soulhooker Archive

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1	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. For something to be an addiction, you need to actually do it. It’s not a sex addiction if you don’t have sex lol. It’s just a fixation. Like when you’re hungry you want food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 04:59 PM
2	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. I mean, yeah, I’ll ultimately I’d say you’re right, that it’s a mental health problem, and I think while therapy and medication can work, healthy socialization is also a good idea. I’m not saying the solution is as simple asks having random sex. It’s also the desire to not be alone. Forming friendships would solve some of this problem for some people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 02:21 AM
2	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. If you don’t see the problem, then it is likely you live in a very different world, with easy access to sex, friendships (maybe shallow but still), and other forms of dopamine. And I am happy for you. In a normal world, sex and love would be so normal that it wouldn’t demand such an obsession on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 12:01 AM
1	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad You mean for being a weak-ass bitch? Thugs use guns, gentleman fight fairly one on one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:39 PM
3	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. Oh but it is normal. It shouldn’t be normal, but it is. Look around. Almost everything is sex based. We have entire industries which prey on male loneliness. We have entire industries fixated on how girls should look. This is the result of alienation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:23 PM
3	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. I didn’t say function in society, I just meant functioning in general. Managing emotions. Being able to sleep. I’m not justifying the notion of violence as a response to sexual or emotional frustration. And dude, again I hate using examples with me in them, but the number 1 advice shrinks have given me to deal with frustration is to get laid. Like doctors. Woman doctors. And when I finally did, it felt like I was on shrooms. It was a surreal experience. After that I felt a tiny bit less hollow. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 09:19 PM
3	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. I really disagree with you. In my example, I used a child- a sexless child isn’t at a disadvantage, he doesn’t feel anxiety or biological pressure to have sex. In my opinion, if something effects normal brain functioning and it cannot be replaced by something else, it is a need. I mean I hate using personal examples, but masturbation really, really fucked up my brain in certain ways. It didn’t make me sexist or think life is a porno, but it reduced the pleasure to the point where having actual s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 08:05 PM
11	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. I love the way you frame sex, like it’s a little treat or toy they can live without. While sex isn’t a right, it, like affection, is a social/personal need. While the intensity of this need varies by person and hormonal levels, it still remains a need. Young children are not at a health disadvantage if they don’t have sex. Is it because they are very complete people who found happiness in other activities? Is it because they are disciplined ? Fuck no, it is simply because the need for sex has no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 04:51 PM
2	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY I did say, “at least for me”, I’m definitely not projecting. I’m aware financial security is a very desirable thing. But at least for me, it doesn’t make someone attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 06:07 PM
1	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY lol what are u trying to do, I’m not judging you, nor do I really care, you were the one saying I don’t have any of these traits. I was clarifying that i thought these traits were dumb or ambiguous ways of separating “chads” from the normal population. Not that those traits were useless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 06:04 PM
2	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY Interesting. Even the way you describe it is abstract, but I know what you mean, kind of. You’re thinking like 90s high school jock vibes, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:01 PM
4	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY On the contrary, stranger, I happen to be a 6 foot 0 inch, collegiate level track athlete. And I know being really athletic at that level is a result of extremely hard work, and that is one of the reasons I consider it to be an interesting, distinguishing detail, as most people, regardless of race, size, location, popularity, can train their bodies. Money is super important- but in my opinion, it doesn’t make someone attractive, at least for me. Face is probably the biggest factor, and that is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 04:59 PM
1	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY While I probably agree with you, I’m curious, what would be your opinion on what makes someone a Chad? People always talk about chads success, but we don’t always explain why he is successful. Height? That is kinda dumb, there are so many tall lanky people that have no coordination. Fitness? Literally almost every single guy can get into really good shape. Doesn’t matter your body type or height, human body is designed to be able to get stronger. Money? That’s just stupid. Facial features? Which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 02:44 PM
1	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY I wouldn’t even use the word “hate”, it is more about them being bullied and feeling better about themselves when they put down random dudes struggling on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 02:35 PM
0	Women are rude to men without consequences I think it is important for OP to clarify that he does not necessarily mean consequences of physical violence. It could be social confrontation, like “hey why did you do that” or “dude, wtf”. I don’t think, (but I could be wrong) that OP just meant punching or fighting with people like in a high school coming of age film. He could easily just mean social criticism	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:30 PM
4	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. I’m not sure about that, though. I mean you do have guys posting fitness photos and videos to attract attention, but from what I see, it’s mostly guys who follow those accounts. I’d need look into the research to know for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 05:12 PM
4	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. Nah, I’m not blaming women at all here. I even admit I have a need to show off too, just at a different scale. I don’t think it’s inherently wrong for women to post stuff showing off their bodies. It is human to show off and share skills or looks. I’m saying that the fact that these girls have a thousand followers despite doing what others have done before, is implicative of something absurd. It’s a societal problem, if anything, not a women problem. Almost every click to follow, click to like, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 02:44 PM
25	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. That is a delicate yet seemingly accurate way to describe the situation. As a guy, I have heard women describe their loneliness, especially as they age, very very similarly to the way guys do it. But then you go on most types of social media, and you see a hundred posts a second of girls doing a cute dance for a million likes. And this is absolutely absurd. It’s not inherently wrong, necessarily, but it is definitely absurd. Every click to follow such posts is an act of desperation, desperately …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 01:02 AM
–	Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starving Okay, but we agree on this, if you read my post. What I’m saying is most lonely men don’t want women to lose autonomy over their bodies, they want a consensual healthy relationship. The frustration comes simply from their long term pain. We need to accept that some people in society have a really really bad disadvantage when it comes to not having a partner/sex. Love, fundamentally, cannot be given as a mere resource. And even sex shares a similar quality, most people who want sex don’t just hir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:15 PM
–	Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starving While I believe that sex isn’t a resource to be handed out, it is important to understand most lonely men don’t want it as a resource, except for extremely misogynistic incels that want slaves. Most lonely men want to feel like they are accepted. In other words, they feel not entitled to sex, but entitled to a consensual, happy, healthy relationship. And for context, let me briefly go over some of the many advantages of having a significant other or consistent, healthy, consensual sex. People wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 04:52 PM
3	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? This is not an explicit example of privilege, but definitely a correlation with privilege: Studies show women care more about race than men, even if all other factors are equal. To say that every woman is racist is absolutely ridiculous, but such a tendency to care about things that have very little to do with the identity of the person and more about social status may be reflective of privilege. And I would also argue such a tendency to be picky based on race is even worse than being picky base…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 12:46 AM
1	Women hit the wall at 23, proof on pic related Despite it being anecdotal and observational, everything you said makes sense. As I mentioned in my other post, I think a big part of the issue is that when it comes to exercising for looks and exercising for function, ironically exercising for function is going to make you look (and obviously feel) better long term. Something that kind of just boggles me is how we are seeing a huge jump in plastic surgery. From both men and women. People really really hate discomfort. For me exercising was cruc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 06:08 PM
0	This is how men-women relationships will be like once cute fembot girlfriends arrive. The woman on the left represents a woman who supposedly has these needs for dinner and Netflix, but also based on the third statement, she just wants sex and to leave. You’d think the robot would be just sex driven, and simpler in needs than the woman. And because the woman supposedly can’t find a sexual or romantic partner, she falls deep into depression, but what does that prove really? That people who are lonely get depression more? But we already know this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 04:56 PM
9	Women hit the wall at 23, proof on pic related Honestly, when people start developing signs of aging is extremely variable. The human body doesn’t start getting inevitably weaker or even unattractive until mid 30s for top of the level athletes, and even then the changes are trivial. I think the human race in general is compelled to be fat and lazy. Like don’t get me started on the guys, most guys peak at like 16 then they get dad bods and lose all athleticism that isn’t related to their curls and bench press. I’m 26 and while I can’t really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 07:57 PM
1	What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive? Leo DiCaprio has very little issues with dating and he has a dad bod. This doesn’t really answer your question but maybe it’s a clue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 12:01 AM
1	Why are you interested in a relationship/sex? Thank you for sharing. Yeah damn that’s interesting. I’d love to be content with the platonic relationships I have with both men and women, as they do make me feel happy and alive. But I also have a sex drive that is exhausting to deal with. No matter how much I work out or how much TS Eliot I read or how many friends I make, I am still bound by these remnant evolutionary genetics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 09:52 PM
1	Why are you interested in a relationship/sex? Out of mere curiosity, do you maintain, or at least strive to maintain healthy platonic relationships? And do you masturbate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 03:12 PM
2	High sexual market competition doesn't really benefit anyone. From just the top of my head, Alan Turing, Albert Camus, Ernest Rutherford all were excellent athletes. Steinbeck, while not a college athlete, romanticized the concepts of physical exercise and labor. More contemporary figures include Gordon Ramsay, who learned discipline from martial arts, Magnus Carlsen, and Joe Rogan. Lol I’m kidding for Joe Rogan. Personally, I see the best athletes are the ones that don’t work out for appearance, and I think when you think of jock, that’s the type of physi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 07:13 PM
6	Women wouldn't last a week as an average man They meant “average” in a far more abstract sense, as in, not someone who is stereotypically attractive, like just a dude. Average could also mean some lanky guy who is 6’ 2” with no muscle tone. It’s more thought of as random in this context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:40 AM
4	Deleted dating apps because I realized I deserve better Cause to them, the people they see aren’t worth bringing in to a relationship. While many men have lowered their sexual standards, they are still uneasy in establishing a permanent relationship with someone who’s entire self worth is in a tinder profile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 07:20 PM