somesequenceofwords Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
140	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit	CMV	somesequenceofwords	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 06:36 PM

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1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Maybe standards isn’t the exact word but like the general caliber of partner you expect to get. Like if you were getting consistently dating people were very attractive (not just looks but overall) and none of them wanted to commit to you isn’t it more likely you were reaching and they felt they could do better than they all had commitment issues?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 05:12 AM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Admittedly I do feel lost. That’s why I’d post here to get some pushback rather than find some incel circle jerk. I really don’t know what to think. Like in hs and college I never had a hard time dating and whenever I heard anything redpilly I thought it was super cringe, still think a lot of it is to this day. But ever since graduating and moving which has been about 2 years now I’ve just been constantly striking out when it comes to dating. Like in every aspect of my life I believe I’m the bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 05:01 AM
13	Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks? I think there’s this want to believe that people who are single “deserve” it. Men will say women are picky and superficial and women will say only fat men who don’t shower think women care about looks I do think most single guys are trying to improve their looks and general prospects, like I’m not a fan of trp but isn’t their whole thing like “you need to get your money up, workout etc”. Even with good grooming and working out you can only be so attractive. Like I think the single biggest physic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 01:36 AM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit This is true but doesn’t it feel skewed to you? Like I feel like a girl settling is getting an above average guy and and guy settling is getting a really below average girl. Most of the time in public I see good looking men and women together and decent looking men with not so attractive women. Could just be because my city is skewed more men idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 11:14 PM
7	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Majority of guys I know want to be in a relationship and I live in major city. I honestly think “not looking for a relationship” is mostly used to keep a romantic partner around with no commitment	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 11:04 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I think when people start saying the whole “only want 6ft, 6 figures etc” it’s an exaggeration but there certainly is a huge frustration being a guy and finding matches. Like it’s hard to phrase it without it coming off entitled but but it often feels like there’s a massive gap between how good I should hypothetically be doing and how well I am actually doing. I like to think it’s not ego but I’m obviously biased saying that. Like my friends in long term relationships don’t understand how I am s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 09:46 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Tbh I think she was looking for something long term from me but found a better option. That’s life	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:59 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I mean most dating apps have your intentions on your profile. What was asked was more specifically “what are you looking from us dating” and I said I felt like we were approaching something long term	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:58 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I 100% agree with this premise except for men commit when they are “old enough”. I’m early-to-mid 20s and I want to be in a committed relationship. I know everyone matures at different rates but I don’t feel like a “I’m old enough to settle down” more that the worthwhile parts of a relationship are built up to and in after those things	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:55 PM
2	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Congrats it worked out in the end! Genuinely I mean that. What I was trying to say is that you said most of the guys you dated didn’t meet those specific parameters and what I was trying to say most guys don’t so it doesn’t really point to my idea being correct nor incorrect. The whole standards go up generally but not down I’m not super attached to as an idea but I think it makes sense one for the reason I listed if people getting used to good things but two because it’s very difficult to objec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:46 PM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit In one instance she asked me a few months in what I was looking for and I said I was dating to get in a relationship and she said she wasn’t but still enjoyed going on dates with me. We went on one or two dates after that before getting ghosted. I have other similar examples with varying time frames. That example would fit the premise because it’s a reversed situation, she didn’t commit because she thought she could do better. I think generally people will want to look for better options but att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:29 PM
4	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit If they’re exes wouldn’t they have committed at some point? Even assuming all of them were situationships a very small portion of the population like 2% of men meet over 6ft, makes 6 figures and not obese. Saying 90% of the dudes you dated are in the bottom 98% of men doesn’t really say a whole lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:12 PM
2	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Sure it’s not monotonically increasing but I’d say standards would generally increase no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:51 PM