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They probably don't feel desired. Desire is usually framed as something men do to women, so is romance. Even in relationships, it's hard to feel desired by a woman apart from from enthusiastic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:14 PM
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The guidance used to be organic, through tips, advice or examples of how to socialize and court someone. I'm not talking about the 50s here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:06 PM
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Some by choice, some by circumstance, but I generally agree, TRP is not the full answer. The best advice would be to make friends and ask for help in a case by case basis. When I was younger, friends would push me to cold approach and talk to girls, approach two girls and the more experienced one would lead the conversation, for example. Friends would give tips if some girl was interested or not, etc. Just wish it was more recognized that this stuff is necessary for some guys and that it's norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:28 PM
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It doesn't work because it ignores the fact that men are expected to pursue. Most guys struggle with that part and not with being a likeable person. Doesn't matter if you're a nice person and some girls find you appealing, chances are that nothing is going to happen unless the guy makes it happen somehow, and that is the tricky part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:07 PM
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Most men do need guidance. It used to be done organically by friends in social settings. Nowadays, men are atomized and end up looking for advice online. The first few years of dating just suck for most guys, there is a ton to learn and you're compared to the older guys with much more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:50 PM
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