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Exactly haha like I said it’s a cheap excuse for him to try and get her to come over so he can get some. Which he admitted in OP’s update. And if you don’t like redpoll and think it’s toxic then why you on this forum commenting
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 02:29 AM
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This. Take it from me OP. I was on this forum a few months ago posting about a guy who pretty much dumped me after I sent so many mixed signals. I would go to his house, make out, do it all but once it came to pants coming off I put on the breaks. This really played with his feelings and ultimately he was done with me because of the confused signals I sent off. Don’t do it
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 02:26 AM
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True but I feel it’s something that should wait until after a few more dates. Seems like a cheap excuse to get her to come to his house so he can try and get some
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 01:26 AM
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I have been in your exact situation. Dated a guy who was respectful and nice and I made it clear I was not having sex with him. Ultimately though agreeing to go to his house still set the tone for sex and sent mixed signals unintentionally. To avoid this I would avoid going to his lair completely. Don’t even put yourself in that situation where sex is gonna be tempting. And what if you get in the mood? It’ll be hard to say no and turn it down even if you set your boundary beforehand. I would sug…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 02:37 PM
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I think for now I will wait and see if I even hear from him Monday. If he does reach out and still wants to meet, I’ll be blunt and tell him there’s honestly nothing to talk about because I have already told him how I feel. If he responds and still wants to meet, maybe I’ll give in. I’ll update you guys!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 10:39 PM
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Actually I don’t love him lol. But I do like him and an interested in a relationship with him!! But regardless yes I feel it will be difficult to talk in person because I have already told him how I felt and there’s nothing much more to be said...unless he wants to magically commit all of a sudden or unless he wants to break it off in person for good
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 10:38 PM
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I don’t get why he would try to meet up for sex. We have talked about it before and had a serious conversation jn which we both want to wait. I was even horny once and tried booty calling him (lol) and he declined and said coming over late is a bad idea because we would hook up, and he knows we wanted to wait. He seems very respectful about it so I rlly don’t think it’s that but you never know
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 10:36 PM
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I like this. Should I block him after I tell him this? Because I feel he will just continue to keep messaging
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 06:54 PM
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Maybe.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 06:00 PM
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Ya I feel the same. I even told him I felt that way, that he’s wasting my time and leading me on. He said he’s not. Should I even say anything to him? Like if he messages me asking to meet should I just ignore at this point?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 05:53 PM
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I told him I don’t do casual sex. We haven’t hooked up once. He respects it I don’t think that’s it
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 05:47 PM
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I usually think this as well but due to his profession a huge chunk of his twenties was spent in graduate school
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 06:57 PM
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So I texted him this morning and asked if he was interested in coming over to my place for dinner or getting drinks on me. He’s pulling the sick card and said it’s best if we do another day because he’s sick and doesn’t want to cancel on me tmrow. I told him I understand and to let me know if there’s anything I can do.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 01:48 AM
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I see what you’re saying. I feel bad. I texted him this morning to see if he is interested in coming over for dinner or going out to get drinks. I’ll make it clear that this one will be on me. I hope he gives me another chance
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 05:59 PM
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Because we haven’t discussed if we are exclusive or not. What should I say to him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 12:03 PM
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So I should text him again? What exactly should I say? I’m honestly clueless and I’ve been getting so many mixed messages on here on what I should do
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 07:44 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 07:41 AM
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Is that what he meant by saying let me know when you’re ready? I thought he meant like next tine we are together in person, not as get back in touch. :(
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 07:31 AM
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So because I didn’t have sex with him, I’m stringing him along? Pathetic
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:01 AM
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2nd or 3rd date is waaay too soon in my opinion. I’m not interested in that. I’ve told him before that I want to wait for sex so that’s not stringing him along
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 03:41 AM
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Ya honestly I’m surprised by all the advice I’ve gotten of people saying that it’s absurd I haven’t had sex just because he’s taken me out on proper dates. He’s probably spent 200 dollars or less on me and I don’t think that automatically means I need to have sex with him to keep him around. I would love to f this guy but I’m not down to do that unless we are exclusive. So idk
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 02:27 AM
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I like this. But apparently I waited 2 months too long to discuss this and have already crossed boundaries. I will use this though for sure in the future! Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 02:03 AM
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Should I give it a few days? See if he ends up reaching out again?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 10:20 PM
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Ya this is true. So I guess I’ll leave the ball in his court. If I don’t hear from him should I try one more time? Or just move on and learn
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 09:20 PM
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I know that I messed up and I wasn’t clear with my boundaries. Idk how i can fix it
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 09:17 PM
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Is there any way I can fix it?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 09:12 PM
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Well I did yesterday I texted him asking if he wanted to go running because we both like to run and had talked about going together sometime. He said he couldn’t but then didn’t offer another time or day...so should I try one more time?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 09:05 PM
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Should I wait for him to text me though? Last week he texted me first every day except for like 2 days I texted him. After this whole thing happened Saturday, he hasn’t texted me once-only replying to my text I sent yesterday. So I don’t want to contact him again unless he reaches out. I do want to communicate with him but at this point I feel as if I would be hunting him down
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 09:04 PM
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How could I tell this to him though? I tried texting him last night about how I felt and that I was feeling bad about not having sex etc and he said that it was weird for me to bring it up randomly and told me it wasn’t a big deal to him and that I shouldn’t worry about it. But then now he’s not texting me so idk how to bring it up a second time without him thinking it’s “weird”
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:58 PM
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I tried to bring it up to him last night via text and he said it was weird that I randomly brought this up and that it didn’t bother him at all. He told me not to worry about it. But then he’s not texting me anymore either so idk how to bring it up again?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:39 PM
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He’s taken me out for dinner dates, drinks. No we haven’t but I would like too
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:36 PM
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Thank you so much. Crying in bathroom stall rn!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:28 PM
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Ugh. That hurts. I honestly feel like crying right now at work. I feel like I should have had sex with him to keep him interested and that’s not cool
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:20 PM
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It’s in moderation. I don’t think it’s too much at all
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:18 PM
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What does the book mainly touch on? I’d say we’ve been on about 6 or 7 dates but 3 of those were more of Netflix and chill at his place type of date. No we have not had the exclusivity chat which is why I’m hesitant to have sex. I don’t like not knowing but I’m afraid asking will pressure him. We met on hinge
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:16 PM
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What does BP stand for? After reading all the comments I get that I was unclear and sent him mixed signals. I feel bad. I really liked him. Do you have any advice on how I could fix this going forward? Is the only way to solve this is to have sex with him?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 07:58 PM
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So to make a long story short you’re saying I should have had sex with him within the first week or so in order to keep him interested?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 07:56 PM
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I have a career at 23 and I’m looking for a more serious relationship. I think you are right though and he probably assumed since I am younger I would give in easier. Sucks because I actually really like him
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 07:48 PM
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You think I should ask him out again even though yesterday he said he was busy?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 07:46 PM
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I know I have a lot more to offer than just sex. If he can’t see that then he isn’t the guy for me. We actually have a lot in common and get along well.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 07:38 PM
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So I get that I may have been confusing him and sending mixed signals. How can I fix this going forward with him?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:49 PM
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Ya I hate to say it but I think you might be right. It sucks because I really like him. Maybe if I had had sex sooner he would have stayed but I would rather not take that chance. I’ve been played too many times by men who pretended they liked me, I give in to sex, then they’re interest drops off
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:43 PM
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Yes I wanted a relationship with him. He never once mentioned being exclusive or anything. So idk
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:32 PM
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How can I fix this? My intention wasn’t to be confusing
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:31 PM
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Well if he thinks because he is 7 years older that he is entitled to having sex with me then maybe he should date older women who are his age. He hasn’t once brought up being exclusive so no, I’m not going to have sex with him knowing he is probably having sex with other women as well. This is why I’m hesitant. You’re right I’m just going to not contact him and move on for now. I hope I hear from him again
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:28 PM
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This is what I was thinking too. No, I haven’t planned our dates and I don’t call him everyday but that’s because he has always taken that initiative. I have shown a clear interest in him by always texting him. When we are together I also show interest by complimenting him, kissing him, saying openly that I like him....if I have to start taking the lead and asking him out I feel that he is just not interested in me anymore
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:23 PM
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It has pretty much been him pursuing me the whole time. Sometimes I would text him first and ask if he wanted to hangout but even then he would plan what we did.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:21 PM
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I asked him yesterday if he was free but he said he was busy. So I don’t want to ask him again for another day because I feel like at this point it would be bugging him
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:15 PM
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That’s true. Do you think since he hasn’t texted me or asked to see me since Saturday that he is dropping me?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:04 PM
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Do you think him not texting me for 3 days is an indicator that he is just dropping me? He texted me back yesterday right away but he usually texts me first and doesn’t go 3 days without texting
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 06:00 PM
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I texted him yesterday though saying j felt bad and he said not to worry and that it didn’t bother him...I also asked if he was free yesterday so we could go out and he said he was busy. So I feel really desperate if I ask him again to go out since he didn’t offer another day that he would be free....
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 05:59 PM
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Yes I am. I would say the communication wasn’t daily until the last couple of weeks. Before that we would go a couple of days without texting, sometimes even a week.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 05:57 PM
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I definitely think he likes me but I’m just not sure if he is upset now because I wouldn’t have sex
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 05:22 PM
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He hasn’t mentioned anything about being exclusive. Should I bring that topic up?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 05:18 PM
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