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somesortoffluid/r/seduction10/09/12 12:16 PM
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What if someone actually posts something creepy? Or offensive? I browse seddit, I answer and ask questions. And my view of the people here is not one of a stalker or someone who wants to hurt others. And some time ago I myself posted something along the lines of 'this is why we get the reputation'. I know that's what the votes are for, but sometimes people just don't care enough to down vote.
/r/seduction27/09/12 01:23 PM
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I'm feeling old. To the 14's and 19 yo's... if had this knowledge at your age, I'd totally be using it. Maybe you aren't (and shouldn't be) getting layed at 14, but the foundation this gives you in your confidence is excelent. I started before I found seddit, was 22 at the time, and a short 4y later I'm a new (and improved) person. Ninja edit: and at 19, you should TOTALLY be using it, btw.
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:27 AM
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You are not going to like my answer, but day game. Lots of day game. Do it with classmates, random people off the street, any group in a setting you already attend. If thats what you want, try to approach social people, so that you get invited to other parties. Notice I use the term people, not girls. Approach men. It's not only good for your game -- "lead the men and the women will follow" -- but also makes your exposure more likely. Parties/bars/clubs are not the setting where attraction is cr…
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:20 AM
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This man has it right. Most people don't hold eye contact for long, so they most likely will break before you anyway. Also, long (direct) eye contact is one of the most surefire iois you can get.
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:26 PM
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It's this kind of poop talk that makes PUAs get the reputation. If you can't connect with her on a deep level, don't go for a deep relationship.
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:43 PM
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Man, you already pointed it out. Too many fucks. Get a date with #1. Nothing will be more of a boost to your "non-fuck giving" than options. I deal with this myself, and just focusing on another girl for a while is enough to make me a smooth motherfucker.
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:45 PM
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I get what you're going for here. This is the best way. And I can't say no more.
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:40 PM
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I just gotta point out, phase methods are not the anti-christ. For the rookies, they can be a valuable tool in realizing what they need to do. Back before I had any game of my own, I started by reading the mystery method, and without the breaking down he does, I probably would have been overwhelmed with info. ofc, these days I realize that it's a simplistic way of looking at things, and actual human interaction is far more complex than "she's given me 5 ioi's now, I should move to the next step"…
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:06 AM
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Like UnapologeticalyAlive quoted bellow, it's all 'hitting on her'. Also, I'm not putting off, I just haven't found the correct time to start creating the needed sexual tension. I explain below why rapport is needed before I can do that without tanking. It's not "guaranteeing she'll be interested", as you said above. It's guaranteeing she won't flat out dismiss me as another dick (which happens all the fucking time) EDIT: Also, I can't see where you got the idea that I don't define myself as int…
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:00 AM
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I realize this, but (at least where I live, Portugal) the mindset isn't really engraved like that -- people here are very closed off at first, but once you 'get in', they open up like a book. Thats why I rapport/trust is essencial here, before you can successfully create sexual tension. In sense this explains why cold approaching over here flat out dosent happen. (drunk dicks with no game not included)
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:55 AM
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Well, the whole point of the question was that -- I dont know when to take control. I suppose it's fear of rejection. I don't think I'm overthinking it. I decide most of my actions based on gut feeling from her response. From reading seddint, something like 75% of all comments say 'you're overthinking it', and it's not universally true.
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:48 AM
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I like saying "I'm just trying to get in your pants". If she sticks around after that, she's giving me permission to keep trying. I like it. I like it a lot. Since I already dick around, I get to keep face even if she dosen't respond well to it. Also, I'll try the mentality that she is into me, regardless. It's something I already knew to have, but keep letting it slide. Thanks. EDIT: Now that I think about it, I've had more than one success with this in the past. I don't know why I didn't think…
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:46 AM
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Well, if you're talking about the seduction, I'm not really escalating in that sense. Otherwise, for kino and such, I can't really say the when. I do what feels right, and it generally works. I'm playful, and I 'spose that mindset is what betrays me in the end because, I never stop it. I can never know when (or what) I should say something to change the tone of the conversation to seduction. When the tone DOES change (either they do it, or might be missing something because I don't know exactly …
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:40 PM
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No. Thats a big door she's opened for you. Call her, text her, whatever, just make plans. Right now.
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:24 PM
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I've just gotten braces about a year ago, and it changed my game big time. (they're cool for older guys now, aparently) However, I was doing ok before I had them. Like people have said, it's all about confidence. If you talk the talk, looks are secondhand to it.
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:20 PM
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I have a real hard time demonstrating value (that I actually have). So I thought of a way to do it without lowering my value even more. This may seem like a real beta way to handle things, but it's worked for me several times in the past: If you the common friend is really close (a.k.a. you are free to discuss the pickup), ask him/her to post something that is sure to get the attention of your target. Otherwise choose a post that you feel fits the criteria. Be one of first to comment on said sta…
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:52 PM
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I don't reallly like the whole 'drug' focus of this. But I did some similar last night (with the pupils thing) and asking her if she was on something. I got some laughs, kino feedback, and non breaking eye contact while 'examining her'. Eventually f-closed, so this probably dosen't suck TOO bad anyways.
/r/seduction07/08/12 08:39 AM
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