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Most articulate ppd woman /\
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:49 PM
1

Immutable factors > mutable ones For some people, it is indeed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:15 PM
1

I think everyone settles to an extent. Women settle for the guy who isn't quite the sociopath Chad from their dreams, men settle for the girl who isn't the nice virgin wife he wanted. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:40 AM
1

Really? What I usually see abot this topic is that landwhales will prefer not fucking at all instead of not fucking Chad, who could of course tap them at will. This scenario would still make most men incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:33 AM
1

Yes, and the blackpill has also ramifications on the "personality" part, as well. You can't be some dominant alpha male if you grew up shunned for being ugly/autistic/suffering from other certain mental illnesses or had a really shitty upbringing. In the end, the core of the Blackpill is that the things that matter the most are the ones you can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:29 AM
1

I'm seeing people getting married by their early 20's around me. Makes me jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:25 AM
1

No, they're innocent babies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:55 AM
3

Pretty much, that's the right way to see them. General advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:46 PM
2

Helped learn, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:42 PM
2

At least it gives us new beliere we can test against reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:35 PM
5

I used to say it all the time in the discord server... internet pills are simplified worldviews with a couple of basic general premises and foundational myths. They can't account for every single case, and once one goes about meeting people and walking around, they will see their favourite pill's beliefs contradicted often. My pill is still the black, but I've developed nuance as the years went by (plus this kind of stuff gets a bit boring when you find someone too).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:01 PM
1

Yup. Saying that women like assholes is just a cope for the guys who can't attract anyone due to being socially crippled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:43 PM
1

Every ordinary Jane is near model tier if you ask ppd women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:07 PM
1

Likewise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:57 AM
3

Sure you can't help it, and I don't judge you. You just need someone with a compatible dick or that is considerably less proud and is more open-minded than I and other guys here are. Sex is a big part in a relationship and tension here will seep into the relationship and rot it from the inside... anyway I hope you find a way to make stuff work out. I know how it is to have tensions and grudges in the sexual side of a relationship and it's not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:43 AM
9

God fucking damnit, 6 inches is small to you. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:20 AM
6

As I said, there are levels to it. Being a skinny bastard all my life, I don't really prize muscles so it wouldn't make me insecure, but the dick thing would be too fucking much for me. It's like I'm surpassed at being a man, that's how it'd feel. Small dick, unable to please the woman I have sex with... I got angry for way less than that in the past. Anyway, I don't judge you. It's just the way your body is built, you need bigger cocks to get off and it's natural. The Kama Sutra even has a chap…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:18 AM
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Because dicks aren't like nails. Much of a man's self image has to do with his dick, and everyone dislikes being surpassed at stuff, specially this and specially at pleasuring his own woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:55 AM
10

Some things aren't forgettable. I can put up with a lot of disappointing stuff in relationships, and I've actually did put up with some relationship disappointment in my life, but this would be just too humiliating. Other men might have different feelings, however, this is just how I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:44 AM
4

I'd begrudgingly accept a threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:36 AM
1

I'd say it was more about luck than anything but... well, it's a happier way to live, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:26 AM
2

I'll never understand this hangup American feminists have with age gap relationships. It's like women are retarded or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:12 AM
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Sure. I'd hate it, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:08 AM
1

I was hardcore blackpill until I lucked out big time relationshipwise and well.. let's say my stance softened a lot. It's exactly like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:59 AM
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Pretty much. That's why pill stuff could only have been invented by men. Women lack the difficulty in dating life necessary to reflect about it. ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:15 PM
2

Yes. I've had a relationship break because of it. Lots of resentment involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:14 PM
4

True, getting a relationship makes pill stuff seem so unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:01 PM
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For women it goes like this: Average = no tingles Above average = tingles present
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:59 PM
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Average just means you aren't significantly better or worse than half of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:59 PM
1

Judging for the comments, your case seems to be bad luck. Consistent bad luck. Looks is usually what puts women in the sisterzone. This being said, I recall turning down a female friend two times and well, she's nothing to scoff at. Pretty, and I had girlfriends not as attractive as she is. But... it simply didn't work, despite me trying hard to like her. So you might have come across similar cases too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:40 PM
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God damn. You know, I was actually thinking like "wow, a woman that's actually able to have some empathy", but no, turns out I was wrong. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:37 AM
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Yes, turns out women never really lose. Their situation deteriorates, sure, but it's still light-years ahead of the one men their age get. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:33 AM
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So basically you kpopmaxxed during high school? Neat. Well, you have one variable left to change, which is getting more muscular. Who knows, it might help. I once wanted to do it, but when you're a naturally skinny fellow chances are you have a hard time gaining any muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:32 AM
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Thanks God I don't talk to single women in this age range, I probably just would answer "lower your standards sweaty tee-hee" should they voice their grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:12 AM
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It is sad, but dating success is very influenced by immutable factors, things we can't really control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:36 AM
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Riiiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:14 AM
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So he's lean, his physique is not a problem. It's an asset actually, but it kind of shows that it's not a physique problem here. I would say what is actually going on, but I don't want to be banned again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:11 AM
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I thought love was just feeling good about spending time with someone and thinking about this person... nowadays I think it is, besides that, truly caring for someone and be willing to make this person a permanent part of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:59 PM
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If "you" isn't a good thing, by all means change or pretend, there's nothing to be sad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:35 PM
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As I tell young people who come asking for advice regarding such matters, "just be yourself is good advice only if being you is the right thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:20 PM
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Pretty much. OP showed this clearly, she gets matches from models despite being nowhere near model tier herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:15 PM
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I don't picture him as overly muscular, though. OP mentioned just that he "has a six pack", so I guess it doesn't fall into overcompensating territory. I might be wrong however.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:53 PM
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LMAO that's gold Bet she's an incel douchebag who posts anonymously in pill subs tee-hee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:47 PM
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It sure is. I can use my own experience: I've always suffered greatly because I felt lonely, but I am so socially impaired that my experiences with people were always very, very poor. So I had to conclude that it wasn't really worth it, despite suffering every single day from all the things social isolation does to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:32 PM
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If their limits are too low, yea. Why even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:28 PM
2

Some women love serial killers though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:27 PM
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Sometimes, you can only increase your chances very little with a huge cost. For these guys, yea, the lemon isn't really worth the squeeze and "why even try" is a totally valid conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:26 PM
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The reality is they would suffer enormously should they be transformed into men overnight. Having lived dating life in a mode where the opposite sex just goes in waves after you, leaving to you just the job of picking the top applicants, they'd lose everything and see that, in the end, it's not a matter of "just be confident and don't post about women anonymously tee-hee ". I am sure many wouldn't survive the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:24 PM
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A living counterexample to the "just get buff/confident bro" meme
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:03 PM
13

It allows women to literally live their dating lives in tutorial mode
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:32 PM
11

Pussy is some powerful leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:18 PM
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The very obvious answer would be: "be around 6' and have an attractive face with little to no eyelid exposure, symmetry, strong forehead and good jaw". If you don't have these, you're going to struggle. I know I did, lacking the most important of them both. Should you be in such a situation and not be too ugly or short, your best bet would be exposure. Social media (preferably with a picture that makes you look better), friends, going out, not being a social retard, you name it. Now, it won't gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:47 PM
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Doesn't help as much as people seem to think around here Source: am 193cm/guess around 6'3" in burger units
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:41 PM
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Nah, I'm a man. Most times I try going for it I get screwed over, but it works out when women take the initiative. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:16 AM
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Even worse if you can post pictures!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:42 AM
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I usually just wait until I luck out and get approached tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:12 PM
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It's a very sad experience for most men, I guess. I remember my stay on social media such as Facebook and Reddit, and I spent long, long stretches of time failing miserably to know a single woman, since they all have thousands of chat requests from all kinds of men. However, most times I lucked out, I met women in social media indeed. So I would say they should use it, but be ready for lots of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:55 PM
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just lower your standards teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:19 PM
1

Do you see any way something like this could happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:34 PM
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Great gaslighting over there. As expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:33 PM
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Precisely the point It's hilarious how women just take the validation they get for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:19 PM
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OP says men mad. Spergs out to give an explanation. I present another one (the correct one). Seems I'm engaging with the post just fine. Also if there's anyone bitching in this post, it ain't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:08 PM
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As much as your point about our culture seemingly wanting to prolong adolescence indefinitely has some truth, the blackpill alludes or at least says it alludes to things that are true now as they always were. The main idea is that women will only want anything to do with a small part of all men. It's just that. This tendency can of course take many different forms, but it is what it is. It was probably different being a fuckboy or a Chad back then, but surely they existed in a form appropriate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:05 PM
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Tl:dr - boo hoo Chad won't commit to me and put up with my shit Just lower your standards bro lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:53 PM
2

Of course. That line was the one I was engaging with. Interventionism only when women benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:42 PM
2

Ok sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:12 PM
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Okay, I forgot about the condoms. My bad. Also I didn't rely on any claims that hormonal birth control affects libido in any specific form, but my bad if it seemed like I did. Not intentional. If women's libido's are less than that of men's then why is there such a large market for women's sex toys? It's actually more socially acceptable for women to even use toys than it is for men. Everyone just assumes that all women have a vibrator. Hmmm, we're having a problem of terminology here. I didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:49 PM
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Look. No one gives a damn about what you wear, what you use to shave your legs or whatever. When guys are complaining about the dating scene and the sex "market", it's only because most of them are getting few, and in increasingly many cases, no relationships/sex at all, while it's easy as fuck for women. Not only that, but women even do look down on men because of it (that's why incel is viewed as a valid insult by normais and women). Men's status as judged by other people is tied intimately wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:13 PM
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Women got the pill to avoid having children, because they sure as hell didn't stop getting rawdogged left and right. I am not aware of any kind of medicine that could damp male libido with reasonably low side effects. If you find out about it, sign me up. I won't elaborate further because it'll probably just be seen as blackpill, whining or whatever. The thing is, both genders have libido. One of them will just be able to satisfy it with a small part of the individuals in the other. Hence the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:54 PM
1

The appeal to biology that appears now and then mostly comes up because there's a difference between the ways men and women pick mates. Most men would go for most women and not only for hourglass-waisted big boobs Stacies while women just want the 6' white male models or whatever. And it's all due to biology. We can't really control what attracts us, can we? Since men are pretty much doomed to be horny anyway, they will go and inflate the egos of mediocre women, just because they're despaired. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:28 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you so far. And how could anyone be at fault for things that are out of their control? Some things are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:59 PM
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It might be a gotcha question for other people. Not for me. I, for one, would never walk alone in a place crammed with men if I were a girl. And I'll always advise the women in my life to be careful or to avoid these situations altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:44 PM
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Not less evil. More like weaker and in general lacking the capacity for conflict. That's why women do more stuff like spreading rumors, turning people against each other, attacking defenseless people like children and elderly people, and so on. Weakness isn't a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:36 PM
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tie down some beta for a dead bedroom marriage That's probably what they mean by "connections" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:16 PM
3

Thanks for the laugh. Who said that female stand-up isn't funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:15 PM
0

I wasn't willing to take the discussion this way but... you're not wrong. Basically one's needs or disadvantages create an obligation in the one who is perceived to have an advantage. Except when men get screwed over. Then it's all capitalist and Darwinist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:55 PM
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Yay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:17 PM
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I'd guess Narnia is in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:07 PM
1

Red pillers all acknowledge that women engage (a lot) in casual sex. Hell, they built a whole culture around the idea that a guy could be chosen by women to have casual sex with if he adopts some strategies, discourses and behaviours. I don't know about FDS however. I feel like it's just too pathetic to lurk into, and that's coming from a guy who used to lurk in blackpill forums in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:01 PM
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Hope they're seething. That'll teach them to read another bloody book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:58 PM
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Who knows, we might have a couple of them around here 😳😳😳😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:53 PM
1

I see it as a win/win situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:48 PM
3

Pretty much Doesn't help if you are the proverbial 5'2" [probably charged term] janitor for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:47 PM
3

Bluepill advice besides being yourself probably consist in taking a couple dozen showers, haircuts or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:32 PM
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3 is not that extreme I guess. It's just ugly. A face which is very weird, terrible teeth, such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:25 PM
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I don't recall talking about fairness in this context, but alright. Woman needs her gotcha moment I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:02 PM
1

Well that's not very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:33 AM
0

Estrogen shots ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:33 AM
5

If you're anything below an 8 you gonna struggle with 5's and 4's. First sentence does not follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:32 AM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:20 AM
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If it's not only for this reason then yea, not insincere. Still feels kinda bad wanting to fuck someone you consider a friend. Been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:46 AM
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Yes. For the unattractive male, the sexual market is nothing more than a game that he is doomed not only to lose, but to be mocked for losing and shunned for trying to play. They would surely live lives which would be much less stressful, bitter and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:39 AM
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I'd say many of them would become possible. There would be no more insincere friendships started by men in order to wait for an opening to try and get into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:37 AM
2

You really have a point. If men were less horny that wouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:22 AM
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jk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:30 AM
2

Is there any?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:30 AM
1

I don't even know how you use your social media. I don't even know whether you have social media at all. But your ugly women sisters sometimes just take for granted all the likes, message requests and whatnot. They're annoying and serve no ultimate purpose, but it's way more validating to have them than not having anything at all, if only to reject. Women really don't have any idea of what it means to be invisible and getting absolutely zero validation. Hell, even I get some kicks when I have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:27 AM
1

Would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:23 AM
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Things would be so much better if men were not so fucking horny. The sexual market would even out at least a bit, ugly women wouldn't get a tenth of the validation they get and lots of stupid shit wouldn't be done. But no, humankind just had to evolve like that. Kinda sucks come to think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:16 AM
2

Black pillers can get kinda annoying or downright batshit at times, but they kind of have a point. You ugly and short = it's over and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:12 AM
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You can always get laid with hot white people of the opposite sex as an ethnic female. As an ethnic male... well... let's just say your life is going to be a bit harder. But of course women are the primary victims of war or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:08 AM
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Free market rhetoric and Darwinism only for men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:02 AM
2

by the way I would say Chad is a rare breed Yes. That's the whole point of being Chad. Being on the top 1%/5%/20% or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:02 AM
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high n-counts entitled tend to become fat when they reach their early twenties if that politically progressive in the worst sense of the term I guess that's more or less the stereotyped image they hold when saying they don't like western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:57 AM
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I wouldn't mind at all if appearance also excluded mediocre and ugly women from soiling the gene pool. But it doesn't happen. So all this selection serves no purpose in the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:43 AM
2

I was just being cheeky. You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:38 PM
0

It's 2021 and we are in Reddit. Of course it's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:33 PM
0

Just stay single, mate. Or pick your partners better (if you can).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:51 PM
1

I wouldn't mind waiting for a virgin or low-n girl, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:50 PM
1

That's an awesome way of getting a friendship :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:09 AM
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I guess so, too. That's why it makes no sense for me to make women a protected class in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:21 AM
0

Sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:44 AM
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Apparently my third-world hellhole's law considers psychological and verbal aggression by men against women to be more grave than it would be in any other context. Surely it's just not me that think it makes no sense at all? I understand doing it with physical attack, since men are naturally bigger and stronger than women and in this way one evens the ground by protecting the weaker against the stronger, but aren't both genders equally capable of committing verbal and psychological attacks? (In …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:33 AM
0

lol nice joke
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:10 PM
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If that's your concept of self-esteem... well, I'm not really surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:00 PM
1

Sure thing. Nobody rational would disagree. Doesn't prevent Reddit simps from calling landwhales curvy because they are dying to stick their dick somewhere tight, warm and moist though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:43 PM
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You see, what I took issue with in your comment is that you said that women being dicks onlin is just because they got hurt about manosphere content. This is absolutely not true. This being said, it's sad you felt this way. Internet surely highlights hurtful sides of the human mind and of social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:42 PM
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True. If I were balding (thanks God the Norwood reaper didn't pay me a visit yet), I'd just shave everything off and take a nice steroid cycle. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:48 PM
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Life is always more complicated than theory. I legit seen some couples in the street with ugly-ass dudes and kinda hot women, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:03 PM
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Their twist seems to be that the bar is, for a sizeable part of men, hopelessly high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:52 PM
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Oooh, it depends. In general, I'd just be worried and sad. Would feel like trying to make her feel better. However, it can be said I grew up seeing women crying insincerely to manipulate people and have their way, and it kind of stayed with me. So if I perceive the crying as manipulative, I'll be like that famous meme with Asuka from Evangelion saying "pathetic".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:40 PM
4

That's mean
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:31 PM
2

That's more or less what the blackpill/incel kind of guys try to explain but nobody actually engages with. Looks are like a threshold, guys under a certain level won't be even considered to begin with. Hobbies? A life? Personality? Of course these things do matter, but only if you're noticed to begin with. The thing is, the bar was never higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:30 PM
1

Pardon my ignorance, but tf is "spinning plates"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:11 PM
2

What would you get? Bunch of simps talking about how much they're into """curvy""" women, that's what.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:05 PM
1

That's not even the problem. The thing is that they can get away with that shit because they're poor opressed flawless qweens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:04 PM
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Of course everything has to be men's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:02 PM
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Well, it's Reddit so what did you expect. Women are qweens from a protected class here, while men just have to put up with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:01 PM
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Under this definition, I'd say no woman is actually unattractive. Some here still ugly af though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:26 AM
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No woman is too unattractive to the point of not getting any kind of attention at all. If you make a fake tinder profile with the picture of the most unattractive woman you can find, you'll get likes. Hence, validation. Their Facebook profiles and Reddit pictures will also get far more upvotes and messages than a picture of your average Joe, which is... well, validation. Guys in general are a thirsty, despaired lot eager to feed the female ego, for a lot of reasons I won't bother explaining beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:02 AM
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But see, you asked me how they can get validation. I gave you an example. Getting dates is another thing altogether (even though it might be done by posting in Reddit too, it's probably more difficult but it's surely doable).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:54 AM
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By posting pictures of their face on Reddit, maybe? It seems to work because I see plenty of ugly-ass women in this app who seem to think they are the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:51 AM
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Am 6'6" white male Have no connections or chances of landing a nice comfy six-figure office job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:47 AM
8

One literally just needs to browse Reddit for some minutes to see this statement is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:45 AM
3

Did you just describe Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:33 AM
1

Some points: there's nothing preventing women from getting a job or education. If anything, there are more women going into university than men. you say men can "make up" with success, a job or the like, but in what regard? Because it sure as hell won't make them any more attractive to the opposite gender, so we can already eliminate this one. being poor as fuck from a country which is poor as fuck I have to tell you that controlling the income and job one can get can be quite difficult dependin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:32 AM
3

I'd easily wait. Taking some time until sex would be a tiny hassle if it's needed to marry such an unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:36 PM
1

I recall reading something like that Lmao @ the downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:04 PM
1

The things that the majority of people believe or recognise are subject to changing, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:33 PM
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A "need" isn't just something you die if you don't have. Lots of things are said to be basic human needs or whatever and people won't die if they go without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:29 PM
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So if sex/intimacy is a basic need would people who lack it have a right to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:42 PM
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That's actually the worst line of argument you could pick. Lack of sex, intimacy and relationships are indeed harmful. You'd gain more by just keeping saying that nobody has any right or entitlement to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:41 PM
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Okay, my bad. I got your intentions wrong. First it should be said that a guy who's "just" not ugly or whatever in comparison to their partner has infinitely less options than said partner. Supposing they're both people that don't look any better but also not any worse than most people their gender, the guy will have a difficult time finding relationships, at least in comparison to the female. So you can't rule out a need for sucking up so easily. And we aren't really disagreeing about the high-…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:32 PM
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Guess they don't think that far 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:03 PM
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Calling guys who feel this way "losers" won't change their mind. Just gonna make them keep quiet about it... no wait. It's a far more common sentiment than you'd guess. But there are too many social penalties for being open about it (being branded a "loser" by society is one of them, losing the precious few relationship opportunities one is presented with another one. Both hard to deal with).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:01 PM
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I guess OP's point is that ancaps (and classic liberals) will also appeal to freedom, autonomy or whatever when asked about wealthy people having to redistribute their resources. Come to think of it, both cases involve denying people the right of doing whatever they want with they have. Funnily enough, ancaps always appeal to rape metaphors when defending their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:54 PM
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Bleeding heart socialist on the streets, ancap in the sheets. But they'll probably argue sex and relationships are not a "resource" to begin with. At least it's what I usually see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:39 PM
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There are lots of variables to consider, come to think of it. It's difficult for the average guy to get any relationships, specially with cute girls. I'd bet lots of them would be willing to "ignore" the past so they wouldn't lose the girl. There's something really uncomfortable about a girl with lots of previous partners (even more so when it's a much bigger number than yours), and I'd bet most guys feel like that, even if they keep quiet or put on a progressive façade.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:36 AM
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Most men don't even need to put any effort into having a low n-count. They can't help it. That's actually a reason why lots of them care about n-counts. How exactly can a guy relate to a woman who has a triple-digit n-count when they won't get even close to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:43 AM
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It's true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:15 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:02 AM
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But they truly don't care, or they just keep quiet about it? Huge social penalties nowadays for bringing this subject up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:01 AM
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A world where there is truly someone for everybody, instead of being what it is: minority of Chads taking the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:43 AM
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There used to be Facebook groups about long-haired men some time ago... metal/rock circles are also like that. Granted, even then it's still 6' (long-haired) Chad still getting all the attention, but there, the chances of non-Chad me being noticed were higher than they would otherwise be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:57 PM
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Indeed they should. When you are not a < 6' male model, you will not be appealing to a large number of women, to put it lightly. But some of them are into specific kinds of men, so if you appeal to them, you stand a better chance of being visible even if you're not the proverbial tall model guy. I've done so in the past, many girls seem to be into the scrawny tall long-haired kind of guy who looks like he had little sleep, so by getting into the social circles they were to be found, I was able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:33 AM
1

Rei from Evangelion. I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:18 AM
1

I never understood all that thing about choking, slapping and hair-pulling, but I felt kinda pressured to do it because it seemed almost every girl expected that from me. So I've gone with it but it feels a bit forced... so yeah, some men are just neutral. Like yours truly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:13 AM
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With me things are a bit strange. Usually, I fail when I try to pursue relationships. I get rejected almost every time. Most times I do get partners they pursue me. I met my first gf when she approached me in high school saying she just needed to touch me because she was in love with me. In uni I had a girl add me in Facebook out of the blue and send me nudes until we met up and had sex. And more often than not they aren't ugly women either. It's odd really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:10 AM
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Indeed some guys seem to be obsessed with the idea of getting female attention and having sex. Kinda is to be expected when you're naturally unable to do it (or unable to do it as much as you'd like to).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:02 AM
1

"Get a job, entitled bitch."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:17 PM
1

And some men just don't get any return at all, it should be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:04 AM
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"Game" = just be a 6' male model bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:28 AM
1

Personality only matters when there is a choice to be made between two men on the same level regarding looks. It's a tiebreaker, so to speak. If you're on the top 20% on looks, having a nice personality totally helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:33 PM
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