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I would have pulled back if she pulled away and try again later. It is good that you were touching each other and she was willing to hop in the car with you. I wouldn’t have given up/give up yet.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:32 AM
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Fast food restaurants/subway at night or even public transport. have you considered Day game?
/r/askTRP05/05/17 12:35 PM
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Hey man, it's good that you're taking a step to ask for advice online. Keeping in mind everyone has different experiences so take everything with a grain of salt. You say you're at clubs - have you escalated with girls physically in the club and gone for a kiss?
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:32 PM
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I've been particularly careful with that. I've challenged her verbally and not always done what she's wanted. She's also seen me talk to a lot of other girls
/r/askTRP25/03/17 10:21 PM
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I was infatuated with this other girl and she saw this and used to try and be around me/talk to me (proximity) for a while. She used to offer to do things for me as well. She was/sometimes now is a bit coy/shy ish. Otherwise it's also the vibe you get
/r/askTRP25/03/17 10:19 PM
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That's what i was thinking
/r/askTRP25/03/17 10:16 PM
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Thanks for the insight. What would you have done?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:58 AM
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Thanks for the advice. How would you know if she was using you? She paid for her ice cream and was going to pay for her drink. Do you mean attention wise/validation? The first time I asked he out she said she was busy with work. I guess the conversation is way more focused on her and I'm asking more questions than she's asking me but I feel that's the case with most girls?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:57 AM
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I've known her for about a month, we live in the same complex and we've done group things together that's how I know her. What would you have done physically?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:55 AM
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you could try sending a flirty gif back or make flirty comment about it. But remember the end goal is to get her out on a date. Good luck!
/r/askTRP25/03/17 05:12 AM
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Haha I like your sense of humour. If you jus want to bang then why not? It depends what you're after. A LTR or??
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:26 AM
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At the stretching station when she takes a break to look at her phone open her casually if you're near her. Pulled before doing this.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:36 AM
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HAha I am getting desperate internally probably you're right. Just wanted to clarify what you mean by low quality?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 02:08 PM
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Haha yeah its ducking annoying because I Live with her so it's getting to me. Not escalating enough, what would you have done?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 01:31 PM
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Just read this post...thanks for your help. Tonight we went out again for a trivia night (not much drinking) and I asked her to come to my room so I could pass/explain some of the textbooks (we're doing the same course). She agreed. We talked a bit and then sat down on my bed. She did lick her lips a couple of times. I sat with my leg touching hers but she moved it away about 10-15 sec and as the convo progressed I swear her distance from me increased. After a bit more talking the opportunity to…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 12:46 PM
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Did you ask the second girl out?
/r/seduction25/02/17 03:49 AM
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A quote I use: ONE DAY YOU’RE GOING TO DIE and you can’t predict when that will be. All I can guarantee is that it will be sooner than you expect. You’ll still have a long list of things you wanted to do before that moment, but it will be too late, and no amount of wealth or praying will change that. Everything you are will cease to exist, including all the knowledge and experience you’ve built up in what hopefully will be a long life. CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY that you have the power to change yo…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 01:57 AM
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The trick is not to view her as something to attain/get or impress. Accept she's attractive but don't value her too highly by viewing her as someone who has to prove TO YOU that she's worthy of YOUR time.
/r/seduction24/02/17 01:38 AM
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Attractive looking guys, has the drama/emotional aspect of things women like.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:08 AM
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There are some physical things you can do about it. Stopping and starting: Try stimulating yourself maintaining a full erection starting easy and working towards 20 minutes before ejaculating. During this time try to minimize sexual thoughts and envision confidence and ease. When you feel you're about to ejaculate stop stimulation and then start again when it subsides a bit.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:03 AM
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I don't see picking her up as beta if your behaviour is alpha and it allows you to escalate post date since you have to go to her bedroom/house. Just remember to push/escalate
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:59 AM
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thanks for the advice. Just wanted to clarify what does 'cycles' mean?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 08:17 AM
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Book: https://www.bookdepository.com/New-Encyclopedia-Modern-Bodybuilding-Arnold-Schwarzenegger/9780684857213 Motivation video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoXYe9e01_Y
/r/askTRP18/02/17 12:56 AM
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I would look at it two ways: - Yes there is a risk of being rejected by a stranger who may know someone that you know - but so what? The risk of that happening still isn't as great as the possible reward and as long as you aren't being creepy/offensive it's still worth it in the long run. if you don't want to ask out someone connected to your social circle approach strangers outside of uni in hobbies/public areas etc. I would think that uni itself is big enough to provide opportunities for that …
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:49 PM
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I am interested in her sexually, and it's a good point you made. She didn't ask if she could stay at my place for the short term or anything, she just suggested we cook something at mine. I just thought maybe I'm missing something like is she wanting to bang or she just wants to hang out or.....We've never met in person and it's not tinder/Craigslist. Normally with girls (even on tinder) wed st least meet in public.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:29 AM
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It's good that you've started practicing and sounds like you know where the issue starts. Don't think of it so much as asking them out but ask them to do something together at uni to start, then transition to somewhere outside uni if you wish. You mentioned Tinder which seems unrelated to the original title of your question - are you feeling like you aren't meeting girls that you'd like to go out with?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:04 AM
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Nice!! That's awesome man. Thanks 👍
/r/askTRP27/01/17 12:50 AM
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Thanks! as a masters student who's classes aren't on the main campus I was thinking more along the lines of seeing them for the first time when I do go to the main campus to study.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 12:10 AM
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I would address this approach anxiety/confidence issue surrounding women first.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:13 PM
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Maybe work on your game by reading or get a dating coach? Sounds internal as opposed to something physically wrong.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 11:40 AM
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mental blocks like anxiety/self esteem?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:26 AM
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That's a broad scope, any particular reason?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:04 AM
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I think it's good to ejaculate about once a week. When you don't get erections is that even with stimulus (as in you physically couldn't get hard)?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:57 PM
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24M here. Good post. This is general advice not knowing your social circle, size of campus, type of girls you like, commitments etcetc. On my second degree and I would say it's a fantastic idea - for exchange students. In my undergrad went on a date with an cute Austrian girl I met at my uni bookstore by opening with where she got her shoes (nike) from. Also went on a date with a blonde American girl by asking her whether her drink was any good while waiting for it to be made (at a bubble tea sh…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:10 AM
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Short term: hooker Long term: piano You could practice your sexual technique/endurance on the hooker or build character/skill on the piano.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:00 AM
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bahaaahahhahahhahah shiett this made my day
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:59 AM
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with 'beautiful women' it would depend what kind of girls you're into so you could look at it that way. Eg. less blondes in africa Where you're a foreigner comes the 'exotic' factor which may or may not be better for you. Need to know more about you as a person and your job/dreams.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:49 AM
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I lost my virginity to a girl who appearance wise wasn't near what my ideal girl would be. But I really liked her and her personality more even though I got burned in the end. I don't regret meeting her and enjoyed the connection more than getting my dick wet and also follow/understand redpill ideology. Worth noting though that like you I haven't got much sexual experience so maybe lose your virginity first and see if it changes how you feel. My opinion is that craving a girl less than she crave…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:44 AM
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Maybe try kegels and masturbating almost to the point of ejaculation and then stopping (stopping and starting), with the goal of increasing the time you can do it.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:20 AM
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so say if you know they're on reddit and they've said a few things in line with TRP, would you then ask them a question: what they think of TRP? Because they might feel the same way as me (being reticent on revealing feelings on TRP) but pretend not to support it etc.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:35 AM
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I've been a fervent follower of Roosh V's ideologies/work and ROK for 2-3 years which is what brought me here but I have no problem with this post I think it reminds you of why you got into this in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 09:10 AM
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