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| 11 | Divorced Men screwed multiple ways in New Tax Law | Legal Rights | soulcatcher357 | /r/MensRights | 21/12/17 08:29 PM |
| 9 | 20. But say goodbye to the tax deduction for alimony payments with FDD or separation agreements/orders signed after December 31, 2018. | soulcatcher357 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/17 07:21 PM |
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| 1 | Increase Income From Here. How?make sure to check the formulas on the CS sheet. Mine provided by court was wrong not in my favor. I caught the errors which spooked her lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | ALIMONY does anyone know the answers???in general child support and spousal support can only be to get her income up to no more than equaling hers. You don't owe your child college, in the divorce decree; you can work that out later with your child. Fight for joint custody and work out a reasonable visitation schedule. You didn't move out of the house, right? Record all your interactions not for a judge or the divorce, but to keep you out of jail for false claims, if the police show up. Important to stay calm around her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 03:09 AM |
| 3 | ALIMONY does anyone know the answers???attorneys are bad at math and bend facts to their client. double check his numbers and what florida law says. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating a Separated manI am going to answer this POV of a separated man. It isn't any more risky than dating a single man. As far as him getting back with her, that's a non likely scenario. Courts also don't care post separation, as long as it doesn't reset with cohabitation. So you being with him won't matter to his divorce. Maybe it's time he got his own dog? His marriage was for 2 years? 6-7 knew her? That's a short term marriage, and he is young. Much easier for him to move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do they love bomb you when you call it over?She is preparing her case to get ahead of you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Basically, I going to go from being married with two teenage daughters to a single parent with three teenage daughters (but one is in her 40s). No logic.Get a good trial lawyer. Ask good questions in free consultation. Look at 3 lawyers. Manage the process. Ask for a good legal assistant to help you prepare for trial. My lawyer was so good the opposition hired him for his daughter's divorce. If you can sit in a trial with the lawyer, how the judge treats the lawyer is an indicator of how good he is. Wife settled/didn't show up to court for final decree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Scared of divorcing my wifeWorry about what debt and assets she accumulated during the marriage. That's where the 50/50 comes from. You won't have to pay for her loans if they happened before the marriage. Let her have the house and her loans...401Ks of hers during the marriage... half. Get a good legal assistant not the lawyer do the grunt work of discovery and preparation for trial. She will try to run you out of money. Might want to carry a recording device for your own out of jail protection (Johnny Depp cough), but i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 11:02 PM |
| 2 | IsolationI can definitely empathize with you. I'm in the Washington DC area and am in my fifties with a kid now in college and 10 year old. I've been single for almost a decade. I do have family (Dad and stepmom very supportive; estranged from brothers) Your problems all have modern day solutions: Medical issue: there are monitoring services. Drive home from a bar: cut out the drinking out, call an uber/taxi. Need a computer: can you get by with your cell in a pinch? My questions (requirements) for frien… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/22 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Possibility of divorce with spouse who doesn’t earn much income, worried about financial future.OK, I'm from US, so I am going to give you more generalized advice. - (again look at Canada's laws - ask your lawyer) #1 Get a Good TRIAL Attorney. What this means is get one that can go to trial well prepared. I got really lucky with mine- I sat in court and watched 3 of my prospects. My ex's attorney called my lawyer while I was meeting him and hired him for his daughter's divorce. #2 hire a good legal assistant to do the trial preparation. #3 radio silence on divorce until you are ready, but … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Forever alimony? How does retirement impact alimony?That's not as big a deal as you would think, as it doesn't affect the amount you would get. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Forever alimony? How does retirement impact alimony?This is a genius idea, otherwise you are screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How to handle the meeting with the other guyIt is worth being civil too him because he will be with your children likely when with their mom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Just want to mess around with new womanyou are on the wrong site. You need to disconnect from online stuff as she might find you there and use as ammunition. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is online dating even worth it for men? (Rant)escort services I think is what he meant. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | (29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance..Go silent, leave a receipt(fake) of a PI in your marital home. If she drops it and becomes lovey dovey she probably is buying for time. Never confirm or deny anything with her. Anyways 4 years is an easy divorce. Give her some 401K instead of the house... you probably don't have good equity? Prepare for her to break into your home if you change locks and move all papers/valuables to a private safe deposit or storage. She will clean out the marital home, multiple times if you give her the chance,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeYou don't even need to do this. I had a really good lawyer who knew her lawyer and he bragged about telling him he advised me to hire a PI...which I didn't, but leaving a PI receipt where she could find. Also he deposed her with leading questions. That rattled her enough she settled. 50% custody 3 years of alimony I got off easily. Child support was nothing. Her lawyer called while I was meeting him and hired mine for his daughter. I did my research and hired a trial lawyer who prepared really w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeThis is 100% true and your lawyer and you should argue that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 7 | I don't know how I can be friendsI'm doing this until my kids are 18... She can always take you back to court for more where I am at and I got a fair divorce settlement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Divorce MO question: how, when and in what situations have you been asked for a divorce from your partner? (More in details..)If she is sleeping on the couch trust is already an issue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Divorce MO question: how, when and in what situations have you been asked for a divorce from your partner? (More in details..)When gaslighting started I knew something was up. Her withdrawing her family from contact with me. Brought up open marriage. She started changing her appearance. Unexplained accident of a guy sideswiping her car when I was driving it - like the guy was mad at my wife and realized after that it wasn't her driving. Cop caught him (was behind him). No more Kino or affection shown. Sex dried up, her blaming me for not wanting sex and being cold... (projecting). Her moving to other room/couch. Unexpl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Divorcing a divorce attorneyI'd like to add that all divorce attorneys aren't the same. What you need is a divorce attorney that's a good/better trial attorney - especially where he is good at convincing the judge. That made all the difference in my divorce. FYI my wife's attorney hired mine for his daughter's divorce- so I knew I had the right one at that point. Also my wife had cheated on me, but I couldn't prove it in court, but my attorney put enough doubt in her mind by deposing her on record, that she didn't even sho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | How I found the perfect divorce attorney, and never lost in court again.You also want a good trial lawyer, and I recommend actually watching them in court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Am I screwed?IANAL, Check with your lawyer - and whomever you pick MANAGE Him. Get a good lawyer that is good in trial. I did and it will scare her lawyer. Her lawyer hired my lawyer to represent his daughter in her divorce. The good news is- check the state facts on nolo.com or google: California is pretty fair assets and debt will get split 50/50, though she will try to argue for more. You can get her evaluated for job via a court order. Probably you can get her to agree to this once a child reaches 14. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 10 years of marriage to who i considered to be the one. I said on numerous occasions. The best part of our marriage is the trust and honesty. Now I realize the best part was i could put it in any hole, no questions asked. That should have been several of my early warning RED FLAGS!This is why it is generally accepted practice for the man, once divorce has been mentioned or planned or in process, to have a digital recorder on all times running 24 hours. It is to have the proof of a lie and not get arrested, or served with some bullshit story to remove the kids. Make sure you have the recordings backed up for several months. IANAL, and states vary on the legality but the officers cannot charge you with a domestic abuse crime and usually it is not to be used as evidence, but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Marriage in turmoilDo yoga instead of pot. probably make her jealous if you go to class(weekly) to learn, which would work in your favor. Or Zen breathing, tai chi... something to relax that you can do every day, if even for 30 mins/day. You won't probably get divorce raped because she makes more. Be prepared, You need to cut spending on nonessential now before she separates/files. Don't let her clued into that you are doing it. Do not move out. Bunch of sites out there geared towards dads dadsdivorce.com IIRC has… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Best friends to enemiesHow do you really know there is no other man? This is that my wife told me, but then I found several of her profiles on Tinder and Bumble (with careful profile not to lead back to me). My wife has been doing the same shit spreading lies about me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/19 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Is it wise to date while going through a divorce?What state? - it doesn't matter sometimes. You might also get a declaration of termination of marriage which allows this and pushed property and support settlement and children matters to be settled later. Anyways no Tinder profiles, go radio silence on the dates. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is this healthy?IANAL/ recently divorced in VA/Just giving back to community of Divorce (Men) Very rarely does dating while going through divorce matter, only for a handful of states. What is your state? As long as you haven't posted a Tinder profile with a pic, are keeping your dating pool advised to you divorce status, don't let family know, go on dates outside home area, probably OK. The thing is you want to go radio silence in regards to these things so as not to provide her with ammunition. Also DO NOT… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Desperate for your opinion and insightI had a friends in my lifetime go through this with their significant others. Ignore the MR and RP stuff, it probably has nothing to do with the actual reasons. From what I understood it they had the power dynamic leaning in their favor heavily and expressed boredom or their girlfriend wasn't their ideal or they had some perceived flaw. It is not in actually any part of something missing in you and you cannot argue a snap him out of it: I tried to actually apply principles of logic to his argume… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | she left the houseI was dating someone that when I had sex with her she basically zoned out in the middle... I stopped and she cried tears. I found out she had epilepsy that way. I think we were several months in the relationship. Not a deal breaker, but it the experience of her hiding something from me made me not overlook other lies until I eventually used an ex girlfriend trying to hook back up with me as an excuse to break up for good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 03:19 PM |
| 3 | It’s getting to me..I feel your pain. You need to hunker down and fight for what is important to you (kids). She works CPS, she knows all the tricks. Temporary Orders become permanent. Are you giving her money? What state do you live in? Are you managing your lawyer/preparing properly? Check your lawyers trial qualifications. Mine was really good, Her lawyer hired mine for his daughter's divorce. I cannot say this any more plainly, You fucked up if you moved away work out of town - you need to see your children… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Evil is what comes to mindRadio silence is best after the divorce is opened up. Sadly this is how our society has declined. Are you already at the final decree stage or is this the temporary orders? What state? Like many women today, they hear all the instagram/tinder stories and go out with the Chads. It is so easy for them to get away with that, and doesn't matter if you are also well built/Chad... who knows why they do this. I also found out she got an IUD the month we separated, - a planned parenthood bill with oth… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Lawyers Works For You Or Just For Money: Know The Difference! - MediumManage your divorce lawyer or it will become a money pit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm stuck and don't know who to turn to.Not familiar with GA but you can do a quick google "nolo Georgia Divorce: for some free knowledge. Do you have a good set of friends/ activities you do with other people or are you in need of more me time? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/19 05:49 PM |
| 0 | I'm stuck and don't know who to turn to.What state are you in? That matters as the laws differ significantly. Colorado is probably the worst state to divorce. Income disparity is an issue that is handled by more spousal support. 2 years you might not even need a lawyer, but you will likely have to shop around for one . Work or other memberships sometimes provide discounted legal referrals- worth it- you should not pay for initial consultations, and you should get an idea of rates and how much you will spend. Anyways, as much as you ca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyway to minimize the financial impactCA is a pretty fair state splitting income/assets when income is close to 50/50. You might want to make sure your car and assets you care about are taken care of before you drop the D. College is not a requirement for you to pay at all. Be a dad to your kids/stay involved in their lives. Seriously I would not tolerate disrespect from my kids. WTF is up with the kids calling you a loser? Really? My wife tries that shit with my kids too, you have to always put up a good front with the kids to corr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Multiple versions of standard ordersThe one on the website is valid if signed by the judge. You can ask your lawyer. Don't rock the boat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What rights do I have in Va for taking my son out of stateI'm in Virginia, feel for you man. How old is the child? How close is your son to his mom? Get documentation on her drunk driving/left son home. Get a lawyer and file. Six year marriage is easy at most you will pay 3 years spousal unless you fuck something up on your end (hint no domestic abuse). You can probably file and get temporary orders for custody, but at the least you will probably have to go to a judge and argue the case. You cannot just take your son. You will lose him that way. Where … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Ex buys my son a car and wants me to payUnless it is spelled out in your decree, you can ignore this. Did she co-sign? Also, college for kids is optional, so oh well sorry son I don't have money cause i am paying your mom...Honesty how much net income are you left with % wise? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Help me! Need support and clarity in leaving!No children under 18? State? Do not feed her be very careful of your behavior. If it turns physical, let her hit you and don't hit back. Get an audio recorder have that going 24 hours or just when you think you will be around her. It is your only defense against domestic abuse. Sure it won't be admissible as evidence in your divorce, but it will stop you getting arrested - tell them she threatened you before so you started recording conversations. Doesn't matter if it it requires her consent as … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My wife wont come back to our hometown. Hiding our son from meThis shit happens all the time, do not react to it. My wife did the same thing and tried to get me to pay her 60% of take home income, plus house plus a car we couldn't afford. You have grounds for abandonment, seems she moved out. You need to go radio silent on shit regarding the divorce. Anyways, make sure you are paying her child/spousal but do not pay the full spousal amount because SHE moved out. Cut her off. Have a backup plan if she drops your kid off. Give us more info on the amount of c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/19 07:44 PM |
| 4 | How do I process my emotions right now?Judges tend to award generous child support and spousal support based on court spreadsheets (usually filled with mistakes benefiting the woman). The longer you pay the amount the more it becomes likely that will be the status quo payment in your decree. It is better to figure out what is the amounts calculated and set aside those amounts - then pay her less until she settles. You are likely on the hook for the court spreadsheet amounts from date of separation. Keep receipts from all money spent … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/19 02:21 PM |
| 5 | How do I process my emotions right now?Appears to me she is gas-lighting you. You should not have moved out. Record conversations with her for your protection from getting picked up for false domestic violence and do not raise your voice round kid. Whatever money you give her is going to count against you as status quo once it gets to court. She can claim whatever you give her as child support/spousal support as status quo and it can screw you over. Please focus on your kid. My separation was 3 years. She will hit a wall in a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | The fight is long, hard, and ridiculous at times... but it does end.Responsibilities for who pays fees and lawyer costs for splitting 401Ks- your responsibility should end at the decree. I've got one 401K still not split that is a specific kind that only allows a split with specific language her lawyer hasn't decoded yet. That one is dragging on 4 years after my decree. Taxes- often overlooked an the fact alimony - the person who pays it is taxed now (thanks Trump grumble grumble) but if your decree was signed before the law passed a couple of years ago or the d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/19 12:40 PM |
| 6 | The fight is long, hard, and ridiculous at times... but it does end.When she wants to move with Chad Saveaho and take the kids with her. Have a plan for that. Make sure location is written into the final decree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Cohabitation of my ex and her bfShrimp in the curtain rods works. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | 7500/m in support paymentHang in there man. I think you have a bad lawyer: A Nanny really? Does your STBX work? My take home after CS $1100 /SS $1600 is $3700. I make half as much as you. Spousal support ends in 1 year and kids are 14/8. I discovered some mistakes on the court spreadsheet. My final decree was signed before the new Trump tax law so I deduct the alimony from my income. Now it is not deductible. We have Joint Custody. I have son 70% of time, she has daughter 70% of the time. Split exemptions and file Head … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Headed to Divorce - Looking for adviceAbsolutely keep it to yourself before pulling the trigger. Get a good trial Lawyer - worth every penny. Her lawyer hired my lawyer for his daughter. LOL. A good trial lawyer will have complete confidence but will understand that he will need to prepare you. How many years married? How young are the kids?... It's all formula based for CS and Spousal support unless you F something up. Make sure you and her have accurate numbers or explanations for what your income outlook is. Make sure you plan yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/19 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Hate myself for not seeing the signsI went through a bitter divorce after 9.9 years of marriage and 2 kids. I caught the wife cheating. There are signs, I kind of buried myself in work and I knew something was up and didn't have the bandwidth to get enough proof to confront her. 5 years you got off lucky and probably no divorce rape. I got a good lawyer(her lawyer hired mine for his daughter's divorce). Could have been alimony for life because so close to the 10 year mark for the state I'm in. Instead I got off with only 5 years. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | TRP Missed the Mark: Why Some Women "Love" Bad BoysI just wanted to point out that NONE of the categories in attachment theory are negative in any way. Nor is any preferred pair bonding attachments. In early childhood education it is used as a way for the educator to teach children more effectively and promote positive growth. In adults it's meant to understand strengths and weaknesses in relationships. It is meant to inform better strategies in different situations. Anyways, attachment theory peaked in the 1980s, and I haven't seen a lot of res… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you reject a girl and she talks shit about you to some white knights who come to confront/fight you?Bruce Lee's is advice is to learn to run fast and for distance. If they are still chasing you after a mile, you can probably turn around and kick their asses one at a time. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Marriage rantI actually had a similar thing happen with the wife and TWO businesses... Though the second didn't fail - she just cashed it out before the divorce for herself. So if your wife wants to start a new business this is a red flag and you should prepare for the worse: That's what you do cash out on all your assets and pay the marital debt (including your lawyer)you'll otherwise be stuck with. Also you swap to basic cars you need. Make a plan and execute it. And then you have places where Common law m… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Letting our anger go and learning to enjoy women for what they are"It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done; it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known." Tale of Two Cities "A moment of carelessness, a lifetime of regret. A lifetime of carelessness, a moment of regret." TABOTD Two of my favorite quotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:49 PM |
| 6 | The "Where are all the good men who will treat me right" shit test.Blazing Saddles Sheriff political incorrectness flashback. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:18 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill dynamics not applying to South Germany? Hottest young girls exclusively dating soyboys & losersHans and Franz? Seriously man, you both need to stop going out together- you look(reading this) like a gay couple. Try going out with a larger group with 2 more uglier guys to shotgun for you- you two are too close in looks. Or try bringing women with you for pre-selection bonuses. Honestly you guys don't sound very Red Pill. /Stop wearing black turtlenecks. /s Maybe i need to visit Germany. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | The World Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It Is As It IsFriedrich Nietzsche's Beyond Good and Evil you should read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women lie because they want to be lied to. Men lie because women want to be lied to.Disengagement doesn't mean if you are married and your wife cheats, move out. Never move out. Move to the next room. Otherwise shell get the house and half and a car paid for by you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyThat shit is a tactic to get custody in a lot of cases, which awards the women more(as in $ and/or days per month) spousal support based on income. Just go to any divorced men's forum. She's cashing in on her alpha for beta bucks; not that she needs to but just wants to stiff him. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 08:02 PM |
| 6 | The ADHD Retard's Guide To Time Management and MindfulnessOr fuck your cheating wife! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | You've lifted, now look good, got your life together, approached and still don't get hot girls. This is the only reason why.Besides the family you were born into/raised. status in Western Culture is defined by your chosen job/profession. This is why women love to brag about marrying a Doctor/Dentist. I can tell you my twin brother wanted to be a surgeon, went Dentist, got into an Oral Surgery program and yeah he did way better than me with women, the accountant/entrepreneur. I'm still working on building my business ventures. Anyways/also, Military Service also a distinguishing factor/ or not depends on the person. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Guy bails on marital therapy, gets ripped, starts spending weeknights in New York City for new job, nails young Brazilian and surprise surprise...his marriage gets much much betterWhat state do they live in? This guy could be Brad Pitt. She is totally biding her time until he gets a good 3 years solid income; or a longer marriage for more/longer/permanent alimony. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 11:23 AM |
| 2 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYRecognize the true threat. Bruce Lee. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYI agree with the OP. But learn to think first. An excellent read is Joe Hyam's Zen in the Martial Arts. Read this. A very concise book on the subject. Learning any martial art is good advice, but its not just about fighting. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | A follow up on Marriage contractsNumber 1 thing about divorce Starting in 2018 with the new US tax law is Alimony is no longer tax deductible. If you have to modify your divorce make sure it grandfathers that in. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | A follow up on Marriage contracts1 thing about divorce Starting in 2018 with the new tax law is Alimony is no longer tax deductible. If you have to modify your divorce make sure it grandfathers that in. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 2 | IncelsAt some point we have to teach our daughters and sons a third way, that's yet to be thought of and expressed well. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson wants to force you into monogamy. Jordan Peterson wants you to be a slave. He is not your friend.Respectfully why a decline? Couldn't the analogy be more like cheese? You can cut the moldy parts and still eat the cheese. Or in case of Blue Cheese, it tastes better. I've been infected by the Wisconsin Cheesehead at work, so what does that have to do with Western Civilization IDK. Maybe we can fix what we have? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Morality wont save you from HypergamyCucking beta males does nothing to improve the human race, unless you are a non-red-pilled idiot who didn't use a condom on that trashy woman. Kind lowers your SMV really if it gets out. Lots of trash will be chasing you. Enjoy! GLO- upvoted cause I do agree with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 09How does one handle inevitable aspects of aging as Redpiller? (Sickness, ED, injury; talking about ones with permanent lasting effects). I'm looking for more than bravado and stoicism and the Incel threads from the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Tip to Look More Masculine and Skyrocket SMVI never do Gym exercises for the neck, but my neck muscles have been built up from about 10 years of commuting 1 hour by bus by sleeping. I didn't realize I was doing it but my neck muscles got a good floppy headed workout. What size neck are we talking about? 19? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Problem TheoryThe word you are looking for is Mushin. I have to plug one of my favorite books which I think should be side barred on this thread. This book is full of Red Pill stuff. The Art of Martial Arts by Joe Hyams Anyways you ignore the fact that you should be multitasking, as nothing in real life is ever solve one problem, move to the next. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVI can't recall the name of the show, but there was a British documentary on Netflix where they do an autopsy on an obese person pretty gross and at the same time enlightening. I think it is actually motivating me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVDo you think you could have done it without the TRT/HGH? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Feeling the transition-rage? Embrace the fact that you are a manIf I'm angry, I'm angry at the Evil Hamster Boo (EHB), because I've been discarded for someone with a lower SMV because hamster-ing. It was only my turn doesn't comfort me much. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Water fasting for High SMVWhen they took me to the hospital, I was like a holocaust survivor. I had passed out in bed in my townhouse (alone). Whatever IV they put in me saved my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Water fasting for High SMVI wouldn't recommend it, but getting food poisoning really bad and sick (103 fever) for 2 weeks not being able to eat anything but IV, jello dropped me from a fit 235 6'4 to 171 1% body fat. Seems like this would be an extreme of OP's in his diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Academy Award for best double standard: Girlfriend wants open relationship. Boyfriend hesitantly agrees. Girlfriend goes apeshit when he starts seeing someone else.just Like Heather Locklear's Boyfriend did? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 08:43 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementDude, if she knows you are dental student, she maybe setting you up as her Blue Pill meal ticket. You need to shit test her. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 07:13 PM |
| 19 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.In my experience it usually is a red flag of infidelity. it is women's version of abundance mentality mixed with entitlement. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill makes me sick. MALE OPINIONSee War of the Roses. It happens with them smashing your shit, then it moves beyond that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill makes me sick. MALE OPINIONA good trial lawyer helps too, that gets hired by her lawyer. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get more dates than you can handle onlineTwo experiences of note with Online Dates; Bait and switch and the bunch of friends set-up. Bait and Switch: Somebody is trying to prescreen people for their friends or trying to setup their friends. And yes is a couple of instances it's turned out to be a pimp or someone with an illegal alien looking for marriage. Sometimes the person is actually with them they are trying to set you up with. The person you talked with you do meet, but they are not interested in you at all. Most experiences have… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with my GF last night and she said “well the sex wasn’t all that great”Hell hath no fury like a women scorned. (Gone with the wind?) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How your Perception effects YouPoint to ponder: All the rock stars who recently suicide or died of drug overdoses. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill with kids? RP aware already but never had it done? Get a genetic test today!How valid are these tests if you think it was your brother? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 03:40 PM |
| 11 | Swallowing the pill with kids? RP aware already but never had it done? Get a genetic test today!It wouldn't matter to a judge you would still pay child support. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Dangerous Times – Part 1I just finished a divorce that took 4 years. It's extremely slanted towards the woman already. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 05:03 PM |
| 8 | My favorite RED PILL conceptsMy biology teacher had some very funny-sad but true thoughts on life: There is no life without reproduction. Successfully reproducing means a successful life. Take this however you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 06:43 PM |
| 94 | Above all, women dig congruenceThen they take you to divorce court and/or accuse you of rape... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Divorced Men screwed multiple ways in New Tax LawWhat you don't know is even with an agreement, if circumstances change a judge can order a change and make the new tax law apply. Most judges favor women heavily. Additionally Dads lose out on dependent deductions, and any Head of Household status benefits(lower tax rates). My "Final Decree" has been changed THREE Times and I am only paying 4 years of Spousal Support. There is one change pending (she is trying to extend/increase payments by a year, but drop the payments down a little). I am worr… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/17 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Divorced Men screwed multiple ways in New Tax LawMods: This is not click bait, but I think is important to put in here as a topic for discussion (Legal Rights/ Financial Effects). Men as whole, generally, are the higher income earner so they get screwed more in this new tax law. Financial affects of any change to support agreements, temporary orders, final decrees? Net affect in most cases is most likely less take home income for the man, higher taxes rates, larger tax bill. Also, any changes to Child Support or Alimony caused by the new law m… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | 20. But say goodbye to the tax deduction for alimony payments with FDD or separation agreements/orders signed after December 31, 2018.TLDR: Republicans screw divorced, to be divorced, and separated men multiple ways in new tax bill. "20. But say goodbye to the tax deduction for alimony payments. Alimony payments, which are codified in divorce agreements and go to the ex-spouse who earns less money, are no longer deductible for the person who writes the checks. This provision will apply to couples who sign divorce or separation paperwork after December 31, 2018. " Also men: LOSE any dependent exemptions, LOSE Lower tax rates fr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Young Australian man asks for advice on finding a decent woman in this day and age of the CC. Is fed a succinct version of the sidebar in two minutes.It's your kids, Marty. About all those plates, I'm afraid you got some of them pregnant, and a few of them cloned some kids of yours from your DNA from your glass at dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 01:46 PM |
| 2 | The subreddit Deadbedroom is a cesspool of blue pill madness...Two separate instances of 3 round bursts, both at Extraction; Shoulder and Hip. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Young Australian man asks for advice on finding a decent woman in this day and age of the CC. Is fed a succinct version of the sidebar in two minutes.Just got done time travelling, I bought bit coins, worked out at the gym, read the entire internet red pill advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/17 08:32 PM |
| 3 | The subreddit Deadbedroom is a cesspool of blue pill madness...I had a SEAL friend who had a dead bedroom caused by his sudden impotence. Turns out he when he got tested it came back bo-tox from the 2nd doctor. IDK whether to believe my friend. HE was away too much, declared dead twice, shot 6 times, survived; she wanted out for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishYeah no arguments with you there. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishI had my 13 son get it it's called guardisil, IIRC 3 doses over a few weeks. Covered by Insurance. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | "Do not encroach within 3 feet of a lady, unless she invites you."Nice Celery stick trick McGruber. I see what you did. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Rejection is always better than regret, alwaysSame thing happened to me except I kissed her and found out I "raped" her from her friends (and different girl...). Lucky you. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishThree viruses HPV causes cancer and you can get an immunization for it. Herpes HSV-1 oral and HSV-2 genital. HSV-1 is pretty widespread and may also be in genital area. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishBleep mathbot: numerator goes above the denominator FTFY. Bleep mathbot. Anyways surprises my to hell how many times I've corrected programmers and engineers on that little detail. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Being in a relationship with any woman over 30 is just a bad dealWouldn't hilliary'sstrapon be more appropriate/apt? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Being in a relationship with any woman over 30 is just a bad dealHe is a high value man in most everything, he has room for error. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Being in a relationship with any woman over 30 is just a bad dealI met my 8 year younger wife when she was 22. divorced after 9.5 years marriage, 5 years of alimony - don't do it. Move to a Non-Common law state and don't get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Stanford Law Professor Michele Dauber Calls For Death Of Brock Turner Because He Is Appealing His Sex Conviction2 in 4 men don't get laid in college because they are black balled by Sororities and word of mouth. There another useless statistic. I'd like to see the actual data of this overly broad statistic. With your statistic one building on campus being built and the wolf whistling by the construction workers and the number will be 100%. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Highly recommend this article on #metooYou think she is a man or Lesbian? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Men can fight back against the workplace #meetoo trend - withdraw ALL male attention at workMy company did this 3 times. all it took was coming to work late a few times a week for a month or so. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Men can fight back against the workplace #meetoo trend - withdraw ALL male attention at workThis list hits a little bit closer to home because my reputation was trashed in high school and college- this shit really does happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Be BoldTLDR; Fortune Favors the Bold http://www.demotivation.us/media/demotivators/demotivation.us_BOLDLY-going-nowhere_137157142757.jpg Don't know why this popped into my mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The only thing that matters is looks.There was a pretty in depth study done pre-Tinder on women's responses to pictures of males that rated men considered ugly had more masculine features and were more attractive to women (they wanted to have sex with them over the other) then rounded facial features. I thought it kind of interesting that a Mandy Potinkin faced man got higher ratings than a Brad Pitt. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | "Accusation" has lost its meaning.Don't behave like that in a work place in the first place. Plus DGAF about that hashtag. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Trading rolesMaybe HPV and other things come with those gifts... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/17 04:42 PM |
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