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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-6	So my wife, idk what she is actually, wanted space and now we are taking a “break” Don’t make assumptions. You don’t know what she is thinking. He needs to talk to his wife about this	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/23 02:07 PM
1	Is it going to be a weight off my shoulders when this is all over? It is from the legal/financial standpoint. But in my experience, the pain hits hard once it’s finally over. So it’s only uphill from here (I hope)	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/23 01:58 AM
2	It´s incredible how all this changes you Honestly sounds awful. Is love dead? I was left and crushed too. But I wish that real loving relationships are still possible	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/23 06:34 AM
1	It’s done This is so hard to accept. Waiting for time to help heal	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/23 04:20 AM
3	It turns out my now ex-wife was emailing everyone in my family throughout the divorce and they're so poisoned I've had to estrange myself from them I had to cut contact for a while too. Just until I feel my head is somewhat clear again.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/23 04:44 PM
3	It turns out my now ex-wife was emailing everyone in my family throughout the divorce and they're so poisoned I've had to estrange myself from them This happened to me too. They would call my family weekly to berate me and family would just listen and blame my demanding career and try to encourage patience.. Fast forward to the divorce time- and they fully side against me. Moral of the story: don’t allow your SO to bash you to your family! Ever. Even if you think it’s insignificant small things add up and lies told over and over again get believed.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/23 04:44 PM
4	Is it better to marry girls who want to be SAHMs or ones who are career-oriented and “independent”? Another counter point for SAHMs - I’ve heard that SAHMs often feel unfulfilled due to societal standards and then get depressed/ nag the shit out of their husbands because they are bored. Working women tend to be too busy or tired to bother with you about dumb shit. But again, highly variable. I’ve heard the best of both worlds is educated but also prioritizes family.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/23 01:06 PM
1	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness But again, my point has nothing to do with seeking therapy. Just that life is better with underemphasis on others to give you happiness and cultivating it within. Whatever that route is for you: fitness, developing your career, spirituality, education, et.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 08:03 PM
1	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness Good points here. I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 08:01 PM
1	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness Not saying things can’t be situational or that everyone is mentally ill. Just that it’s better to build a mindset/life that does not rely too heavily on others for your own happiness. Your happiness is your responsibility	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 12:27 AM
2	Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sex Hypocrisy. Funniest part is that a lot of them claim to be Christian 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 07:53 AM
3	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness Seen this too many times irl- relationships don’t make a person happier if they struggled with issues before that. You come to the relationship with who you are, and more times than not, your issues grow or at least get a spotlight eventually if they aren’t addressed. No person, job, amount of money, etc. can make you happy. Happiness is a mindset and it’s best to cultivate that for yourself. Don’t depend on another for that. That’s a losing approach	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 07:24 AM
3	Rollo MyAssy doesn't read what he post LOL - yeah. Right. Because redpillers are the sensitive-type that are good listeners and are happy to serve you as a hubby and therapist	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/22 06:48 AM
11	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Red pill is an Internet fad. It’s already dying out. Elliot Hulse even posting about how religion was the answer all along	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/22 06:40 AM
4	This is terrible.. Hurt people hurt others. Doesn’t justify perpetuating the cycle	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/22 03:16 PM
2	FDS really isn't that bad 2 sides of the same coin	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/21 08:26 AM