someguyinpa52 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	How to deal with wifes family after announcing divorce		someguyinpa52	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 08:07 PM
4	Question on alimony		someguyinpa52	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 01:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Grey rock feelings. Wow.. so this is a new one for me - Grey Rock? Google is my next step.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 04:34 AM
5	Still healing, something just feels off. You are ahead of me.. We are doing mediation and had our first real meeting last week - expect everything to be over in 3 months. For me, the biggest hurdle (so far) was telling my kids. I feel that things are starting to get a little better but like you, believe I have a long road to go before I feel normal. I do think it would feel weird dating another woman but I am SUPER hopeful that I can find one that I click with better and truly have a loving relationship with. To put it into perspective…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 04:32 AM
3	Question on alimony Yeah, the stock shows up as income but this is stuff that i was awarded almost 4 years ago, so almost fully vested. On-going (unless i get more stock) would be more like 250-260 salary/bonus.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:08 PM
2	Question on alimony Also - have two kids - one in college, other is a sophmore. I fully expect to split costs of the kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:03 PM
2	Question on alimony Wow.. that is super helpful. My fear about all of this is that I uncovered an account that I was not aware of that I think she has been squirling away money into. I'm not sure if she is going to come clean on this account yet or not but if she does not come clean -this is where it gets tricky. I'm going to hold off on bringing that account up until we sign that doc about alimony! ha...	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:02 PM
2	Question on alimony 20 years	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 01:46 PM
5	How do you cope with the depression? Man... I feel your pain as I am right in the middle of it. The crazy part is - compared to other stories that I've heard, my situation is relatively easy - we are both agreeable to it and I expect it to go relatively smooth and hopefully we can come out on the other and as some-what friends as we will have to co-parent our two older kids. With that being said - this hit me like a ton of bricks and it's probably the hardest emotional thing that I've had to deal with in my life. I have known since…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 03:51 PM