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I believe we're solid enough friends to return back to this friendship. We'll see :) thanks!
/r/seduction18/10/20 04:08 PM
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Okay, sorry :(
/r/seduction18/10/20 04:02 PM
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I noticed. Hopes are on keeping the friendship
/r/seduction18/10/20 12:51 PM
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Challenge accepted, I believe we can be
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:40 AM
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Hey, don't worry about it :) I needed some time to let that sink in, as it did hurt a bit (but you're totally right) I find it difficult to try to focus on more people at once. Like, I wouldn't want any guy to do that to me either, that would feel dishonest. I couldn't do that emotionally either. Like, liking someone and having a backup likee? Doesn't sound good to me. I understand that people do that, it's some advice I read often on reddit too, but I guess it doesn't really fit my personality.…
/r/seduction13/10/20 08:34 AM
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I'm not a girl a guy would be interested in quickly. A former boss once told me I was "the girl that is at work, but of whom it won't be noticed if she wouldn't be there". And although that's in a work setting, I fear that's me in every aspect in life. Most guys in my social life are way older than me, or in long solid relationships. There's not a lot of baskets to distribute the eggs :P I admit there's neediness. Although I want to add that this neediness definitely grew after a period where he…
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:34 AM
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Do you want an update now? :D He's been quite silent over text, since Wednesday-Thursday. Before that however we agreed on hanging out October 17th. I cancelled the orchestra rehearsal for it, which I usually NEVER do (I prioritize it over my birthday, if there's something during the week then I take a day off... and I practically never skip). I hope he gets how much of a big deal cancelling that was :/ just for him! I wonder whether I did or say anything wrong. And whether the 17th is still on.…
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:24 AM
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Of course. No need for details. That's respectful of you, keep up that good stuff :) I hope she'll get well soon. And that you can stay in touch with her!
/r/seduction08/10/20 02:17 PM
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How come she didn't show up? I'm really sorry man :(
/r/seduction08/10/20 09:16 AM
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Alright will do :D October 17th should be the day... if Corona doesn't decide otherwise!
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:52 PM
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Haha :D If you won't be tired of it by then, I'd gladly keep you posted :D I've caught myself wanting to babble about this too much already
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:49 PM
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I'm not good at sales! But currently I only want to look for this one ... :/ Last Friday he had again brought some friends, got some positive and some less interested signals, I still have no clue. HOWEVER I'm seeing him -alone- in two weeks at a museum, when we discussed Corona rules getting stricter he reacted like "yeah sad for hanging out with friends, but the museum thing isn't impacted!" so I still want to hope that's a good sign. And he can't drag friends to that, I didn't tell him how ma…
/r/seduction07/10/20 11:35 AM
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Remind me in 2 days
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:15 AM
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Will you torture me with another reminder? :D
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:41 PM
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That's kind of what I was hoping to do yesterday, but I didn't feel like telling him that (or yelling it in his ear lol) with 3 of his friends around us
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:21 PM
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Sorry about that! But thanks a lot for the effort, I appreciate that :) But like, if you'd hang out with your crush, you wouldn't invite your friends over would you? Or would you to test whether she gets along with the other people he cares about, because that might be important as well. I'm overthinking. Sorry. How do you mean, you learnt from it? What happened?
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:45 PM
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Which is why I'm really glad I just won tickets for some full immersive virtual reality tour in a museum. He already told me he wanted to join, I just didn't have the tickets yet back then. I'll ask him as soon as he gets back on the phone. Don't want to come off too needy either. Which I fear I already do.
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:43 PM
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Haha xD How to put this. I failed once again. The guy had to work abroad and it would take him about 3 hours to drive from his work to where he lives (which is where I work). Usually I work until like 4PM (please no judgement, I arrive very early in the morning as well). I told him I wouldn't mind waiting for him to come back, which he estimated would be around 8pm. Yes, I was crazy enough to wait 4 hours for a guy to come back from his work. Wednesday he said he didn't want to keep me waiting t…
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:02 PM
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I'll (26F) be seeing him (29M) shortly on October 2nd. Have had mixed signals while texting in the meantime, I prefer to be slightly pessimistic but the people I tell about him to are all convinced he's into me. Wish me luck!
/r/seduction28/09/20 02:36 PM
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I do want to add that it's the other way round, I'm the girl not having the spine to ask a guy out :) But no, I'm definitely not going to call my mommy ;)
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:18 PM
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I don't expect everyone to be a psychiatrist and to estimate which fears I have. But this was an answer to your question. I feel quite sad as for me your reply now feels a bit harsh, but I will try not to take it personal. Have a nice day!
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:32 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:22 AM
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There's still a part of fear of rejection and losing a friend, embarrassment, humiliation, that currently wins from courage and motivation
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:48 AM
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Haha damn :D
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:26 AM
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I'll keep you posted...
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:42 AM
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Still searching for that courage! :D
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:40 AM
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I always feel like guys say that, until it's me specifically who would try... then I'd think they'd freak out. Gotta work on that mindset I fear. Thanks for your insight!
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:03 PM
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Oh I feel like there's room for a story you're about to tell me ;)
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:08 PM
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That's true as well. Which is a lesson I've still got to learn :D Thanks and have a nice day!
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:15 PM
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Since we're talking about this anyway... should a girl want to approach a guy, what would work more, shyness or confidence?
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:03 PM
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As long as it doesn't become arrogance. I'm quite a shy girl myself, unless if I know someone REALLY well or I feel VERY comfortable with them. I think a shy guy would be cute, in the event of him happening to ask such a thing. I wouldn't like constant shyness in daily conversations but for asking me out I would think it's cute. If it's confident, maybe that could be cool as well. I don't know. But as a timid person myself I might confuse it with arrogance which will be an instant nope for me.
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:02 PM
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To me it's a sign there's no willing at all to "accidentally" touch a hand. It's sort of the only signal from my crush that holds me back from telling him I like him.
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:56 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:21 AM
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I know I might get off topic but it's the same for girls really... We don't want to be rejected either. It stops us out of the same embarrassment and shame. Good luck with everything! :)
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:00 AM
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This should be automatically pasted as comment in all those questions of this type that are asked here on this sub. Thank you!
/r/seduction29/07/20 02:12 PM
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How to make things inappropriate in 2 seconds.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:22 PM
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