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I just don't get why, if your married, finances haven't been discussed before. Frankly, I don't get why all married couples don't pool everything. Legally you own it in common.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 05:16 AM
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Tie it off and take it home with you.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 04:14 AM
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I always assume split. If it becomes clear that she doesn't I tell her that's the plan. If she flat out has no way to pay I'd cover it and she can get the next one (if I decide to show).
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:52 AM
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In practice yes. The theory behind it is different. I think when you day being a bachelor it implies a man who is a player and selfishly doesn't want to settle down because he doesn't see the benefits of relationships. MGTOW suggests that relationships are actively risky, disadvantageous, and even damaging to men. I do enjoy relationships and my marriage is a happy one so I didn't value bachelorhood or stay a bachelor. But the MGTOW argument is true in my opinion so I would never remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:56 AM
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Based on the up/down votes in this chain I think people misunderstood me. I am saying keep her as a safety. Relationships aren't black and white. You don't have to clean break one prior to beginning the search for the next. It falls somewhere between ethical and ethically murky. It is not unethical. Start working out more, improve your style, start chatting up women. Having one pot on the stove will make the next easier cause your already cooking. I'm not advocating you lie and maintain monogamo…
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:25 PM
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Ever seen a Disney movie with a princess? Most men I know watched many growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 09:28 PM
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The "good" route: dump her The most personally beneficial route: start seeing other women.
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:49 AM
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It's a fairly new concept right? I'm around 30 and didn't hear of it til I was several years married. If we split or she dies that will be it for me and women. There's plenty of happy to be had without the headache and risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:44 AM
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I say any amount of sleeping with women is not an accomplishment. Let a man define his own goals and his own achievements. Also I like fucking thick chicks. Cocks on the bigger side and find they can take it all more enthusiastic than thin girls on average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:17 AM
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Male. Each partner is responsible for their own orgasm. Communication and helping your partner get off is a great strategy for getting yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:59 PM
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Fastest way is to buy stylish clothes that are well fitted. Only takes a few hours. Well maybe a few days for tailoring.
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:39 AM
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You go to a mall that's in a town with no bars (which is a weird place for a mall anyways) and you will end up chatting up high school girls 7/10 times.
/r/seduction11/03/18 08:40 PM
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In the world of women the importance of attraction and physical appearance is a given. It's drilled into then since they were 5 and their dad's came home from work saying "there's my beautiful princess". They aren't saying it's not important. They are assuming you have enough socialization to know it is and emphasizing the importance of these other factors. You also have to think about "important for". These women are saying these other factors are of high (maybe even higher) importance for a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:53 PM
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Toxic masculinity was a problem brought up by men in the 80s complaining that men were losing a place in society to develop male relationships and social support. This is totally a valid complaint about society and the way it treats men and masculinity in the era of feminism. The problem is feminists then placed the blame for this on men themselves. Since men aren't allowed or able to develop these male spaces they, as a group, have no position from which to understand this history or defend the…
/r/MensRights10/03/18 05:49 PM
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I disagree with the men give, women take attitude. That's so simple and foolish that it can basically be dismissed out of hand. As a happily married man, no it's not true. That said everything my wife does is selfish. Everything she does for me is to keep me in her life and build a relationship in which I do things for her. Everything I do is selfish too. Basically, in a good relationship you each feel your getting the better deal (but probably for different reasons). The conceptual transition f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:37 PM
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Mods denied it. I forgot I've also been thinking of the equivalent graph for men seeking women. The vertical axis we could call nurturer and the horizontal idk seducer maybe. You want a hot women who will make a good mother. The difference would be that the divisions would happen at the 50% point. The social skills axis could still be social skills in a nongendered sense both men will experience it as a chill dimension. More chill is better. (The graph of the two axes chill and seducer is basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 04:40 AM
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Check her ID.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:53 PM
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She's not opting for assholes. Women want a man who is both nice and attractive. She is giving primacy to attractiveness. She'd rather have both. When did you see a woman with an ugly asshole? Never. When do you see a woman with an ugly nice guys? Sometimes, though typically in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 07:51 PM
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No, because I won't do the thinking for them either. Edit: I'm not their slave. You suggest I develop it on my own and then share it, a process which would cost me but provide no benefit. In fact, it would make this knowledge less useful to me if shared. TRP is basically trade secrets for being a man. Why would I share trade secrets unless I was going to get help developing them.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:05 PM
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About half way through I decided to finish this out and post it on TRP. We'll see what happens...they deleted my post because I wouldn't do more of the thinking for them but instead gifted them a chance to use their brains. I'm thinking about writing a TRP post about this stuff but I'm too lazy and selfish to spend my time that way. May happen some day. There are a few concepts we need to cover before you can see the other perspective. so quickly. Implicit vs explicit knowledge: implicit is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 06:41 PM
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The women believe they are being honest. However, men and women have vastly different experiences of social interactions including dating. Therefore they develop different explanatory models. This is why their advice derived from this experience and explanatory model (while good for women) is bad for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:27 PM
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Sounds like she's putting the ball in your court. She already cleared you as fuck material. Now she's trying to back pedal and set up a relationship. She doesn't want to be your friend, she's already fucking you. Either pursue the relationship or bail. If you pursue remember she's created a situation that gives you the power to define it since you're already fucking. Are you a fwb, a bf, husband material. You decide she probably doesn't know yet but realized you habe that potential for her.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:26 AM
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This is because most men are circumcised. It's called mere exposure effect. If w polled only women primarily exposed to uncircumcised man they would say that prefer them natural
/r/MensRights06/03/18 02:15 PM
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This is your answer brah. Keep bumping up that SMV. Also don't let it get to you. It's an abundance game, keep approaching. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:41 PM
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Highly connected. Not game per se but the ability to become outcome independent which is required for effective game. It's a fundamental aspect of masculinity. Example: fight club
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:37 PM
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I lift daily. I just do a little bit. My cycle: Day 1: squat/deadlift Day 2: bench/rows Day 3: military press/pull ups Day 4: prehab hip work I also spread some prehab rotator cuff, glute, and VMO work throughout.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:51 AM
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Down syndrome is the main reason but there are other age related pregnancy risks as well. Medically advanced maternal age is >35. Your right it's not the only risk factor and plenty of advanced age mothers have healthy kids but it's not ideal. Down syndrome can occur at any maternal age, but the possibility increases as a woman gets older. ... A 25-year-old woman has a 1 in 1,200 chance of having a baby with Down syndrome; by 35, the risk has increased to 1 in 350; by age 40, to 1 in 100; and by…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/18 02:07 AM
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Wow. Their relationship must have really been circling the drain.
/r/MensRights23/02/18 05:22 AM
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I'll look into it. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:50 AM
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Factually men are no longer required for reproduction. All of the scientific advancements have been made required to take an adult womans stem cells transform it into a sperm cell, create an embryo, and implant it into her lesbian partner. I'm a man. I'm not arguing that we should have this type of system. I am saying the science is already there it is already possible now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 01:03 AM
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many an olympic athlete would disagree with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:58 AM
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Even as a medical student, if I mention it it is always seen as a plus. While women may want a man with money and status, it is only because those are indicators of ability. Women want men with ability and physical attraction (largely determined by physical strength and jaw distinction). It also makes you interesting because 1) you do cool shit and 2) social skill development is a huge part of the training I know numerous doctors now (I'm in my 30s) that have mediocre dating lives. Are they marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:56 AM
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Those men would tell you that you need both a traditional mother and traditional father of the traditional genders to raise a baby. The things you are describing are made possible through scientific intervention. This same intervention has actually made is possible to create sperm from women's stem cells. Men are no longer necessary for reproduction of women. Edit: like I said though, I don't necessarily disagree with you but when your arguements mirror those of your opponents then you need to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:33 AM
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are you sure they had greater barriers? Women are actively acting to prevent men from organizing on the grounds of exclusion of women. While there is no doubt women had significant obstacles in their path, I think the question of who will have had greater obstacles is one that can only be accurately and fairly addressed after men progress in their liberation movement and efforts to redefine masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:31 AM
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I don't have any sources about any of this. I've only recently become interested in gender issues as the lack (suppression?) of male voices in the field has become more prominent on the public stage. My point really was that we can't assume that men in a broad sense aren't interested because funding isn't available. Though your point about the similarity to the development of women's BC would seem to me to indicate that there is is interest. Some men have hesitation about a new drug that could h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:28 AM
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Well men who don't believe in equality would point to apparent biological differences observed in children in terms of exploration/aggression in boys and nurturing in girls. They would agree with you that the sexes are not equal and that feminism with is stated aim of equal rights for women is ill-concieved (Note: I don't agree with you or with those men. I believe rights in all domains should be equal between the sexes)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:21 AM
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So this is the exact same situation as male birth control currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:19 AM
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Like I said I'm not a lawyer but my understanding of Roe V Wade is that the issue can really be viewed either way pretty reasonsably (thus it ending up at the supreme court). The supreme court decided that women had the choice to withdraw their ongoing support for the fetus growing in/on them by choosing the action of abortion. They child's right to life is overridden because the mother is not obligated to continue to provide support to the fetus which will then die as a natural result. In pract…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:17 AM
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I think there is truth to this but we have to consider the demand in both absolute terms and relative terms to that of female birth control. Is government funding being directed to female birth control but not male birth control? Part of the issue is that it is being developed by a not for profit because pharma companies weren't doing it. They weren't doing it because the high success and long duration of the treatment means it is likely to be lower profit compared to other projects. Also there …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:59 PM
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Then she could abort. There is already a conflict in her choice to abort between her right to choice and her childs right to life. Both are recognized and more weight is given to the mother. I'm not a lawyer but I believe the reason is that she is withdrawing support for the baby. So we give deference to inaction over required action. This same right to inaction should be allowed men. Edit: I also think that it is interesting that your comment assumes that men and women are inherently unequal an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:53 PM
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have you gone and gotten a tubal ligation? I'm in my 20s. The issue at hand is one of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:51 PM
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That premise is an accurate description of the state of the situation now but your conclusion does not follow from your premise and makes certain assumptions about the normalicy of abortion as an option. Similar arguments were made about birth control when it was first offerred to women. So he shouldn't have any recourse and should take full blame for his actions. The argument made is often that women are commiting to a pregnancy only because we as a country give women the legal right to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:33 PM
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I say do it. Who has female friends? Women. Work that social circle.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:33 AM
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I only skimmed it but he had a point about making an emotional connection while dominating. So I tried this with great success. Set a very romantic mood. Slow music, candle light, essential oil diffuser. Start foreplay soft, quickly escalate the level of dominance until your very forceful when you start fucking her. I'm married though but I think it will work with a hook up because it sends mixed nonverbal/contextual clues.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:22 AM
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The us is a represntative democratic republic. We have a constitution and a vote (for officials who act). You are defining the self-catering of men as an "actual need". It's the same self-serving behavior as the women display. Who's to say the men's target location is better or more important? Only the vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:03 AM
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I do and as a man I don't necessarily like it but a democracy represents it's citizens' will. If some of those citizens are women then they should get some votes. If more of those citizen's are women then they should get a majority vote. Though you've hit upon a very important point here that often goes disregarded in TRP. I think this is likely more important. Since masculinity values independence and personal strength and femininity values support, social ties, and cohesiveness the female vote…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 11:59 PM
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I think as human adults who are part of this society that they should get a vote. The fact that they make a more active voting block has nothing to do with their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 10:58 PM
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I dont drink (anymore). Also I watch my calories. Ive started having diet coke with lime or soda water with lime. Either will make it look like you're drinking.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:47 PM
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Supportive, socially skilled, sexually attractive, nurturing, style aware, more verbose with abstract language and thinking, use of emotions as indicator of personal beliefs/opinions for self, high emotionality, agreeable, compliant, submissive Eh there's probably more. I'm a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 10:44 PM
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This is the 90/10 rule. She may or may not want it. Stop and let her decide but let her decide at 90% not 0%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:34 PM
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Respect her choice and make his own decision. Do YOU want to hang with her or would you hang to potentially have sex later
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:32 PM
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Reaction formation is the Freudian psychological process that makes gay men become fundamentalist preachers at anti gay churches.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:12 PM
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Well that's kind of what I'm saying...it's not about what you might say to him. It's clarifying and finalizing why you won't be saying anything else. The important part isn't taking him out and talking it's physically and symbolically leaving afterwards.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:38 AM
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Sorry this is happening. Imma agree with her. She's an adult. Imma disagree with him. Your problem is one of frame it is not that your friend is not respecting you enough but that this man has ended your friendship. You should take him out for a drink (just one) and tell him as much, calmly. Get up and leave. Thats the end. Don't kick your daughter out unless it becomes physically unsafe for either of you two to live together. I promise you will regret it if you do. This is a phase and there's a…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:30 AM
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This is only partly true. They may work slightly less. The truth is they do less paid work.
/r/MensRights19/02/18 07:49 PM
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I tried to communicate my feelings and tell her but she keeps on telling her own points which is kind of annoying. Dude she feels exactly the same way. Listen to her. Let her get it all out. Then respond with a statement that begins "i heat what your saying and I will address it but I'm feeling..." book with a title along the lines of 4 rules for effective communication about this. Also you can both communicate and withdraw attention. Language is thought and it is a powerful form of control/powe…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:36 PM
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First part yes. Second part yes, if you want to move on. If you want to stay then you should be communicating not arguing. Use I statements to express how your feeling. Invite her to express where she is coming from. Though I soft agree with the advice in part 2. If she left you an empty week go on another date or otherwise live your own life. You issue isn't that she is under prioritising you it's that you're over prioritising her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:42 PM
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Social circle =bigger is better. But that article is all that guys own bias. I don't think women want a man who's had run ins with the cops. They want a man who could be violent not who is violent. His view of is is also pretty foolish for several reasons. Notably that it runs counter to the points for career (for example MDs have an average IQ of 130 so the algorithm suggests that their career balances their intelligence).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 12:27 PM
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Well a man who is better off is probably less likely to get divorced. I thought I saw a study a while back that the leading factor precipitating divorce was male job loss. Having your finances in order makes your marriage much more secure. And if you find time to workout too she probably won't cheat either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:31 AM
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Donate to a sperm bank brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:26 AM
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In marriage is better if you think your personal chances of divorce and subsequent loss of 50%+ parebtal rights/custody are better than the statistical average. Out of wedlock is better if you are going to end up divorcing and losing custody. Then at least you only have to foot the bill for the kid instead of paying her that divorce settlement and possible alimony. I don't think I'd have kids in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:26 AM
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This is an immature view. Intelligence is neither attractive or unattractive. It's an abstract nebulous concept. If your still in high school then the physical attractiveness of the football players is obvious. Intellectual attraction makes up the bulk of status. It is the ability to pursue a successful career and the conscientiousness to actually do so. It is also social ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:11 PM
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When my wife was a kid they used to joke in her family that you can love a poor man and you can love a rich man so might as well love a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 04:15 AM
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Well it's less a gotcha and more that I thought your opinion was inconsistent with objectivism. As somebody who clearly has some interest in the concept I thought I'd do you the favor of pointing it out so youd habe the opportunity to consider the notion. What I was saying though is that it isn't apples to oranges because we should be selfish either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 10:03 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 04:51 PM
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I doubt Ayn Rand would give two shits about the cultural context of the vows. People should act selfishly. The question is "Is trading up in his best interest?" Your logic in this comment follows that of Henry Rearden in his continued commitment to Lilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:33 PM
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Why would you want to if you were this man? This is a woman who has proven a level of commitment and value of/to you at your current SMV. If you think you can trade up to a "better" woman then you are fooling yourself. Look at the wolf of wallstreet he has a supportive wife and trades her for a hot wife. When things get rough she guts him and bails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:30 PM
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Well I agree that that it's an issue with masculinity but it's not that it's toxic. It's lost these are socially inept young men raised in a world without positive structure for men. There is no doubt that violence is masculine but these boys aren't learning to use it in constructive ways because it's not PC to direct that impulse in a world that wants to suppress men. Their social ineptitude is also an aspect of the masculine crisis. We teach boys they should use force but not how to use it (vi…
/r/MensRights16/02/18 10:18 PM
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These are literally the conditions that drive the gender pay gap. It's all the same phenomena screwing both men and women in different ways but God forbid we discuss the detriment to men.
/r/MensRights16/02/18 04:08 PM
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Totally but men are poorly trained and therefore poorly capable in estimating the value of social relationships and leveraging them. So you are likely underestimating the social value. Car pooling creates proximity which gives you the opportunity to build social obligations from your coworkers and to gain proximity to their social circles and so on. It's the idea behind never eat lunch alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:02 PM
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TRP is the start of the men's liberation movement. The reason the model is angry is because many of the men discovering it are in the anger phase. It's new and only just starting to make it's entrance into the collective conscious. As it grows men will collectively move through these stages, the movement will clarify and crystalize. It will become less angry in the process. This collective aspect can be seen in the budding conflict between "men's studies" and "masculinity studies" developing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:55 PM
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I would argue that feminism supports casual sex. The weapon of masculinity is violence and a man's ability to deal damage. The weapon of femininity is sex and a woman's ability to withhold pleasure. Sexual promiscuity empowers women to use their gender weapon freely. Hook up culture changes sex from a withholding to an active weapon. Women are now able to give sex but only to men deemed worthy so you had better get in line. The issue feminists have with the scenario you cited is that the man use…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:34 AM
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Let me offer an alternative opinion. Who says these traits are bad or dark? The very people who lack them, who want to push you down and control you. You have this ability use it for your benefit. Be who you are, if this is who you are then be it.
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:20 PM
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You might consider reading more than two or a similar poly book if she's talking poly to have a better understanding of what she is after. (Though I can't say I care for these books much) If she's talking sex Consider swinging. It's a couples activity and the sex tends to split more 50/50 (if that matters to you) and feelings are really not part of it. In poly she's likely to get a lot morecently action than you. Also maybe ask her to go to counseling first to discuss why she wants this. Also re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:34 AM
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As a man who asserted that our relationship would be open I'd like to propose an alternative explanation. By allowing her guy to pursue other women additionally, a woman can secure a mate who would be out her league. TRP suggests that male DMV climbs while female value drops. So a couple married in their 20s (or even 30s) may be in a situation in which he has incentive to cheat or leave her. This could be her way of removing that incentive. Edit: your view assumes high female value valur and low…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 12:50 AM
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The route to improving confidence is counterintuitive. You need to fail with women more to see that it's not bad for you and doesn't negatively affect you.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:16 AM
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You're missing the point...these men also have to develop high powered careers and do 50% of the housework in addition to taking care of themselves. And do it without the social support afforded to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:17 AM
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Masculinity is not toxic. Aspects of it are good and aspects of it are bad. Toxic masculinity are styles of masculinity that emphasize negative aspects. The same line of thinking could be applied to femininity but rarely is because of the women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 02:17 AM
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Cool. Hit me up if you want to. Then make other plans and go live your life. If she doesn't contact you (and she wont) no problem and if she does invite her along but dont change your plans for her.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:14 AM
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so I just hung up and stopped talking to her You already know the answer.
/r/seduction10/02/18 12:02 AM
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Trap is probably too far it's likely just them being irresponsible and impulsive. If you're saying using the pull out method then you might as well finish in them. You're seriously risking impregnation anyway so you might as well enjoy it. Or you know...wear a fucking condom!
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:00 AM
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He explains it in the edit. She had a shitty experience and now takes issue with the act not her husband. Edit: To address the people who a take issue with her reasons...I'm don't mean to defend her necessarily only to say that she gave a valid (though possibly not totally honest) reason. So it's not true that we can assume she doesn't find him attractive or even not enjoy sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:49 PM
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The second portion of the comment os called a convincing statement. It is used to imply that one is not the type of person who lies and therefore not lying when she is only able to claim poor memory rather than deny the event.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 10:35 PM
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No but it's beta to get in your own head about dumb stuff. Chill dude. Have a good time for you and don't worry so much about the role you fill in her life or society.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:28 PM
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Doesn't matter. Do you own a time machine? Probably still wouldn't matter.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:25 PM
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It is extremely difficult to differentiate genetic from social influences with ethical research. However, if we want to change an aspect of human behavior we should attribute it to social factors which we consider changeable instead of genetics which we consider fixed. The attribution of human behavior to genetic or social factors depends on the observer's motivation to maintain or change the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:58 PM
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If we are talking desire for sex only I would zero it. The sex is only rewarding in regards to the drive but the pursuit of it takes up a ton of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 08:58 PM
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Herpes is a downer but really if you get it you get it. HSV-1 rates climb from like 30%ish in childhood to 80%ish in elderly. In the 20-30s it's likely around 50%. HSV2 rate in adult men is something like 1 in 5 or 6. In women it is higher, 1 in 4 or 5. You gotta just live your life man.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:27 PM
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Dude read the sea wolf. God damn there are so many guys on here who are just nice guys in a mask. Step one to solving this problem is to reevaluate your "values"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:05 AM
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People differ on the born to it vs choose to do it issue even in the poly community. I genuinely believe I was born this way. When I did serial monogamy in my youth before working this out I cheated on every girl I was with. I always told them and I was always forgiven until I decided I wasn't going to live life like that anymore. I bet my wife would say it's a choice for her but she is from an ultra conservative background and I'm really the first man she was ever with so she'll never really kn…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:37 AM
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This is interesting to me because I have happened upon these same factors myself by chance. Started taking mag and Vit D for a keto diet and found a huge mood boost. Vit D is well established in clinical literature and is always tested in psych patients (along with vit B12 and folate). Mag was new to me when it happened to me and I haven't looked into it beyond my own experience. Working out will also help with mood. I doubt all that reward tracking stuff is necessary when you can get the same e…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:19 AM
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I'd love to hear your thoughts on this thread. Also any other poly red pill thoughts you have. https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/7v309g/i_dont_tell_women_im_polyamorous/
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:29 AM
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This has been my experience as well (minus the details). These women like to be dominated but by extremely dominant men. This is a generalization certainly some women are outliers.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:20 AM
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I am a poly man in a 7 year relationship. I recently discovered TRP. Basically, it was what I already was doing except I probably shouldn't have signed the actual marriage license and I didn't realize the extent of the damage done to men by 3rd wave feminism's focus on language and cognition. I also believe that polyamory favors women and alpha men, while monogamy favors beta men (who still get the shittiest deal in both systems). This sub and the main TRP sub have a strong preference for monoga…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:41 AM
5

He made no agreement to not cheat on this guy or not have sex with this girl. She has done a moral wrong but OP has not.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 11:41 PM
1

This is a bit of a trope. It happens in wolf of Wallstreet. I don't know the name of it but netflix had a doc about some professional dominatrixes a while back and much of their clientele were successful ceo type men. I'm a pretty dominant guy and have recently started exploring this with my wife. I've got a foot and nearly 100lbs on her so she ties me down. It's maybe a bit counterintuitive but it gives you a real rush not because your being forced to submit but because you know that nobody cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:18 AM
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Had nothing to do with you and she was never interested. Dude was playing with her head.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 02:59 AM
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I'd if you're into cartoon porn or something but those are real women that do exist and likely live in the real world near L.A. If you've found giving up porn to be positive in your life then good for you but the "porn women are only a fantasy" is such a silly anti-porn argument and it always seems to be the first brought up. (Like romange novels, twilight, fifty shades, etc. now that is an unrealistic standard. They don't exist.)
/r/askTRP02/02/18 02:55 AM
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Bro...talk to girls about them. "Oh you like thing I've never heard of, what makes it so great? So you're the type of person that likes things she just said. You should be talking about her.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 12:16 AM
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Cheating on her part is certainly a possibility but not a foregone conclusion. Herpes blood testing is garbage and associated with a high false negative and high false positive rate. The only way to get a solid answer is to test a lesion. Sounds like she had a lesion and definitely has it. Either of you may have or may not have had it before the relationship. She may have or may not have cheated. Also you didn't mention type in relation to your testing or her lesion. It is also possible that you…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:17 PM
2

Read or listen to the fine art of small talk by Debra fine. Quick and lays the foundation.
/r/seduction30/01/18 05:48 AM
6

Carmex or straight up Vaseline (can even get it in a lip balm style tube). You'll never go back to chapstick.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:41 AM
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It's only women seen as losing value around 30. There is some truth to this sexually as age related reproductive risks start climbing much more sharply around this time. Beyond this it's ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/18 01:50 AM
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This was your first date. I say well done. The first time with something like this is always a lesson and rarely a victory. It's a success if you learn the lesson. There is zero chance you want to pursue this girl sexually now. Even if she changes her mind it's going to be a bad deal for you. If you genuinely like her personality and want to be her friend then do so and pursue her friends (who will likely have similar personalities). If you just like physically or as a romantic interest then agr…
/r/seduction25/01/18 11:37 PM
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That could be but you havent learned the most important lesson to learn here. I know because lessons are like kicking the bottom out of the bucket, all the water pours out. (In this analogy your attachment to the past is the water). It's not a matter of being a Dick or not. it's a matter of your own freedom from this and future failure. The more you are free from this fear and regret around failure (future and past, respectively) the more you can proceed into your future fearless of ever having …
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:24 AM
1

In broad stroke or notable points how do the male and female versions of TRP differ?
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 05:48 PM
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If you ask he should explain. It's a matter of communication. He is attempting to communicate his ability to handle the situation. By questioning him you communicate both your desire to understand and your doubt in him. So he should address both aspects of your message by explaining and then competently following through so you don't have to ask him again. And you should be with a man you can trust. Either that's him (and you start trusting him) or it isn't (and you put your trust elsewhere) he …
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 05:15 PM
1

Exactly. Sure it works to follow these fearlessness guidelines and instructions about social communication but it works better to be fearless and actively observe/study communication in your own life instead of applying context specific techniques.
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:08 PM
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Learn a lesson, move on with life.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:39 AM
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Show, don't tell. Actions speak louder than words. Don't approach women in front of her, be approached by women.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:40 AM
1

Don't drink in a bar. It will dilute your will. It will disrupt your ability to manage frame and socialize. (It is an easy route to boost confidence but you can do that without sacrificing control) If you're seeking that fun drunk state do it at home. It's not really a social activity (at the point where we are discussing quiting) and it's cheaper.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 12:59 AM
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