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This was the dilemma. My body was saying one thing, but my values were saying another.
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:47 AM
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Please Do share what those qualities are. Wants and don't wants.
/r/seduction15/11/24 01:31 AM
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At the time, I was looking for something casual initially until I tried it and realized it wasn't for me. Women, at least in my experience, are usually looking for something deeper and more long term.
/r/seduction15/11/24 12:43 AM
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Interesting
/r/seduction14/11/24 10:39 PM
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Getting girls in this day and age is a full time job bro.
/r/seduction14/11/24 10:09 AM
1

It's a generational thing.
/r/seduction14/11/24 07:03 AM
30

Luck most likely
/r/seduction14/11/24 06:28 AM
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I wish I could give a cope story and say that she's a cat lady who's hit the wall, but the truth is that she married to a good successful guy, has 3 kids and is enjoying life as a full time mom. She's a good person.
/r/seduction14/11/24 05:59 AM
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Very common. My old roommate was an insanely hot party girl. She'd go out all the time. Her phone would always be getting flooded with messages from dudes. We'd ask her why she gets so many messages and alerts. She'd show us her messages. Her inbox was rammed with dudes we're talking 80-90+ messages a day. So was her social media, dating app etc. There were all sorts of high value dudes going after her. She was just spoiled for choice and it was too overwhelming for her to get back to every guy,…
/r/seduction14/11/24 04:32 AM
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Delete all social media, dating apps. Reddit too. Don't read any seduction stuff. Don't have an agenda. Say hello and smile and chat to 100 girls for the next 365 days. Really try to enjoy doing that. If you don't enjoy it. Spend time doing stuff you enjoy. Be kind to yourself.
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:54 PM
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But women think differently. They like to play games. Time and effort bro. Is the juice worthe the squeeze. not every lemon
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:47 AM
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so there was attraction initially, but now it's stricly business. In that case. Move on
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:45 AM
1

Gamify human interaction? I find that sick and twisted.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:34 AM
1

Can you just chat with her and see what she's like. If you guys vibe then ask her to join you for apple pie. If not, don't ask her out.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:15 AM
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So she's shy, fears gossip and doesn't feel like a manipulative person. Then just send this: "I'm going for some apple pie after work. Please join me." Then add a smilie emoji.
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:35 AM
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If she was interested and sincere she would arrange to meet you another time after having flaked.
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:37 AM
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Maybe. But if so, where does lack of confidence stem from?
/r/seduction12/11/24 03:31 AM
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Everyone's different
/r/seduction12/11/24 03:28 AM
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alcohol reduces inhibition. If you don't want to rely on that to get into a less inhibited state I suggest meditation. Will take a while tho. Also therapy to explore the root of your inhibition and how to take steps to release it.
/r/seduction11/11/24 03:06 AM
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No worries bro. In this day and age where we all type with our thumbs on our phones, it's more practical to get straight to the point. It's a guy thing. For women, not so much. haha Yes racial stereotypes exist in every country and culture. I appreciate your awareness and for calling it out. The world would be a better place if we all learned to do the same.
/r/seduction08/11/24 11:52 AM
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Cool name Vladislav! I trust what you say about EE girls as you must know way better than me and most people in this sub. Like I said, it's just something I have heard, not something I know to be true. Perhaps I should not have not mentioned it because in hindsight I can see how it might come across as a baseless stereotype. One thing for sure tho, regardless of race, there are always women who are gold diggers and boys who crave sugar mamas. There are all types in the world.
/r/seduction08/11/24 10:40 AM
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Vlad. Vladimir? From your username, would I be wrong to assume that you are Eastern European?
/r/seduction08/11/24 10:12 AM
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You have an interesting perspective. There are many reasons other than the ones you and I have brought up I'm sure. Probably too many to be practically discussed on a reddit thread. You mentioned you're in Slovakia? I have never been to Eastern Europe. I'd love to visit. Perhaps we could meet for a drink and continue our discussion? Does the Netherlands have a big Vietnamese population? I had no idea. How does that affect our fellow OP?
/r/seduction08/11/24 07:04 AM
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If you're an East Asian male, you're at a disadvantage if you're in the US or Western Europe. You're up against negative stereotypes of Asian men and Western standards of attractiveness propagated by media and pop culture. And aren't Dutch people generally taller than Asians? Cos height is definitely a thing for most girls. So basically it's hard to stand out when there's negative stereotypes and every dude around you is a 7ft brick shit house blonde and blue-eyed Viking mfer. I imagine it can b…
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:26 AM
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Bro you just wrote like 1500 words on the topic. You're making it rocket science.
/r/seduction06/11/24 12:14 AM
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Easy, just slip in the word "sexy" and you're home free. You don't even have to be smart about it. "Oh that's a nice watch / shirt / color tie. I find it very sexy on you." When you meet him. "I like that you're on time! I find punctuality very sexy." "Oh you enjoy jogging/ yoga / roller blading too? I think jogging/ yoga / roller blading is so sexy."
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:14 AM
1

Practice saying smiling and saying hi to the mirror, your dog, or some friends.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:51 AM
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Definitely. Can confirm. Men reach their sexual peak in their early 20s. Women in their mid 30s. Sex is fireworks. It's not a question of do you have a chance with her. It's a question of whether she, a milf, can resist a young buck.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:48 PM
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All this work for mediocre results at best. There are naturally good looking guys with zero game. Out right geeky and they get girls all the time zero effort. Then there are a rarer breed who are not attractive at all, don't care about meeting women, also geeky and they get hot girls opening them. I've seen it and I know dudes like this. Then there's the remaining 99% of us. Frustrated, average and tired. The world is a strange place. I really believe it's not something we can control. Perhaps B…
/r/seduction03/11/24 08:12 AM
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Yea ASD is a thing for women. But the girl in the video? ASD + inflated ego
/r/seduction02/11/24 11:42 PM
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Can't argue with science
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:52 PM
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Sulk like a pouty little child becos she won't let me put my pee pee in her pee pee? I dunno man.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:50 PM
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Bro, you are my kinda bro
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:49 PM
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I believe there are bro, but 99.9% of the HBs out there are nut jobs.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:47 PM
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Please excuse my cynicism. It could be an opportunity for you with some of the attractive colleagues. Some of them may feel comfortable talking to you because they don't feel that you're needy or a sexual threat. But too much comfort leads to getting friendzoned. So you might need to tease a bit, but not to the point where they lump you in with all the other thirsty dude at work
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:19 AM
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Because of either ego, narcissism, insecurity or low self esteem. Take your pick.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:04 AM
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this
/r/seduction01/11/24 04:31 AM
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Perhaps you misunderstood. I need someone to manage the accounts i.e. swipe, communicate, filter out and setup dates.
/r/seduction01/11/24 04:29 AM
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nah
/r/seduction01/11/24 04:27 AM
2

You met her in a cafe then listened to her unload her life story. She wasn't looking for a hookup. She was looking for a therapist. Should have bailed at that point.
/r/seduction01/11/24 01:07 AM
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Perhaps more so at a certain age and in certain cultures. But eventually people want to start a family. If you want to be that sad 40 year old dude down at the club hitting on girls young enough to be your daughter and grow old alone, that's entirely your choice.
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:05 AM
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I see what you're getting at, but with escorts it's purely transactional. Money in exchange for sex, compliments, etc. Now if a guy approaches a woman, it could be because initially he finds her attractive, but he's interested to find out what she's like as a person, and if she is nice and they hit it off, who knows if it's the start of a great relationship. Qualification isn't a one way street.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:35 PM
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Yes, it could be a turn off for girls to see tons of pics of you with different girls. You'll just look like a sleaze ball player, which some women like I guess, but not all. Then how to trigger pre selection? Pics need to be slightly ambiguous. So a pic of you with two girls both under your arms with you in the middle at a bar, party, graduation or any other social event. A pic of you in a mixed group of guys and girls. You want to show that you are socially accepted and that girls enjoy your c…
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:11 PM
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So you're saying it's always your fault and your responsibility if she's not attracted you. Bro, be kind to yourself.
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:50 PM
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Do you think French, Italian and German girls are a bit more liberal compared to Spanish girls? That was my experience.
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:59 AM
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If you're in your 20s to early 30s, dating around and hooking up seems like the typical strategy to find out what you're looking for in a long term partner. Sadly, many people might get divorced or have kids they didn't plan on having. Life goes on. Man this is getting depressing. Just do what you feel fun and rewarding to you.
/r/seduction30/10/24 07:01 AM
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I hate approaching women in bars and clubs. If they are hot, chances are they have gotten approached a million times by drunk guys and they just want to be left alone to dance with their friend or until prince charming approaches. Countless other times their boyfriend or husband shows up out of nowhere and wants to kick my ass for talking to his woman. Embarrassing situations, brawls, getting kicked out by security. Not fun. Clubs and bars are horrid places to meet girls unless you are physicall…
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:28 AM
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Which city/country do you live in bro? The girls there sound quite liberal. I'm moving there.
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:23 AM
1

Sounds like she's busy juggling messages from a bunch of other dudes and trying to weigh up her best option, so I probably won't get too invested in this interaction. Just treat it as practice. Here's my advice. Don't text her back until you are simultaneously communicating with at least 5 other girls.
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:42 PM
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bro, you're overthinking things. Hot women are turned off by overthinkers.
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:59 PM
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Go to a gay club or gay environment and you'll develop empathy real fast for hot girls who avoid eye contact.
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:16 AM
1

Older women are awesome. When I was 37 I started seeing older women. All three in their mid 40s. They have their shit together, down to earth and are fantastic in bed. Confident, zero hang ups, self sufficient, realistic, and don't play games. Just be honest and direct. Don't really need to say much. Just kino escalate. They pickup fast on it.
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:32 AM
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Might be perceived value. I.e many girls find you attractive and they know that. If you don't want that, stop showering and brushing your teeth for a few days, pick your nose and scratch your nuts in public. Also eat lots of junk and become a fat ass.That should do the trick.
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:39 PM
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Tell her that you have a small pee pee, you cum really fast and you don't eat pussy.
/r/seduction20/10/24 01:31 AM
1

This is my point. You're bound to be disappointed and rejected if you don't like going to these places to begin with. You've failed before you even started. People can sense that you're not enjoying yourself but you want something from them. That's a turn off man. It's like having a salesman try to sell you something but you can tell he hates where he works. Or it's like going to watch a movie with some friends, but you hate the movie theatre and the environment. Instead, do something you enjoy …
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:07 PM
1

Let me ask you this. Would you go to a bar or a club just to enjoy the atmosphere, dancing, drinking and hanging with friends? Or do you go with the intent to pickup or get laid?
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:40 AM
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Sorry luv, but that doesn't sound good. Honestly just move on.
/r/seduction17/10/24 12:15 AM
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Don't say. Do. Kino-escalation.
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:37 AM
1

Wait.. Pardon me for asking but, why you on this sub if you're married?
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:24 PM
2

I wasn't trying to start an argument. It's hard for me to convey tonality through text. The tone of my writing can come across as blunt. I apologize for that. My writing style is more functional I guess. :)
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:08 PM
1

It isn't 100% your responsibility to make it work. She's got to do her share to keep you around too. 50/50.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:43 PM
0

To be fair, it takes a lot more work to make a relationship last than it does to go out and get laid. You young un's probably didn't want to hear that.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:38 PM
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Neil Strauss? Yeah he's such an expert on women, his wife left him.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:47 AM
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So she doesn't communicate her wants and needs, but instead, expects you to be able to read her mind. And if you can't figure out what it is she wants, you failed the test, and she's no longer interested. Sounds like a nut job. Here's an easier piece of advice to digest. If you meet a woman with such expectations, regardless of how hot she is, turn 180 degrees and run like your life depended on it. Thank me later.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:40 AM
1

Location, location, location. Where are you located buddy?
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:01 PM
0

We spoiled them. Or we were taught to spoil them by our single moms, doormat dads, woke culture and modern liberal education. Also because we want sex more often than they do when we're young men which gives them the upper hand. Super charge all of this with dating apps, only fans and social media where women are worshiped by thirsty men and it's no wonder why we are where we are today.
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:59 PM
3

bruh. you crack me up
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:31 AM
3

haha. brilliant.
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:18 AM
74

It's interesting to see how much game has changed as times have changed. Back in the day when attractive women got hit on all the time, what you did would be considered weak game. i.e. you complimented something obvious about her. You chased after her. You qualified her too early by telling her she's cute. So her positive response is either because she finds you attractive regardless of your game or lack thereof, or it's because she rarely gets approached like you say. Either way, enjoy your dat…
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:03 PM
4

You think Poland is a third world country? Lemme guess... You're American.
/r/seduction07/09/24 09:36 AM
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Too many negative Asian male stereotypes in USA. You would do better in Asia as an Asian American.
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:03 AM
3

is she being flirty to other customers?
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:30 AM
4

That video is made by and Asian American dating coach. From what I've seen Asian American men living in America have a huge disadvantage with women in America because there are too many negative stereotypes. Also Asian American men are confused when it comes to cultural identity causing them to be socially awkward in general. It's no fault of theirs intrinsically, it's just that the odds and the environment are stacked against them from day one. I can only imagine how frustrating and confusing i…
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:03 AM
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look for tipsy women who are in the ovulation period of her cycle. You can spot them as they dress and dance provocatively, look around at men more, are more flirty, high energy, friendly and open to conversation.
/r/seduction01/09/24 03:09 AM
3

Polar bears are sexy
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:29 AM
3

e.g be a passport bro. All this self improvement, numbers game etc is ok advice, but it takes a lot of time, effort. Plus competition is high
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:47 PM
10

move to an environment where your value is higher
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:25 PM
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If you're young or haven't been around much women, then yes that would be normal. But if you're older or more experienced with women, you'd understand them better. If she's mad at you and won't tell you why that's pretty standard entitled princess behaviour. She's mad at you for something you did, and she's also mad that you aren't able to read her mind to figure what you did wrong. What you did wrong is one thing, but it's her responsibility to communicate her needs and boundaries, not yours. T…
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:24 AM
1

I guess what is rude and bitchy can be subjective. I mean if she's banging a machete on the bar screaming at the top of her lungs, "Piss off and die creep or I'll chop your nuts off!!" then yeah, that would seem a little rude and highly unlikely it's a shit test in which case it would be advisable to move on. But all facetiousness aside, you are correct and I agree with you. Some rejections can be genuine shit tests, but some aren't. My buddy walked up to a hot girl in a club once, and before he…
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:46 AM
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hot girls are like creme brulee. hard and crusty on the outside and soft, hot and gooey on the inside. It's just shit testing. It's a defense mechanism cos they're sick of getting hit on by creeps. Once she sees you're high value, the defenses come down and it's hot and gooey all the way.
/r/seduction10/06/24 01:21 PM
1

Go up to the both of them with all smiles. "Hi, how are ya. Sorry to interrupt, I'm just going to steal her away for a moment." Take her by the arm and lead her away. "
/r/seduction18/05/24 05:05 PM
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although they would never admit that since they always say they go clubbing to dance and enjoy the music, and bars to hang out with their friends.
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:06 AM
1

OP, this. Straight from the horse's mouth. This is how selfish and manipulative females are. Evolution has programmed this into their nature. They will cheat on their bf and make their bf jealous to get compliance out of him. And they will have no problems using other men to do so.
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:51 AM
1

Would you place a bet of $1000, if the odds of winning was 100 to 1? Probably not right? Or if you did do it and lossed, you probably won't do it again. Now, would you make that same bet but only put $1 on it? Would you do it 1000 days in a row? See what I'm getting at? Think of a date as the same thing as a bet. Your self confidence is like the amount of money you put on a bet. It will always take a hit when you lose, you can't control whether you win or lose, but you CAN control the amount you…
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:44 AM
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could it have something to do with the pics you've posted on reddit? you know the ones with a captions: "If you met me on the street, would you rape me" and "who wants me as their new personal fucktoy?"
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:03 PM
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