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I think he is using you for your money esp the christmas gifts , your previous post describing him as passive & cold are red flags ? & it's just the beginning of your relationship, he won't collaborate with home chores esp when you pay a lot , that's very weird.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 11:42 PM
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no it's not early, the earlier the better before it gets too complicated, if you consider the sessions ,make sure both of you are willing to change, unlearn & relearn or it won't help, persistence & willpower are crucial
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/25 03:49 PM
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you said in a reply that you cry a lot, that's a red flag, if you truly see the potential of this relationship, I suggest an ICF certified relationship coach even if online sessions, you need to work on your forgiveness & he needs work too ,
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 05:58 PM
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I'm kinda old school, if he's paying most of the pills, he doesn't need to 50/50 your house chores, yes he must help you if he can. but it's not a mandatory 24/7 , you should change the frequency of dating nights, quality time tho if you really admire acts of service, you could suggest some fun ones like doing your favourite drink or baking , i mean they are less boring than dishes
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/24 03:10 PM
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I saw an ICF certified relationship coach advising women to withdraw sex until their engagement ring or with marriage, because sex driven men scientifically can't think straight about choosing their partner & won't wait for 4+months for a hookup unless they wanted to inflict sexual trauma ( god forbids)
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 02:46 PM
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if you truly care about body count (regretting sex with non-committed men) I suggest fasting from sex (anything merely sexual with a partner except respectful discussions about your sexual compatibility) & going solo while choosing a husband who is very tolerant of your past & body count. Fasting from sex till marriage will spare you a lot of stress, regret & possibly shame (of giving that privilege to trashy ungrateful men). Also, it's the best way to drive fuckboys & cheaters away. it is 3 mon…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 12:48 PM
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your examples of him "leading" are very concerning & weird. that's not healthy submission. a partner should not be extremely dry for days nor he should be extremely upset if you move his hand or suggesting more dates. from my point of view, he identifies your normal suggestions & complaints as defying his authority. his behaviour will get very complicated & unbearable when it comes to more serious topics like " pregnancy, place of residence, travelling, shared values, lifestyle, activities, pare…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 09:25 PM
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