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I already did, you just don't understand, or at least say you don't. I believe you are capable of intelligent thought. You can understand if you try. I don't think it's that hard of a concept, but maybe you're just so centered in your own life that you can't even imagine the experience of women and how they might navigate the world based on their experiences with men, both on a personal and systemic level. You're still thinking of power as in status. I'm talking about gender dynamics. There are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:55 PM
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You’re using a very narrow definition of power as direct control, like being able to force someone to do something in the moment. But that’s not the only way power shows up in everyday dynamics. It’s also about who has less risk, who has more physical and social safety, and how consequences tend to play out in interactions. That’s what I mean by men having power in everyday dynamics. Not that any individual man can force outcomes, but that men as a group are generally less constrained by safety …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:15 PM
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You’re using a very narrow definition of power as direct control, like being able to force someone to do something in the moment. But that’s not the only way power shows up in everyday dynamics. It’s also about who has less risk, who has more physical and social safety, and how consequences tend to play out in interactions. That’s what I mean by men having power in everyday dynamics. Not that any individual man can force outcomes, but that men as a group are generally less constrained by safety …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:14 PM
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You’re using “power” to mean status, like CEOs and politicians. That’s not what I’m talking about. I mean power in everyday dynamics, especially between men and women. And yeah, men as a group still have more of it. A lot of guys will say women control everything, but then turn around and expect a partner who works, cooks, cleans, is emotionally supportive, doesn’t challenge them too much, etc. When that imbalance gets called out, it suddenly becomes women demanding too much instead of just basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:04 PM
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Men already have power and control though. You need to learn how to control yourselves is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:40 PM
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Your conflating virtue with advantage. They don't mean the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:52 AM
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They didn't avoid it they brought it up and then presented a more likely scenario, just like I did. You refuse to acknowledge that alternative explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:36 PM
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Yes, and then OP went on to say what I quoted in my last reply, which disproves the first part of the post, which was the whole point of the post, indicated by the "what sense does that make?" from your quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:31 PM
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No they didn't: "It is far more likely that she is refusing intimacy when upset with you because what you did upset her to the point of completely turning her off from sex." One person in this scenario does not want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:10 PM
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You're assuming they both want it tho. If one person wants it and the other does not, there is no withholding. Women aren't all constantly horny. Sexual desire can be very influenced by other emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:19 PM
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I have. I agree with you. My comment was responding to the last part of her comment that said that she didn't understand how people of this sub don't get that. A lot of the red pill men especially like to believe the whole nice guys finish last narrative and it dictates what information they will incorporate into their personal beliefs, which is confirmation bias. Like that guy who responded to you after you said that you dumped your ex after he turned out to be a piece of shit and interpreted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:45 PM
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Confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:30 PM
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The context I've seen it in was always in an "assume harm/danger" kind of way, so no, it's not really a different question. A human can harm me in more ways than a bear can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:50 PM
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If I asked you if you would rather be mauled by a bear or killed by a woman who slowly tortures you over the span of a few days or even weeks to the point where you are begging to die, and you choose the bear is that sexist or are you just choosing which way you would rather die? Because when women answer that question we tend to answer it like "how would you rather die?" Personally, I didn't think that's sexist at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:21 PM
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What did I say that was sexist? Fear ≠ hate? Or that humans kill more humans than bears do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:45 PM
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It's all situational. I'm not gonna be afraid of a random man I walk past in the grocery store. I'm probably not gonna be afraid of a man I walk past in a public park (but probably will if it's dark). A random man alone in the woods? Yeah, I'm definitely on guard. It's not that we're living in fear, it's that some situations we perceive as more dangerous than others, and fear is a natural self preservation response to that perceived danger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:37 PM
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Sometimes fear can keep you safe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:56 PM
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Humans are apex predators too. The biggest natural predator we have is our own species. Humans possess intelligence, technology, and weapons that bears do not. Humans kill more humans than bears do by a longshot. Just because we are the same species does not mean I am safer with them. Doesn't mean I hate them either. It just means I know that my safety is never guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:56 PM
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Fear ≠ Hate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:39 PM
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I don't really care what people choose. If you feel more comfortable in a forest with a bear over a woman then that is your choice. I can't tell you what to be comfortable with or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:49 PM
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I'm not into very muscular men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:31 AM
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Just because you don't want an ambitious partner doesn't mean someone else won't. Why is it so hard for you to believe that a man with drive and ambition might also want a woman who matches him? Your opinion does not apply to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:19 PM
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And you think that men don't have demands in what they want in a partner? Why shouldn't a woman want to be with a partner who fits well with their own personality and lifestyle? Do you think no one ever meets anyone who fits their own standards? Do you think everyone settles? Or do you just think that only women should settle, but men can keep their lists?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:45 PM
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If she wants compatibility then she wouldn't ask someone incompatible to change for her, she would just move on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:21 PM
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She never listed any requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:17 PM
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