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| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"So are you saying everyone is OK with it? Or you get a sense from other body language and stuff that they are OK with the recording? Or you just don't care if it would upset them, since they're not going to find out? Or you just don't care if they are upset? None of the above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Yeah, there are some women who it will really fuck with their head. Personally, I just wouldn't want to be with one of those women and I'd consider it a bullet dodged. But I get it if you're really in love and you don't want to risk it. That said, I feel like it's pretty easy to be cocky enough in your response that she'll still see you as a good top. Maybe make fun of her for being a little prudish. Not in a mean spirited or manipulative way, in a flirty "fine, be like that" kind of way. And th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Affirmative consent doesn't mean you have to speak in legalese. "How much do you want this cock inside you right now?" while you grind on her, and then "Fuck, I want it so bad" is perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"You're right a lot of girls like being submissive. I think it's because they feel like they have to be so hyper vigilant about protecting their sexuality all the time that it's nice to give in and let things happen. As for getting girls to dominate you... You might have more luck finding a switch. Maybe go more traditional for the first few go-rounds, but maybe they want to be on top... blowjobs can be pretty dominant. You could ask if they would want to be dominant during that. And then there's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Don't say "is this okay" if it feels wrong for the moment, ask how badly she needs your cock. There are a million ways to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Men know how to not rape. I don't agree. There was just a story on Reddit this week, two posts from a girl and a guy, the girl who felt she had been raped and the guy was confused and thought it was consensual. They were both drunk, incidentally, which makes it actually pretty easy for people to be confused about what's going on. The guy fucked up, but the way he explained it you could see how he got where he did. At the same time, the girl woke up with fingers inside of her of a guy that she ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"How does it make it easier to make a false claim? Seems just as easy to say "I said No" as it is to say "I never said Yes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"The toxic part of your position is that every sexual encounter without a signed and notarized contract is presumed rape on the part of the man. For me, it's not that I presume that sex without affirmative consent is rape. It's that I think sex without affirmative consent is reckless, because there is a small possibility that it is rape and you don't know it. It's a form of negligence, not a form of violence. Compare it to a restaurant that doesn't clean its cutting boards thoroughly. That doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Why does the recording have to be secret? It seems like the only reason you'd need it to be secret is if you know she doesn't want it recorded. In which case it's definitely not consensual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Why can't you get permission to record? Then you have proof and consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"I agree with your larger point that women need to be more proactive with consent for us to have any chance at this going well. That said, I think it's really irresponsible for men to not get affirmative consent. You're leaving open the possibility that someone is silently terrified and you are raping them. I mean, you can argue that she should've/could've spoken up.... but why would you want to risk that? Maybe you can argue that you shouldn't be responsible... I get that. But why would you want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"Most feminists would say the person initiating the act has to get consent. So if a woman wants to put her finger in a guys butt she has to ask. If a man wants to put his finger in a woman's butt he has to ask. It's a question of what's been happening already vs who is initiating the move to something different. Moments of transition. I think where it's thorny, and where I wish more people would focus, is that in some sense every moment is a moment of transition. So how many lines are there? One?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about "Healthy Male Sexuality"I think feminist culture has deep flaws, so I am sympathetic to your hope that some changes are coming, but I don't see how the goals of feminism have been achieved. Look at the ratio of women in the U.S. Senate as compared to in professional politics overall. Look at widespread rape. The pay gap is narrowing but still exists. Heck, look at the difference in time necessary to do what is considered acceptable hygeine and styling. No way those issues are all put away. I think there are still huge … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 10:54 AM |
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