? Get over your insecurities, damn it.
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:03 PM
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You should totally. She is giving you signs and you like that woman. Stop overthinking and just kiss her already. Dont talk, kiss. Have fun!
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:36 AM
3

Goddamn, just kiss her finally
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:00 AM
4

You asked the same question yesterday with another account.
/r/seduction02/09/20 11:41 AM
1

Block this guy
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:25 AM
1

Why the fuck do you post this shit 2 times a week with different accounts? Damn I always have to block you
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:22 AM
1

So what is this post for? I only see negativity. If you want to lose virginity just go to a prostitute. I dont know you, but my guess is that people are more weirded out by your behaviour and attitude than by your virginity.
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:20 AM
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Thats normal :D dont start by climbing the mt. Everest. Start small. In order to be easily able to approach women, you need to practice. Just start asking strangers for the time. Ask them about the way to xy. Do this 5-10 times. Then do 5 times random compliments. Like, walk up to someone and give them an honest compliment. Thats the warm up. Then you are ready to go. Never start with the most difficult task first, I see this so many times. You need to be comfortable
/r/seduction01/09/20 08:18 AM
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Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction30/08/20 07:19 PM
7

Why do you ask this every 2nd day? Its annoying.
/r/seduction30/08/20 07:18 PM
1

You should check out facebook groups
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:09 PM
2

Just relax and wsit
/r/seduction29/08/20 09:26 AM
6

Hello! Being 18 and having no kiss or whatsoever is perfectly fine. You have the power to change that. Just be honest to yourself amd be brave. Dont start by going to a girl and approaching her. Start small. Ask someone for the time. Ask for the way to next cinema. Anything. Start with people you are comfortable talking to and then progress to beautiful girls. Start giving compliments. And after 1 or 2 weeks, start approaching. Just go to a beautiful girl and PRACTICE. Tell her she looks beautif…
/r/seduction29/08/20 08:26 AM
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Man, no ads here
/r/seduction28/08/20 07:00 AM
2

Why do you ask that question like once a week?
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:41 PM
1

Well,I did it in Germany. And germany is even more stiff. I promise you, there are several people in London who do cold approaching. Only because it is "not normal" doesnt mean its inacceptable. If you do it in Arabia or Afghanistan its a different thing. But you can do it safely in Europe. Just take someone with you and approsch some beautiful girls in the streets of London
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:38 PM
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Cause dating apps are a waste of time. You might get some dates but you are just one out of many. I also used them and got maybe one match a week. If you really want to be good with women you just need to go out and approach every girl you like. In the beginning it will be one oft the most difficult things to do but if you manage to do this, you will grow so much in confidence, its crazy. And you will get good girls, if you stay consistent. Just read a little bit of good pickup and take some bud…
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:03 PM
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Why should I react? Thats good for them and I would enjoy the show
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:31 AM
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Women dont get turned on by looks. They get turned on by confidence. Also, those guys were lucky. If you want to bang some girls, you need to approach them. Dont wait for them to come to you.
/r/seduction24/08/20 07:18 PM
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Just small boobed. I had a girl friend that was even flat-chasted. But that was no problem for me
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:34 PM
1

You never met in person and she tells you to not chat with any other girls, thats just creepy and a really big red flag. I would just delete her, she seems like a timewaster. Why should you run after her?
/r/seduction23/08/20 11:09 AM
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If a man tells you straight you have small boobs, he is no man but an idiot.
/r/seduction23/08/20 11:06 AM
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It is normal but only because it is normal doesnt mean its good. If you dont get physically closer, you will get into the friendzone. Only by touching her and creating a sexual vibe, you can get into her pants. Next time you meet her, just hug her as a greeting. Throughout the date, try to touch her often in a nonsexual way. I often use things like comparing each others hands, fist-bumps, high-fives. Also I often just touch her hair (mhh what shampoo do you use?) or touch and ask about her cloth…
/r/seduction21/08/20 07:15 AM
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Ahhh. Got it. Well, the key here is to talk with your partner. There are many girls who overthink this. Just tell her about that and if she is uncomfortable, then it is maybe not the right one.
/r/seduction18/08/20 01:32 PM
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I wonder why not finishing is considered a problem? If you try to force it, it wont happen. It is nature.
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:09 PM
1

The more you believe in yourself, the less the numver of rejections. When you want to have some girls, confidence is the #1 thing you should develop
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:33 AM
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You are overthinking. Just leave your thoughts and do the first approach. Take a friend with you if you are too scared. Do 5 direct cold approaches und all the anxiety will slowly dissolve.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:48 PM
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Oh no, they waste time and dont get you anywhere. By approaching, you grow so much, its just crazy
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:55 PM
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Fuck all the seduction shit. It is your first girlfriend and it was your first experience. Just talk honestly about your thoughts and feelings. Ask her things. About sex: tell her that you are inexperienced. Tell her you would love to make love together without hurting her. Communicate - please dont use any creepy seduction techniques in a relationship. You dont need to prove anything
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:54 PM
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Here in my German city (500.000) there are more than enough girls. Even 20 an hour is possible
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:43 AM
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Go out and approach many women, around 30 or 40.
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:05 AM
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No. There are so many red flags and I guarantee you that he only wants to have sex with you, nothing more. I would not waste time on this guy.
/r/seduction16/08/20 06:34 AM
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Do never compare yourself with others. Its your life. You are unique.
/r/seduction15/08/20 07:09 PM
1

I still dont get it. Do you want her back? Or do you want to bang her?
/r/seduction15/08/20 05:57 PM
7

Uhm I dont quite get it. Whats your reason that you invite your ex? Do you want to be together with her?
/r/seduction15/08/20 02:18 PM
6

Totally bs. The more you wait, the more she will forget about you
/r/seduction15/08/20 10:37 AM
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Man, no promotions. Stop that,its uncool and against the rules
/r/seduction13/08/20 07:51 PM
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So this is basically a post to promote your services
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:41 AM
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Thats the wrong mindset. #1 priority should be you. How much do you love yourself? How confident are you? How happy are you? Thats what matters. If you are banging 2 women at the same time but still feel miserable and needy, not even 100 girls will change your inner quality. Just work on being confident and be brave by approaching girls. Never fake. Be truly you. The right girls who fit you will come. By the way, if you are good looking but have low selfesteem, you will get some girls into bed. …
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:52 AM
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Nope, absolutely not. Been doing that for several months with some buddies. One buddy of mine stutters and is in my eyes not "good looking". But he pulled way more than my good looking bros! He got like 2 dates per day! Form around 10 approaches. Confidence, Humor, empathy and hygiene matter.
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:15 AM
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Be loyal, listen to him, care for him, give him much sex and love and dont bitch around. Thats it
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:27 AM
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Then dont take it too seriously. Men will come. Maybe your approaches are too aggressive, idk
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:23 AM
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What are your looks? That plays a major role. Also, do you love yourself?
/r/seduction09/08/20 09:16 PM
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Yes. Decide - how sexy am I? If you think you are totally sexy and BELIEVE that - then you are sexy
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:07 AM
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Goddamn stop it. Every time I block you, you make new accounts. Stop caring about that
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:24 PM
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I am doing cold approach in Germany. Dont expect anything if you come to her with "whatsup". She doesnt know you. You might be a seller, a gangster or whatever. Just tell her you think she is beautiful and just have a flirty conversation.
/r/seduction06/08/20 11:46 AM
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Geeman too. You will have better luck finding facebook groups. There are plenty good ones.
/r/seduction06/08/20 11:43 AM
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Uhm everyone has their different personality but in my eyes you treated her bad. Also it is never a good choice to call a girl "ugly", not even joking. Girls are very insecure about that. I wonder, what are you expecting? You seem distanced - how can someone get closer to you this way? Otherwise, it is clingy from her to talk about relationships if you only had one date and a little bit kissing. No offense but honestly, you both seem crazy in some way.
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:24 PM
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Why do you even care? If you think they are too skinny, go and do some workout. It is really dangerous to be dependent on others opinions
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:58 AM
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Stop posting finally, its annoying
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:56 AM
1

I dont know you but if you want to find a girlfriend you need to start approaching women. At the mall, on the street, in the stores, everywhere! Learn to love yourself and to be honest and direct. Many people will tell you to play "games" and do some tricks to get her into bed. This is counterproductive. You will always wear some mask. Put down the mask, be honest and direct and approach many women, then you will never have a problem with girls again. Telling from my own experience. It is not ha…
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:08 AM
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Just knock on her door and ask her out
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:34 PM
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Priority shouldnt be the sex, but getting comfortable at talking to girls. Then the rest will follow easily. Just be straight honest and talk. TALK! You will only get better in talking and seducing when you do this.
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:24 PM
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No, also not
/r/seduction26/07/20 08:35 PM
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Please dont put any masks on. Be authentic. But I suggest you first focus on getting happy, that is way more important than getting relationships
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:54 AM
2

Things will get better :-) I suggest you try out meditation
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:26 PM
1

Ugh, the question is not a good question in my view. More important: Do you have fun? Do you like the girl? Are you getting closer? Then it is a successful date. If you are needy and desperate and you date 10 girls and 3 of them like you back, I would not say it is success.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:23 PM
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She is maybe embarassed. It doesnt really matter. How to get over "rejection"? 2 things: Love yourself Give yourself the value you deserve. Meet other girls If there is only one girl on this planet, you will become needy. Just start approaching girls everywhere. On the street, in school. It is not easy but very important. That's the whole secret to being a womanizer.
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:32 AM
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Sounds like a shit test. Girls will test you to see if you are masculine but that girl seems like a waste of time
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:09 AM
1

You dont need any resources. You also dont need to perform like a pornstar. Good women also wont expect that you are an alpha male. Sex is something natural. The body wants it. You just need to be relaxed with your woman and have some fun. You will feel the sexual energy. Enjoy it. Everything is good and fun. Just have fun! No need to force anything :-)
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:40 AM
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Can you stop creating multiple fake accounts just to post the same question over and over?
/r/seduction15/07/20 11:57 PM
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May I share my view. I read every of your days. There are 2 main points ehich stop you from getting your desired girls. Your opener It is just too friendly. It is not straight forward. Just try being direct " hey, i love your sweet smile!" Flirting Logic kills attraction If you want to make her attracted to you, you need to flirt. Make jokes, make a little fun of her Just try it. It is not that hard
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:41 PM
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Please dont become an alpha male. Thats stupid. You will be fake. Your goal should be to become confident and loving yourself. And number two - just talk as much as you can. You will fuck up many times but learn great things. Just talk to them. There is no way arouns that.
/r/seduction15/07/20 10:28 AM
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So, what do you like so much about younger guys?
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:10 AM
1

Seriously,it is okay to poke a little bit. Thats womans nature. But the things she say sound terrible. I would dump her.
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:39 PM
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It is easy - love yourself!!!!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:18 PM
3

Never tell a girl about other girls. Even if they seem like they could handle it, but they cannot. It is a man's thing. You dont need to be honest about every little thing. If your girl asks you if she looks fat today, you wont say "Yes babe, you look fat and ugly today"
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:50 PM
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Casual sex always seems like a hollywood movie when u r in a relationship. But once you stick it in in someone new, you see it just as normal. If you love your partner but want to run away to find someone who doesnt make problems or your "twin flame", I would just work on the existing relationship if I were you.
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:22 AM
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Instead of number close, try to make an instant date first. If you both have time.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:03 AM
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Ohhh try it out first.
/r/seduction13/07/20 07:19 PM
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Hey man - great u want to try out new things. In my view the artistic opener sucks, it is too "nice". Just tell the woman what you like about her, be authentic. "Wow, youve got a beautiful ass!" "You have such a beautiful smile!" Then the girl will know that you are hitting on her. Cause with that artistic opener she may thinks "what does he want from me?" or that you are afraid to be honest to her
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:36 PM
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Your #1 priority should be to get confident and the best version of yourself. You need to start loving yourself! Approaching people is just secondary. Also, if you approach people with the mindset "I am ugly", then you will get results which prove that you are ugly.
/r/seduction13/07/20 10:54 AM
1

Yeah I feel you, it is sweet. Just stay confident and real :) thats the whole secret of dating. No need for silly mind games
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:33 PM
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Maybe she got scared? The past doesnt matter anymore. Just tell her you would love to hang out. If she doesnt want to, forget about her. Dont be needy. Meet other girls, maybe the next one will be more secure. After all, do you REALLY want an insecure girl?
/r/seduction12/07/20 12:49 PM
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Well, did you mention anything about relationships or did you tell her about your feelings? If yes, thats a gamekiller. Just relax, it is just a girl. Call or text her and talk about whatever you want. Have some fun. Ask her out for something casual (eating ice cream, watching movie). Dont be pushy. Stay confident and show it. Kiss her. And from this point, just go to your place and bang her. But please dont get sensitive and tell her you want to marry her. Good luck bro
/r/seduction12/07/20 11:56 AM
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Just love yourself and have fun. You will attract beautiful girls then. Stay confident and make moves. Thats it.
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:24 AM
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Well, a pity for her. Nothing to do, or you want an insecure girl which is in a relationship?
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:23 AM
2

That sounds more like there is something going on in his mind. Instead of trying to seduce him, it would be a better idea to talk with him about that. Maybe he has got some problems
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:05 PM
1

Just try it. Girls love it. Done over 400 times
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:32 PM
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Women need foreplay. Dont just get your dick out and put it in. Enjoy, relax, have fun. Sex is something natural and fun. Enjoy the process
/r/seduction08/07/20 05:05 PM
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I really like what you are doing but in my view the artistic opener is not really good. You stop a girl and tell her she looks artistic. What will she think? Good chances she will think "What does he want from me?" In my experience it is good and also important to tell the girl in the beginning that you like her looks (or something else) and wsnted to say hello. Then she will know what you wsnt from her. Just try it, you will be surprised.
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:50 PM
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Stop thinking and go outside
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:57 AM
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If you ask such a question, you are not attractive. Just assume you are attractive and you will be attractive.
/r/seduction07/07/20 01:34 PM
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Hey buddy - maybe it is time to try something else. When u approach the girl with "u look xy..." she doesnt quite know what what u want from her. You can try this out tomorrow: Stop her, tell her you like her (the thing u like on her) and say u want to get to know her. And then - ask/guess her name
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:58 PM
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Girls psychology is the same all over the world. If you are an attractive man and actively approach women, you WILL sooner or later slip into someones pants
/r/seduction04/07/20 11:51 AM
3

That changed the most for me. It actually makes sense, once you have good self esteem.
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:11 AM
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I found out recently: Just be yourself! Be confident in yourself! Then you will attract the right girls and girls will notice that you are confident.
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:03 AM
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Fuck the signals. Just BELIEVE that she likes you. I mean, she is on a date with you because there is some sort of chemistry. She didnt spend 1 hour for her dress and makeup just so you can hug her
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:37 PM
1

Always kiss in the first date - at least!
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:16 PM
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Last Saturday I had a cool experience. I approached a woman and we went to a restaurant together. We met again in the evening and it was wonderful - we laughed and kissed. I saw her the next day too. The next woman can always be your perfect woman. (She wasnt, but she is pretty cool lol)
/r/seduction30/06/20 06:48 AM
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Hello! Woah thats really cool! I would love to give my point of view: Approaching someone directly is a man's thing. If a woman would do it, it would be strange. Women are also approaching men but in a feminine, in a natural way. Like, asking for some lighter or asking if the guy can take a picture. I suggest you try out those things. And also, it should be easy for a woman. If a woman asks a guy any random shit, he will get it. If he likes you too or if he is aware of whats going on, he will tr…
/r/seduction27/06/20 06:02 PM
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Who says u r bad because u have sexual thoughts? Lol Dont masturbate or watch porn, that fucks with your mind. Sex is very good and healthy
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:25 AM
2

Hey brother, great, keep doing it. But I wonder - do you just approach them in your way or do you follow some plan by some popular pick up artists? (ToddV, dan bacon) Cause if not, it would be a good idea to try out different things
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:59 PM
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Just do it man, she is showing interest
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:05 PM
7

It needs much balls to do this all alone. Keep doing it man. In my view, it would be a good idea to plan on how u want to structure your text, e.g. approaching, small talk, flirt, date
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:36 PM
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Be yourself. Be confident. Have your standards and dont suck up to anyone. Try it. Works like magic
/r/seduction22/06/20 08:20 AM
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Nice brother! Definitely go for it! Have some fun, start talking and make her feel attracted! Then just go on a date with her
/r/seduction20/06/20 02:21 PM
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Dude 50 hours on body language? What the hell? I think its not worth it
/r/seduction19/06/20 10:37 PM
1

Some nice rock by Acdc and Airbourne does the job for me
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:46 PM
0

Depends on the girl. If she is REALLY shy and closing herself, then I would not like to date her, no matter how sexual she is. But if she is open, happy, intelligent und funny, I dont care if she is a virgin. I would care more if she is some mattress, thats a turn off. But a virgin? That can be really cute
/r/seduction19/06/20 11:38 AM
1

Well, dont wait for getting laid. You are the man. Take the lead. Make her feel sexy and attracted to you.
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:07 AM
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In my view you waited way too much. Yeah its a turn off but most guys would do the same. I do the same. She did nothing wrong as you waited for the move
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:15 AM
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Well done brother, keep doing it! I am also approaching 4 times a week, its the best thing u can do. An advice: dont go for the number. Number aint worth anything. Try instead to have a good conversation and go for a date. Thats much more effectice and less time consuming
/r/seduction15/06/20 01:48 PM
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Thats completely normal. I suggest: Go and find a wingman. There are enough people who do daygame. Yesterday I saw around 5 people doing it in my city. With a wingman you will be able to help and motivate each other.
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:11 AM
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I have even seen that there are dating coaches for women. They teach other women how to approach guys in a feminine way. Girls sometimes approach guys, but in a feminine way ("hey you have some lighter?, Hey where is the next kfc?") But dont worry - most guys will happily engage in a flirt. Good luck :)
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:43 PM
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Thats a very interesting thing (and I guess many people will agree): The less you expect something, the more and better the outcome. Really fascinating. I love your commitment, keep going! And well done on #5
/r/seduction11/06/20 12:36 PM
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Some cut beard would also be helpful
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:20 PM
0

Really interesting - Well done!
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:10 PM
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It doesnt matter what u say. Its more about how confident you are.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:50 AM
5

Some guys love it, no need to worry. I am big myself and I saw many cute girls who were a head shorter than me.
/r/seduction06/06/20 05:45 PM
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She is only above your league if you feel she is above your league
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:55 PM
1

Everything done right
/r/seduction04/06/20 05:49 PM
1

Just tell her you are not a normal guy. It seems more like a test
/r/seduction04/06/20 04:49 PM
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Hello buddy, I dont know you but it seems to me that you are waiting and hoping that things will get better, once you are over 25. But thats wrong. You can start finding some buddies who will get out with you so you can learn to approach women everywhere. Also you should find some goals and focus on yourself. Good luck man
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:03 PM
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No nothing depression. I think I used the wrong word. I am talking about neediness, or feeling the need to sleep with someone
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:00 PM
2

Hello brother, You can talk like this with some chick. But thats your girlfriend, your partner. She needs you. Telling her to sort out her stuff by herself is like saying 'fuck you'. One thing is if she is constantly negative and hurting your energy and consciousness. Such a girl should be let alone. But your girl seems wonderful with just a few problems. Go to her. Hold her. Dont speak about it. Tell her you love and just hold her. Spend some quality time with her. Make her laugh. Give her your…
/r/seduction02/06/20 07:44 PM
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The link leads to my own google drive
/r/seduction01/06/20 10:40 AM
3

Hello brother, Do you really want to be with such an unstable woman? I think not. If I were you, I would just tell her to pay the bills and meet other women
/r/seduction31/05/20 01:05 PM
1

Yeah just do it man, dont overthink it
/r/seduction31/05/20 12:00 PM
3

Depends. I live in a city with 500.000 people in it. And I ask myself "would I bang her" and if my answer is yes -> approach
/r/seduction28/05/20 04:23 PM
5

It just takes 20 minutes man
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:28 AM
2

Brother your title is a little misleading. U r just hitting on an engaged woman. I wonder why u r focussing so much on her. There r millions of other girls
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:32 PM
2

It could be that she likes u really much and tries to get in the relationship mode
/r/seduction27/05/20 01:11 PM
2

U just need to start controlling your time to cum. If u r about to cum, just dont move and tell ur partner to stay still. After a few seconds u can continue again. If u r about to cum, u can also just pull out after a while and finish in her ass or mouth.
/r/seduction25/05/20 07:41 AM
1

Nothing to worry about brother. Tell her u r a little afraid. U dont need to show off or impress her
/r/seduction24/05/20 01:25 PM
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Dont be afraid to touch her! She will expect it! If u r nervous, just tell her! And else - enjoy😎
/r/seduction24/05/20 10:19 AM
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When I go on a date, I always make some touchy moves like comparing our hands or stuff. Also I ALWAYS kiss after a while. Its fun man
/r/seduction24/05/20 08:08 AM
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