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LESSON LEARNEDsour_strawberry_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:48 PM
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So true. Told my ex the problems I had with our relationship because he couldn't understand why I was breaking up with him. He said they're not problems. He could only accept it in his mind as me having to leave to work on myself. Which is partially true, but he literally just dismissed every problem I had with him. He still thinks we're meant to be even after I broke up with him (I still live with him, but am moving out soon). LVMs and NVMs are really quite dense. Lesson Learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:46 PM
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My ex did the same thing, tried to make up and get me to stay once I made it clear I was leaving him. But it's not worth stringing the relationship along because it's comfy and you don't think you'll find a HVM. He'll go back to his old habits. He ignored your date requests, that's a red flag he's not prioritizing you. Maybe you will find a HVM maybe you won't, but you have to be happy being by yourself before you can have a healthy relationship with a man who respects you and prioritizes you be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:08 PM
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I thought my relationship didn't have problems, but I was neglecting the truth. If he's depressed and you resent him for not planning fun things, those are both problems. It's really hard to be in a relationship with someone who is depressed. And there are fun things that can be planned on a budget. Do you feel like he still prioritizes you? Is he addressing his depression or just wallowing in sadness? And fantasizing about other men is a sign you are not attracted to him anymore. Which is very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:47 PM
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Near the end of my last relationship, I stopped seeing my bf in my future when I dreamed of what I wanted for myself. We had stopped having sex long ago. He felt instead like a best friend and roommate. Then I started to see the red flags, that we weren't compatible because I wanted different things than he did and he didn't respect what I wanted. So I dumped him. I'm happier single now. It's not worth dragging an unsatisfactory relationship along just because I was afraid of what would happen w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:48 PM
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I'm proud of you! It's amazing that it feels good being single for once, isn't it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:37 PM
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I was taking an uber once and the older man driving was talking about how much he still loves his wife and how the secret to a long marriage is knowing that "she's not yours to own, but she is yours to lose".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:04 PM
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Thank you! I am grateful I stumbled upon this community. Someone posted it in the comments in another subreddit. I love how welcoming this community is to new women. We are here to support each other and show the way to self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:24 PM
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The clown nose in his PFP is fitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:00 AM
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I'm so happy to hear about good husbands and fathers! A healthy home for a happy family (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:21 AM
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Hypothetically, they could have very high standards and not have yet met a woman who could hold up to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:17 AM
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Good idea putting a time limit on the no dating thing. I was just going not date indefinitely but I think I'd probably cave in soon if I don't put a time frame on it. My standards are way higher now as well. It's crazy how much confidence I feel I've gained in the short period of time I've known about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:43 AM
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It feels so good to be over, doesn't it? Like why did I put up with it for so long. Never again. I'm so happy we got out before they sucked more years of our lives down the narc drain! Honestly I don't regret anything in life, I am thankful for what I learned and can move forward knowing I won't let it happen again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:41 PM
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I'm learning that I don't need a man to be everything for me because I can do that for myself. And learning to be my own best friend holds the most joy I've ever felt because the journey of becoming the Queen I am meant to be belongs to me and no one else. Just out of a toxic relationship with a LVM, I hold optimism for becoming comfortable by myself and working on projects that I want to do, leveling myself up, learning to be more confident. Hope that helps at all... just my perspective on what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:25 PM
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Oh my God yes my ex did this 100%. When I tried to break up with him he would say he didn't get it and disagree with my reasoning, like it didn't even matter he just dismissed my concerns as "just little things that don't matter". Well they matter to me dickhead. He couldn't wrap his tiny little brain around the fact that I had a different opinion than him about our relationship. And all the time would basically call me stupid, not listen to my advice but when I took his he would gloat. He didn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:36 PM
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Hopefully you don't live with him because I live with my ex right now -_- it was really hard to end this relationship because I was afraid how he'd react and I don't have many friends or family in the area. Just remember, boys come and go, and time heals heartbreak. In a year you'll be rarely thinking of him, and there are juicier fish out there. We gotta be our own best friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:17 PM
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Yeah, he actually said that! I was so blind to all the red flags and disrespectful things he did, I consider my past self delusional due to low self view. No longer going to put up with any shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:38 PM
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You put it perfectly. Every part. I'm excited to leave as well. Honestly I had low self view and that led me into not respectful relationships but I was delusional in thinking it was healthy. I'm working on respecting myself more and I love you Queens for helping me realize what I deserve ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:33 PM
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What a confidence booster! Queen getting shit done ⭐ I'm proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:09 PM
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Absolutely! I want a partner who inspires me to reach out of my comfort zone. My ex did not do that at all. I want someone who encourages me to be social, have friends, and someone who is excited to go on adventures with me. I feel like I am waking up and realizing what I really want and need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:43 AM
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I got the feeling that I was being held back, like I couldn't become my best self and do the things I wanted to do because he didn't want to do them. At first I just began to think we are incompatible because I started wanting different things in life that I knew he would never want, like he's a homebody and I started wanting to go outside more and be active, and he's the type to live paycheck to paycheck never saves money which stresses me out and his impulse buying was a bad influence on me. P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 11:19 PM
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Thank you!! I really love how uplifting and supportive this community is to women. Just reading this sub daily gives me inspiration to respect myself and become the queen I was meant to be and I want to learn how to better uplift other women because yall are amazing 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:16 PM
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I've broken up with my loving and loyal boyfriend of 3 years whom I live with (not for much longer). It was a very hard decision but I know I'm doing the right thing because I need to focus on being comfortable with myself, and leveling up right now. I knew I needed to work on myself before I even found the FDS. Now I'm very confident with my decision... he is a LVM as much as I hate to admit it there is more than honesty and kindness that goes into a good relationship. We also have trouble with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:34 AM
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