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I’m not here to tickle her ears and validate her. She’s a grown woman who has shown she can handle the truth, I give her credit. You are the only one who is offended. Imagine a red pill mod insisting on politeness. I rarely post here, block me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:55 PM
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"My man f*cks other women and sometimes I join in, it makes me hot, I feel loved" isn’t exactly a sliver. You will get validation and repudiation, glad you are prepared for both.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:50 PM
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Yeah he is in survival mode and he’s checked out and it has nothing to so with you. How long will they be there? He’s putting all his mental and emotional energy into this.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 06:41 PM
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I hear you talk about two different things - You want some time with him, and you also want him to come to you and be his port in the storm. Like someone said, men handle their problems differently. This is s good thing, it’s not bad. He might not say a word about how difficult this situation is, even after his parents ate long gone from your house. I might be getting it wrong but it seems like you are making these two problems into one. You can ask for some time together. You can’t expect or ev…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 02:40 PM
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It sounds like he is overwhelmed by his needy parents. Your marriage is a marathon and not a sprint fortunately. Don’t ignore him but yes let him come to you. This is an unnatural situation for him AND you, let him be, it will pass. Be the wife he needs right now.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 01:29 AM
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Don’t worry about being off putting, it’s actually a good thing, anything else and you’d be wasting your time. If they think you are a tradwife, who cares? Separate the wheat from the chaff!
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 01:08 AM
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HJNTIY. A guy who likes you will be driven to you like a moth to a flame. Don’t contact him further.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 03:51 PM
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I’m so sorry this has happened. Yes get therapy (you will prevail) and in the meantime take solace in the fact that she is f*cking miserable. Might not look like it, but she is.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 11:03 PM
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Better to scare him off than lead him on. My husband waited.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/21 06:45 AM
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When you constantly act like a damsel in distress, you know you’ve gone too far.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 12:14 AM
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I got a message earlier saying someone had reported me as "possibly needing help and support" or some such garbage, must be because of this forum.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 12:11 AM
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Accept him as he is or cut him loose.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:45 AM
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Few people haven’t been burned. Think about red flags you missed and what you learned and move forward with that knowledge.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 11:39 PM
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I’m SO sorry. What she’s done is horrible. Wow. There ARE trustworthy people out there and you WILL find them. They both deserve each other. You will get through this and her betrayal was awful. DM me if you need an ear.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 10:53 PM
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Being drained isn’t good for you though, think about all the cortisol you produce.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 10:30 PM
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This is what the evangelical and reformed community is saying.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 02:52 AM
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I believe even finding men in church who want a wife at home are hard to find, everyone has been so conditioned for women to go to college and have careers. The first thing to do would be to find a church near home. Then let the pastor and elders knows what you are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 11:41 PM
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You are pretty enough to be wifed up believe me, knock that off! So if marriage is your goal then let people you trust know. Family members, etc. Think of them as part of the vetting process. If working 9-5 isn’t for you, what are the alternatives?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 08:15 PM
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The way to become indispensable is to be married, and be all you have described. One of the latest sayings in the Christian community among men is "If it weren’t for sex, men wouldn’t have anything to do with women." Yikes. If the guy is concerned about sex as leverage, don’t even play with that crap and just say no sex until marriage snd mean it. The manosphere is so delusional in that they all see themselves as HVM and women as whores and hypergamers. What do women bring to the table? Sex and …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 03:14 AM
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There’s @NoahRevoy and @ironshrink, I like them!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 02:06 AM
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I would put your wishes in your profile, it will separate the wheat from the chaff so to speak. There are red pill "coaches" out there who work with men who are looking to find a women like yourself, I see them on Twitter all the time. Send one a message, see what happens.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 04:33 PM
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Yes that’s what I meant. Ok that’s reassuring that he isn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 12:14 AM
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Does he seem threatened if men check you out or jealous? Could be a kink as well like you said. Watch out for controlling behavior, or him trying to sabotage your normal eating habits.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 12:08 AM
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There is a very good chance the mom will cause major problems. Addicts aren’t linear, she will be in and out, will try to turn her son against you aside from making things difficult in general. She will also be very unpredictable. Even though he says you will never get involved, he can’t control her or what she does, she could go after you and you WILL be the one to square off with her. My SIL (should be an ex but that’s another codependent nightmare) us like this, we raised their daughter and i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:10 PM
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