if you view raising your own kids as "unpaid childcare" then you are just a shitty parent and probably shouldn't have kids. I was a sahd for a year because my ex made more than me. housework is NOT hard. max 2 hours a day. and spending time with my kids wasn't work, it was an absolute joy.
"girls night" is code for fucking other people. my exwife used to have a girls night. found out she was actually hooking up with other women. she's married to a fat trucker lesbian now.
as a fat guy that just dropped a bunch of weight, the difference is astounding! I'm still chubby but I went from being invisible at the office to getting lots of complements from female coworkers. I get smiled at a lot now too. where before, I was just the fat guy. fat men are basically ghosts.
average dick size is 4-6in. so you want the 0.0000000001% of the population. good luck with that. she's never had a 9" dick in her life. she just want's something as big as her purple pussy popper.