soothsayersnob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why do girls do this? She doesn’t like you in a way that blends your futures and lives. She likes you enough to give you her spare time. She likes to hang out and cuddle and talk. She likes you. She doesn’t want to have a future with you, she’s just comfortable and having a good time right now. Like really good intimate friends. Those things can both be true. In the future you can tell partners you are not into ‘seeing what happens’ you like to know for certain after a few weeks if you guys are both on the same page …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 01:11 PM
1	Why a girl doesn’t like me calling her cute? Are you weird?	/r/seduction	16/02/20 08:09 PM
1	Pursue or leave be? It sounds like she’s just using you to be comfortable/ego boost. That’s why I would initiate contact with someone I previously cut off. It’s easier to just be with some one you’ve already had. I wouldn’t give it another thought unless she seems to be doing all the work and putting in effort. Just take it for what it was. I’d move on	/r/seduction	28/01/20 05:43 AM
13	When a woman tells you to give her space, how long do you wait before messaging again? She asked for space, she can ask to reopen dialogue. Don’t adjust your timeline.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 08:57 PM
3	What's a polite way to tell a girl "Yes, I want bang you and cuddle you and take you out to dinner, but I'll probably cut it off after a few months"? ‘I’m not looking to make this a long term relationship I’d just like to date for a few months. I’m firm on this. It’s not personal and I won’t change my mind that’s just where I’m at in my life. You seem fun and outgoing so if you’d like to be FWB for a few weeks lemme know’	/r/seduction	08/01/20 04:49 PM
7	Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips? It sounds like with the time frame you’re dating but it’s being described as a relationship. I have always been more interested in dating unless we both agreed we were in the headspace for more. Dating would be talking, flirting and going out, sex ECT. I liked it for a month or two and then we would both move on. I feel like a few weeks is a reasonable amount of time to shit or get off the pot. If women are only looking to date then your behavior would definitely signal time to move on. It’s sto…	/r/seduction	30/12/19 07:14 PM
8	Girls who have guy friends I had many guy friends and dropped them all when I found my current SO. I kept dudes around for attention but my SO gave me so much attention, affection and structure, he was I allI needed. You don’t know the girl well enough to establish some kind of game plan yet. Just take it slow if she has guy friends. She may be genuinely friends and introduce them to you and not be shady little hen. She may have some red flags. I say go into it neutral. If you guys genuinely click and agree on the same va…	/r/seduction	28/12/19 10:08 PM
1	How often do girls want to do the chasing? I used to chase dudes when I felt competitive. Like if they said they just aren’t sure what they wanted or they feel like they still love their ex. I especially loved when they were super private and their friends would say stuff like ‘he doesn’t date much’. The idea that I could change them or their mindset was my goal. I didn’t chase them for relationships it’s more the thrill. Be careful if you’re looking to get girls to chase you, some don’t actually want you afterwards.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 08:26 PM
1	What are the best songs to have sex to? Framing Hanley- lollipop	/r/seduction	24/12/19 08:21 PM
1	For female it is so fucking easy for them to date/hook up. I am getting so annoyed. Act like you already get the amount of girls you’re striving for. What’s that saying, dress for the job you want? She gets hella dudes because she’s confident about it not because she’s got a golden vag.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 08:19 PM