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2

Give him a break, he's fragile :)
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:03 PM
7

She took a vow Oh man I‘m sorry for you
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:30 AM
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Projecting your insecurities much? Anyway. Boundaries exist and respect is important but this is just a crap example.
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:14 AM
1

I'd of used FFFFFFFFFFFF- Hey, just wanted to let you know that you should've used have instead of of. Wrong grammar is an instant turn-off.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:31 PM
1

Well I mean you could still go with her but not cater to her every needs. Be social but not a sucker.
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:09 PM
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Also, most of them are cool with that for the first few weeks if you're being totally honest. But after a short while you'll have to decide because if the sex is good and you prove to be a sane person they don't like to share.
/r/seduction23/01/19 07:34 AM
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Say it with me ... A👏B👏U👏N👏D👏A👏N👏C👏E👏 M👏I👏N👏D👏S👏E👏T👏
/r/seduction05/11/18 01:41 PM
5

Yup and please don't ever tell her that you thought less of her because she invited you over, even if it was only momentarily. That shit is ridiculous if you ask me. I'd still respect your opinion on that matter but please don't shame her for being brave enough to make a move. Assuming that there was some specific intention.
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:13 PM
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While I agree with you that the underlying focus should be to heal and get into a good state of mind ... imho it doesn't hurt to jump right back in with a positive, sane and rational mentality. But I'd especially agree if you are the one that was getting dumped - do yourself and the women you meet a favor and don't get too attached too quickly if you think you're not over your last relationship. That shit comes with all sorts of problems and makes everything harder and straining for everyone inv…
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:07 PM
2

Dude calm down
/r/seduction24/09/18 11:50 AM
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Well in my opinion I wouldn't need to be 'careful' about some random other guy. If she wants to try another D so be it. But miss me with that shit if she can't be honest about it.
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:12 PM
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While I was thinking about things like that only from a moral perspective for most of my life, I've now grown up to realize that what matters more is that you most likely wouldn't want her to behave like that in your own potential relationship. Sure it's not a brotherly thing to do to another man but you don't owe anyone shit regarding relationships except your friends and family. I'd cut my losses and move on by this point with the exact same offer to "call me when things don't work out". That'…
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:55 AM
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No one does that? Yup, because catering to insecure 10s is exhausting (i.e. won't fulfill all your needs even though you feel like you're working 24/7) even if your game is on fire and 10s who have standards usually aren't the ONS types (also most of the time in a relationship duh).
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:06 PM
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You're kidding, right?
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:30 AM
2

What this guy said. Don't worry, she wasn't your last chance, there'll be plenty more. Give it time. Don't stress about it, don't fixate on it. Maybe she's even trying to get you to jump through some hoops in order to recoup her 'dignity'. That could be normal chick behaviour (as long as it's not too much) or already a red flag for toxic shit. You kind of rejected her - because usually you don't plan a date on a day that's just not good for you. Or at least you'd give her a heads up so she knows…
/r/seduction23/02/18 09:15 AM
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Too long for a top quality shitpost. Get to the point, man.
/r/seduction31/01/18 08:02 AM
4

Stop whining. At least google for a link yourself you lazy fuck.
/r/seduction23/01/18 12:46 PM
1

May sound cliché but it's the truth. If you want the hard truth: Should working on yourself and facing your fears not be an option ... lower your standards. I don't know you, so all I have are general suggestions that worked for me. Maybe you need to work out. Maybe you need to relocate. Maybe you need to get a better job. Maybe you need to stop being demanding. I don't know your circumstances.
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:14 PM
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Draw the rest of the fucking owl! Jokes aside: Practice. Learning from failures. Working on yourself to become the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction26/12/17 10:30 AM
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Nothing really exciting but as interesting as most of the content on here. You can learn from this as much as from the typical infield videos etc. Why is this shitty to you and also worth commenting about it?
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:03 AM
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I'd say that statement is not true for longer lasting social relationships where trust is implied, i.e. family, significant others and close friends.
/r/seduction30/11/17 01:55 PM
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"Hey, this might seem kinda random for you because I didn't get to talk to you before during class but, yeah, I think you're cute and would like to get to know you. Would you like to grab coffee sometime?" Yes: "Nice, let me just save your number real quick!" No: "Alright, too bad. Good luck during the finals and take care, bye!"
/r/seduction26/11/17 11:11 AM
2

Do you even want to have sex or a relationship with a woman? It's not totally uncommon for guys to either be asexual (as in having no interest in both genders) or to be interested in the same gender without realizing it (no offense, i think the social stigma regarding homosexuality is ridicoulus). If you think you need a little more intrinsic motivation to engage with women, stop masturbating for a while. While not always easy it pushes me to flirt with women when otherwise I could have been too…
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:49 AM
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thanks for remembering me! Any chance you're from Germany? Also 2nded: Which talk are you referring to?
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:17 PM
6

so is the rest of us.
/r/seduction01/09/17 04:38 PM
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Why does her receiving attention frustrate you? Because there's something wrong with society as a whole if it's okay for anybody to just randomly physically intrude another persons sphere of private and personal space. Yes, even when they're in a club. Physical contact is okay if you have established that it would be okay. You don't go around grabbing people. That's kinda weird and creepy. And why tell random international forum readers, rather than the perpetrators? Maybe somebody reads this an…
/r/seduction13/08/17 08:52 AM
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May I ask for your reasoning behind this? Just curious.
/r/seduction10/07/17 02:15 PM
1

Her being busy is especially likely if you want to go on a morning date (which I usually prefer, at least early in the relationship). So no opportunity for sex?
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:58 PM
2

Sounds interesting. Any particular connection to seduction besides the obvious 'hobbies are a reflection of a persons character'?
/r/seduction18/05/17 12:51 PM
2

Don't fuck school, it's too important Do street daygame anyway Fuck school a little bit Also, tone down your approaches. Obviously it can be mistaken for something threatening. Those girls may be too young and to insecure for sexual approaches.
/r/seduction06/04/17 11:43 PM
9

Save a read: Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction06/04/17 11:37 PM
8

Two guidelines: Don't overthink, keep it simple. Make her laugh.
/r/seduction03/04/17 10:26 AM
4

Maybe try a simple "Because you're so fascinating/adorable/gorgeous!" or something to tease her, which would be an even better response imho but has to be tailored to the person. Whatever fits the situation.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:49 AM
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They're just not thinking of you when they're planning because you have never been involved yet and/or they think that you don't care.
/r/seduction24/03/17 11:49 AM
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Dude. Don't sweat it. A lot of guys never had sex up until your age and even more. Buddy of mine lost his vcard in his late 20s. No biggie. Get it over with and then some. Rock out with your cock out. Good luck!
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:35 PM
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It's simple as that. Don't overthink it. She's just a girl. Could be your next girlfriend, could be not. Just give it a shot.
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:22 PM
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Bullshit. Get your head out of your ass. Confidence is key. edit: Important note would also be that you may be seeking for the wrong women for yourself. If you aren't rich, don't try to attract bimbos. Get out there looking for attractive women who don't give a fuck about a Maserati etc
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:46 AM
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Just so you know. A lot of us aren't pulling 10s. Maybe yet, maybe never. Doesn't matter. You aren't entitled to your personal 10. That's an achievement that has to be unlocked. Does the thought of maybe never being able to pull a 10 make me feel sad? No, because I'm happy with all the 6-9s I actually am able to pull.
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:35 PM
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No, you're not challenging the "seduction ways(tm)". What you're trying to do is to bitch about something all of us guys on here are confronted with. So yeah, society is mean to guys who didn't win the gene-lottery or inherited money etc. Boo fucking hoo. Can you imagine to be a women in her 30s that already primed in her 20s? I bet it's soul crushing. And so is to be a dude in this society. We all have our package to carry. You either can whine about that shit or give your best while you're ali…
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:28 PM
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Do you want to whine about not getting shit handed to you? Seriously?
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:54 PM
10

Umm ... okay.
/r/seduction20/12/16 10:32 AM
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1) use fewer questions and more cold reads, 2) segue from topic to topic more often rather than beating a topic into the ground, and 3) dig beneath the surface of a topic by exploring the related emotions and motivations instead of just collecting facts and plot points. Interesting piece of advice. Do you have personal suggestions for further knowledge on the topic of conversational skills?
/r/seduction22/11/16 10:43 PM
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I'm sure you're laughing at the title of the post I don't really see why someone would. I've always been bad at talking to women. So you need to work on that. Congratulations, you found a new hobby: Talking to women and making a fool out of yourself until it doesn't feel awkward anymore. Shy, afraid to stand out Confront that fear. Do something about it. I'm 26 now, and I'm still a virgin(FML). So what? Fuck that noise. I've got a decent job in the NYC area [...] every other day, I'll go to the …
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:39 AM
1

Jesus Christ, for someone like me, who is prone to procrastinate studying, just the thought of using this is terrifying. I would be managing my distractions, lol. Why can't I be more disciplined?
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:41 PM
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You just kinda have to replace your "<=>" with "while being/doing", i.e. the 'second behaviour' is your "default mode" and you try to pierce through with the 'first behaviour' as often as possible/needed to keep things interesting. That's how I would understand it.
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:01 PM
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Because most girls nowadays seem to me like occasional whores. It sounds like you're taking yourself out of the equation. A relationship does not only mean a responsibility towards your partner but also towards yourself. In a healthy monogamous relationship cheating paranoia shouldn't be an issue. You'll have to cultivate trust and happiness together in order to have a working relationship. If she's unhappy, you'll have to work it out. If you're unhappy, you'll have to work it out. When everyone…
/r/seduction11/11/16 01:07 PM
1

But it sounds like they don't want to have sex but instead of being a charismatic guy that is worth of being chased, some guys try to pressure women emotionally into hopping into the sack with them. Disclaimer: I absolutely realize that seduction is manipulation but for me there's a broad spectrum of approaches to this :)
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:57 AM
1

What implication?
/r/seduction27/10/16 10:23 PM
4

/r/theimplication?
/r/seduction27/10/16 10:02 PM
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Sounds like someone at [10] maybe [9]
/r/seduction19/10/16 06:56 PM
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PSA: Feel free to chat and flirt but don't talk shit about her boyfriend - especially when he's in hearing range. Can turn an otherwise calm individual into the hulk real quick. (Yeah, usually I am a reasonable person. Not my proudest moment to lose frame like that. But I guess that's alcohol for ya.)
/r/seduction13/10/16 09:39 AM
4

Ahh, the old indirect brag through implication. Always fuck on the first date guys! ;)
/r/seduction29/09/16 03:57 PM
1

when you run into one of the women you gamed when you are with your GF and the other woman is asking why you didn't call her? scream internally
/r/seduction20/04/16 12:01 PM
2

I like to live dangerously
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:27 AM
12

the highest of fives!
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:06 AM
4

I think what you meant to say was attracted. And propably also ass.
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:29 AM
1

Good question. Let me rephrase that: You have to stop worrying. Obviously you'd still have to think about ways to make your conversation funny/interesting and maybe escalate things. But if you don't need her to appreciate you in order to make you feel better about yourself, things will happen more naturally in my opinion. Don't expect her to like you and what you represent. You're not everyone's cup of tea. Don't be thirsty for affirmation. Most women can smell that shit from miles away and it's…
/r/seduction21/03/16 01:04 PM
1

Of course people do come back from this. If they work on coming back. What do you think are the reasons that you feel like you are 'dead'? What did you do in order to change this?
/r/seduction21/03/16 01:30 AM
1

Nothing more to add. Listen to this guy.
/r/seduction21/03/16 01:27 AM
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I thought about this today. Two days ago I met a girl on a birthday party. Alcohol might have been a reason but I also felt good somehow and was pretty confident around her. She's the tough type and made clear that she wasn't having it when I came on too strong. Still, attraction was there on both sides. So I asked her for a coffee date after having talked to her for 15 minutes and she agreed to meet me on the next day. We proceeded to talk another 2 hours and both went home alone. I was so happ…
/r/seduction21/03/16 12:17 AM
1

Spotting her on squats No offense but that sounds as cheesy as the old "I'll show you how to improve your golf swing" lol
/r/seduction15/02/16 09:45 PM
1

Ditch that bitch. If she doesn't realize that your time and plans have a certain worth she won't respect you anyway, even if you should get together somehow. That's not hard to get. That's being selfish and inconsiderate. I bet you are her "backup" guy, in case the dude she's currently interested in doesn't give her enough attention.
/r/seduction31/01/16 12:26 AM
10

Oh my, why are you always so sweet /u/ANAL_ANARCHY
/r/seduction07/01/16 01:48 AM
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Dude. In my personal opinion a good percentage of women below the age of 30 are simply shallow. So don't give up just yet. Enjoy every other facette of your life. Women dig that. Be true to yourself and don't be a 'perfect gentleman' all the time if you need to force yourself to be that way. Don't search for her but keep your eyes open. You will find her when you least expect it. I promise. Enjoy yourself and work on what you think are your weaknesses.
/r/seduction10/12/15 02:30 AM
1

Then where are you getting the mixed signals from that lead to you submitting your scenario on here? I guess the "sorta" is key. Make it certain.
/r/seduction13/11/15 09:56 AM
1

No reason to not ask her if she would like to have a drink with you after work in my opinion. If she turns you down it'll just be awkward if you make it awkward. It takes balls to ask someone out and in my experience women generally respect that.
/r/seduction12/11/15 06:10 PM
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