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I have a friend who I’ve had this exact conversation with. She truly believes she’s just not good enough to deserve his best, when in reality, his shitty treatment is probably as good as it gets and he doesn’t deserve HER best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:32 PM
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What about women’s calories gathered in grain/nuts and seeds. I heard in the most ancient longest surviving hunter gatherer groups in Africa, the women collected nearly triple the calories through foraging.
/r/BlackPillScience05/12/19 03:50 AM
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I would throw in some humbleness here however. you can be a queen, but If you always have to be right 100% of the time and make every problem about your boyfriend without ever accepting your own responsibility your just going to come off as a harp and loose out on good men who like to compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 10:54 PM
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I hate to say this, but I’ve had very similar experiences. I give off that strong “manic pixie dream girl” vibe that men assume means I’m going to be their savior and bring fun and happiness into their lives. I’m nice too, so I feel bad for making these men fall for me so hard and I get down on myself for being a flirt or whatever. just take a step back and remember that although your wonderful and high value, these men would also pursue any vagina with a healthy BMI and a pulse. Instead of sear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 07:28 PM
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Stay strong girl. I know your pain and struggle. maybe find ways to weed out the low value men ahead of time? For example if they can’t plan the date (they don’t have any imagination) you don’t go. It’s all a numbers game. If your as wonderful as you say (and I don’t mean that in a snarky way) the right person will take notice, you just have to keep wading through idiots till you find em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 07:18 PM
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I just don’t think your getting my point. I think you mean right though(: most men aren’t going to be comfortable at home with their girlfriends off being doms. there are a lot of real consequences that come with sex work, especially in this internet age, it can follow you for the rest of your life and impact professional job opportunities. She went to school obviously to have a better career, why would she risk having all her co-workers email her/HR about her “dom business” and that’s before yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 06:16 AM
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Burgers pay about 12.50$ an hour where I live. sex workers can make hundreds if not thousands of dollars an hour. There’s no comparison. As far as, “but don’t you enjoy sex” I absolutely love sex. I love sex because my boyfriends rubs down my body and tells me how beautiful I am and worships me, eats me out and gets me to try new things. I love sex because I love the feeling of pleasing the man I love and because he understands and caters to all my particular links and turn ons. if I was a sex w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 06:05 AM
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I always think it’s funny how men seem to think sex work is the same as having a sex life. As a sex worker it’s your job to please and meet the needs of your clients, even in a dom position it’s still your job to serve your clients. it’s not the same as having the sex life you desire. It’s a job.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:53 AM
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Thank you for your advice. I have only had long term relationships and have been living with my current boyfriend who I would consider to be a good guy for the past year. some women do get emotionally manipulated in abusive relationships to the point where they need validation from their abuser, but those women need help not judgement. OP can figure out the specifics of what she’s looking for herself, and how she feels about open relationships, I’m just telling her to be more specific about what…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 10:57 PM
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Mental search engine
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 10:24 PM
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So start there, your looking for someone you can have a low commitment/low effort relationship with that includes sex. Lots of men say they want this with a super attractive women, but few can actually handle it (80% are going to fall in love with you and want to own you and ruin everything) your looking for a very particular mature kind of man. If you change your search engine so that your looking for those personality traits as well as someone you like, there will be fewer out there. that way …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 03:09 PM
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Do you even know why you want a relationship? It seems you just want one to have one. if you have a goal, such as, “someone I’m attracted to and can happily co live with” then you can look for those specific traits and be happy when you’ve found them. I’m looking for a good husband/father type, so I figure since I’ve found a man I’m attracted to who would be good in those roles, I can only set myself back in time or miss out on a great person by moving on. I’m pretty and fun to be around, but no…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 03:01 PM
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Thank you for expressing your anger. Carry along now troll man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/19 11:02 PM
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I always thought it was because wearing tampons overnight is too long. at the same time pads don’t work and who wants to spot the sheets, eek!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 07:43 AM
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I guess I am contradicting myself in a way here. Let me explain. So you have a society where people who are raped generally don’t go to the police and generally don’t tell a lot of people. Something like the me too movement comes along, and suddenly thousands of women who were too afraid to talk about their assaults feel empowered to do so. Social media floods with women telling account of rape, and assault, and men feel under attack, everywhere they look powerful men are being taken down by a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:39 AM
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No one should ever put up with discrimination on the merits of race/sex/sexuality, whatever.....I’m not going to define cultural backlash for you beccause i’m at work and you have google, but i’m not aware of any systemic discrimination against men caused by feminism. i can’t defend something I don’t think exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:07 AM
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I’m not fighting for inequality, i’m explaining it. In my perfect gender equal world these problems wouldn’t exist. what I’m saying is that these problems are a side effect of overcoming worse evils and they too shall pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:20 PM
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True, true. That’s why I say different issues. If I were an advocate for men’s rights I would be telling men to go to the doctor more because they ignore important shit all the time. As far as women’s health go, babies and all that. Let’s birth em healthy because they’re all we got.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:12 PM
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Don’t worry, I love it. Reddit is my escape where I can talk as much as I want and people talk back to me. Media gives me hope for the future. Our generation grew up seeing gay characters on screen so that by the time we were voting age it was weird for most of us to think gay marriage should not be legal. In one generation, a law that was uncontested for generations changed across the country. Media can do the same for girls. Little girls today are growing up seeing movies where women are badas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:00 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you have to say here. I’ve chosen a side. Regular people don’t have to. They just have to inform themselves and realize that all movements are multidimensional and you can support parts of a movement without supporting all of it, as I do men’s rights, and as you do women’s. Thank you for the excellent points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:56 AM
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I agree with you more than you know. I want to see movies where women are worthless causalities. Where women are capable of the same devious evil as men. Let’s get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:36 AM
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I care about men and women’s issues, but in my mind women’s issues are the response of decades of real documented inequality. Sure there are men’s issues that can be improved, but a lot of the men’s rights activists you talk to don’t care about them, they care about destroying feminism. These guys don’t argue with me about how men need more mental health care, they argue with me about how feminists are a bunch of man hating baby killers. The men’s rights movement in theory is very valid, but in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:30 AM
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Hahaha, and for years I thought I wanted to kill the women freaking out in feminist freak out compilations. Don’t hate them, hate the ones purposefully misinforming our society. People are more concerned with one chick who tweeted “kill all men” than actual women’s issues that clearly exist if you just google them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:21 AM
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Thats an understatement, men have innovated so many of the greatest achievements of our world. They will continue to do so alongside women even when planned parenthoods are better funded across the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:19 AM
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I try not to let politics get in the way of reality. Humans are still mammals. Females carry a similar value they do in nature, where hunters more actively try to avoid shooting female or pregnant animals because of how it effects populations. This is a shitty example, but men and women aren’t the same. We will occasionally need special considerations due to our reproductive nature. jesus it’s like an addiction. I justify it because it’s my last post. play with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:11 AM
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This post is big for me. For a year I’ve been obsessed with violent hateful men’s communities. It’s been digging under my skin like an illness. Not going to lie, I made this post as an F you. I’m not one of the smart people of reddit, I’m a petty person who tries to balance her options with reality as much as possible. Reddit is my vector, my escape. I love men and disgrace emily whatever (she’s only been mentioned a billion times.) for saying kill all men. The fact that anyone believes feminist…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:09 AM
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Fuck you make me break my promise. but yeah, sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:01 AM
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I’ve re-written this comment a few times. Feminists are not on the attack. Women are a hair away from being treated as less than. We aren’t the ruling class, we lack any real political power and we still on average make less money regardless of reasons. As if we could control society on that level. As if our words could carry enough weight to turn society against you. Your offended by the fringe examples you see, I’m sure they are vile. I’ve spent some time in hate spaces myself. You have to ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:41 AM
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There are many facets of my feminists beliefs that have very little to do with men. For example I believe the US needs to continue improving our medical care for pregnant women since we still have more pregnancy related medical complications and deaths than any other advanced nation. I’ve stated time and time again here I don’t hate/blame men. I see problems in our society that require a solution, and people ignoring those problems because they are inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:39 AM
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This comment is more referring to the social structure at large. The whole “whooraw girls can do anything boys can do, me too I was raped and now we are finally all talking about it, I also feel insecure, women in stem, women in mathematics, women in the military.....” it’s all kinda coming up for us rn. Not saying it’s fair but it’s a long awaited moment. Give it a few years to equalize. Not saying it’s fair for men born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:27 AM
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dear god I thought we were joking i’m supposed to be leaving this sub. Have a fun conversation everyone.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 09:10 AM
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Haha, all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:39 AM
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I don’t know if your joking or not, but I love threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:37 AM
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You got me there. But its still different thinking someone just doesn’t like something versus they don’t like it with you in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:26 AM
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I mean, I’m a sexual lady I like foreplay. The situation I’m imagining is where we’ve been arguing about it for a bit and then I get lunch with one of his flings and they tell me about all the amazing stuff he did. imagine it like, if your girlfriend did anal with a bunch of hookups, but refused to with you after a year. You’d be rightfully confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:59 AM
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Provide resources if you want to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:22 AM
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I mean, if you click the link and look at the page it says 4 out of 1000 rapists will be convicted. Idk how you can get any clearer than than. You don’t even have to read anything, it’s a chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:21 PM
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I’m fairly confused about what I’m supposed to be seeing here. Something about 7 women out out 117 were found to have lied about rape accusations in a small sample study done in 1977, and 5 guys also lied for their girlfriends or wives but they didn’t include that data in the percentage of claims that were lies....?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:19 PM
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Right now we have a backlong of thousands of untested rape kits. Issues like that are a great place to start as far as having better trials and more lawful convictions. No ones fighting for women to have the right to lock a man up based on her words alone, but obviously there is a problem which begs a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:13 PM
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No because I’m not anti-men. I think men and women need each other. You are anti-immigration. That’s a whole other ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:58 PM
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I see no reason why it would exclude capable, educated female welders from the field. All Im saying is they should screen these physical jobs off ability. We were all asked at the beginning if we were able to lift 60lb or something, and we all said yes, so we all should have been offered the same jobs. Instead there was a serious gender split as far as jobs go across the whole warehouse. Idk about worker regulations, we had a lift but it didn’t organize the boxes into the truck, just took em rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:52 PM
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And I hope people won’t let insecurity allow them to ignore the facts on what’s actually happening. There are no sides, everyone should hopefully be against rape, it’s just that certain groups have convinced themselves through propaganda that it’s not much of a problem in the US. Treating victims well doesn’t remove due process for defendants, yet people treat it like a redfem cry for all men to be locked up without a day in court. no. just process the evidence, and give a fair trail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:40 PM
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Hahaha, your entitled to your opinion. Thanks for the kind comment. The problems you see are real, just not comparable in my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:42 AM
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Uhhhhhh I can’t read the private messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:10 PM
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have fun young grasshopper
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:09 PM
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Yeah I think something should be done about fatherless children. I’m biased here however, because all of the fatherless people I’ve known personally have had their father abandon them in some way. Less so that the mother pushed them out as in some cases had enough of their bullshit. could you provide sources, it’s for my personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:06 PM
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Okay. Thank you for your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:04 PM
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There is still so much I don’t understand about the world. I don’t understand, honestly, how I love the men in my life so deeply, yet despise the general conduct of men around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:03 PM
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I agree. Yin and yang. In the perfect society men and women would be in balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:58 PM
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This is a user account with one random post about hong kong with no comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:57 PM
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Do you live in Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:56 PM
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Maybe it shouldn’t be the same thing, but the reality is that it is. children rely on their mothers. We grow them in our bodies for 9 months, birth them, and are flooded with hormones that demand we care for them. I’m a feminist but I’m also a stem student, I understand biology. Women are humanities caretakers whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:55 PM
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You got me there. My friend works in a warehouse and “the men do all the hard jobs” while she gets to lax off. Interestingly enough, I worked in a warehouse once. The men took turns getting the job of “loading the truck” a highly physical job, that they loved to complain about. I begged supervisors on multiple occasions to let me “load the truck” but they never did. I told them I was strong enough, hard working enough, but they didn’t care. Only men could load the truck. At this same warehouse, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:53 PM
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noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:48 PM
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I don’t. I have majority male friends. I love my father. I love my brother. I have fairly happy stable relationships. I get along with male coworkers. I’m just painfully aware of the evil in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:47 PM
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As i’ve said, they are sad souls who need love. I hope the majority of them can someday get the help they need, or unplug from these toxic communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:44 PM
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Children don’t care for themselves. Kiva initiative found that micro loans given to women directly impacted the economy of their local communities, and that the funds were more likely to go back to their children. Go ahead, look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:43 PM
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Pregnancy is expensive and women go to the doctor more. What do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:40 PM
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You don’t think healthy children and mentally well adjusted women benefit society? The difference is that men in power value the economic benefit of having a clean city or working buildings, while they dismiss the value of women’s healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:09 PM
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these conversations too often degrade into insults and petty rhetorical questions (I’m guilty of it myself) so I try my best to be honest and not make assumptions. If you believe abortion is murder, or that those who fight for it have racist intentions, you have every right to work to end it. I’ve told you what I think the most logical way to do so would be. At the same time, understand where I’m coming from what I say the abortion issue is being used to detract from important reproductive healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:49 PM
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The men’s rights movement is too distracted by their hatred of women. If they buckled down and figured out which issues mattered and what to do about them, they could probably make some real strides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:38 PM
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What about my post breaks sub rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:36 PM
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As I’ve said here a few times, I have no problems with men. I had a close relationship with my dad growing up and my brother is my best friend to this day. I have issues in my relationship like any couple, but overall dating has been fairly easy for me. I’m good at compromise and putting others first, which makes me an overall decent partner. Shoving my boyfriend is wrong, but in the way I’ve done it it’s still on the level of something we can workout, it doesn’t reach the level of full on abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:26 PM
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It’s not that they’re okay with it, it’s that they are so self consumed and afraid of being the bad guy they’d rather say “not my problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:03 PM
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Whatever the reason it, why can’t men stop denying it and accept that something needs to be done to curb toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:54 PM
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From what I understand legal immigrants commit less crimes than natural born citizens in the US. This isn’t race debate though (yet)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:53 PM
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Im purposely bringing up examples of some of the worst examples of abuse world wide. My argument is that men have a depth of cruelty overall that is less accessible to women. Women are not angles, we commit some horrendous crimes ourselves, but not with the same kind of sheer violence at our worst depths. I would consider some of the worst moms to be those who sunk their car in the lakes with their children in them, or left their kids in hot cars to die, or emotionally abused them their entire l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:51 PM
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That was a stupid comment to make. I know what the answer, it’s yes. Theres a huge lack of reporting when it comes to female abuse, and a lot of that has to do with perspectives like the one I just spewed out, “she only barley shoved me, im going to look like a p*ssy if I report her for that.” type thinking keeps men from getting justice from their abusers. That’s somebody else’s awareness campaign though, it’s not mine. I’ll support it but i’m not going to go around the internet fighting for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:43 PM
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Those posts happen all the time. My post is a love letter to those posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:33 PM
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I really do believe men rape more violently. My opinions are formed based a lifetime of readings and curiosity. I’ve read stories of men raping little girls with sticks, guns, knives. of mutilating every hole in their body, and physically getting enjoyment out of their pain. I’ve read stories of men removing women’s fingernails and toenails, of stinging them and shocking them with wires before continuing to rape them. These stories aren’t one offs, or rare examples, they are commonplace in certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:28 PM
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Report me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:15 PM
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Jesus, 4%, who knew women were such violent monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:10 PM
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No they aren’t. But this is where the whole, “toxic masculinity” thing comes into play. I would argue it’s a men’s rights issue but that probably wouldn’t get me very far. Male run organizations usually have rape cultures, it’s a broad generalization, but warriors storming cities and raping the native women is as consistent as history. The entire mixed African American population in the US exists in part, due to men in power taking advantage of their slaves. There are very few examples of times …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:06 PM
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I don’t understand how supporting men’s rights destroys my argument about men projecting their worst traits onto women. But maybe you can explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:01 PM
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And your an inspiration. Such beautiful plants. I hope my sapling babies can grow and become big and strong like yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:59 PM
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I also see the trend happening across the whole manospehere. They use lots of weird specific cases they find on instagram to convince themselves of universal rules. Statistics are like assholes, but at least they aren’t made of staw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:58 PM
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There isn’t a whole lot here for me to disagree with so I’ll leave it there. You seem like a well spoken well adjusted individual. I’m well aware of how putting myself in an echo chamber of hate has slowly degraded my mental state. I have hope for the future. I think things will get better. and thanks for the advice. I decided I would be leaving this sub a few days ago and started a tomato garden. I’m thinking of also growing some herb. Botany is fairly calming, so hopefully that will keep me bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:53 PM
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Another interesting thing about the teacher sex crimes case, the female teachers were vastly more likely to use social media to lure in their victims. That says something interesting about the nature of female offenders, they’re more timid. I’ve probably pushed my boyfriend a few times when I’ve gotten frustrated. Is that domestic abuse? He’s gotten fairly angry at me before and almost hit me, but didn’t. I can promise you if he ever did hit me, it would have damaged me in some way, he’s just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:42 PM
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You could get a delta here if you provide your sources. I can’t coherently read or trust the garble of incoherent facts and links you’ve copy pasted. Edit: I’m looking for sources to outside material. There should be something blue for me to click on. Your regurgitation does nothing for me if we aren’t on level playing ground as far as the data being looked at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:35 PM
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White men hold the vast majority of positions of power in the United States
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:32 PM
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I used to be a runner. My body is fairly average aside from the fact that I have a massive ass that everyone feels the need to comment on. I would get cat called and honked at constantly when I was out. Sometimes cars would even follow me around a little. I remember wondering who these asshole catcalling guys were, like who even does that? only to get into the car with my guy friends who I liked and respected to see them do the same exact thing to a girl waiting to cross the street. That was a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:29 PM
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I’m no victim. I come from an upper middle income family, my father loved me, coached all my soccer teams and cared for me. I’ve never been raped, or let a men take advantage of me in anyway. Part of this is luck. Part of this is education. Men like to keep women in the dark. About their own reproductive capabilities, about their own risk, about their own safety. I’m able to stay safe around men because I know. I put myself in dangerous situations regularly, but a constant stream of calculations…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:19 PM
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Yeah I’ve gotten a little extreme in my opposition, but I wouldn’t consider that quote an extreme one, because it’s trackable. Women’s healthcare directly correlates to children’s welfare. When pregnant women have the proper vitamins, entire generations are born healthier. The WP fights for what? his own superiority? The women fight for what? her children/her safety. Stop conflating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:12 PM
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Your link didn’t work for me. Maybe try again. Your assessment is mostly accurate. It’s a two evils scenario, but with a movement as easily fractured as mine, it’s hard to show division. Planned parenthood for example does excellent work for low income pregnancies, but since less than 5% of their spending goes towards abortions, they are being shut down nation wide. Women’s healthcare is not a monolith, it’s easy to destroy, and there are people with a vested interest in doing so. And since my r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:06 PM
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I can’t handle your first two examples because they are specific cases, the type of thing that drives me bonkers (anyhow I’ve only heard about cardi b 1000 times if she’s guilty, take her to court already.) but the youtube thing makes sense. Men are behind in perceptions, people are more willing to believe they are abusers because more people have life experience to justify that a male is an abuser. Versus with the female abuser people could just think, “Oh if he didn’t want her attacking him he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:54 PM
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I actually started to read some of the study (my eyes are actually starting to bleed though, and it didn’t help) and a lot of the sources aren’t a clear “women abuse more” the first one only lists that AM boys experience violence at a higher rate than AM girls, not even that the girls inflicted the violence. It could very well be other boys bullying them or them fighting each other. Many of the studies listed are similar in style.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:48 AM
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I just googled it, and I’m all about the duluth model. I’m going to add that to my vocabulary. why did this get downvoted? I just learned about. this and haven’t researched it much so if someone can explain why it was flawed in some way I’d love to consider that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:18 AM
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I also make a lot of assumptions. It would be complicated and boring to explain my whole world view, but I need things to fit logically if that makes sense. Everything in this world is connected in some strange beautiful way, and one rule usually leads to the next. The problem sometimes, is establishing the rule. I never quite go off one study, the study I show is usually just the most universally respected source. I like to get to the core of an issue, reading opposition news sites, and spendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:43 AM
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I’m sorry you got a weird response to this. You make an excellent point. I don’t think they understood you properly. What your saying is that women such as my self are keenly aware of how women are treated when men have their way, and it terrifies us. I realized I was a feminist when I was a middle school student. I had an international studies teacher who saw how much I liked to read, and fed me books written from women around the world. To this day, the things I read on those pages remain some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:34 AM
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Honestly I don’t know why I threw that baby killing comment in there, I was pretty much asking for it, but I guess I am covering my bases before I get out of this cesspool. I can’t tell you whether it’s murder or not. Im not a philosopher or a doctor or god. What I can tell you is facts, and statistics, and what they show to be the best way to prevent the most pain overall for everybody. I’m sorry I can’t answer your question. I simply don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:09 AM
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It’s a balance. What we mean to say is just because you can’t get anybody doesn’t mean you can’t get somebody. We all know people who are less attractive who are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:57 AM
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I thank the universe every day I was born in a country where I have the rights to upset men like you. God bless america.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:50 AM
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I don’t like abortion. Personally I wouldn’t have one unless it was life or death. At the same time, I don’t pretend to understand human behavior. Abortions happen everywhere, regardless of laws. In a free nation, the only way to decrease abortion rates is to decrease unwanted pregnancies, enforce fact based sex ed, educate women, and offer early prevention such as plan b and birth control freely. I believe in early prevention and that medical decisions should be made between a doctor and a pati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:42 AM
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I don’t know much about billionaires either. Someone made a claim that all this money is given to women, and from what I know about the world, if there are people giving tons of money to women it’s probably for the reasons stated. Those things sound equally great to invest in. My point was more so, like, sorry your upset about all this spending on women, but there’s actually probably a reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:54 AM
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It’s not about what I think, it’s about what the data says. I like to push my assumptions against cold hard reality, the same way I like to look at my zits in 1000x magnification mirror (SHOW ME THE TRUTH, I CAN’T HANDLE IT) I didn’t say anything about giving women “more legal protections” though (that’s a whole other conversation) Im arguing against a culture. That’s why this whole post is so fragmented and all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:49 AM
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I have a narrative. It changes daily as I learn new things, and consume data. If I see information that counters my beliefs, I change them. I think the world would be a much better place if others did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:37 AM
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Hopefully men’s movements rights can make some improvements in men’s ability to be taken seriously in domestic abuse cases. No victim deserves to be kept silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:34 AM
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I’m sorry if I’m bouncing around too much. I’ll try to address whatever it is your wondering if you restate it. This post was intended to be general, and specific examples are just that, specific examples. I give in on certain things if they make sense, because I’d like to live in a world where people give in to things that make sense haha. Also just because we change a subject doesn’t mean I’m “abandoning” my other beliefs, it just means i’m easily to distract... like a puppy, or a squirrel. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:24 AM
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page 24 section 4.2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:16 AM
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Lots of things in society improve for just one group. Civil rights. Immigrant worker visas. Child labor laws. edit: assholery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:05 AM
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Alright you lost me there dude. I’m supposed to feel bad for saying people who wanna enslave women and fuck children are assholes, but you admit you’ve actually made fun of virgins. I’m not attacking you, i’m just saying you kinda lost your credibility to call me out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:59 AM
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Yet, almost no men on here agree with me that women need more protections/justice. So men understand that they are raping and murdering women at much higher rates..... but also don’t think anything should be done about it?? and that women need to shut up.... no that’s a worse reality than I can currently deal with. I’m going to keep living in my la la land where I believe they just don’t understand the facts and if they did they would support women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:55 AM
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I’m sorry this happened to you. But if everyone in society just took responsibility for things they personally did, we wouldn’t be a society, no change would ever happen because no single person is responsible for everything. We wouldn’t clean up trash, or fix cities after disaster, we would all just be like, “I didn’t do it- not my problem” and everything would stay horrible forever. Men like you shouldn’t be put down, but you should have a desire to improve the society you live in regardless o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:52 AM
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I haven’t seen any “look at those looser virgin” posts. I couldn’t handle being a part of a community like that. My brothers a 23 year old virgin and he’s my favorite person in the whole world. it’s mostly like, “look at this pedo guy saying 6 year olds are hot” I’m sure lots of incels kill themselves, and that’s horrible, but is it really inceltears causing it? Most of the nice ones just seem really sad because their lives suck. Their content never goes on IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:47 AM
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Sounds like we are in somewhat agreement here. No victim should ever be silenced regardless of gender. I understand how pointing out flaws in the opposite sex can be an important part of a movement, I mean look at my freakin post.... but I wish men’s rights did it with information more. The instagram style snapshots of women who cheated on their husbands isn’t going to educate or promote good, it’s just going to make men angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:41 AM
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I wish I was floppy. I’m so inflexible I should probably stretch more. It’s not just about rape, the post is more that men are in denial about the nature of women because they project their own traits on women. (traits like selfishness, lying, hyper sexuality and aggressiveness)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:38 AM
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What do you think that says about me? I’ve never really thought about my participation there too much, aside from that it’s a funny sub that facilitates comedic relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:32 AM
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And it won’t stop being talked about until it stops being a massive issue. I can talk to you guys till the cows come home, but until that directly translates to fewer people being assaulted or actual justice for victims, I’m going to keep talking talking talking. And I hope you do continue working for men’s issues, as long as you understand talking about how horrible women are isn’t a men’s issue. Genital mutilation is, I wonder why MGTOW gives that so little attention to it? Oh yeah they are bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:26 AM
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You mean willful misleading of the facts? yes they do do that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:21 AM
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Hi individualist. Sounds like your in denial about living in a society. I can’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:19 AM
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The fuck are you complaining about? the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:18 AM
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But women are held back by their high standards. We are the gate keepers of evolution, that’s why it’s physically painful for some women to sleep with the wrong person, while a lot of guys will fuck anything that moves. To say, “Oh well she can just go for a guy who falls way below her standards” is an argument that would only appeal to a male in her same position. really, the female incel has it hardest of them all, because she can’t compensate that much. She can’t get a ton of money or prestig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:13 AM
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I’m going to address the top part first, because you kinda hurt my feelings, but it’s maybe my fault for wording wrong. I think men are every bit as entitled to “justice” as you claim. Most men are raped by other men, and I care about their justice just as much as men raped by women. When I talk about overcompensation I more mean the whole, “GIRL POWER” thing. It’s annoying but it’s not hurting anybody. I’m not in support of social media justice as far as accusations go, but accept it as a reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:09 AM
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I care about the victims. That’s why I’d like to know how many of them their are so we can properly asses the severity of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:55 AM
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Humor me here though, do those “nice guys” really think that the same thing doesn’t happen the opposite way? guys complain about their super hot high effort GF who works out everyday. The difference is that his fat female best friend thinks, “I could treat him so much better, but I’ll never be good looking enough for him.....” she understands the situation at hand. Men, who claim to be reasonable and logical are like, “well im a good friend why doesn’t she wanna date me” a lot of men on this sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:54 AM
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Men do however (on this site) project their sexual aggressiveness, and general selfishness on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:47 AM
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I do feel bad for people who have had their hearts broken. The sad thing is they are sucked into these communities not because of the merit of their arguments, but for the feelings of belonging the bring. So it’s like, yeah they’re kinda evil, but they are also lost souls in desperate need of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:44 AM
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I can be a bit ridiculous at times. Fighting with people on this site is slowing draining me of my sanity. Come back to my page in three years and it will just be me reposting modern art created with period blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:41 AM
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We are experiencing the cultural backlash of hundreds of years of sexism. Men have been on top for like forever, can they not handle a decade of overcompensation? Beyond that, men having sisters and wives doesn’t change how I feel about them. I respect and care for men’s humanity on the same level I would care about any woman’s humanity, regardless of how many chicks he surrounded himself with he’s a person. The reason I push this point (and maybe this should have been in the post but I type fas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:39 AM
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Your right about one thing, I don’t get it. I wish someone could help me understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:33 AM
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The creator of the post disagrees. I’m waiting on his data as we speak. Check post history for confirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:31 AM
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I’m having trouble finding the data they are getting “two thirds from” I’ve searched the internet far and wide to no avail. if you have numbers, please give them to me. Numbers make me horny. Plus we can’t really discuss this unless we have the same information.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:21 AM
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increasing from 2% to 5% is a 150% change. That’s quite a dramatic spike!! Still not majority percent though, and still not enough to convince me women raping men is a huge problem. As long as 80% of the offenders are still male, it’s still a vastly majority male problem. I could care less about that guy’s opinions, I live on statistics from legitimate sources. I would rather go with an old study than a modern “opinion”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:50 PM
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85 to 90 percent of teacher sexual misconduct cases are male offenders. Just thought I’d let you know the entire basis of your post is wrong. here’s the article for anyone whose to lazy to go through a thousand page gov report
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:04 PM
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Yeah regardless of the money part, you should do more for your LTR than for someone you dating casually. If I found out all your flings got an hour of foreplay and I only got quickies, I would be equally upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:56 PM
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Okay, so let’s say we achieve your dream. Now people don’t believe women who say they’ve been raped (as if that’s not already the reality for most people as you’ve said yourself, “most people won’t believe something without evidence”) What do we do about the lack of justice for victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:45 PM
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I have no desire to slander. I want rape victims to get the same fair trials as everyone else. I’m just explaining how the situation got to this point. As far as abuse of that form of justice, yeah it sucks. If someone’s slandered the have the legal rights to sue, they should take advantage of those rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:32 PM
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People being accused of rape have the exact same rights to “Innocent until proven guilty” as everyone else. The reason the me too movement has blown up and is slandering men, is because women have gotten close no justice for sexual assault for so long. The vast majority of rape kits aren’t even tested. It was a eventuality with the lack of justice that women would start taking to social media. If I was raped and received no justice you can bet I would do everything in my power to slander that in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:25 PM
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No I see them “trying” to take some intel words like moids, but they aren’t near as hateful. I’ve been moved to tears from from of their posts yes... but I haven’t seen anything advocating violence. I’m open to having my mind changed, but just saying, “I think they are equally violent” isn’t going to be the statement to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:44 PM
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There is no difference in rates of lying for sexual assault as in average crimes like burglary. Yet when someone is raped we question them and put them through a highly traumatic process and when someone is burglarized we believe them. Only 4 in like 1000 rapists go to jail in the US and men are more likely to BE raped than falsely accused of rape. So who are you fighting for with #dontbeliverapevictims2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:08 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah it’s sad but I feel mental health wordwide is going to get much worse before it gets better. It’s the inevitable end to the remorseless system we’ve created.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:43 AM
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It basically commodifies everything, removes the social safety nets that protect people (because profit god dammit!) tears apart religious and social institutions where people find solace, rips apart family units, and isolates each individual. Think about if any other social creature were forced to live this way? if each mice had to “carry their own weight” and live in an isolated world. They would be equally miserable. Capitalism is an experiment to see how long humans survive without their hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:28 AM
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It’s funny because your post clearly embodies the spirit of deflection, shaming, and fallacy. I’m not going to try to convince you of anything because from what I can tell you have no desire to discuss only to derail. You make no claims my son, you only tear down at mine with weak attacks you probably (and adorably) think are “high IQ” because you linked them to a wiki page. Go through my post history. I give up on very few. You can now join the ranks of those few. the good thing, is because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:20 AM
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Congratulations you’ve taken a collage debate class, I have too. The funny thing is my class taught me you have to do more than link a wiki page with the word “fallacy” below to prove a point. Yes these arguments could be attributed to fallacy, if I didn’t have examples of the naztis using propaganda to steadily expose the german people to hate speech, or direct lines on shooter manifestos from men’s rights subs. “If these communities built these people there would be a lot more of them” what wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:53 AM
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This is getting a little far from feminism (A topic I can confidently defend) but I think it’s the result of late stage capitalism. Those will less value will be forgotten and put down until they rise up and say no more. I’m low key happy it’s happening to men instead of women, because men actually have the ability to cause revolutions (women are tied down by children and elderly parents) The harsh reality is the situation will get worse until the rich get so rich money is but a number on a char…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:47 AM
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Hahaha, break your spirit for what? Attacking feminism? If they defending so rigorously above actual social improvement that proves my point, no? And feminism a hate movement? No. I don’t want to be raped, I want to have a safe child birth, and I want the same employment opportunities as men. Call that hate if you want, I call it common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:27 AM
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That begs the question of what reason is. I think wanting equal rights is quite reasonable, but people on this site will tear feminism down and call it an extremist hate movement. I think having entire communities dedicated to slandering women is unnecessary, but people on this site will argue it is. At the least I would think we would be able to agree hate speech is wrong, but that’s turning out to be a false assumption in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:23 AM
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Yeah and if I went in the streets talking about feminism I risk being a side show on one of thousands of “feminist cringe compilations.” I was called femanatzi by all the boys in my high school and bullied for 4 years having guys put gross stuff in my locker, and having someone make an entire instagram page to post pictures of my body and talk smack. There’s a cost. Those who care pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:20 AM
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Late. Stage. Capitalism. Im not trying to tell you a problem doesn’t exist. But your fighting the wrong enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:10 AM
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Society did not give anyone anything. Society didn’t “give women” the vote, they threw rocks through windows and protested in the street. Society didn’t give black people rights, martin luther king had to give his life to the movement. If you expect society to just hand it to your crazy. What do you mean? By giving power to the crazy your devaluing your own platform. Yes listen, but shut down the bad stuff and promote the good, instead of trying to convince everyone bad is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:06 AM
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To all the trolls watching thinking, “but femcels bannned me too!” Did you by any chance call them “fat cuck sucking whores? Cause that’ll do it we just out here trying to ask rhetorical questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:30 PM
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But rhetoric does incite violence. You can say it’s ridiculous but the average person/history would probably take my side. Where do we draw the line? That’s the hard thing about the internet, we are still figuring out how to make it a safe yet free space. I think the current practice of shutting down subs that promote violence, is a good practice, and shouldn’t be attacked so heavily. Chapo trap house, an extremist semi communist sub just got shut down for saying slave owners. should be killed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:23 PM
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I made a comment once somewhere along the lines of “for people who don’t need women you sure are obsessed with them” and got perma-banned. I’m sorry that happened to you, they have a lot of anger in their souls so at least you can self soothe by thinking about how horrible their lives probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:17 PM
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Okay. I just wanted to close this out in a way where you felt listened to because I wasn’t purposely trying to avoid your main point before. Let’s try to tackle one goalpost going forward, your belief that micro aggressions don’t lead to actual violence. I would argue all violence begins at micro aggressions, move on to verbal expression and turn to physical expression and then genocide. It’s a widely accepted academic view of how hate grows within a society. One small hashtag from 2018 that was…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:24 PM
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gender bashing aside (I’m not sure how I’ve shamed you? maybe you could make that a little clearer) what was your main point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:06 PM
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Compatible in size/organization? no. Women who hate men are strays. Men who hate women are brotherhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:37 PM
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I condemned what she had to say. The top 20 #killallmen hashtags are all men complaining about it and feminists discussing the hashtag with one angry chick saying men treat her like shit. I don’t think it’s a widespread belief or representative of any feminist spaces, as per the type of content I requested. You changed the subject by showing me a twitter hashtag conflating that with an entire feminist community and then use my gender to insult my tactics (cool) you didn’t give me what I asked fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:29 PM
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Yes, if you live in a democratic nation you have many options. You can start a charity, create a new law, or start a social media campaign to raise awareness. Furthermore you can volunteer or donate to organizations that benefit men’s welfare. Attacking women feels good. It’s sweet and justifiable to vilify the opposite sex. Within your communities more and more extreme content will be praised for the LOLZ, but as it’s exposed to the wider community it will actually do the opposite of its stated…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:13 PM
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That’s a little fringe for me. It’s obviously a joke, but she shouldn’t have made it. If you search the tweet you can see that she deleted it and there are about 15 articles talking about how shitty it is. No feminists are defending it either. If this is the kind of one off assholery that drives your political views I challenge you to re evaluate how you educate yourself. I don’t assume all republicans call haiti a “shit hole nation” just because trump said it. edit: I just looked into it furthe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:07 PM
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A lot of these “men’s rights” guys truly believe feminism is a hate movement against men. So when their anti women’s hate movements are called out they feel there is some injustice or double standard taking place. There is not. If men’s groups really cared about men’s issues, they would be brainstorming ways to improve the many issues men face, instead they use statistics like weapons against feminists as if their own injustices delegitimize ours. They don’t care about gender rights, they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:02 PM
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It depends on how you look at it. I highly recommend the “pew die pie pipeline” on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:13 PM
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I believe a lot of those “look at this crazy content” sites are mostly doctored content. find me a feminist space that’s mainly inhabited by feminists thats that violent and I will give! On to male oppression, you provide some great examples of how men’s rights need to be advanced. These issues need not be against women’s issues, they can work in unison. The people who will be making the decisions to make the world better or worse for us, are currently all men however, not women. There is no ant…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:28 PM
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I had never seen that anywhere from any women. Where are you seeing this content??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:23 PM
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They are all in my “frequently visited” section. Sorry I got that part confused but tbh, the content is fairly similar across the board even if they use different language, which makes them easy to confuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:22 PM
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Men have the majority of political offices, every single president has been male, every major general has been male, 90% + of corporate boards and CEOs are male, but sure, let’s convince ourselves men are oppressed. Still, you would be hard pressed to find a single feminist space that was as violent and hateful as every single male dominated sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:58 PM
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I understand the point your trying to make, but I’ve spent time on this sub. I’ve seen men in comments cheering on a women who seemed in a video about to be raped or attacked. Stop justifying “boys will be boys” behavior. Violent speech against women online desensitizes young men and makes them more likely to do it in person. Do I expect anyone to care? No i’m screaming into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:51 PM
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I also understand why men feel oppressed. What I don’t understand is why they always feel the need to express that oppression in violent and hateful ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:49 PM
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All male centric subs: “Haha kill the jews, can I say the n word?? LOLOL women are all useless fuck plugs LOLOLOL” everyone else: “Isn’t that kinda.... mean?” all male centric subs: WhY iS eVeRyoNE bUllYing Us, mEn aRE OpreSsEd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:43 PM
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They trash on women calling them foids and sub human and laugh at the idea of them getting raped or injured. It’s not a culture of “support and healing” it’s a culture of hate, for men who have been wronged to fester in their injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:37 PM
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MGTOW can’t stop talking about how horrible women are and how much they hate them. It’s not a page for men doing their own thing, it’s a circle jerk about how much women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:21 PM
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It seems I’m a collectivist and your an individualist, except you lack the vocabulary to express/understand the two separate frames of thought. Feminism has nothing to do with the self, the me, and everything to do with society at large. If you do not believe in social welfare, I cannot convince you. The frameworks to understand me do not exist in your vocabulary. I can still be just me, and wanna help others in society. If you don’t know what systemic or any other word means, watch a youtube vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:01 PM
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Not if you believe violence against women is a systemic issue that can be improved. And that further so, improving the welfare of women directly impacts the welfare of children and therefore our entire future. I am for the advancement of our society, to become a safer more just place for all people. When you have thousands of underaged women who are still held in sexual slavery or abused by family members, in a first world nation, you have a problem. Of course this is a fringe issue, but it high…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:11 AM
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You have to take into account that face that women are just now getting their foothold in the workforce, and just now achieving what close to equal pay across the board. So far throughout history women often spent most of their time working in the home and making babies, unpaid. Not that they should be paid, it’s just a reality out society places no value on the pillars of reproduction that support it. It’s fine with me because as society advances and childbirth rates fall they will eventually h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:37 AM
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You can disagree with parts of the movement or certain facts, that’s your right. But to deny the fact that women overwhelmingly face sexual violence as a whole, or are at an economic disadvantage is a choice to ignore reality. The sad thing is feminism by design is intended to improve the lives all of people, of all genders. There are many different facets of it, and I myself disagree with other feminists, but it’s undeniable that when women are brought up within a nation, child health, educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:08 PM
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most feminists want basic things. They want to be sexually harassed less, they want better medical care for pregnant women and fact based sex education. The things you hate us for are manufactured propaganda. I saw a post on r/askfeminists the other day where someone asked, “how did you become a feminist?” the first response perfectly summed up my feelings, “that’s like asking how I decided I wanted to be treated like a person” it’s that simple. You may disagree with us on policy, or on which co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:01 PM
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how is putting yourself in a mans mind equating physically harming someone with taking a material item?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:24 PM
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Do you really believe everything feminists say is a lie? sources!! prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:23 PM
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This is hilarious. You better be bringing some serious value to the table with those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:26 PM
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your missing the point of her comment. She’s saying if your standards are too high you don’t get to complain as if your not the one causing the problem by being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:32 AM
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I’m not arguing that. I’m just saying those stereotypes in specific are a little outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:50 AM
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agreed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:01 AM
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These gender stereotypes were invented by men to control women. They have nothing to do with biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:00 PM
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No, I would consider boy bands another perfect example of beautiful people being given outfits and lyrics by corporate music machines. Billie eilish is an example for me of someone who is truly talented and also very beautiful. (She and her brother create most of their music in their bedroom, away from any major recording studios.) They often release music randomly online that they exclusively worked on, and you can see in clips on youtube that her voice requires little if any alteration. (excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:20 PM
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It’s still possible, it’s just a lot harder. Look at someone like lady gaga, she is a talented vocalist, who writes most of her own music and can play piano with 9 inch nails while dancing, but she almost didn’t make it because of her nose. At the same time, I see new pop stars pop up all the time who clearly have no talent, but are stunning and have songs written for them. Someone like billie eilish is talented, but let’s face it, if she wasn’t so stunning, ocean eyes wouldn’t have blown up so …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:02 PM
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Your right. We solved this problem by creating women’s shelters with family planning services. Now regular shelters with people who don’t have children (men and women) can focus more energy on other issues. To get the billions of dollars in donations required to start hundreds of new male only shelters, you would have to convince people you were solving another actual problem of some kind. It would have to be something real and trackable, such as child well being and rape statistics (the causes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:52 PM
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for that statement to be true, it starts with the assumption that women are currently taking up a lot of beds in gender neutral shelters. Do you have any basis for that assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:42 PM
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Great point. you changed my view with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:40 PM
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It seems there’s a minimum level of attractiveness a woman has to be to be well known for anything. If your not someone attractive as a female, you simply cannot make it. I see men in well known positions who are not 8+ all the time, but pretty much every women whose going on a screen has to be near super model levels of pretty. So you have a huge advantage as a woman if your stunning, but if your not your not even in the running.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:36 PM
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I would feel unsafe using this sub if that was the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:32 PM
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Is the reason they can’t find beds overcrowding from women? your pulling straws here for what a good reason may be, without any justification for how women in men’s shelters is the cause for the problems you state.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:30 PM
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I think it’s a little unfair to women that they have to go to family shelters that cater to women with children even if they don’t have children themselves. Homeless women have every bit as much as a need to get a job and career to support themselves as homeless men. That’s why the extra shelters exist specifically for women and women with children, so they can have that focus and not distract from other issues. To keep women from men’s shelters would be accomplishing nothing but keeping more wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:27 PM
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While we are at it, enough with all this “maternity clothing.” It’s a joke. Do these fEmInIsTs even realize how men are being excluded by these gender exclusionary clothing lines?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:19 PM
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Do you have any proof that this is taking place? I was unaware there was a problem with women distracting from men’s resources in homeless shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:06 PM
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this!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:59 PM
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Men tend to love a woman who cooks well no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:53 PM
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i recognize that some parts of the new feminist movement are quite annoying. I mean look, I’m not even fighting for my values in this conversation, i’m arguing to try and convey my values even exist, because so many people conflate feminism with this whole “instagram feminism” thing going down atm. I cringe when other feminists make small dick jokes not even understanding the hypocrisy of their own statements. if one republican says something stupid it’s not like people argue ALL republicans thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:08 AM
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Because they want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:07 PM
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I’ve also been down this road a million times. Askfeminists have a great resource page at the top of their sub that informs on some feminist resources on men’s issues. You can go through there and see what actual self identified feminists say about men’s issues. toxic masculinity drives men to hold in their feelings and turn to no one (increasing male suicide rates) toxic masculinity is probably also partially to blame for men going to prison more often and for longer. Toxic masculinity actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:03 PM
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they have a recourse page at the top of the feminist page. I’ve been smoking so I’m not going to respond to all of this right now, but you make a lot of great point and i’m physically excited to research your points. In many places in modern day american women have as many if not more rights than there male counterparts. but for now I’ll say you make a compelling point that men’s rights can be valid. I just still believe in women’s rights as well? maybe I’ll edit in the morning.... but i’ll go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 08:25 AM
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Men have it worse on the metrics your looking at, there are lots of metrics to take into account. I could bring up women’s higher rates of abuse, assault, rape, and lower pay scales, genital mutilation and forced slavery. I could say the same for womens issues as far as statistics backing up our cause. I just don’t know why the men’s rights movement wants to be an anti women’s rights movement instead of just promoting their good alongside our good. Why does it have to be a battle? we can take ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:43 AM
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okay, prove me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:36 AM
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Wouldn’t it be more concrete to fight for causes that have statistics behind them? You may risk making your own cause look silly by fighting over things that don’t matter. I’ve seen the feminist cause do it to itself in a way. The only way I stay true to my beliefs through all the bull I see online is re-checking the facts, looking at others sources, taking to people who disagree with me, and getting to the bottom of what the proven facts even are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:33 AM
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The KKK wants to convince everyone white men are superior. Feminism wants to convince people that women are worthy human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:35 PM
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it’s first come first serve at unisex shelters (I was briefly homeless) they have women’s shelters like she said to solve a recognized problem in the system. If there was some kind of issue with men being in co-ed shelters there would be more men’s only shelters i’m sure. I understand that there are real pressing men’s issues, but when guys on here fight about this stuff it feels more like they are fighting for sympathy points than trying to do something useful for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:29 PM
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I’m a woman who loves to talk. I work at the front desk at my casino, and customers regularly stop by for a good 20 minute conversation. I used to dominate conversations in my younger years, but learned how to have a healthy flow of questions and answers and now have great conversations with all people, men, women, children, old people. As someone who talks to all these different sorts of people (and have my whole life, i’ve just gotten better at it with age) Ive never noticed this huge differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:07 PM
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If you want to see that spark of excitement, I would recommend going after anime girls or nerdy girls. These are the types my brother hangs out with and they always seem really excited to talk about their games. Girls like me who are more into makeup, working out, TV shows and other normal things need a little more pulling. Ask them what kind of youtube channels they watch, that’s a great way to start. We usually watch a lot of youtube sub that relates to our specific interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:58 PM
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what are you talking about? i’m either into you or i’m not. I see pretty much al people as asexual unless they are the person i’m with, or trying to get with. nothing happens that makes it impossible for her to be attracted to you, you just never were in the first place. if you see her suddenly treating you differently after you ask her out it’s because she doesn’t want to send the wrong message and lead you on more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:20 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:17 AM
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This is a conversation between the ideals of being able to hookup with people and the ideals of a relationship. In most modern nations, your not going to have the opportunity to have a partner and sleep around unless you let them do so as well. This is just how the world is now, I’m sorry it is probably less great for some men. A world where people keep their promises and don’t enslave eachother is probably a better world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:27 PM
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I don’t want to go that far, but I do think it would be lonely. A a man who lived like this rented a room in my families home growing up. I was old enough at the time to have fairly adult conversations, and it was kinda sad watching his player magic wear off with age. There was one woman who had always cared for him, and probably loved him more than anyone else in the world, they were on and off for maybe 13 years. He could never commit so she actually ended up marrying this guy she had only met…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:12 PM
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I just read this article about how just because a marriage ended in divorce doesn’t mean the marriage is a “failure” I’m changing topics here, but I think that since we as a society know that marriage is good for children and families, but many marriages will eventually fail, we need to change our entire system for marriage and divorce to one that works better for everyone. It should be assumed that most marriages will end in divorce (since they do) and we should have systems to make divorce rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:11 PM
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Part of my argument is that people who can’t have success in relationships need to work on themselves. I give you a 3.5(:
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:59 PM
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personal observations off biased online communities are not the same as crowd sourced data. Also, science is still science. The scientific method is one of the only practices that’s used almost exactly the same world wide because it’s just that effective. If you don’t have controls, variables, and reliable evidence, it’s still not scientific. A lot of information does not sway unless that information is scientifically empirical. For example, asking doctors on reddit what being a doctor is like, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:49 PM
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I’m not as familiar with STRs and sexual relationships so I can’t vouch for how good I find those to be. Certainly for some men they have weighed it based on experience, but my argument there would be people who can’t find success in relationships have one of two problems (male or female) either they are not a stable person to date, and need to work on themselves, or they have bad choice in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:45 PM
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He’s not jane goodall. His opinions are not facts just because he commented on my reddit post. It’s scary how often I have to make this point actually. I am concerned for the internet. Science is science. Not science is not science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:41 PM
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You forget that woman are also far more selective. But that’s besides the point. We all know most men wouldn’t want their wives sleeping around period, if your one of those men, it just means you have to hold yourself to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:36 PM
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Marriage is what you do when you’ve found someone you think you can share your life with long term, it’s also a formal legal agreement. Relationships are much different, in that they are fairly easy to leave. A man should get married if he feels like his life would benefit from partnership with another human, not just out of love or attraction. Your husband or wife is like your permanent life sidekick(:
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:33 PM
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Yeah, there are going to be variables on either side. I’m more trying to discuss the appeal of a healthy relationship, as I have no defense for people who keep dating people who make their lives worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I think the best places are a great example for how to treat women. Europe, norway, US, canada. ecta. Saudi arabia is not a very nice place to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:57 PM
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He can believe whatever he wants, but his assumptions are not a scientific “understanding of female behavior” they are assumptions. If i’m wrong please link sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:56 PM
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Where is this conception coming that enjoying relationships means staying in a bad one?? If your unhappy, break up! I think you should date around so you WILL know when your with someone you can actually marry. Anyhow, thanks for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:30 PM
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Yes. You could have saved your breathe I already believed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:29 PM
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argument!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:28 PM
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I think that’s a sacrifice most people just make in favor of the benefits. I wonder if most of these guys spinning plates continue past late forties. It’s like they forget your life has a second half to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:27 PM
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There are always subtle signs. I’m sure there are girls willing to sleep with you, just not sure they’re the best selection. Physically maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:25 PM
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I’m in support of having your fun before settling down. I just think the ultimate goal should be settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:07 PM
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The lack of empathy only comes, because how can I as a woman feel empathy when Ive seen the hateful content I have. I’ve seen depictions of rape with guys cheering it on. I’ve seen women described as fuck bags, or sub human, or deserving to die. This isn’t stuff I had to dig up on IT or vice articles, I found this just by stumbling over their subs and getting entangled. I’m sure it’s there right now for anyone to see. I’ve even been private messaged with how I personally was a dirty whore who de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:05 PM
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This is flipping the premise saying, “but what if your in a bad relationship with someone you don’t agree with, don’t have sexual compatibility with, and don’t want a future with.” why would you date someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:58 PM
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I think it’s people everybodies parents got divorced so this whole generation is afraid of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:56 PM
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No shame there(: although you won’t have to settle for becky unless you want her to be a perfect virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:55 PM
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The rich and powerful throughout history have claimed multiple wives, as throughout history women have often been seen as objects, and rich people tend to like having lots of pretty objects. If you would like to enjoy this kind of life, you can move to saudi arabia or somewhere like that, but work hard, because you’ll still need to be wealthier than most to afford multiple wives. Overall, for the average income citizen, one wife is more common. God only made adam one eve for a reason. If you loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:53 PM
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This is a generalization of an entire gender. If you think half the human population is all this one way, than that’s for you to figure out. I can’t teach you science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:46 PM
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It’s not the suffering olympics. Maybe if you recognized women as people who would be able to commiserate with her, but since you see it as an US versus THEM battle you can only feel hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:31 PM
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“men may betray you” isn’t the same as “women are sub human femoids”. the femcels keep in mind that men are HUMAN and I know many here simply don’t believe in femcels because they are in a different situation. tbh if you can find any female run sub that talks about men the way MGTOW, incels, gamers rise up or one of the other many hateful male run pages I regularly browse does, I’ll concede immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:28 PM
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if you were swingers or in an open relationship, that’s just how it goes for most people. why would one partner agree if they couldn’t do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:23 PM
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true. like anything, it’s based on what you value personally I guess. I concede that for many people these advantages may seem unappealing in favor of other choices, player lyg, serial relationshipist, or mgtow might seem better based on what you want out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:35 AM
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Haha, maybe swinging or open relationships for them? Relationship isn’t the same as monogamous( ; then again, that would mean they would have to accept their wives would have the same privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:59 AM
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I have a theory that because so many red pill men think so lowly of women, when they meet a total bit of garbage they date them anyway telling themselves thats just how all women are, and then later post on reddit, “See look what this crazy chick did to me” not realizing they just have bad judgment in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:16 PM
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Go on reddit. Look at femcels and look at incels. Compare content. If you can’t see the difference, learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:06 PM
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maybe being less misogynistic would help though, idk. I’m a woman and this would increase your chances of sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:05 PM
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I’ve been friends with unattractive girls, trust me, it’s not easy for them. The reason it got upvoted is because it was a well written submission, and reddit is already overflowing with unattractive men looking for sympathy. Also, it’s widely believed across reddit that all girls have it easy, so a post that challenged that well, must have resonated with a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:04 PM
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True. I understand being in a point in your life where you’d like to expand and check stuff out, mess around a little before you settle down. If your a woman this is called riding the cock carasol, if you a man it’s accepted and promoted behavior haha. But anyhow, I would think eventually you would want to settle down to have a family in your later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:58 PM
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I will concede when it comes to keeping your figure being single is better. My argument is more holistically your life will be overall better in the long run. I also place a high value on children and families, as if you don’t have them the second half of your life you may be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:55 PM
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My argument in no way applies to people attracted to “toxic people” it’s based of my view of the ideals. The ideal of being able to have hookups with as many people as you want on one side, and the ideal of a healthy balanced relationship on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:54 PM
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You make a great point in the first paragraph. I’ve found relationships are a deeper connection than most friendships, so you have to learn to accept them on more levels. Also you share so much with your SO the relationship is a lot more personal. It may be easier for someone to concede what’s happened at work than the design of their home, or where they will vacation. Decisions that are generally made with an SO. Although i will concede you don’t “need” a relationship to become a better person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:51 PM
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Maybe. I would hope any reputable study would take into account things like health, and find controls where they looked at two groups of men of the same health but half are married and half are not yada yada. You’d have to look into how the study was conducted to see if there’s a strong possibility of it being correlation instead of causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:51 PM
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If it’s very recent I probably just haven’t seen it yet. I’ll look into it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:46 PM
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I have a bad habit of dating players. It’s worked out surprisingly well for me, as they both turned out to be real softies in the end. But i’ve noticed they both had really intense relationships with their moms. Like both these boys were closer to their moms than anyone else I’ve ever met, and that can’t just be coincidence. I wish I had a working theory on how this works, but it’s just a correlation i’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:18 PM
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Is it better for the man sexually? or is it just the excitement of another n or a new face (risky) I know not all women are great sexually, but if your with one who is, your going to get to a point where she will try almost anything with you. I’ve done so many kinks in relationships that I would never in a million years trust a hookup to try. I would think that would be added value. But if your not a kinkster it doesn’t matter as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:09 PM
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Once your in a relationship, you often see a lot of the support offered is more than sexual. If your just going after N count, it’s to prove something to yourself. It’s not to increase your happiness or pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:04 PM
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Married men have more sex. If your lucky enough to find a partner who matches your energy, you can have sex multiple times a day. The other great thing about relationships is that sex generally gets better. You learn how to satisfy each other, and even if the sex isn’t as risky as your hookups of past, you have a great time every time and both people climax and it’s just great. Marriage is also a business partnership. If you know you want a family but need to focus on your career, it’s great to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:58 PM
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Hahaha, sounds like a you problem there dude. I’m approached by guys daily who don’t seem to have any or these issues. If saying, “Hey I couldn’t help but notice you, could I get your number” makes some guy beat you up, sue his ass and cash out. If my boyfriend did that to some poor guy i’d loose em. That’s way too much. Sorry about your poor dating selection pool. Just because you don’t find her right away doesn’t mean she’s not out there, it’s a numbers game. I wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:56 AM
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I think when you take into account daughters whose fathers abandoned them in some way, it covers a much larger percentage of women. They have only ever been able to trust their mom and when they did trust a man he hurt her so it could only be one that creates that worldview too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:53 AM
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I believe you I just haven’t seen it where I frequent. There are defiantly women who see the world that way, but there are women who have been raped and abused by all of the men in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:40 AM
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I love it when men approach me to ask for my number or tell me I’m pretty. It’s when they act aggressive or keep pushing after I’ve said that I have a boyfriend that the problem occurs. Don’t be afraid to say hi to that cute girl she may be single and find you cute as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:24 AM
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you misread, 48% of male victims are raped by women. Please read your own sources better. the actual figure is closer to 10-20% here are my sources https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:15 AM
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I have never seen a woman on reddit say anything of the sort
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:10 AM
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did I make that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:34 PM
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Okay, but the man see's that hes 40 and dating a hot 21 year old in the gold digger situation. He is making a choice. The main who is getting divorced chose his wive, chose to not have a prenup or to have children, he chose his lawyer and whether to get custody. Where is the choice for women being mistreated in so many ways? It seems the only choice made is existing while female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:08 AM
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I think men and women both experience issues due to their gender, but in general men take women's complaints less seriously. Also on Reddit, men have a much larger platform. At least 4 subs I frequent see women as sub human or evil in some way, and they actively work to push their agenda throughout mainstream Reddit. I know this is off topic, but right now it feels like 60% of male Reddit is pissed af at the 3% of women who happen to be sexy, thin and 19-21 and assume all women live the lives of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:00 AM
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Its hard for most men to realize that with the rates of assaults worldwide, rapists are not " that weird creepy guy" they are just regular dudes. And yes they are influenced by the society they live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:14 AM
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most of the time there is no one, but odds are once and a while there could be someone, and that someone sometimes does creepy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:10 AM
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Thank you so much for writing this. I learned something today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:58 PM
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Lets imagine two men. ​ Tom, went to college, met a nice girl and got married at 25. Later down the road they had two children, who they heavily invested in, giving them all the best opportunities in life. Toms children went on the have careers and children themselves, and when tom is 82 on his deathbed he is surrounded by family and filled with pride. His daughter is an art teacher at a local school, and shows him the drawing of the children in her class. His son is a lawyer, who sits by his be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:54 PM
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most men prefer the comfort of a steady relationship. Single men die 10 years earlier than single women. Also abandoning your children doesn't set them up for success, and evolutionary, you want your children to have success. The people I know who follow this plan, usually uneducated poor men as you say, have worse lives then those who stay with the mother of their children. The smarter, more educated men know better, which is why the trends go the way they do. Where else would you be sitting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:36 PM
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Do you believe a society where women single highhandedly bare the responsibility of raising and caring for the next generation will be successful? Yes, you may create more offspring, but they are more likely to be criminals, drug addicts, or welfare recipients themselves if they don't have a good start in life. The family unit, and marriage itself exists in nearly every culture, because of how damaging the burden on society would be if men were able to "pump and dump" as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:31 PM
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I understand your desire to punish the woman, but what of the thousands of men not involved in their children's lives or paying any child support.Less than half of separated fathers pay child support, where is their responsibility? Also how can you punish a child or baby, for the choices of their parents. The wealthiest nation on earth shouldn't have starving children. How can you punish the mother, while caring for the innocent child who needs clothes/food/shelter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:40 PM
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I will concede that I agree there are differences in male and female attributes if you look at it over a statistical spread (most men are taller than most women, but some women are taller than some men) but add, that it doesn't prove or claim anything about intelligence difference overall. The wiki page says in the first bit, "These sex differences in cognition correspond to patterns of ability rather than overall intelligence." ​ I did a little digging, and found the paper from 1984 its linked …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 03:00 AM
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You have my interest. Link or argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:55 AM
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Thank you for a great read. I think its interesting how you say you could feel more free as a girl, and I was thinking about something similar today (reflecting on this post) I was thinking about my exact personality and how it would go over in a mans body. I'm not sure, but I think it would help in a lot of ways and hurt in a lot of ways. On one hand, my ambition, and leadership qualities probably would have stuck around, and even blossomed. On the other hand, I would have had less support goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:53 AM
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? so your becoming a prostitute ? it’s a hard life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:22 PM
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valid. being female sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:20 PM
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I’m more talking about brain structure than anything else. I read this huge thing in scientific american that says just by looking at brain scans it’s impossible to tell if it’s a “male or female” brain. That’s along the lines of what I’m thinking when I keep saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:20 PM
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Alright I’m on mobil and on a 10, but I’ll look into it when I get back home in like 6 hours. God fml I hate working 12 hour days😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:39 PM
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of course haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:32 PM
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alright alright, well I’m trying to finish a huge burrito and down an energy drink and respond to y’all on my 30 so sorry. I’ll get back to you once I have time to read through those. You don’t have to be a bully.... but then again, what do I expect I was sassy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:20 PM
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lol that’s wikipedia, your not even aloud to source them in elementary school.... it also makes no definitive claims or provides any research or sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:15 PM
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You win most creative response.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:14 PM
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Why do guys think finding a rich guy is so easy? if it was most women wouldn’t be in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:13 PM
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Yeah I’ll always be sad remembering the summer I came back to school and couldn’t have male friends anymore. It’s a huge bummer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:11 PM
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what are AWALT desires?? And idk I’m letting people take this where they want to. If you wanna be one of the ones to get bogged down in petty details, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:08 PM
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your current brain is just plopped in there, despite my continued asking, no one has provided proof of a difference between female and male brains. (must be peer reviewed, or published in a scientific journal)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:05 PM
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equally valid reactions. I consider both daily.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:04 PM
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You just gotta assume the other details are worked out if you wanna play the game. Otherwise your just kinda pointing out the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:02 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to honestly and thoughtfully respond to my post(:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:02 PM
1

enjoy the UTI
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:01 PM
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You forget though, it also comes with the sacrifice that you can’t have any male friends. Past age like 13, I basically had to make a rule against having male friends because every single one of them started to fall for me, which is less fun and more painful for both parties. In the years since I’ve tried breaking this rule and making male friends, but I’m always reminded of why I made the rule in the first place. Someone always gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:01 PM
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Unless you sacrificed your career to be a full time mom and then post divorce you have no money and can’t support them. I also know people that’s happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:57 PM
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It’s something that will always bug me because I’m a person sitting on the other end of the screen, and the fact that they don’t recognize that is just insane to me. I know I’ve been smarter than other boys in my classes, I know I’ve been faster, but they seem to not believe in intelligent/strong women. I hear the world toddler thrown around a lot, which is how men did treat women pre-60s. It will be my never ending battle on this god forsaken website.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:56 PM
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funny I wonder how that works in a standardized testing environment.... but what ever excuses you need to make yourself feel superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:53 PM
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lol, I wonder how women pass the bar and become surgeons with the brain capacity of a toddler?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:50 PM
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More so, I just see a lot of hatred towards female kind and a sort of attitude of “they aren’t people.” so my post if like, okay but what if you had to live as one of those people. I don’t believe gender determines brain type, from the peer reviewed scientific research I had read, but hearing so many people do believe in different brain types makes me wanna see where they are getting the. info. (saying more men are in stem won’t convince me, not if I can blame causation)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:40 PM
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There is no scientific proof of a “female versus male” brain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:10 PM
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Also, as a mom you will be blamed for everything. haha. Great response, sorry I don’t have longer answers but I’m just enjoying reading them(:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:10 PM
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What would you be doing to get those kinds of donations?? Most times you gotta show some skin to get anywhere near that (there are girls in cam rooms willing to do almost anything for like 20$) and that could put your career in jeopardy if they ever found out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:07 PM
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what edits would you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:05 PM
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Every case I know of where the fathers simply not involved, he’s homeless or has 6 DUIs, or doesn’t want them. If you look at the male (especially black male) incarceration rate it makes even more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:05 PM
1

what about being a woman would change your thoughts on having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:57 PM
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I don’t think you get the question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:55 PM
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probably the best response so far. Although it’ll be hard finding a provider with boy short hair and no style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:54 PM
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1 in 6
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:39 AM
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its okay, soon the transformation will be complete and he will understand whahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:39 AM
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your so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:35 AM
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thats why its called a "thought experiment" ​ I mean, how would you get a cat in a sealed box anyhow? impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:34 AM
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I don't think the hormone change will effect your sexuality in terms of which sex your attracted to. It doesn't for trans people as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:33 AM
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I'm dying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:30 AM
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get ready to deal with UTI's, std's, pregnancy scares and all the rest if your doing it that way (you will also gain a reputation, and if you just sleep with everyone at work no one will respect you)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:29 AM
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Its harder than most people think. If any girl could make tons of money doing this we all would, your just more exposed to the ones who are successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:27 AM
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Great read thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:16 AM
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why an anti-feminist and a female video game streamer? Do the two go together?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:14 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:13 AM
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I’m happy that works for your relationship(: I just know I’m not ugly for having a skinny/curvy body. Most girls would die to have a body like mine, and the fact that it’s still “below standard” on reddit just shows that the standard on here is both too high and quiet literally unhealthy. If your willing to put your wife 13 pounds underweight for your personal enjoyment, your not the kind of person I would wanna be with anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:46 PM
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and your wife is 8 pounds underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:39 PM
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Lol, and then there’s me. 5’4 blonde and 130 I still think that. Oh you crazy boys(:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:30 PM
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I met my boyfriend on tinder and he’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:10 PM
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Well, there’s a reason all these men have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:09 PM
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My boyfriend is super shy and said he never talks to anyone at parties, yet he had crazy success before meeting me so I think this is true. Multiple times girls have thrown their numbers at him while he was just chillin on his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:54 PM
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There are more than enough responses for me anyway, and I'm having fun going through them. I just didn't want you to think I purposely took it down(:
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:45 AM
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watch this and this. ​ I've never been in an abusive relationship so I don't think I'm the best one to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:42 AM
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No, it was taken down because I broke my phone and couldn't reply until after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:36 AM
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there are over 300 comments so obviously they found something to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:52 AM
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Aha, single mothers, the bane of reddit. I have two single mother friends, one has an ex who will come over and strangle her and the others ex has 3 DUIs.... one with the baby in the car. They are dutiful mothers and care completely financially as well as emotionally for their children.... but they are the problem (not the men abandoning their children?)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:50 AM
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Go to a population counter site where you can watch the number increase, it’s freaky to watch! most of the expanse in population is coming from places where women don’t have proper rights or education.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:49 AM
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I completely agree. Educating women about their own sexual health, consent, and birth control is one of the most important priorities we should have as a nation to improve the health of children and families.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:47 AM
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It blows my mind so many people on reddit think this way. Seems like a terribly depressing way to live life. The reality is women aren’t this way, and if your telling yourself they, it’s to make yourself feel better or justify your lack of options or poor relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:45 AM
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marriage is just as much of a construct as any of the other things mentioned here. above all those things, human attraction triumphs. that attraction is usually based on a mixture of looks and personality. marriage is no indication of whose reproducing, because people have always cheated, and pre-testing, there was no way to even know. That’s why you had mixed kids in the 1800s, and why every single king had 19 mistresses. people are going to sleep with who they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:42 AM
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Nothing I’ve said is statistically wrong or disproven. If you have those stats please provide them. I can tell you, that the most effective birth control is education, and that in first world nations birth rates are falling for natural born citizens to all time lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:39 AM
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Most countries with a decent standard of living, have had a women’s revolution at some point or another. I think women’s rights are as essential to living in a modern world as civil rights laws, food safety laws, or any of the other massive bounds we’ve made in the last 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:37 AM
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awe that’s what a 9 hour shift gets ya
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:33 AM
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I'm fairly sure one of common majors for women is nursing, which is not an "easy degree" its a bachelors that requires biology, chemistry, microbiology, and other hard courses, as well as a demanding two year program and internship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:35 AM
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jm kk mmmm. m mmmm mmmm mmmm mmmmm mmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:23 PM
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I’ve always wanted children, and make that upfront from early stages of dating so, probably not. It’s a different story if I truly love someone and we find out after we get married they are unable to have children, at that point we would have to adopt, but I wouldn’t hold it against him that he had a medical condition beyond his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:02 PM
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heres my data. I can’t argue with someone saying fewer men report, and someone saying false reporting doesn’t exist/doesn’t matter at the same time. If you don’t believe unreported crimes matter, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:42 PM
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If you really think hollywood stars are 6.5 then you are an example of my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:41 PM
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Almost 1 in 3 female prison inmates are assaulted by guards and no one cares either. Also the vast majority of women who are raped also don’t report it. only around 4 in 1000 rape cases male and female are tried and convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:09 PM
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Women are not a hive mind. One reddit user can never inform you of an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:10 PM
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I’ve never had a problem with men wanting to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:09 PM
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look up sex crime statistics by gender. Also porn spending by gender. Also try to find stories of females pimping out males, I’m sure it exists their are 7 billion of us.... but it’ll be a rare case!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:55 PM
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That’s basically my point. Both parties have to put in time, effort, and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:40 PM
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i don’t wear makeup, i’m more making this argument based off what i’ve seen. You shouldn’t be making assumptions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:41 PM
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I love the choice I made thank you. My boyfriend shaves his face weekly, showers everyday, works out twice a week, eats healthy, gets regular haircuts and wears clean nice clothes. That’s really all I can ask for and I’m so thankful he does it all for himself and for me(:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:17 PM
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I have a link proving women spend more on self care that shows average costs for both genders based off a peer reviewed study. Please refer to that if you wanna talk numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:15 PM
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I guess so. My bf likes the real thing, but I hope you find your robo girl so you can be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:13 PM
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The average women is paying fewer taxes probably because women make less as a whole (remember we only got the vote 100 years ago or so, progress takes time.) and also women are more likely to be the primary caregiver of children, worldwide and in the US, a major cost on time and income that’s tax deductible (but to anyone who has children you know the children are still more expensive even with the deductible) I don’t think it evens out. I think women have the added burden of reproduction of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:11 PM
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No! I’m happy to spend money on my SO to keep him happy and satisfied and he does the same in return. Being in a fulfilling relationship means both partners giving, both partners taking and both partners enjoying each other. It’s fantastic and I highly recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:07 PM
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if it didn’t matter, they wouldn’t pay a makeup artist to come do it for pretty much every high budget video. maybe this is grounds for my next CMV: Men don’t know they like makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:02 PM
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I’ve never had any problem with the quality of guys in my life. They hold me to a high standard and I hold them to a high standard because we push each other to be better. I don’t think anything’s wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:53 PM
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Even a few thousand years ago, the prime age for a woman to begin having children is closer to her late teens, not when she’s just leaving her childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:26 AM
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it is not safe for the female human body to give birth at 12. more commonly throughout history girls were paired off closer to 15-19, still creepy.... but you trying to justify 12 year olds as brides isn’t even biologically accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:10 AM
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i’m sorry your ex wife is such a horrible person, and tried to kill you, that’s insane. I don’t think it’s such an extreme case for most people, but in such extreme cases I do recommend a prenup. (Huge differences in income/no children) aside from that, if hair, makeup, expensive skincare ecta here’s a site that shows the numbers, is expensive, and yes it matters. If it doesn’t matter why do porn actresses have nice hair nails makeup ecta? why do all movie stars and TV actresses and models? Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 08:57 AM
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Then date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:13 AM
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on average women pay 1/3 of total costs in married or co-living situations, an amount that’s been steadily rising along with women’s work rights and educational opportunities. Remember, my grandmother grew up in a time where women were told “you don’t need to go to college just get married to a rich man” it will take a few more years for women’s work opportunities and pay to catch up in a way where women’s contributions can reach 50% or so. We are living in an in-between time and things are chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:10 AM
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I’m coming from my personal perspective and sharing what I’ve seen. I’m not doing the incel thing where I say “FACT.” after all of my casual opinions. Calm down and respond to my actual argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:05 AM
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Everything’s a red flag on reddit, but there is a healthy amount of “doing it for your SO” that happens in any relationship. Being in love is all about making compromises to keep your partner happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:02 AM
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I was really hoping this sub would be a good place for discussion but it seems it’s just another place for reddit men to stroke themselves about how much women suck and ignore any commentary that contradicts their limited world view. Men on this sub believe they know the “truth” about how all women are and anything that disagrees with the cult dogma is attacked. It’s just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:58 AM
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I’m 20 years old, and I do all these things, as well as many of my 18-25 year old friends. You need to talk to more young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:57 AM
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On a different level. I live with my boyfriend so I can’t really take any breaks, it’s constant. When your single you can generally go a few days without shaving your legs and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:55 AM
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Every. Single. Relationship. Is. Different. I’ve never had a bf share any reproductive costs with me. I’ve bought tons of pregnancy tests, gotten 3 different kinds of birth control, had an implant done.... had infections from trying anal and such I had to go pay for/UTI’s from them cumming in me I have to pay for, and never split costs. I just think it’s silly men on reddit act like men always pay more in all relationships. Women can have many many extra costs on them as well that men will never…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:54 AM
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I would disagree. I don’t care about my looks and only started doing any of these things at the request of men I love, so i don’t consider it something I do for myself. I do not speak for all women. No single woman you talk to online speaks for all women (I shouldn’t have to say this, but RP seems to believe in female hive mind) I wear jeans most days, and so all of the shaving is purely for my bf. I also only own closed toe shoes, so why do I get my toes done? I’m not the only girl whose like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:50 AM
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I’m not blaming men, I’m just explaining that being in the dating market can be expensive for both genders, in a lot of ways. It’s something I think men are better off being aware of, as understanding the other sex better generally leads to better relationships. I know the women hating hordes of reddit will find some way to mock this, but they are a lost cause. This post is more for the guy who genuinely didn’t know about those extra costs or didn’t think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:59 AM
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Most girls dont think like that, sounds like male trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:00 PM
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i’ve gotten downvotes every time i’ve ever commented with a defense against content that’s negative against women. No matter how hard I work on my argument or how polite I am. It’s both sides that are being petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:21 AM
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There is a massive gap between sexually assaulting someone and having the courage to say hello. To act like it’s some thin undecernable line is an insult to men’s intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:42 PM
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Its not a recent epidemic, its something that's always happened through human history and in every major society. ts statistically likely that you know multiple people who have been victims of assault. In the us I believe its 1 in 3 for groping/physical harassment, and 1 in 6 for actual assault. Its overlooked/not seen for many reasons. ​ The most at risk women are young. Girls are most likely to be assaulted when they are in their teen years. The people doing these acts against them are most li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:48 PM
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I’ll agree that we have options, but I’m fairly attractive and passed the same hs exams, and make the same terrible wages as everybody else in this town. Unless you actively go into a field where looks matter, they actually hold you back. I’m quite shy in real life, and barley talk to co-workers but have had to leave two jobs due to sexual harassment. Bosses who were angry I wouldn’t show interest/managers who grabbed my ass regularly, were things I got used to in early jobs. Now I hide away at …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:32 PM
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This is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:12 PM
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I would add this is true for men and women, but as it’s been pointed out earlier in the comments, this isn’t a gay sub, you guys aren’t concerned with issues of what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:15 PM
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i’ve said this in a few comments but, I’m not against positive dating advice based off your perceptions of what women like and how to be a good partner to women, but some of the more negative content I see across male dominated subs seems toxic for someone looking to have a healthy relationship with women. All of the negative stereotypes and assumptions that are made could do damage on less experienced men or men who have been burned, and cause them to expect bad results/bad women, and accept cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:14 PM
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tbh, if your girlfriend is anything like me, she might just genuinely want to say goodbye. I would do this, but never would use it as an opportunity to cheat.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:34 PM
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This can be true of men as well. I've experienced it many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:17 PM
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Thats the kind of news you see because thats the kind of news your choose to see. On blackpill sites your seeing data chosen and manipulated by people who are trying to prove a certain reality (Although I never see sources on blackpill claims) the news articles are hand picked from an entire world of injustices happening to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:15 PM
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Thats kinda what I was saying, all people can be shitty. It makes sense for anyone, man or woman, to be on guard when meeting someone new and getting to know them. And this argument about it working better on girls with low self esteem? I'll think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:10 PM
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I don’t like to think that negatively about it, I think most of them are coming from a place of bitter loneliness or a string of bad experiences with women, I’m just worried the point of view will continue to provide them with bad experiences with women therefore perpetuating the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:50 AM
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It’s just an example of something i’ve seen as a “women are crazy” meme across a few men’s subs. my stance is that it’s a waste of your time to give any effort or break any laws hurting back your ex. show yourself dignity and upset them even more by walking away saying nothing, not risking jail time/fines
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:46 AM
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I’m not saying a single person who is your soul mate or anything, i’m inferring a feeling of true love, as if you love someone with your heart and soul. It’s a very deep feeling and yes you can have it with multiple people across a lifetime that doesn’t mean it’s not real. I’m sorry your blackpilled on the matter, but that is your choice. I do think the blackpill decreases your chances of getting to know someone past first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:44 AM
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Thank you for laying this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:26 AM
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You guys have no proof of this. The average woman is working, or in school, trying to get by or support herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:25 AM
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Have you seen women's magazine covers? The covers are okay, always the most beautiful actresses....but the models in the ads are twig thin!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:23 AM
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i always seen this 20% 60% thing thrown around but have yet to see any actual proof. please link to credible source if you can do this for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:46 AM
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Very true. And some of them will be sweeter and kinder and more genuine than any human you’ve ever met. It’s a spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:45 AM
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I think you misread my argument. I’m not against good dating advice, I grew up reading cosmo articles and the like about how to deal with men and I’ve never really had any problems. My relationships never have any fights, or cheating and I feel confident knowing how to treat the man in my life with the information I have attained. I love good information. And I’m not saying all of the red pill tactics are bad or will set you up for a life of failure with women either. I see the world as a sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:43 AM
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if you were a girl dealing with reddit, you would understand where i’m coming from on all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:31 AM
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I get the whole gym thing, a girl likes a fit guy, but I would hardly say that’s the most important. Neither of my past boyfriend went to the gym, but they kept themselves fit and healthy which is very important. I think the whole “gotta be huge” is more for other men, just like how guys always say girls dress up more for other women haha. But yeah the edgy stuff can be just kinda pathetic, and I’m way more in support of the self improvement message, just not the negative stereotypes of women I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:24 AM
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please link sources and we can talk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:21 AM
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ha, I’m the anxious woman and this is my relationship. He doesn’t use reddit though or even know what red pill is. I explained it to him and he just laughed and said it was the stupidest thing he ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:48 PM
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The married red pill sub has one in its sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:45 PM
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My argument is directed towards those who subscribe to all of the negative stereotypes these communities constantly reflect. I’m happy your an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:44 PM
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Interesting numbers can you provide a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:42 PM
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I understand where your coming from on this point and agree with much of what your saying. Men and women are just a product of the world they live in and their is nothing wrong with adjusting to that world. I should mention I think much of what the red pill is advocating is positive, keep improving yourself, be better ect.... but the negative ideas mixed in are poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:58 PM
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What is the "real redpill" I read the whole freakin handbook so, what am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:40 PM
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Great contribution sir. Excellent argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:40 PM
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Many men admit to cheating on their wives who got fat, many men leave their wives once they get old. Cheating happens, and past the teen years, men are more likely to. ​ As far as needing to look a certain way, this also applies to men. Men also have a looks threshold, all people going into relationships do. You can't date someone you aren't attracted to. I don't know why this is accepted for men and seen as unfair among women, its human nature. ​ I do agree with the idea that you nee to bring v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:39 PM
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Oh no, don’t hurt his feeling. Men’s opinions on reddit are the only real facts in this world. Also, we are know females are only good for sucking dick. Even if they are performing life saving surgery, designing computer chips, or writing bestselling novels, they only got their sucking dick. FACT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 12:54 AM
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Why is this there assumption that whenever a slightly attractive woman has any kind of good job, she only has that job for her looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:33 PM
1

What do you think a fair system would be? How should everything be worked out financially post marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:12 PM
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You could get a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:08 AM
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Its a natural thing in nature for women to be picky if you think about it. A guy could impregnate multiple women in one day if he wanted, while a woman can only have one pregnancy every 9 months, and will often bare the majority of the childcare for months after that (before bottles mom had to breastfeed constantly) so she has a much higher threshold generally for those who she sleeps with.
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 01:00 AM
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