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I have this exact problem. I have no issue with going out, talking to people, but I almost never see single women in the their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:42 PM
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Societies oppressing men? Nothing even close to the norm. What?? Being sent off to die in war? Unfair and unsafe working conditions throughout most of civilized history? Do those not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:43 AM
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29--i'd probably date anywhere from 24 thru 31 realistically. If someone came along I really connected with I'd date older, but I'm not seeking older out intentionally. I want kids someday so the number is always going to skew younger. At 35 I could see it being anyone 25-32ish, 40 it would probably be late 20s to mid 30s. If I'm still looking past 40 I'll give up, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:43 PM
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I do. I am religious so attend Sunday school, Bible study on weekday nights, small group game nights in the community, things like that. It's all married folks though. Single guys aren't uncommon but I very very rarely even see a woman without a ring on her finger. I actually got recommended a lady from one group leader who they knew that attends a whole different church, but she was fresh off a breakup and was super wedding crazy from her Facebook. I actually chatted with her for about a week o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:49 PM
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I have this same problem. I have a good job, I live alone in a home I pay for, I've never heard negative feedback about my hygiene from either parents or coworkers. I don't think I'd have gotten the job I did if I was dumpy. I've even got height going for me. But I can message 100 ladies on apps and get no response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:08 PM
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giving out Food and Med assistance. Who is it that pays for this, the majority of the money comes from men. bottom-tier men want to borrow from and identify with the collective accomplishments If men collectively stopped running the garbage trucks, working in the sewage departments, working in road and bridge repair, would women put the coveralls on and go out there and work those back breaking jobs in the sun to pick up their slack?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:27 PM
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Less likely to successfully commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:27 PM
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You can be completely shredded but if you are under 6 ft you won't even show up on the majority of women's queues if the app has a height filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:04 AM
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As a guy approaching 30 I'd prefer a woman closer to mid 20s if I was going to date with the intention of marriage and eventually kids. Do I have any doubt a woman in her early 30s can have kids? No. But for me part of having that relationship with a woman is enjoying our time together for at least a few years before we bring kids into it. If I starting dating a woman who is 30, then you both have that clock ticking over your heads going "okay if you want kids you'll need to prioritize that fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:14 PM
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I am 100% positive plenty of guys did the demure "hey how are you?" starter, or the thoughtful questions about her bio, but she filters all of them and gets upset when the guys she really wants just want her for sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 03:48 PM
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As a forever alone KHHV at 29 years old, i care because of a combination of: I am starved for emotional connection. I am active in my community but don't really have any deep connections. Everyone around me is married and has little time for a single guy. I get along with my parents but they're in another city hours away. I am starved for physical and emotional validation. Have you ever hugged a girlfriend or had a girlfriend try to hug you? I haven't. Have you ever felt her just run her hands o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:53 PM
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Neither. Someone that knew they wanted a real relationship, waited to have sex, and chose me (like i am doing as well), and understands that a marriage is a combination of feelings and willful choice to commit and maintain the contract because feelings can ebb and flow over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:47 PM
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I want to be wanted. Even if it was just being wanted for my body...that'd be more desire than I currently experience. This is something women can't seem to sympathize with at all...but being desired for something intrinsic to me and not just cash is not something I've ever experienced. More than that though what I really want is a woman that wants me sexually in the context of a loving committed relationship. But I just want to emphasize I've experienced neither romantic or pure sexual desire, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:19 PM
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Its easier to take what other people have than build your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:58 PM
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The oxytocin decreasing during makeout sessions for women while it increases for men would imply to me that it's not just a different level of need, they straight up are turned off by making out with men. So why are they doing it? Because making out gets them something they want--maybe they think it'll please their partner, etc. But they aren't doing it just because they want to. Is that a wrong interpretation of the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:52 PM
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women’s dating advice start on step 3 Blue pill in general tends to start on step 3. Step 3 men are all women or the left in general perceive. Look at that recent psych today article that made the rounds blaming lonely men for not being in touch with their emotions and for not treating women right, that article too was assuming all these lonely men out here had already gotten out to step 3 and were lonely because they were dumped, when men really need advice to even start playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:27 PM
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Articles like that demand men level up, that their problem is they lack emotional depth or empathy. But no one can gauge that from a profile pic and 140 words (if women even bother to read it). To imply that the algorithm can somehow sense that you're emotionally immature is just...so weird. The algorithm isn't God. It can't see your thoughts or motivations. Articles like the one above are written either by women or men shouting into the heavens on behalf of women about the crummy dudes these la…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:23 PM
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I have only ever wanted a real relationship, not to sleep around. But no one has ever wanted that with me. When I look around I see women doing what you claim men are supposed to do--sleeping around and being unwilling to commit. And people tell me, just you wait, in your early 30s you'll be desirable for these women because they'll be tired of the games and want to settle down with a good stable man. Well, I don't want to be the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th pick. I want someone that knew what they wanted f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:23 PM
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I go to church and I rarely see single women. It's mostly all married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:07 AM
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19M, 6 ft 1in, I lost 40 lbs and went from obese to the low end of the overweight range and saw no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:27 AM
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A man being unsuccessful in the dating market does not mean society is rejecting him They tend to walk hand in hand. Not being married or at least successful in dating can make you a social outcast at work, make it harder to bond with men who see you as a man child and women who see you as a threat or at least an unknown due to the lack of pre-selection. It has a knock on effect on the rest of your life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:00 PM
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What’s stopping you as a man from reaching out to your own male friends and your own male family for emotional support? It's the height of female privilege that says "just reach out for help lol" like it's that easy. Like you just ask for help and people will help. Besides my parents, a therapist I pay is the only person who has cared to hear about my feelings. I've reached out to church leaders for help, I've tried to make friends in local groups, and no one gives a damn. I suspect that this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:35 PM
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The problem is what justifies a lack of attraction for women is insanely specific. You're an inch too short, your hair is a bit too thin, you don't act masculine enough etc. Most men will still get hard for a woman if she's overweight (not obese, but even that a lot of men will put up with). For a woman if you're not exceptionally high tier she will not be happy. Guys aren't schooled to have such unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:41 AM
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When I am driving I understand I have a "responsibility" to drive defensively, because other people may be driving dangerously and cause an accident. The person causing the accident might be at "fault" but sometimes just driving with awareness can prevent accidents even when someone else is at fault. You can apply similar logic to building relationships. If you give someone intimate access on day 1 and they break your heart, it might not be your "fault," but if you'd taken some time to evaluate …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:44 PM
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I wish I could do something for someone special, go out to eat, get them a card and write a nice note, get her some candy. But I don't have anyone like that, never had and at almost 29 not sure if I ever will. It's just going to be work, work out, play some games and then sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:12 AM
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Personally they want you to go for the kiss, They want guys to go for the kiss without asking, but reserve the right to get you arrested for it if they feel bad about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:50 PM
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Yeah guys will go out of their way to do nice things because they like you. Yeah, you can be really reductionist and boil it down to "they want to get in my pants" but they may not be thinking quite that dirty (although obviously sex is part of a relationship). But when a guy likes someone he wants to do things for them. It's how we try to show we care about someone. A platonic friend would have told you call a freaking uber, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:23 AM
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And they long for the kind of guy who will go on a family vacation with them and help them move and bring them their favorite food. And you’re going to be in luck when that happens because you’re going to have your pick of the litter. That is such a freaking dismal picture. It's all about what you can do for her, financially, emotionally, physically. Not even a spark of thought on what she brings. Lucky us! We get the pick of the litter of who we get to wait on hand and foot! Yippy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:17 AM
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Find someone with similar interests and a similar sex drive that you're attracted to, live happily ever after, lol. I don't need multiple partners or sexual adventure, just the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:46 PM
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I want a friend and a partner. Want to love and be loved. Want to be attracted to her and she be attracted to me. I want us to mutually want to have sex. I want to go out and do fun things with her, go on weekend trips while we're still young and just do random crap. Further down the line I'd like someone with similar values that would be willing to help homeschool our kids if we ever had any.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:20 PM
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I am INFJ (last I checked) and perpetually single so that checks out for me, lol. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:39 PM
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He is correct in saying video game addictions aren't the cause, they're a symptom. Blaming video games isn't the solution, you have to get to the root of the problem, which is what he's attempting to do here, whether you agree or not. Here's part of the problem, though, with the "men aren't working and raising families," thing: it's not all on men. Women don't want relationships with most men, so what do they have to work for other than their own sustenance? How can they raise a family if women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:50 PM
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Except leaving. But even that women can heavily disincentivize with the high likelihood of divorce courts siding with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:53 PM
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